evile: (steambug)
I flew up on Thursday  18th with my aunt L. We stayed with my sister H & her family in Bloomington Thursday night and Friday night. Friday we drove to Cincinnati OH and picked up a 26' RV and stopped at a place called Jungle Jim's. It was CRAZY. They gave you a map as you walked in. And you needed it. It was too big, my brain just kinda shut down. They had literally everything. Including ground camel meat and 27 kinds of butter from about 5 different countries. And I think maybe the worlds largest cheese? My brother in law and niece came with us to pick up the RV and then BIL & Niece followed us back in the car while H drove the RV and my aunt L. rode. 

We picked up my mom Saturday morning from her piss smelling old folks warehouse in Greencastle, IN. We packed up her room and wheeled her on outta there. She had been practicing in Phsical Therapy for Stairs so we got her up into the RV without too much trouble. She slept in the queen size bed at the back of the RV for most of the trip. H. wanted her to sit up in the seats and look out the window and engage with the trip but mom just doesn't have that capability anymore. I had been thinking Aunt L. would be chatting with her and keeping her company but that didn't really happen. I think aunt L was bored and uncomfortable most of the trip.

We got used to driving the monster mobile pretty quick, and it had a good sized engine so it got along pretty well on the highway. Driving itself was easy and comfortable. There was a LOT of road noise, driver and passenger could barely hear each other, couldn't hear anything goin on in the living area of the RV at all.  Neice mostly stayed in the bed area above the driver/passenger area, and aunt L mostly stayed at the table, but occasionally would sit in the seat behind the passenger seat and try to talk to us. It was just too loud for much conversation.   The radio seemed to only have speakers in the cab and none in the back so we weren't able to play mom's music for her or anything like that.

Our first stop was supposed to be at Lake Catherine state park in Hot Springs, AR, but we had made a late start so by the time we were getting close, it was getting dark. H. and aunt L. talked it over while I was driving and decided to stay overnight at a Mariott in Little Rock instead.  There was a lot of construction and I drove in the dark which I don't do in regular life much anymore --between the astigmatism and the growing cataract it just doesn't feel safe...but it had to be done and I did it, and we didn't wreck or die. I even did a decent job parking in their parking lot.   I had looked up Lake Catherine SP online earlier in the trip and I had been looking forward to it. It's about at the halfway point between IN and TX family and has horseback riding you can reserve so  maybe we'll plan a family meetup/ vacay sometime. 

Next morning, we had breakfast in the hotel and got on the road. No stops except for gas. Got to Cedar Breaks around 5pm, got our hookups done in good daylight, no problems. Ate sandwiches and fruit and whatever was in the RV fridge for dinner. Did a little walking around. It's a pretty park. If I liked camping and/or had an RV I'd go out there and camp regularly. Apparently there's a big walking trail too, but we didn't go. We saw deer and lots of birds, a few fish in the water. It was green but clear near the fishing pier.  

Monday, Thax and my brother A drove up to the park and met us at our campsite. They brought Taco Cabana and we had a picnic lunch. Then H and aunt L and brother A. took the RV with mom's stuff in it to the care home and  Thax and I and mom and our niece went to Pecan Creek Ranch for 'horse therapy' or something. (My sister H. h ad set it up in advance) our appointment was at 2 and I had been worried that it would be too hot but it's been rainy and cool in TX for the last week or so, so it was fine. We got there, mom petted the horse for a few minutes, and then she wanted to leave, so we put her back in the car and stopped at Whataburger.  I was pretty disappointed with the 'horse therapy'...we had an appointment, they should  have been expecting u s, but they acted like our presence was a surprise and an imposition. They informed us that m ost of the horses were up the hill under the trees, or something like that, and there was only one who had been in a stall, they only let her head out of the stall for mom to pet at first and we had to request that she be let out the rest of the way. They just didnt' seem to know what they were doing at all. Had no prepared 'patter' about how their program, or how to behave around horses, how to pet them, where to pet them, nothing. It was super bizarre. Hard to believe they are a professional organization that does horse therapy for disabled people. Oh, and no wheelchair accessibility to the barn, mom had to get out and stand on gravel and then we had to manhandle her wheelchair thru the gravel into the barn. She would not have been able to manouver her walker at all.  It was bullshit. Fucking horse people. Bullshitters one and all. What a scam.  

Anyway, Whataburger was good. Mom had  bacon and cheese whataburger and a latte shake, finished the whole burger and most of the shake, and then we drove to her new place. It rained on us on and off through all of this.

We kept mom company in the living room of the home while Holly and the others unpacked her stuff and got it squared away in the room. At one point some 'head nurse' came over and started asking questions. she asked mom if she  knew her name and birthday. I've learned that you have to ask mom one question at a time. Mom just repeated 'birthday' and seemed distressed. Then the nurse was asking me questions about mom's meds and her physical condition and I kept referring her to Holly because I have been in TX this whole time and I have no idea, and the nurse seemed really irritated with me...I don't know if she ever went to talk to Holly or not. seems like the new care team could h ave or should have been in contact with the previous doctors and hopsice workers if they really wanted good information. I didn't want to give her bad information so I didnt' want to answer her questions and she acted like I was stonewalling her... I didnt' think much of her.

Anyway....H. sent me and Thax home to rest and relax (because I was annoying her and being unhelpful, I"m sure, and also because there were just too many people in the room) and she, brother A, aunt L and u ncle B continued to work on the room.

We (Me, sister H, brother A, Thax, Niece) went to fancy supper Wednesday night at perry's steak house in the domain. Loud and crowded, hot and over priced. It wasn't terrible, many of the things were quite good (yes the famous pork chop lives up to the hype) but honestly I have gotten a bit spoiled by cooking at home since the pandemic and I am a damned good cook.  And my neice was somewhat mortified by our sharing tastes with each other and stuff. I mean, she's 15. Everything your parents do (especially your mom) at that age is absolutely mortifying and excruciating.

H. left for home yesterday. Niece will be here til Sunday. We are going out for dinner tonight with everyone to Arpeggio, one of our favorite places.  Not sure what we are doing tomorrow.

I needed my sister's signature on some of my death prep paperwork but couldn't make it happen, I guess i"ll have to mail it to her and have her sign and notarize her signature and then do the rest of the  wittnesses and signatures and notarizing here.

H. worked so hard to plan and make everything happen and it all went very smoothly. I didn't want to add to her tasks by trying to set up a date/time  "in stone" before we got here and got mom settled and everything. I wanted to let her have some breathing room and time to relax and decompress. But of course that means I didn't get my needs met. What the fuck else is new? codependent martyr resentment alert woop woop .   ugggh I disgust myself.  And I feel selfish and horrible because H worked so hard and I just did a little bit of driving and here I am making everyfucking thing about me and my stupid ass. gross. I really am an awful person.

Anyhoo. I had been going back and forth with a temp agency for a job I did an inperson interview for....they kept sending me either a blank employee aggreement or one that said my pay rate was $XX per diem and I kept replying with "I am looking for a per hour pay rate, not a per diem, please," and they just didnt' seem to ever get  it. The final amount ended up being fifty cents less than the recruiter originally quoted me but they did get it squared away. Meanwhile I"m still putting in applications and resumes because I dont' particularly trust these people to actually get their shit together. No start date, which is fairly normal for temp agencies working with an employer to get a bunch of people started at teh same time, but the pay rate thing was ridiculous.

I have been very tired and having awful allergies since I've been back. yesterday I got up at 6 and walked dogs with Thax and then went back to bed. Today I just stayed in bed and told Thax I'd walk them when I got up. Thax was tired too so he went back to bed for a while too, got up at 7 instead of 6.

I am just so fucking done with this whole fucking thing. Giant Meteor, please.


bleh

Apr. 25th, 2024 03:09 pm
evile: (steambug)
 I swear  my planning-fu has gone out the window.

A friend lost her husband unexpectedly in March. She's really been struggling so one of our mutual friends decided to fly out and help her out, and invited me to join her. So I got that squared away - We are flying separately but I timed my flights so that I can share her rent-a-car to drive from Co Springs to Pueblo where our friend lives. We'll stay with her. Friday (tomorrow) to Wednesday 5/1. I had kinda wanted to drive but the other person has fibromyalgia (? or something? ) and being in a car for that long would make her feel so bad she'd have to take a day of rest before and after the trip and she doesn't have that kind of leave time from work.... So, flying. bleh. not my favorite but necessities abound.

Unrelated to that, a friend of mine from the TinyTim days, Clint Weathers AKA Zenrhino on TinyTIM MUSH, AKA FrozenRhino back on LiveJournal, passed away a few months ago and his friends who were giving him end of life care are hosting a celebration of life on May 4. They also live in CO.  a couple hours north of Pueblo but not an unreasonable distance of driving.

If my brain was firing on all 4s like it used to, I would have put these facts together before TODAY, and logistick-ed up a way to get to all of these things and back again in some tidy fashion. I just can't make it work. I dicked around with the southwest site and car rental sites and tried to make it squish together in my brain and moneys but it's just not working right. blehhhhh.

Oh, and I had a horrible migraine that started yesterday afternoon and finally let me sleep around 1 this morning...crazy sinus pain/pressure (I sometimes get them before a weather change/storm) plus hot/cold, nausea at any and all smells, vomiting, shooting pains up the back of my neck.  I had to change clothes a few times and shower because I managed to sick on myself even though I made it to the toilet. And eventually I learned my lesson and put a rubber band in my hair. It is short but apparently not short enough when i'm doing exorcist style migraine barfs.

good god. My mom, aunt, and I think my younger sister all get them. My cousin on my dad's side, too. So I guess it was only a matter of time before I got one too. I seem to remember something similar, but not as severe, once in Galveston when we'd rented a house for a long weekend for Dickens on the Strand.   

bleh. anyhoo....still unemployed but not too worried about it. the Universe throws things my way in a timely fashion. I feel like the Universe wants me to go to Clint's celebration of life goodbye party....I am facebook freinds with some TIMsters still but I am not close-close with any of them. I dunno. bleh. bleh.
evile: (steambug)
Went from Austin to Indiana and back,with a stop in Oklahoma to see family there. Left July 1, got home yesterday July 13.   Sallisaw Ok, Eureka Springs AR, Springfield MO (just overnite, watched fireworks from our hotel window)  Bloomington IN, Greencastle IN, Brown County IN & various Indiana back roads hither and yon, then Hot Springs AR, and home.

This was a good trip. It felt longer than it actually was, due to all the adventures we managed to shove in. I didn't take any photos in Sallisaw :(

It was good to see family. I am glad we had sort of a general outline that we filled in as we went, that was a fun way to travel. Originally I'd planned to go to Tulsa and spend a day there, maybe see some friends who live there (Kaleon & his wife S.) and spend some more time with my cousin Weez' oldest girl G and her husband who are both nerds. G's husband and Thax have a good bit in common.  But Weez' husband was talking up Eureka Springs so much, I ended up convincing Weez and her husband to take an impromptu overnite trip to Eureka Springs instead. (or maybe her husband convinced me...heehee) Stayed at the New Orleans Hotel. It was fabulous. We rode the trolley, saw Christ of the Ozarks and the historic Crescent Hotel, Magnetic Spring, Grotto Spring, and listened to a blues duet in Basin Spring Park. Really nice time.

Pre covid pandemic I was much more of a planner, having days, places, reservations, and even my outfits planned out in advance. (Speaking of outfits, I didn't need as many clothes as I packed.) Changing things from Tulsa to Eureka Springs would have discombobulated me too much and I probably wouldnt' have done it. Glad I am a little more flexible and changeable these days and not so brittle and easily freaked out.

We got to Bloomington IN a day earlier than I'd planned to be in Indiana but it was not a big deal, my sister had a guest bed all ready for us :) We got to sleep with dogs again after a few days of dog free sleep. Her dogs are bigger than Sunny but lighter than Boba and they curl up very small so they were lovely snugglers.  We made lemoncello and lemon bars from lemons they had left over from a girl scout lemonade stand that was not as successful as they wanted it to be. We took my niece Eme to her week of girl scout camp. Apparently they can choose 'specialities' or tracks at camp so she is in the horse group. Other girls are in general camp where they do a little of everything, some girls are in boating/swimming type stuff, there's a lot of land out there and a lot of activities and they have their own lake. Apparently during the pandemic, they opened their site for people affiliated with the scouts to come camp with their families, and H. says it saved her sanity to be able to come and camp from time to time over that year. 

We made steaks and various veggies, including fresh indiana corn, one night over at my stepdad's house, drank wine, watched dumb TV, visited. It was good.   I brought the HEB coffee that he and my mom like, so they're all stocked up for a while.  We are all past the point of wanting 'stuff' as presents (except maybe my brother A, he's catching up on things he missed in prison so he's still keen on getting 'stuff'--though he is checking out books and movies and music from the library and saving the digital stuff to his computer, so that's helping)

We played cards and trivia one night with my sister H and her husband.  I had not seen her husband smile and laugh so much. He is a bit of a nerd and Thax thinks he has a  hard time with just small talk, and I know he isn't forthcoming on 'deep conversation' because he's very private...so gaming is something he's comfortable with that makes him happy. It was fun to play games. We didn't play anything that took too long or had complicated rules. I can deal with games like that. I just can't spend hours and hours learning the rules and playing some long drawn out saga type game....not my thing. So that was fun.

And then on the way home, we drove to Hot Springs and stopped there for the night. We stayed at the Hotel Arlington, one of the historic hotels that still has hot mineral water piped into the rooms. We got in a little after 5 so we were able to walk around and see a few sights, get some dinner, swim in the pool of our hotel (spring fed,not chlorine! nice!) and enjoy ourselves a bit before we drove home the next day. The dogs were happy to see us but Sunny was a little pouty for a while. She snuggled and slept with us all night, though. I think I slept almost 12 hours last night.

I feel like I was able to give to my various family in various love languages that they speak and understand and appreciate--games with brother in law, cooking together with H and dad/G, cookies and lemon bars and fudge to my mom, quality time and shared experiences with my cousin Weez...food and drinks and togetherness. Listening to my dad when he wanted to tell stories about work and life.  That was all really, really good.

I'm glad and grateful for my job that gives me both enough money to travel with and the free time to do so (without any guilt trips or hassles from management--the state was bad about that) I'm glad and SO Grateful that Thax and I travel so well together. We are a good team. I got a little frazzled towards the end; there was a lot of emotion in seeing mom and in helping my sister H. sort out K/mom's art room and the family photos piled up in there. H lives closest so, after our stepdad G. on the front line, she is bearing the brunt of things there. G. is retiring end of August and bringing mom home from the care facility to live at home. Their life is going to be very simple, of necessity due to Mom's health and abilities. I hope it all works out. Mom and G's house  is big and there's a lot of stairs. They'll be living downstairs in the house but there is no way in or out of that house that doesn't involve stairs and the laundry stuff is in the basement. more stairs. He's having railings installed on the front and back stairs outside but there's not much to do about the shitty basement stairs. I'd be happier if they were in a single level  home with no stairs at all.

speaking of stairs, all the stairs in Eureka Springs and Indiana and Hot Springs were good for me.My knee and ankle are complainy in the morning but the movement was good for them and strengthened them. Seeing my mom so weak after her hip break made me really want to work on being stronger.

Sadly, I don't remember the last time I talked, for real, with Mom. (to be honest, I often dreaded it. I didn't want to hear what I'd done wrong or how I'd fucked up, after the fact)  And now that can't happen ever again, for good or ill. She's not herself anymore, she smiles alot and just repeats what you say to her mostly. Some spontaneous words but not many. In a way she's easier and more delightful to deal with now that she's not stubborn, wilful, spiteful, judgemental, intolerant, and impatient....but she's not really  Mom without those qualities. And of course she's not able to read, write, type, draw, or create her art anymore so that's a huge loss. I don't want to say or imply that my mom is 100% a terrible person or anything....it's complicated.She is a magnificent being, bigger than life in a lot of ways, amazingly creative and talented, adventur5ous, fearless, fantastically intelligent,  hugely damaged. Selfish. Narcissistic. Self centered. Manipulative. I don't think she ever made a choice in life that wasn't about her and what she wanted to do...and if she felt like she had to do something that she didn't actually want to do or like doing, she'd do victim/martyr/ passive agressive punishments for 'making' her do things she didn't want to do. I see a lot of that in myself and I fairly well loathe those tendencies.  I recognize where they come from but it's still a huge step from realizing 1) my upbringing fucked me up and taught me shitty ways to behave 2) I don't want to be that or do that to 3) fixing my shit

Two recent-ish revelations in that vein re: mom.  1) she did parental alienation on me and my father's relationship. She manipulated him and me both. It's not fixable. It has to be forgiven because I can't be bitter about that, even if it hurts when I think about it too much. I just have to accept it and let it go. Ho'opono. and 2) the daughter she wanted or should have had is someone more like my SIL Skye_ds.  Mom and her have more in common than mom and I (too much like my father) A lot of the gifts my mom sent me over the years were things that would have been more suited and more delightful to Skye than to me (purple, witchy, horsey, jewelry meant for smaller wrists and fingers than mine, shoes meant for smaller feet than mine--Skye's). So...another piece of that unpleasant and problematic relationship...on some level recognizing that Skye is the  daughter my mother wanted, not me. (Obviously I'm talking about the good parts of Skye's personality, not her abusive and damaged parts) ..the horse stuff, the witchy stuff, the independent and entrepreneurial stuff...not the mean bitchy stuff.  

I wanted to tell mom I love her and ask her to forgive me for not being the daughter she wanted, and tell her that I forgive her too...but I teared up and could not get it out. I did say I love you....but not the rest. And that sucks.

anyhoo...it was a good trip. I got brittle and easily freaked out towards the end and slid into 'all I do is make mistakes, nothing I do is right' mode ...and it's so frustrating to watch myself crawling further and further up my own ass and yet be seemingly unable to stop myself from continuing along those lines. Thax doesn't know what to do with me when I get like that either...it's really a no win situation. No matter what he does or says it just increases my disgust and loathing of myself in that moment.  Oh, wait, I didn't take that triple reuptake inhibitor while I was out of town because it requires refrigeration. So I guess if nothing else this shows me that the stuff works. So, back on it.

also I am up to 250 lbs. whee.


OH! and while we were traveling, Thax got a call with a job offer, so his new job starts Monday the 17th. He had at least 4 weeks of severance/pto pay out from his job that ended 6/30 so no paychecks missed during his short stint of being unemployed.  Woot! 
evile: (Mermaid)
 First cruise on Ruby Princess, thoughts.

Embarkation/Disembarkation were fast and easy. They have it all worked out.

The medallion wearable makes it very simple to enter and leave the ship, open your stateroom door, get drinks and shop onboard. There are accessories you can buy to try and make it look like stylish jewelry, but it's basically an air tag, it's clunky. But that's OK. Buy air tag accessories before you go rather than buy any accessories sold on the ship, much cheaper!

The ship itself is quite pretty inside, with an 'art deco' theme for most the interior; some stained glass touches here and there, and a water feature in the atrium next to the glass elevators midship. Understated, elegant, and comfortable.

We had a cabin upgrade to balcony and that was super nice. We enjoyed sitting out on our balcony morning and evening, and on Cozumel day it was fun to sit and watch the passengers come and go, and other ships come and go as well. So relaxing to just sit in our own quiet haven and enjoy. Embarkation day there were some raucus people on their balconies, "woo woos" as Flavio would have called them. But they had their sailing away party and then they didn't make a regular habit of partying on the balcony after that. OH! and I saw dolphins one day, while out on the balcony, playing in the ships waves that were off to the side of the ship. So cool!

Duty free liquor on board was really a bargain. We did not purchase any bottles until the last sea day, and they just gave us our purchase...no checking in/later delivery of alcohol. I don't know if that was due to buying on the last day, Princess policies, because we'd bought the drink package and thus no temptation/incentive to sneak liquor, or just untrained staff. Still, kinda cool. We got some local liqueurs in Progreso and either due to getting back on ship late, or training issues with staff, there was no one at the liquor check-in desk. We *did* see them on our Cozumel day, though.

So, ship prices on liquor were nice. Or perhaps it's better to say that nothing in Cozumel or Progreso is terribly inexpensive. You're paying US prices for pretty much everything now, no deals to be found in the cruise ports. You can haggle a bit if you like but you're still gonna get rooked.

The medallion phone app is not great; the wifi reception on ship was not great for keeping it connected and up to date, so the feature where you can suposedly find your travel companions and the staff can find you for food and beverage delivery is lacking. At one point I was sitting on deck 15 and the app showed me still in our room. We ordered drinks and food through the app and it usually took hours for our orders to reach us, if they reached us at all.

You could use the app to mark that you were interested in an event but as far as I can tell, there was no 'my events' list nor 'reminders' that the events you were interested in were about to happen. I ended up keeping the paper daily schedule with me and still managed to miss events I had wanted to attend.

and sometimes (often) the app would either not open, lag considerably, or close unexpectedly.

  • Oh, yes, thats a thing I didn't like at first and then got used to: phone app. I like(d) cruises because people weren't glued to their phones and would talk and socialize and interact...now there's an app. And it's kind of disturbing how quickly and easily it became 'normal'...so normal, in fact, that I initially left it out of my review post-up. 
     
  • Formal dining was a bit of a cluster. The app supposedly would let you make reservations for as many of you and your shipmates as you selected, but it seemed most nights most of the reservation times were unavailable. And the times we got made us too late for the early shows in the theatre, and too early for the later shows, so we ended up missing a lot of entertainment.
     

Ralph Harris is one we got to see twice, one regular show and one more adult themed. Great comedy, we laughed and cried! He was awesome And then we saw him just 'off duty' on the ship a few times, just out and about. Several of the acts we saw, actually, we got to see just sitting around or having lunch or whatever. That was kind of cool.

Mysterious Duo was a string duo, pretty girls playing energetic covers of contemporary music--think "Bond" and their amazing Led Zeppelin "Kashmir" cover or the "Vitamin String Quartet" (music on Bridgerton)

Best music on the ship that we heard was Symphonee--the male and female vocalists were *amazing*...they had a lot of range and amazing 'sound alikes' to a lot of famous artists. Covers of a lot of good 80s music. We also heard them do some country covers from the 80s which was technically incredible, and somewhat nostalgic, but c&w is not really my thing.

I had best intentions of hitting all the 80's trivia, but missed most of that. John was quizzing us beforehand with songs so we were ready to dominate, but we just didn't get around to it.

Gambled a little in Gatsbys, the ship casino. Didn't win big but had fun. The Gatsby's bar had the best drinks. Unlike most ships, you didn't have to walk through Gatsby's to get from one end of the ship to the other on the floor where the casino was located, it was of to one side.

Found the ship's cigar lounge, but once again, didn't get around to sitting in there for a cigar. Dang it.

Skywalkers, the dance club at the top of the ship, was a fun late night stop before bed, just listen to some good music, dance a little, enjoy the ambiance and then go pumpkin. I ain't as young as I used to be. But I did a lot of late nights and early mornings anyway. So many glorious sunrises from the balcony, or just with the drapes open and snuggled in our *very* comfortable bed--mattress, bedding, and pillows were so SO soft and fluffy  and cozy comfy. :)

Last night of the cruise, we sat in the back of the ship near the empty Horizon Buffet and played some games. That was super fun.
We had brought our own cards and dice, but the library, though small, had a GREAT selection of games for passengers to take out and play, many copies of each game they carried, all in new or at least very good condition

The food on the buffet and in the dining room was fantastic. No complaints there. All the bread was baked daily and amazing. The service was spotty, until the last day when the staff got real friendly and helpful and reminded us to fill out our surveys and give them 10s! LOL. that's a strategy, I guess.

Our room steward was ON IT. We couldn't leave our room for 5 min without him going in and making the bed, giving us fresh towels, etc. Poor man. We are not slobs but I still felt like he was working too hard!

The ship played 80s music pretty much everywhere except the spa area. That was great. Nothing too obscure, mostly pop. I heard the Violent Femmes once, and Depeche Mode a couple of times, but it was a lot of Tiffany and Miami Sound Machine and such. And the ship had little signs and decorations everywhere reflecting the theme. Very fun.

After this short 5 day cruise, one of the crew said that the next stop for Ruby Princess is a repositioning cruise through the Panama Canal (14 days, 10 sea days!) and then they'll start an Alaska route for the summer.

We got lost a lot; the ship being so understated/elegant made it somewhat homogenous so hard to get oriented as far as front/back, and where you were as far as mid/fore/aft....so we got turned around a few times and Thax felt like he didn't see or wasn't able to find many of the places on the ship.

We got the prepaid gratuities, wi fi and drink package. Drink package included 15 drinks per day...we didn't come anywhere close to having that many but it was nice to just be able to have a drink whenever you felt like it and not worry about it.. As far as cost, I'm not sure we got our 'moneys worth' but not having to think about it was nice.

Not sure if we'll go on Princess again but it was fun to try it once.

  • Oh! Another thing I appreciated on this cruise: no clowning. The room steward did not make towel animals, the dining room staff did not sing and dance and do the napkin waving dance. I was glad they didn't have to do that in top of all the hard, real work they were expected to do.
     

The drive home was fast and the dogs were happy to see us. My brother A watched the dogs and house while we were gone and did a LOT of cleaning and dusting (we didn't expect or ask him to do that, it was a nice surprise) The un - nice surprise is that Thax's car started making a wierd noise on the drive back so we dropped it at the shop after unloading all our bags and we expect it to cost a bundle to fix. :/   But we are safe and the HarveyBug is still running like a champ, so Thax can get to work Monday, no problem.


evile: (Nightmare)
Day 1: 4/12/16
Fly from Austin TX to Houston TX
Fly from Houston TX to Belize City
Taxi from Belize City to Water Taxi station
Water Taxi to Caye Caulker
(whew!) Read more... )

Day 2: April 13
Caye Caulker
Fry Jacks, The Lazy Lizard, Conch Ceviche, Fruity umbrella drinks at the Banyan Tree, new friends (two and four legged), and fish with the heads still on. Read more... )

Day 3: April 14, 2016
Caye Caulker to San Ignacio
Water Taxi from Caye Caulker to Belize City
Bus from Belize City to Belmopan
Transfer to bus from Belmopan to San IgnacioRead more... )


Day 4: San Ignacio
Scattered Adventures with a chance of crankypantsRead more... )

Day 5: April 16, 2016
San Ignacio
The Saturday Market & meeting the Goddess Ixcacao Read more... )

Day 6: San Ignacio to Belize City
In which Mel is our hero & finds us an air conditioned, wi-fi equipped comfortable ride back to Civilization. Read more... )

Day 7: April 18, 2016
Belize City
Breakfast, post office trip, dinner with the gang
Read more... )

Last day. April 19, 2016
last minute shopping & serendipity
flying: Belize City to Houston
Houston to Austin.
Home & bed. Read more... )

It was only a week, but I feel like we were gone forever. I went new places, saw new things, did new things, ate new things, drank new things, learned new things..and now I'm forgetting most of them. So I'm glad I got pictures and I'm glad to be writing them all down here. Hope you enjoyed! I know I did.
evile: (steambug)
Got home last night from pretty much the best con I've ever been to. We had such a fine time. Met new friends, steampunks and regular folks on the street, danced and drank and goofed around, hugged and laughed and listened to music and shopped and learned to fight with canes or parasols. Learned more about tea duelling and teapot racing, just too much fun.

here are photos. & videos.

And a post from the main organizer, host, MC. Doc Phineas, a gentleman and a scholar, a wonderful human being who made each and every person feel welcome.

I am getting the most beautiful letters emails and phone messages from people tears eyed who do not want the love they...

Posted by Kenneth Kastler on Tuesday, February 2, 2016
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NOV 3, 2013

Sun Depart New Orleans 5:00 PM
Mon At Sea
Tue
Wed Montego Bay 8:00 AM 4:00 PM
Thu George Town, Grand Cayman 8:00 AM 4:00 PM
Fri Cozumel, Mexico 9:00 AM 5:00 PM
Sat At Sea
Sun Arrive New Orleans 8:00 AM

https://www.facebook.com/events/240575069405117/
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It's finally here!!!

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I'm working the ticket booth from open to 6pm Saturday, come say hi and enjoy a day in the Weird Wild West!
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Today's thought from Hazelden is:

Passion

"This week, I went scuba diving," a man told me. "Hadn't done it for years. I forgot how much doing something I love, even for one afternoon, can change my entire outlook on life."

It's easy to tell ourselves we can't have what we want and can't do what we want. And sometimes, we can't. But once in a while, even for an afternoon, it is helpful to treat yourself.

How long has it been since you did something you loved? Are you willing to be open to what excites and inspires you? If you can't do what you love, can you find passion in what you are doing? 

You are reading from the book:

52 Weeks of Conscious Contact by Melody Beattie

52 Weeks of Conscious Contact © 2003 by Melody Beattie. All rights reserved. Printed in the United States of America. No portion of this publication may be reproduced in any manner without the permission of Hazelden.


______________________________________________________

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just got done having an exchange with one of the most passive agressive people i've met in a while (pot, kettle, shush. I know. Workin on it!)

The unofficial organizer/alpha bitch/cutest geekette of the GeekCruise gang posted today about changing our cruise due to some of the ports are in countries having political unrest.

I responded with my concerns--that it had taken quite some time for the group to settle on this sailing, that some folks had already booked and paid deposits, and that she had not liked Jamaica for safety concerns, but those of us who went did fine. And if Carnival has to skip a port, we'd be likely to pick up some freebies or discounts to appease us, so win, even if we skip a port.

Her reply was 'I was not making up how dangerous Jamaica is, I'm just trying to keep people safe. Sorry for caring about peoples' safety'

So I called her on the passive agressive, and clarified that i was not calling her a liar re:Jamaica, restated my points, and asked her not to pull any more passive agressive on me because it's 'unhelpful, unfair, and unkind'

She then deleted the whole conversation and posted 'everything's shiny'

I dislike this sort of non resolution and non discussion. I dislike being characterized as someone who does not care about everyone's safety because I would not do what she wanted me to do.

I did my best to be honest and kind. It may not have been THE best thing to do, but it was MY best, and I'm not angry or ashamed of myself. I will feel sad if we end up losing her and the geek cruisers as friends over it, but I will not be angry or bitter. I will accept the consequences.

Oh well...I'm annoyed but I will not die. I like the geek cruise folks but I will not feel too bad if they all end up following PA Alpha on another sailing.



the deletery bits Read more... )

And fooey, I don't have any of mine, she deleted them and my own FB posts don't go to my gmail box.

Oh well. Probably for the best.

The FB email: Read more... )
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Old boy #1: That Obama can't make a decision worth a shit. It took him 3 months to decide what kinda dog to git.

Old boy #2: *nodnod*

Old boy #1: (in tones of utter disgust) And then he picked a POODLE.
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One of my hairdresser's coworkers is organizing a bus trip to The Texas Renaissance Festival on 11/7.

$45 for adults and $35 for kids gets you a ride from Austin to TRF and back, a ticket in to the faire, and breakfast goodies on the morning of the trip.

Her name is Victoria and her # is (512) 653 4177, email vjd3800 [at] hotmail [dot] com.

Thax & I would love some company at faire on this day. If $ is the only thing holding you back, it may be possible for me to treat you!
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[robinandcompany] Shout it from the Mountain Tops
Tuesday, September 1, 2009 8:53 AM
From: "rengypsy"

dear friends,

we want to make september 19th gathering our grandest and most well attended.Read more... )

<*> To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/robinandcompany/

http://www.sherwoodforestfaire.com/
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got this in email yesterday & passing it along:



Tell Your Friends, Tell Your Enemies! Everyone who attends the show on Sunday October 5th at the Mucky Duck in Houston, TX, will receive a FREE Wine and Alchemy Shirt!!!

The show starts at 6pm and we will be performing many new songs with a 5 piece line up. Mark will be bringing out a Sitar and Roxanne will be bringing out her new instrument, the harmonium for a couple of tunes including their new arrangement of Kashmir.

Once again, When: October 5th, 6pm

Where: The Mucky Duck located at 2425 Norfolk in Houston, TX

Tickets: $10, advanced tickets available at the Mucky Duck



We are also performing in Corpus Christi on Saturday, October 4th at 8:30pm at Yin Yang Fandango and the Tango Tea Room. Tickets $5.


If you haven't checked out our myspace page or our website, here are the links: www.wineandalchemy.com and www.myspace.com/wineandalchemy



We look forward to performing for you, -Wine and Alchemy

buh

May. 10th, 2008 01:24 pm
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I got air in my front tire that was low. I voted. I went to the Farmers Market and got some coffee & ran into Sir M. but nobody else I recognized. Tried to go to my friend Pat's birthday, but my Google-fu was weak and the directions went bad after I turned off the paved road, so to speak. Lost in Buda is no way to spend a Saturday afternoon. I was hungry and headache-y, so I came back home. Cleaned house a bit for tomorrow's brunch, and now here I am tooling 'round the Internet.

The Magic of Joule shows that [livejournal.com profile] sineater unfriended my ex today.

I'd bet that an attempt was made to suck T. into the "E's Tale of Perfidy" Drama, and T. either ignored or told Skye where to stick it (he was none to patient with her, even when we were together & I asked him to for the sake of family peace), thus leading to the unfriending.

Strangely, I trust my ex not to get involved, no matter what crazy spin anyone tries to put on things. He flat out doesn't give a shit, and that comforts me greatly now.
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    Sep. 25, 2005

     

    http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20050925/ap_on_re_us/katrina_childless_city_hk2

    Big Easy to Be Childless City for Months

    By DAVID CRARY, AP National Writer 53 minutes ago

    NEW ORLEANS - Even after the latest hurricane crisis eases, and
    downtown businesses along with French Quarter topless bars reopen,
    life in New Orleans will be far from normal. Among the somber
    distinctions: For months to come this will be an almost childless city.
    ADVERTISEMENT

    Dozens of schools were irreparably damaged by Hurricane Katrina, and
    only a handful are expected to open before January. Few day-care
    centers will be available for preschoolers, and health experts warn
    that children are at extra risk of contamination if they come back
    before the city is thoroughly cleaned of the foul floodwater's residue.

    "It's a big concern of ours," said the Rev. William Maestri,
    superintendent of the city's Roman Catholic schools. "We want our
    families back."

    Until they do return, a whole sector of the economy will be in limbo —
    not only child care workers and teachers, but also pediatricians,
    owners of child-oriented stores and others. Numerous New Orleans
    teachers, faced with payroll problems and no work in their home city,
    are getting hired elsewhere.

    By the tens of thousands, New Orleans' children are scattered around
    the United States, enrolling in schools, making new friends or — in
    some cases — getting into fights with the local students. Many of
    their parents want to return home when conditions allow, but many
    others say they may settle in their new locations, almost certainly
    producing a significant drop in New Orleans' population of children.

    Arthur Johnson, a lifetime New Orleans resident, said one of his adult
    daughters evacuated and placed her four children in Texas public
    schools, where they were faring better than in their hometown school.

    "We have bad schools here," he said. "We've been knowing that for years."

    But Michelle Bailey, a hospital worker who evacuated with her three
    children to Houston, said she wanted to bring her family back to New
    Orleans.

    "My kids can't go to school now," she said. "Last week they went and a
    big fight broke out."

    New Orleans officials hope to open a few schools Nov. 1 on the
    West Bank, a section of the city relatively unscathed by Katrina. But
    the school board president, Torin Sanders, said a broader reopening in
    the main part of the city probably wouldn't occur until January — and
    even that would involve only a limited number of the 126 public schools.

    The plan, he indicated, would be to open certain schools that suffered
    little damage, accommodating returning students even if they lived in
    other neighborhoods.

    Sanders said the widely criticized school system, which served 60,000
    students, could benefit in the long term.

    "We are poised to take advantage of this, to make our schools the best
    in the country," he said, "Most of our buildings were built before
    World War II. This is an opportunity to make them environmentally
    sound, with new technology and better security, with more specialized
    programs in the high schools."

    Sandra Adams, executive director of Louisiana Maternal Child and
    Health Coalition, said it was possible that the public schools
    wouldn't be fully operational until the fall of 2006.

    "It's going to be a city without children for some months," she said.
    "Some people say the only way to fix the New Orleans school system is
    to start from scratch, and I think we're at scratch today."

    The Catholic school system, under Maestri's direction, operates 22
    schools in the city serving 20,000 children.

    "We want to assess those schools, find out what the needs are and see
    how quickly we can open them," Maestri said. "We believe the schools
    are the magnets of hope, the institutions that draw families back."

    Along with uncertainty about education, many parents are likely to
    wonder if their children face health risks upon returning to a city
    where the water supply was tainted and almost every neighborhood —
    including school yards and playgrounds — coated with bacteria-fouled
    floodwater.

    "Kids are more susceptible to toxins, bacterial contamination," said
    Dr. Keith Perrin, president of the Louisiana chapter of the American
    Academy of Pediatrics. "They absorb things differently than adults.
    They're more prone to putting things into their mouths."

    Any child returning in the near future should receive a tetanus shot,
    Perrin said, although he noted that local vaccine supplies had been
    depleted by heat damage when cooling units failed during the flood.

    Local pediatricians are likely to lose many of their young patients,
    at least for the next few months, but Perrin predicted that most would
    do fine serving children from suburbs where schools are expected to
    reopen soon.

    Police Detective K.M. Johnson said he hoped and expected that his
    grown children would return with his four grandchildren as soon as
    schools reopen.

    "Nobody's running away," he said. "It's a little setback, that's all."

    For some tourists, the idea of a child-free New Orleans might seem
    almost appropriate, given that visitors are lured by gambling,
    business conventions and the French Quarter's late-night drinking and
    naughtiness. Locals don't see their city that way.

    "A lot of people think of Bourbon Street, Mardi Gras — things that are
    very adult-oriented," said Sanders, the school board president. "But
    New Orleans is a very family-friendly place. People from here know that."

evile: (clutter)

    Jul. 18, 2005

     

     

    we went here back when we were all in the big house, when I was in HS.
    There's a photo somewhere of Ricky serving a volleyball here. *sigh*

    I'd love to go back.

    http://www.foxfirecabins.com/

    I'm feeling hermity, but also just really wanting to be held. :(

    I noticed I was not really present in my body when I hugged/kissed
    Patrick & April goodbye, or when I hugged Hojo bye. :(

evile: (declutter)

    Jun. 9, 2005

     

     

    I have so much to do at home, I think I'll be skipping poly dinner
    tonight so I can get it all done. Being out sick Tuesday really put
    me behind my game. And then we're seeing Ms. Cho on Friday. It will
    be awesome, but I won't have time to get anything done Friday, more
    than likely. So it's tonight or bust, really. There's a ton of stuff
    that I'm just going to say 'fuck it' and not do. It would be *really
    nice* to come home to clean dishes, clean house, etc, but that's just
    not going to get done before I leave, and gods know Tom's not gonna
    do it. But I get home late Tuesday, so I *must* have laundry done and
    clothes ready to wear for work on Wednesday.

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