My aunt L. went to Jamaica to volunteer at an orphanage school or a school for indigent children or something like that.
I was talking with someone about how this year is my Saturn Return
This song was in my head when I woke up
However. The name of the narcissist’s game is Manipulation. They will use anything and everything they can in order to Use, Abuse, Confuse, and Lose their targets, be that religion, philosophy, politics, gender roles, astrology, tarot, pop psychology, or whatever they just read in a book, saw on TV, or heard on the radio. Anything and everything can be a building block for the narcissist’s arsenal.
Therefore, if the TARGET believes in astrology, the narc will use that belief against them.
It may start in the first days of the narc stalking new supply by the narc learning their target has some magical/mystical beliefs or is curious about the occult. The narc will then do some rudimentary research to learn buzzwords and talking points related to that interest. They’ll say things like “Oh, you’re a Virgo and I’m a Scorpio, we were meant to be! We have an electric Twin Flame connection through our birth signs!” etc. They may even download software to ‘cast’ their and their target’s horoscopes to appear to be an expert in the field of astrology.
Later on, they may use astrology as an excuse for bad behavior, or as a way to gaslight their target. “Virgos always overreact,” or “Mercury Retrograde made me lose my temper that day,” or what-have-you.
Let me be clear: they will not use astrology per se, because it is nonsense— a pseudoscience at best. They will use their target’s BELIEF in astrology. Just as they will use their target’s belief in a religious faith that expects spouses to stay together ’til death do us part’ or spiritual beliefs that dictate one spouse to be ‘head of the household’ and the other spouse to be faithful, silent, obedient, etc.
Narcissists believe in nothing, they just pick and choose among various beliefs for best ways to trap, control and exploit their victims.
It sounds like you are really hooked into this person and looking to rationalize a decision to stay even though you are not being treated well.
Please don’t do this to yourself. It does not matter if someone is mistreating you because they are mentally ill, because they are a jerk, because their shoes are too tight, or because their rising sign is in Uranus….the fact of the matter is that you are being mistreated, and you do not deserve to be treated badly by anyone, ever.
I strongly advise you to receive counseling—speak with a caring professional of your own choosing, be that a clergy person, a psychologist, licensed professional counselor, or psychic astrologer, to work on YOU. If you can work through whatever issues that cause you to tolerate mistreatment, train yourself in assertiveness skills, work on your own self-esteem, and establish your own set of values and goals in life, you will go a long way towards not allowing yourself to be treated badly by Aquarians or anyone else.
No. [1]
Narcissism is either an organic brain defect from birth, a genetic abnormality or brought about by childhood trauma which causes a person’s emotional development to remain stunted such that they do not develop adult emotional responses.
Astrology is not scientific[2] Any coincidence between the pattern of stars and planets at ones birth and ones personality is strictly happenstance.
Mixing the science of psychology and the pseudo-science of astrology is a poor practice which muddles understanding.
Footnotes
It's not difficult to see the link
between true intimacy
and an expanded consciousness.
A little more obscure
when we consider
ethics and finance,
taxes, wills and legacies.
You have allowed yourself
to become connected
(some would call it enmeshed0
to individuals
whom you respect and need
and at the same time
are secretly wary of.
Trust would come easier
if some people
we could mention
werent so withholding
and were more open
to full disclosure.
But they aren't.
from the November eclipse
Five things you can do right now
1.Get out of your own head.
2. Stop acting single if you're not.
(If you are, be true to companion.)
3.Show appreciation to the one who bugs you.
4..Listen to good advice.
5.
Read "Made In Heaven".
for a deeper explanation
of your five thngs,
click nere
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GEMINI/ GEMINI RISING
25 november
You are only half available
in any relationshiplable
right now
and dont even try to blame it on
the fact that you're a Gemini.
You're just not totally present
phsyically or otherwise.
You claim you're
very busy
(it's true, you are).
you say your health regime
demands attentiont
(true, it does).
The reality is,
sixth house issues
keep you
needing space
and
unable to be emotionally present
for any relationship
24/7.
Is it just a good excuse?
Only your shrink knows
for sure.
from the november eclipse
1.Limit fantasy time.
2.Forget short cuts. Do the work.
3. Stay off the hard stuff and all crap food.
4.See job as good luck.
5.Strive for purity in service.
It's not really about the money.
It's more an issue of
having the freedom to fly,
and no matter how you shake it,
the ethics surrounding
the political aspect of dealing
on a large financial level
with the Big Kids,
is becoming
both
more attractive,
and
strictly abhorrent.
Alliances you still believe in
are drawing you deeper into
a group goal,
with a promise of Utopian bliss
on both sides.
It's impossible to tell if
this is a aviable vision
or simply wishful thinking
and dangerous naivete.
Somehow there need to be
a sane and healthy balance,
between
a Higher Comminity Effort
that will benefit everybody
and
just a dream.
Go into your ML messages and reread
the Neptune in Pisces for
Taurus.
If you don't have it, get it here .
keyword: fiendship
also from last week 1.Get out of your own head.
2. Stop acting single if you're not.
(If you are, be true to companion.)
3.WHole appreciation to the one who bugs you.
4..Listen to good advice.
5.Read "Made In Heaven".
for a deeper explanation
of your five thngs,
click nere
.
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GEMINI/ GEMINI RISING
Although it is wholly practical
and definitely appropriate
to think about
wills and legacies,
who gets what, when and especially
IF.....
you don't want to
start thinking in vulture terms
even before such issues
become manifest.
There are debts to be paid, however,
so you cna't avoid
thinking about and talking about
REALITY,
that old pain in the butt.
Above it all,
you have a vision.
It's a dream
of a contribution you would like to make
and a way you would like to be
known and remembered.
That takes
a lot lot lot lot lot
of dedication and patience,
not to mention faith.Go into your ML messages and reread
the Neptune in Pisces for
Gemini.
If you don't have it, get it here .
keyword achievement
also from last week 1.Limit fantasy time.
2.Forget magic short cuts. Do the work.
3. Stay off the hard stuff and all crap food.
4.See job as good luck.
5.Strive for purity in service.
Feng Shui your life and make a commitment to simplifying messy situations,
which by the way cannot be avoided right now.
This Lunation is in opposition to Chiron and Neptune. So Virgos, obviously someone has disappointed you. Come to think of it, you don't have to be a Virgo to be disappoitned by people right now, mainly because here's the weird image for the month for a lot of people (and for Virgos the next few years!)
I am safe. I am well. I am a blessed child of the Universe. I will prevail. I love all beings. I am comforted. My faith in life will carry me through.
OR
Oh, shit. Why bother to take a shower? I'll only get dirty again.
monday 18 february
AMAZING NEWS!!
GUESS WHAT! Now that Saturn has begun to move backwards and you
have seen just how low you cna feel about yourself--worthless, weak,
helpless, paralyzed, focused on every stupid mistake youv'e ever made
that led you to this loser place,
well, If you don't like where you're at
DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.
Take your time
Recovery is likely to be slow
and dont get all ridiculous and grandiose.
Do not rush it or cut corners.
Remember this, however.
(The person who feels half-dead
in business or love and family life,
health or career, spiritually or emotionally)
IS ALSO HALF ALIVE.

WHY NOT WORK ON THAT HALF.