Dec. 14th, 2004

evile: (clutter)

    Dec. 14, 2004

     

    http://www.livejournal.com/users/kaleon/
    [13 Dec 2004|04:57pm]
    mood | amused ]
    [ music | Type O Negative ]

    Western philosophy and religion sometimes saddens me. I am so tired
    of hearing "true happiness can only be found within oneself." I mean,
    scientifically that's a pile of horseshit, and historically it's a
    pile of horseshit. Look at western society, look how miserable it is.
    One reasonf or this, in my opinion and that of many non-western
    philosophies is because we are too selfish and egocentric as a
    society. Nothing personifies that more than the egocentric
    narcisistic self-centered comment that "true" happiness must come
    from within. Humans are social creatures, and they *can not* be happy
    alone, they whither and become suicidally depressed if isolated for
    very long, ask any psychologist. Happiness is a social experience and
    is almost completely relational. What angers me more is that people
    who put forward this tripe try to use eastern philosophy as reasoning
    for it. These people do not understand the first thing about eastern
    beliefs. There is no concept of 'I' in many eastern cultures (ancient
    China being a very good example, which is where Taoism comes from and
    where buddhism matured). You are defined by the relationships you
    have, you are someone's son, someone's sister, someone's friend,
    not "bob" the individual. Contentment can only be found within, that
    is true, but contentment and happiness are not the same thing.
    Happiness is something we feel only in relation to sensory
    perception. By the reasoning of these idiots you should be able to be
    happy locked in a completely dark room with no outside contact....
    which is the perfect fucking place for most of these people I think.

    As a society who fully believes in this concept the West has
    basically thrown their elderly out to fend for themselves, has taken
    children away from their parents, have denied inalienable rights to
    have the world and forced their religion down everyone's throats.
    This is happiness???? Look at China and Japan, not the government but
    the people. They live in large families and take care of each
    other... children are *expected* to move their parents in with them
    at some point and take care of them. If your neighbor gets sick you
    *go over and help out*... I mean what a fucking concept!

    I will be the first one to state loudly that I will never find 'true
    happiness' within myself, because it can't be found there!! I will
    find true happiness in my family, my friends, my lovers, my animals,
    and my world. Anyone who refuses to believe that fundamental human
    truth can go jump off a cliff (which they will be happy to do since
    they are happy inside). All of you people out there can continue
    masterbating, talking to yourself, and reassuring yourself that you
    were justified in screwing up everyone around you all you want...
    I'll be over here snuggling up by a warm fire with a
    lover/friend/relative, laughing my ass off at you as you slowly lose
    every friend and loved one you have.... unless they are just as
    selfish as you... and then can you honestly say they are any of the
    above? Remember that love, friendship and fraternity are about
    sacrificing things you each may want so that the other person is
    happy and vice versa.

    Enough ranting, western selfishness just makes me laugh and
    understand why there has never been a truly successfull empire in the
    entire european/american sphere of influence.

evile: (clutter)

 

    Dec. 14, 2004

     

     

    evile [12:02]: Hi. ICQ is being funky today.
    SkyeDS [12:02]: hey
    SkyeDS [12:02]: you don't have any experience ridding yourself of
    unwanted dreams do you?
    evile [12:02]: as in a recurring one?
    SkyeDS [12:03]: not necessarily one dream recurring in every detail,
    but many dreams with a recurring theme
    SkyeDS [12:03]: in this case, someone who is following me around
    everywhere with the express intent of hurting me, but using different
    tactics each time
    evile [12:04]: Hm. I'ts probably something in RL that you need to
    deal with, but if you can manage to do lucid dreaming and change the
    dream, sometimes that helps with the RL situation too
    SkyeDS [12:04]: the last time I had dreams about someone in RL like
    this, they were warnings
    SkyeDS [12:05]: and I always find out through other sources that said
    person is provably up to no good
    SkyeDS [12:05]: yes
    SkyeDS [12:05]: and in this case, he can't hurt me
    SkyeDS [12:05]: I intend to go on as I have stated I would, positively
    SkyeDS [12:06]: but I want the damn dreams to go away
    SkyeDS [12:06]: I don't need to be warned that he's out to hurt me, I
    know that. And he has no power to hurt me because I won't give it to
    him.
    SkyeDS [12:06]: So the warning dreams serve no purpose, and i want
    them to go away.
    evile [12:06]: perhaps your mind needs a more direct confrontation,
    either a letter you write directly to the person and then choose not
    to send, or an actual conversation with the person in some sort
    of 'safe' venue
    SkyeDS [12:07]: you are psychic :)
    SkyeDS [12:07]: I was writing myself a letter in my LJ just now
    SkyeDS [12:08]: I did a reading for myself this morning. It is very
    reassuring.
    evile [12:08]: If it's Kaleon, he's apparently leaving Austin soon.
    SkyeDS [12:08]: so he says.
    SkyeDS [12:08]: he says a lot and does very little
    SkyeDS [12:09]: it isn't t hat I don't appreciate whatever early
    warning system seems to be in operation when someone is trying to
    hurt me
    evile [12:09]: I was under the impression he'd given notice at work
    SkyeDS [12:09]: but in this case, he can't, I won't let him, and I
    don't really need to wake up with headaches every morning because of
    nightly reminders that he wants to hurt me.
    evile [12:09]: *nod*
    SkyeDS [12:09]: given notice? they're eliminating his shift, and he
    likely didn't get asked/didn't ask to move to days
    SkyeDS [12:12]: yep
    SkyeDS [12:13]: remember I said, there are going to be individuals
    who read my long post, and think it's All About Them
    evile [12:13]: *nod*
    SkyeDS [12:13]: well, he took it personally
    SkyeDS [12:13]: and it wasn't just about him
    evile [12:13]: oh, feh.
    evile [12:13]: did he send you email about it, or what?
    SkyeDS [12:13]: it was about him, AND Bridget, AND Kilsharion & Co,
    AND my little brother, AND everyone else who hates/dislikes me for
    reasons surpassing my understanding
    SkyeDS [12:13]: first I got the recurring nightmares
    SkyeDS [12:14]: the cards said what the dreams said, that someone is
    out to hurt me in an underhanded dirty fashion
    SkyeDS [12:14]: then I check his logs, and sure enough, he's aiming
    at me again.
    evile [12:15]: 'check his logs'??
    SkyeDS [12:15]: before the dreams, I hadn't read anything of his for
    MONTHS
    SkyeDS [12:15]: his LJ
    evile [12:15]: Oh. I hadn't looked at it lately, either.
    SkyeDS [12:15]: it's simple enough not to read his LJ anymore because
    I've got all the verification of who's up to what that I need
    SkyeDS [12:16]: so now, I just need the nightmares to stop
    SkyeDS [12:16]: because, I don't want to know, I don't care, he can't
    hurt me, I don't need the warning.
    evile [12:17]: yeah, that sucks.
    SkyeDS [12:17]: last time someone invaded my dreams, I did a
    particularly powerful ritual (not my power I assure you)
    SkyeDS [12:18]: and then I let person know in no uncertain terms that
    if he continued there would be global thermonuclear warfare from me
    and he wouldn't like it
    SkyeDS [12:18]: he decided to stop
    evile [12:18]: *nod* god helps those who help themselves & all that.
    SkyeDS [12:18]: of course, within 24 hours of my declaration he had
    his vacation canceled, his fiancee kicked him out, and he was charged
    with murder.
    SkyeDS [12:18]: he was convinced I brought all that about.
    evile [12:19]: wow...when Karma decides to clean house, it does so!
    SkyeDS [12:19]: I can't remember whether he was convicted or not, but
    I think he was.
    evile [12:20]: yuck
    SkyeDS [12:20]: anyway, I'm not going to make any such announcements
    anymore
    SkyeDS [12:20]: I"m not even stooping to his level.
    SkyeDS [12:20]: I'm going to put my affirmations in writing, because
    they seem more powerful after I write them down
    evile [12:20]: *nod*
    SkyeDS [12:20]: and I"m going to keep looking at them, and I"m going
    to have positive energy and none other
    SkyeDS [12:21]: and if he wants to take that as an attack on him,
    fine, but he's on ignore
    SkyeDS [12:21]: no matter how many warning nightmares I get and how
    many headaches I wake up with
    SkyeDS [12:21]: so they might as well just stop, now.
    SkyeDS [12:22]: so tempting to title a post, don't go away mad, just
    go away, please. but I won't.
    evile [12:23]: heh. good for you.
    SkyeDS [12:24]: wouldn't you think it was weird, after you have so
    successfully put X out of your existence, if she started raiding
    your dreams every night?
    evile [12:24]: *nod*
    SkyeDS [12:25]: maybe it's just a test
    SkyeDS [12:28]: dammit, I had lyrics in my head from like four songs
    last night and now I can only remember two.
    SkyeDS [12:29]: I am getting senile, as well as fat, in my old age
    <sigh>
    evile [12:30]: Most of my dreams have soundtracks & I don't usually
    remember anything after I wake up...I haven't done any lucid dreaming
    in a long time.
    SkyeDS [12:35]: I wish I could lucid dream
    SkyeDS [12:35]: I have control over what I'm doing
    SkyeDS [12:35]: but I have no control over the outcome, no matter
    what I choose to do.
    evile [12:36]: *nod*
    evile [12:38]: I guess maybe you just don't have as much closure as
    you'd like...which I kind of felt with X as well, but the thing
    with the cops pretty much forced closure.
    SkyeDS [12:39]: when they got busted? or did something else happen?
    evile [12:40]: when they got busted, and then all of her various self-
    serving emails after that that kind of made me go "wow, there's
    nothing to save here"
    SkyeDS [12:42]: I think I'm being tested.
    SkyeDS [12:42]: since it was obviously just too easy for me to ignore
    him
    evile [12:43]: so he's being offensive in hopes that you will pay
    attention to him?
    SkyeDS [12:43]: he obviously can't do this on his own.
    SkyeDS [12:43]: some power that be is helping him
    SkyeDS [12:43]: no doubt to teach me a lesson with adversity and all
    that jazz.
    SkyeDS [12:44]: well, nothing breeds success like the very first
    success, so bring it on I say :)
    evile [12:44]: *nod* good luck :)
    SkyeDS [12:44]: I remember in the movie Stigmata that it is said that
    those who are closest to God receive the worst torment from Satan.
    SkyeDS [12:45]: of course, he could hurt me by doing something to
    hurt the horses (he hasn't got a shot at Arthur)
    evile [12:45]: he doesn't have a car, though, right?
    SkyeDS [12:45]: but I think he knows that sineater and sonar0m will hunt
    him down, torture him and give him a slow painful death if anything
    happens to t he girls.
    evile [12:46]: *nod* me too. I dont' care how crappy a person may be,
    their pets are innocent and nobody should take out their anger on an
    animal.
    evile [12:47]: (not saying your'e crappy, btw..that came out wrong)
    SkyeDS [12:47]: I understood your intent :)
    SkyeDS [12:47]: and I am/have been crappy
    SkyeDS [12:47]: I'm working on that.
    evile [12:47]: Hell, I wouldn't kick W's dog, it can't help the
    behavior of its master.
    evile [12:48]: And I did offer to help find homes for X's pets
    after the cop raid...
    evile [12:49]: also offered to help the children, in the only way I
    felt would be 'safe' for all concerned, because despite the behavior
    they're being taught, they're still innocent.
    SkyeDS [12:49]: how sad, to be unhappy and to react to unhappiness by
    looking at people around you who are happy, take that as a personal
    attack upon yourself, and feel the need to attack them back, trying
    to drag them down to be miserable with you.
    SkyeDS [12:51]: Cicero was one of Rome's greatest lawyers, and used
    ad hominem to great effect. Coming from most people, though, ad homs
    are an admission of defeat.
    evile [12:52]: I mean, heck, the Jews have made a practice of
    gethering together to debate scripture and interpretation, and htey
    consider it as a matter of faith & community to do so.
    SkyeDS [12:53]: I don't see why a personal statement of what I
    believe should be seen as an attack on anybody else.
    evile [12:53]: And you can certianly disagree with someone
    respectfullly, without insulting them.
    evile [12:53]: *nod* exactly
    SkyeDS [12:53]: it's like when I would say "Hi!" to my MIL, and she'd
    respond with a very suspicious "what did you mean by that?!"
    evile [12:53]: she's nuts.
    SkyeDS [12:53]: she's doing better.
    SkyeDS [12:54]: something else I"d like to say that I won't is, look,
    you say you have a girlfriend now, she has four cats, and everything
    else you've always said you wanted. Now, why can't you just go away,
    if you're so happy?
    evile [12:54]: *nod*
    SkyeDS [12:55]: I'm happy for you, now go be happy for yourself. If
    not, then just go play in traffic, thank you, have a nice day, please
    drive thru.

evile: (clutter)

    Dec. 14, 2004

     

     

    --- onyxlynxx:

    Hmmm...interesting indeed. Selfish actually
    describes her better than anything else.

    Speaking of crazy narcissists, When I called M to
    relay a message from a coworker who did not want to
    call him herself (I can't imagine why), he mentioned
    that you hadn't commented on his journal. So he is
    in a gray place where nothing matters but he is
    going to obsess about LJ? What an idiot....

    I am glad you liked my house. It was good having
    you there.

    k
    --------
    me:

    *shrug* I said what I have to say. Michael seemed to indicate that he
    wasn't interested in what I had to say and my opinion had no bearing
    on his particular situation...so what else should I say at that
    point?

    He is an interesting person but I have absolutely zero ego or emotion
    vested in his wellbeing. He hurts you and Nikiyoy and other people I DO
    care about, and that's what bugs me.

    I've had to ignore quite a bit of stuff in kaleon's LJ, because if it
    was true I'd be doing time for murder 1 right about now... But, yeah,
    I think he called it, selfishness, and maybe A's whole initial post
    was to try and get him to see how much better off she is without him,
    or something. I guess I'll never know.

     

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evile: (clutter)

    Dec. 14, 2004

     

     

    ah, family. They make you cry, and then ...they make you cry again
    for a whole new reason.

     

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evile: (clutter)

    Dec. 14, 2004

     

     

    skye_ds (skye_ds) wrote,
    @ 2004-12-14 11:37:00

    Current mood: happy
    Current music: Simply Irresistable/Mysterious Ways/December/No More
    Tears


    Daily Affirmation:
    My Present Situation: I need time to regroup. Although others may try
    to drag me down into a situation that is problematic, I will resolve
    it by taking some time out. I have removed and will continue to
    remove myself from the negative people and their negative situations,
    meditate, and find my center. By recharging my spiritual strength, I
    will bring my best efforts to solve my own problems. I'm already
    feeling much better now -- actually, I'm feeling pretty damned good
    right now :).

    Positive Forces/Assets in My Favor. Replenishment and Faith. I know
    that the cycles of nature are true and natural and that after a hard
    time, a better time will follow. I know that my heart will be
    refreshed and my faith will be renewed. And when it comes, I give
    myself over to it, immerse myself in the cool waters of faith and the
    constant light of the Star. I make a point of doing this every day
    now, and it works, abundantly! :)

    Past Events/Influences Coloring/Giving Rise to Current Situation: I
    am surrounded by those who give me happiness. I must strive to
    acknowledge and appreciate them. Take time to celebrate with others
    the simple joys of being alive. This is no easy task. When I sit
    down to list my blessings, the "people" part of the list is already
    so long and continues to get longer! But I'm working on it, starting
    at home and working outward!

    Message from My "Higher Self."/Aspirations: So many of my passions
    are moving me ahead very quickly. I am very excited about everything
    I'm facing! I am feeling no fear, although I am certainly feeling a
    heady adrenaline rush. I'm ready for grand adventures, Bring It On! I
    don't even wait for them to come to me, I'm having fun going out and
    finding them. So many grand adventures, and so little time!

    Subconscious, Dreams, Emotional Undercurrent: Be aware of jumping
    into something I'm not ready for. If I haven't laid the ground work,
    I'll probably be surprised by unexpected events or expenses.

    My Relationships with Others. Be aware of inappropriate motivations.
    Compete with an eye to improving myself and society, not to hurt or
    destroy someone else. Play by the rules. Have confidence in myself.
    I'm still working on this, but I can already feel myself improving,
    and the benefits of that improvement!

    My Attitude: I have the gift of thought. I'm going to use it rightly,
    to see the world clearly, to communicate well, and create a happy,
    healthy reality. This has been working great so far, and it's
    getting easier with practice :)

    Unseen Forces in My Environment. Be aware of negative people taking
    Hermit energy to the extreme. Negative people enjoy good fortune
    alone or hoard it. Negative people indulge in a pompous sense of self-
    satisfaction. I will not do these things; I will share what I have
    with graciousness. Two wrongs don't make a right.

    Hopes: I have worked hard and well. I have created a life filled
    with physical pleasures and beauty, through my skills and careful
    budgeting of resources. I take great pride in your practicality.
    People around me enjoy the fruits of my labor. And although this
    gives me pleasure, I get just as much satisfaction from the results
    of my endeavors. Life is Good, and Getting Better All the Time!

    Outcome: I am waiting for an outcome. I will not have to wait long.
    Events set in motion are moving speedily to their inexorable
    conclusion. Hey, a raise would be good!





    Yes, I'm easily amused and easily pleased :) Every time I try to
    count my blessings, I find that there are too many to write them all
    down in one place. Every night, Happiness is coming home to:

    a thoughtfully prepared dinner (steak, potatoes with all the
    trimmins, and almond toffee chocolate, for example)
    completely thorough body massage
    having my hair washed and being bathed
    watching movies snuggled up tightly between my two beloved sweeties
    (what's not to like about a sexy man on either side?) and Arthur (a
    loveseat really isn't meant for three people LOL).
    These are songs I heard on the long drive home last night that stuck
    in my head because of their appropriateness :). Makes me want to
    have a talented pair of hands do my hair and my make up, don the
    black brocade corset, the black lace blouse, black suede miniskirt or
    tight riding breeches, the stiletto heeled knee high Victorian boots
    and go out :)



    "Simply Irresistable," Robert Palmer ~
    How can it be permissible
    She compromised my principle, yeah yeah
    That kind of love is mythical
    She's anything but typical
    She's a craze you'd endorse, she's a powerful force
    You're obliged to conform when there's no other course
    She used to look good to me, but now I find her

    Simply irresistible
    Simply irresistible

    Her loving is so powerful, huh
    It's simply unavoidable
    The trend is irreversible
    The woman is invincible

    She's a natural law, and she leaves me in awe
    She deserves the applause, I surrender because
    She used to look good to me, but now I find her

    Simply irresistible
    Simply irresistible

    (Simply irresistible) She's so fine, there's no tellin' where the
    money went
    (Simply irresistible) She's all mine, there's no other way to go

    She's unavoidable, I'm backed against the wall
    She gives me feelings like I never felt before
    I'm breaking promises, she's breaking every law
    She used to look good to me, but now I find her

    Simply irresistible
    She's so fine, there's no tellin' where the money went
    (Simply irresistible) She's all mine, there's no other way to go

    Her methods are inscrutable
    The proof is irrefutable, Ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh
    She's so completely kissable, huh
    Our lives are indivisible

    She's a craze you'd endorse, she's a powerful force
    You're obliged to conform when there's no other course
    She used to look good to me, but now I find her

    Simply irresistible
    Simply irresistible

    She's so fine, there's no tellin' where the money went
    (Simply irresistible) She's all mine, there's no other way to go
    She's so fine, there's no tellin' where the money went
    (Simply irresistible) She's all mine, there's no other way to go

    Simply irresistible


    "Mysterious Ways," U2 ~
    Johnny take a walk with your sister the moon
    Let her pale light in to fill up your room
    You've been living underground
    Eating from a can
    You've been running away
    From what you don't understand...
    Love

    She's slippy
    You're sliding down
    She'll be there when you hit the ground

    It's alright, it's alright, it's alright
    She moves in mysterious ways
    It's alright, it's alright, it's alright
    She moves in mysterious ways

    Johnny take a dive with your sister in the rain
    Let her talk about the things you can't explain
    To touch is to heal
    To hurt is to steal
    If you want to kiss the sky
    Better learn how to kneel

    (on your knees boy)

    She's the wave
    She turns the tide
    She sees the man inside the child

    It's alright, it's alright, it's alright
    She moves in mysterious ways
    It's alright, it's alright, it's alright
    She moves in mysterious ways
    It's alright, it's alright, it's alright
    Lift my days, light up my nights

    One day you will look...back
    And you'll see...where
    You were held...how
    By this love...while
    You could stand...there
    You could move on this moment
    Follow this feeling

    It's alright, it's alright, it's alright
    She moves in mysterious ways
    It's alright, it's alright, it's alright
    She moves in mysterious ways
    It's alright, it's alright, it's alright

    We move through miracle days
    Spirit moves in mysterious ways
    She moves with it
    She moves with it
    Lift my days, light up my nights

    "December," Collective Soul ~
    Why drink the water
    from my hand?
    Contagious as you think I am
    Just tilt my sun towards
    your domain.
    Your cup runneth over again.

    Don't scream about
    Don't think aloud
    Turn your head now baby
    Just spit me out
    Don't worry about
    Don't speak of doubt
    Turn your head now baby
    Just spit me out

    Why follow me to higher ground?
    Lost as you swear I am.
    Don't throw away your basic needs,
    Ambiance and vanity.

    December promise you gave unto me
    December whispers of treachery
    December clouds are now covering me
    December songs no longer I sing


    "No More Tears," Ozzy Osbourne ~
    The light in the window is a crack in the sky
    A stairway to darkness in the blink of an eye
    A levee of tears to learn she'll never be coming back
    The man in the dark will bring another attack

    Your momma told you that you're not supposed to talk to strangers
    Look in the mirror tell me do you think your life's in danger here, ya

    No more tears

    Another day passes as the night closes in
    The red light goes on to say it's time to begin

    I see the man around the corner waiting, does he see me?
    I close my eyes and wait to hear the sound of someone screaming here

    No more tears

    So now that it's over can't we just say goodbye?
    I'd like to move on and make the most of the night
    Maybe a kiss before I leave you this way
    Your lips are so cold I don't know what else to say

    I never wanted it to end this way my love my darling
    Believe me when I say to you in love I think I'm falling here

    No more tears

     

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    evile [12:56]: I just looked...it did seem like he was doing better
    there foro a minute, going to the party with his friend, and all
    that, and then WHAM!....that's just. Well, sad.
    SkyeDS [12:57]: he probably has no clue just how publicly pitiful
    he's being
    SkyeDS [12:57]: like the emperor who was the only one not to realize
    that he was wearing no clothes.
    evile [12:57]: well, you could always try and assume he's talking
    about someone else, not you.
    SkyeDS [12:58]: right.
    evile [12:59]: the 4 agreements--dont' take things personally, and
    don't assume....
    evile [12:59]: If he doesn't have the testicles to get closure with
    you instead of taking random potshots, he's not worth any of your
    energy.
    SkyeDS [12:59]: I"m not taking it personally
    SkyeDS [12:59]: it isn't my fault
    SkyeDS [12:59]: I"m going to continue with my positive writings to
    myself every day
    evile [13:00]: *nod*
    SkyeDS [13:00]: and if he continues to take them as attacks upon
    himself, well, he's going to be even more miserable shortly
    SkyeDS [13:00]: if he thinks that nightmares and headaches are going
    to stop me from being happy he's got another think comin
    evile [13:00]: yup
    evile [13:04]: I am listening to internet radio--hits of 20 years
    ago. 1984. Boy, do I feel *OLD*! I started my first paper journal in
    1984, so I've been keeping a diary for 20 years! AAA.
    SkyeDS [13:05]: "I believe if I refuse to grow old, I can stay young
    till I die" :P
    evile [13:06]: I'm doing better than many of my conteporaries. Sweetie &
    I ran into a couple of people I knew from the bookstop days
    and...wow. I'm lookin GOOD.
    SkyeDS [13:07]: I've never seen you not look good.
    evile [13:07]: aww. You're so sweet :)
    SkyeDS [13:07]: but I know it's all a matter of subjective
    perspective.
    SkyeDS [13:07]: you know I don't say things for the sake of being
    sweet. (although I ought to)
    evile [13:08]: being fat, I can do stuff about. being old, not so
    much. But the sunscreen daily has helped. The woman of the couple is
    2 yrs younger than me and had crows feet like you wouldn't believe.
    SkyeDS [13:08]: I would like very much to retain a good figure as
    well as you have.
    evile [13:08]: that's genetics, I think. big gals with hourglass
    figures on both sides.
    SkyeDS [13:10]: I need to put more work into it.
    evile [13:10]: metoo.
    evile [13:11]: I'm kind of disappointed that Monday Tennis got co-
    opted into Monday Crafts. I love seeing my friends, but I'd like to
    get some exercise, too.
    SkyeDS [13:11]: Kelly is going to give me a minitramp for Xmas :)
    SkyeDS [13:12]: maybe a 20 - 30 minute walk could be incorporated
    into the beginning of craft night
    evile [13:12]: there's a thought. Meg and Terri are both mobility
    impaired, though, so they wouldn't be able to walk.
    SkyeDS [13:14]: suppose craft night had two start times. one for
    those who want to walk, and one for everyone else afterward.
    evile [13:14]: hm. I'll run it past folks. We are kind of decided
    that whoever hosts is the one who gets to make the rules.
    SkyeDS [13:15]: all ya can do is make the suggestion, if they like it
    good, if they don't, no b ig :)
    evile [13:15]: yup
    SkyeDS [13:15]: it doesn't even have to involve anyone else
    evile [13:15]: Yeah. I need to get better about being my own workout
    buddy
    SkyeDS [13:15]: I would figure out who I'd like to walk with, find
    out if they'll be there, and ask, hey, wanna show up early and go
    for a walk?
    evile [13:16]: that's a good idea :)
    SkyeDS [13:28]: my reading this morning was great. I'm probably
    going to come back to it many times.
    SkyeDS [13:28]: I wonder if I'm not going to end up with too many
    Memory entries
    evile [13:28]: I'm glad.
    evile [13:29]: I think I have a bunch of memories....but I've got
    them somewhat organized, so I can still find stuff
    SkyeDS [13:29]: if my closet bugs peeps they can just stay out of
    it :)
    evile [13:30]: *nod*
    evile [13:36]: well, bless his pointy little head, Thax turned me
    down.
    SkyeDS [13:36]: I remembered all my songs :)
    SkyeDS [13:36]: turned you down?
    evile [13:36]: oh, cool.
    evile [13:37]: He had posted that he was looking for some xmas $, and
    I asked him what his hourly rate was to teach me how to make maille.
    evile [13:37]: turns out he does not charge to teach.
    SkyeDS [13:37]: I had a whole list of projects I was going to pay for
    his help with
    SkyeDS [13:37]: so he'll teach you but he won't accept $
    SkyeDS [13:37]: ?
    SkyeDS [13:38]: he was wearing very pretty maille Sun
    evile [13:38]: *shrug* And knowing he needs $, I would not want to
    take time from him (that he could be using to make things for paying
    customers) without reimbursing him in some way.
    evile [13:39]: I guess if we are ever at the same craft nite, I will
    take him up on it, but I won't feel great about it.
    SkyeDS [13:39]: you could pay him to make you a piece and ask him to
    let you watch
    SkyeDS [13:39]: if you learn vicariously that is
    evile [13:39]: I've watched him and Robbie and Goofy make maille, and
    I don't know how to do it yet...so I don't think that will work.
    SkyeDS [13:40]: if he won't take $ maybe he'll accept other
    necessities.
    evile [13:40]: I could just give him the materials and picture and
    say 'here, make this'...but I'd rather create one more 'win' by
    adding some knowledge to my own brain, AND paying him, AND getting
    the necklace I want.
    SkyeDS [13:40]: see if he'll barter.
    SkyeDS [13:40]: if he won't barter, give him a "Christmas present".
    evile [13:40]: But if he's going to be a stubborn ass, I'm not going
    to throw money at him...gods know what kind of gossip THAT would
    cause.
    SkyeDS [13:41]: (no, I don't break rules, I just...bend them a
    little....ok, a lot)
    evile [13:42]: I don't want him to feel like a charity case, or to
    feel like I'm trying to buy something unsavory from him.
    SkyeDS [13:42]: ya'll have been friends long enough to give them
    something for Xmas.
    evile [13:43]: *shrug* who knows. I assumed Jose knew me, or at least
    knew ABOUT me, well enough not to freak when I sent him grocery $.
    SkyeDS [13:43]: it is said, nothing is received but something be
    given.
    SkyeDS [13:43]: Thax said himself that Jose was pointyheaded about
    that
    SkyeDS [13:43]: if he wants to give you the gift of instruction, why
    can't you give him an Xmas gift because you want to
    evile [13:44]: point.
    evile [13:47]: I am sending them a card.
    SkyeDS [13:49]: I want to go out. I haven't Been Out in a long while
    SkyeDS [13:49]: like, the whole 9 yards out.
    SkyeDS [13:50]: hair, makeup, clothes, the whole thing
    evile [13:50]: *nod*
    SkyeDS [13:52]: I get diarrhea of the fingers with my LJ, LOL
    evile [13:53]: *nod* online journaling has done that to me too.
    SkyeDS [13:55]: if someone came to me and said, I want you to be
    happy/wish for you happiness" seems to me, I'd say thank you.
    evile [13:55]: yup.
    SkyeDS [13:59]: makes me happy when I get rich text and lj cut to
    work right
    evile [13:59]: heh.
    SkyeDS [13:59]: it's kind of funny
    SkyeDS [14:00]: I like it when sineater or sonar0m scrubs my head as hard
    as they can
    SkyeDS [14:00]: but it hurt the last time I let a stylist do it, felt
    like she was butchering my head
    SkyeDS [14:00]: and I doubt she's stronger than the boys
    evile [14:00]: hm. wierd.
    SkyeDS [14:00]: ya
    SkyeDS [14:00]: but having someone wash your hair has to be one of
    the Finer Things in life, no?
    evile [14:01]: Some people are into that.
    evile [14:01]: My hair is as short as it is because I don't like
    messing with it, and I don't like other people messing with it either.
    SkyeDS [14:02]: is to me, but then so is having my hair brushed and
    played with
    evile [14:02]: *nod*
    SkyeDS [14:02]: how bout someone giving you a bath?
    evile [14:02]: *shrug* bath time is me-time.
    evile [14:02]: light my candles, bring me a book, glass of wine and a
    towel, and then leave me alone.
    SkyeDS [14:03]: nods. thankfully the boys don't take it personally
    when I don't want to share bath, but curl up on the bath pillow and
    read or sleep by myself
    evile [14:03]: *nod*
    SkyeDS [14:03]: now, should I fall asleep with a book that sineater lent
    me, without putting it safely away first....lol
    evile [14:04]: heh.
    evile [14:34]: I have 10 days to go, and I suddenly got an insane
    urge to pack for Vegas
    SkyeDS [14:34]: I love traveling and moving. I hate packing and
    unpacking.
    evile [14:35]: I don't mind packing/unpacking for short trips, I
    don't like packing/unpacking for moving.
    SkyeDS [15:10]: chocolate. chocolate is a blessing.
    evile [15:12]: heh. tell that to my unruly peppermint bark recipe
    SkyeDS [15:14]: I probably shouldn't go near it, I would just make it
    worse :P
    evile [15:14]: It looks fine until one attempts to break it into bite
    size peices
    SkyeDS [15:14]: balpeen hammers are our friends :D
    evile [15:15]: maybe.
    SkyeDS [15:20]: I could get used to saying nice things to people
    every day. kinda cool.
    evile [15:20]: *nod*
    SkyeDS [15:21]: Today I told sineater and sonar0m both that I love them
    and thanked them for being in my life. And I told Hugh that it makes
    me happy to see him every day
    evile [15:21]: I did that at work for a while, found one nice thing
    to say to someone every day. It seemed helpful. I haven't been
    dragged away by the Inquisition in a while.
    SkyeDS [15:22]: easier for me, I really do like Hugh, and he's just
    one person
    evile [15:22]: I had to go with things like "That's a really great
    necklace," since I couldn't think of any personal qualities I admired.
    SkyeDS [15:22]: thing is, I really do have so many people I love/love
    me, I could not sit down and write every single person a
    love/appreciation note in one sitting if I tried.
    evile [15:23]: *nod*
    SkyeDS [15:23]: lol nodnod. "lovely colors" (too bad they're all in
    the same place at the same time)
    evile [15:23]: heh.
    SkyeDS [15:27]: hm.
    SkyeDS [15:27]: my Address Book is in my OUtlook at home
    SkyeDS [15:27]: I cannot send ecards from home because my damn dialup
    is so slow and I have so many to send to
    SkyeDS [15:28]: so, what I need to do is find someway to get all
    those addresses up here, and do ecards from here :)
    evile [15:28]: *nod* yahoo mail isn't so bad..but then if you send
    stuff from there that's one more place you have to check regularly.
    SkyeDS [15:30]: I've never used yahoo mail (although I have many
    yahoo ids). I do find having a hotmail acct in addition to isp useful
    evile [15:32]: the address book is useful. No way to cut and paste
    addresses from my freaks.net to yahoo, but other than that it's fine.
    SkyeDS [15:39]: I asked Thax if he would in addition to new garb be
    willing to do the mending I am too lazy to do because I hate it.
    SkyeDS [15:39]: it's like changing the oil. I could do it, would
    rather pay someone else.
    evile [15:39]: *nod* yup. I totally get that.
    SkyeDS [15:39]: I have several old beloved pieces that he said he'd
    mend for me :)
    evile [15:40]: At one of Sharjinka's craft nights a while back, I just
    took everything that needed mending, and did it all in one fell
    swoop. Having company was helpful.
    SkyeDS [15:42]: first thing I'm going to do is give him a pile of
    mending, that shouldn't be too expensive.
    SkyeDS [15:42]: then I'm going to take stock of all the raw materials
    I've got
    evile [15:43]: *nod*
    SkyeDS [15:43]: I also have specialized pieces I want to have made
    for the boys
    evile [15:43]: cool.
    SkyeDS [15:43]: I know he can make anything he sees on this one
    website
    SkyeDS [15:43]: so I'm going to go to him with some other websites
    (the ME ones) and see if he can do that too
    SkyeDS [15:43]: if not I"ll buy patterns
    SkyeDS [15:43]: why not for example, could he not make me a perfectly
    nice salwar kameez
    SkyeDS [15:43]: instead of buying one on ebay
    evile [15:44]: cool.
    SkyeDS [15:44]: at some point he'll have to measure me that's
    depressing :|
    evile [15:44]: *shrug* the only way to get a good fit...
    evile [16:00]: well, time for me to hit the bricks. I have a Tina
    appointment after work today :)
    SkyeDS [16:00]: wind to your wings :)
    evile [16:00]: *hugs*
    SkyeDS [16:00]: hugs

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