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Oct. 18th, 2004 09:42 amevilE
Oct. 18, 2004
evile: oh, hey! How was your weekend?
SkyeDS: we had a good time despite many setbacks
SkyeDS: engine trouble, getting lost, ticket for something I didn't
do on t he way home
SkyeDS: that makes two undeserved tickets and twice I've been hit, in
seven days.
evile: weather was super for being outside & camping.
SkyeDS: but the boys kicked ass.
SkyeDS: and we got our first pics of the girls in their new barding,
in front of a stone castle, very cool
evile: good for them!
evile: can't wait to see photos :)
SkyeDS: will definitely have time to upload them this weekend, and
put up fence too, since Morconor is cancelled. Matter of fact, can
do work day Saturday and then go to Drandmir Sunday
evile: *nod* sounds like a good plan to me.
evile: I am hoping they put up pictures from Extravagasm II
somewhere...the photographer got a great photo of e. & our new
friend Brian.
SkyeDS: :)
evile: I wasn't nearly interesting or pretty enough to get asked for
a photo :( Oh well.
SkyeDS: I don't like having my picture taken.
evile: They didn't ask Rio for her picture, either, and she looked
great, so maybe I won't take it personally.
evile: I don't really, either, but I wanted my makeup job to be
better documented than it was.
SkyeDS: :|
evile: Oh well.
evile: Our new friend is an artist, so maybe I can talk him into
getting some real photos done.
SkyeDS: every once in a while I wonder if glamour shots are worth it
evile: [Aunt L] got all excited about that a few years ago and managed to
rope [sister H] into going. The pictures were not at all '[sister H]' but they
were gorgeous.
SkyeDS: lots of shinies and pretties :)
evile: My thought on me getting glamor shots is that you can't make a
silk purse out of a sow's ear--I'm fat and pictures add 10 pounds, so
nothing to be done about that.
SkyeDS: (that you wore to extravagasm)
evile: Yeah. I had fun shopping.
evile: the turquoise-colored bindi-thingys over my eyebrows didn't
come out at all in the photo, but were striking in RL
SkyeDS: I haven't had a chance to wear the pretty new bindis I got
with my salwar kameez sets
SkyeDS: I find that they don't like sweat (so no riding them while
I"m wearing, and p ointless under a khafiya anyway)
SkyeDS: um
SkyeDS: that should be wearing them while I"m riding
evile: heh. I got it.
evile: I got some really excellent spirit gum at the Bazaar that kept
mine on all night.
SkyeDS: it's a good thing I took the khafiya off for the drive home
evile: I swear by Ben Nye *anything*--I set my eye makeup with Ben
Nye transparent powder at 8 p.m.and it was still flawless at 3 a.m.
SkyeDS: I had the misfortune to meet my first rude state trooper, who
obviously was gunning for the way I was dressed, and if I had had the
bedouin headdress on....
evile: That sucks.
evile: there was a fatal stabbing at TRF this weekend, btw. Uranus-
Pluto are hangin out right now, I think.
evile: or maybe it's Mars & Pluto. Something bad.
SkyeDS: nods. probably for the last week or so.
evile: 'hide under the bed' kinda bad.
evile: I had a friend who was scheduled for a surgical abortion on
Friday, who miscarried Thursday afternoon & spent the weekend all
icked out from that. :(
SkyeDS: definitely something contagious in the air.
evile: yup. *sigh*
evile: Hopefully we're done with bad stuff for awhile.
SkyeDS: I hope so
SkyeDS: damage to two places on my truck that I can't pursue having
fixed because it will damage my insurance rating even though it
wasn't my fault
SkyeDS: and two tickets I have to set for court (one 200 miles from
home)
evile: yuck.
SkyeDS: miscarriages and stabbings - even worse
evile: Pretty ick.
SkyeDS: really do like that maya angelou that onyxlynxx posted.
evile: *nod* I enjoy maya angelou's work.
SkyeDS: man am I sleepy
evile: I bet!
evile: They are installing new printers at work, didn't tell
anyone...eventually we figured out on our own "hey, don't print!".
ugh.
evile: Random geeks underfoot--I have no idea what the fuck they're
doing, other than getting in my way. Oh, I can't do half my job
because of their work? Okay thanks for letting me know.
evile: *growl*
evile: had something I intended to just send to Karen go to the
entire poly list. oops. I'm glad I wasn't being as snarky as I'd
originally felt like being... bad enough as is. *sigh*
SkyeDS: <hugs>
evile: Oh well. at least the person I was snarking isn't a regular at
dinners, even though she's a fairly frequent poster on the yahoo
group.
SkyeDS: stupid puter had to reboot
evile: yuck. hassle!
evile: terrifying. I got up to get paper, and when I got back there
was a geek at my 'puter!!!
evile: He couldn't find 'my computer'..it's an icon on the fricken
desktop. Who hired these people?!?
SkyeDS: ROFL
evile: *deep calming breaths*
SkyeDS: am so glad Hugh isn't here today. I need to vege.
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evilE
Oct. 18, 2004
evile: he just came back..may go afk unexpectedly until they get this
figured out....
SkyeDS: k
evile: break time. Maybe they will break, too.
evile: at least the people who actually work here, as opposed to
these contractor people, ASK before they sit down at your desk.
SkyeDS: nods
evile: Oh well. Monday's more than halfway over, tha'ts the good news.
SkyeDS: well yeah
SkyeDS: except I have to go home, change clothes, trailer back up,
take the girls to the park for a riding lesson
SkyeDS: which means I"ll miss the populace meeting (oh well)
evile: wow, long day for you!
SkyeDS: the screen house arrived today but not the helmets
evile: bummer.
SkyeDS: was hoping htey'd be here so I could take them to Randy and
let him put in chin straps but oh well
evile: *nod*
evile: turns out they were trying to hook our computers up to
printers that haven't been hooked up yet. hm.
SkyeDS: smooth move, exlax
evile: miscommunication. What a giant waste of everyone's time.
evile: I hadn't thought to look up my 'magical' name, I like its
meaning better than my real one :)
SkyeDS: I find that each of mine partially apply
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: I dabble in numerology from time to time
evile: I liked the qualities o fmy RL middle name better than my
first name.
SkyeDS: I didn't do my middle
evile: Lynn
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A cascade
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Name Origin: English
Number of Syllables: 1.00
Gender: Unisex
More interesting facts about the name Lynn:
Lucky Number: 2
Ruling Planet: The Moon
Element: Water
Primary Color: Orange
Traits: Sensitive, domestic. Tends to be emotional and easily
influenced to tears. Has a fertile imagination. Very fond of the
home. Patriotic. Accepts changes in surroundings. Prefers to live
near the water. Often possesses musical talents and would make a very
good psychic.
SkyeDS: that does sound accurate
evile: better than: Inclined to be cold and pessimistic. Not much
sense of humor.
Often slow getting off the mark but usually ends up ahead of the
game. Successful, especially where money is concerned. Frequently
connected with mining, real estate and the law. Also with cemeteries
and pawnshops. Believes that hard work never killed anyone. Often
prepossessed with thoughts of the past.
evile: I'll admit it's accurate, but not flattering.
SkyeDS: nods. same as sineater's was (well, d uh)
evile: :nod
evile: so what is your opinion on this hypothetical situation:
evile: Married couple, unemployed. Living with one spouse's parents.
Female spouse has a baby, and parents deliver an ultimatum when the
infant is less than a month old: Both spouses and infant must go to
religious services while they are living under parents' roof.
SkyeDS: if parents want to preserve relationship, parents will back
down
SkyeDS: regardless of their right to make such a demand
evile: The sticking point seems to be that they want the child to be
free to choose its own religion and are worried that this early
exposure will somehow effect the relationship.
SkyeDS: tenuous argument
evile: I really don't think much of anything done or said around an
infant makes much impact, barring polluttion or poor nutrition,
things like that.
SkyeDS: many children are brought up in one religion and switch
anyway when they feel old enough
evile: In that situation, I probably would just say 'when in rome'
and not worry about it.
evile: Take the kid to church, let it squall it's little guts out and
disrupt the service for everyone, work on finding jobs & another
place to live in the meantime
SkyeDS: exactly
evile: not worth alienating the inlaws over.
evile: Now, if when the child is 6 or something they start demanding
that the kid go to bible school, that's another story. But at this
point, it's not really an issue, IMHO.
SkyeDS: if they're still there when kid is 6
SkyeDS: they've got major problems beyond religious training anyway
evile: Have learned from many bad experiences not to tell people how
to raise their kids and/or deal with their inlaws, however. I just
thought it was silly to get all bent out of shape because your
parents demand you waste an hour a week doing tedious BS.
evile: EXACTLY!
SkyeDS: Laura and Linda do a good job living with their children
SkyeDS: but they don't lay down stupid law like that
SkyeDS: they raised their kids to be independent and allow them to be
even under the same roof
SkyeDS: most times, you can't have two families under one roof
SkyeDS: the women squabble for dominance
evile: Well, these people seem to be drama-junkie twits, IMHO...but
they are frends of friend, so I' not going to say nothin to anybody
SkyeDS: <lived with my first Monsterinlaw Dearest for the first half
of my f irst marriage
evile: wow.
evile: Sweetie and I would not have lasted a year if we'd had to live
with Dot.
SkyeDS: I think parents are within their rights
SkyeDS: but shouldn't make the demands anyway, too combative and
alienating
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: anyway, have been there and done that, so I don't envy them.
And wish them the best of luck.
evile: *nod* It's just a matter of picking your battles, and for now
putting a roof over the baby's head is more important than any
spiritual practice. IMHO, but then again I'm not a parent & have no
right to tell people how to raise thier kids.
SkyeDS: I have no problems attending and even participating in Mass
with Joanie
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: if twere to give it thought
SkyeDS: refusing to go would seem to show the belief that the
religion is powerful
SkyeDS: or a threat to their own beliefs
SkyeDS: not making sense. sigh.
evile: I do see where you're going.
SkyeDS: time for you to go home
evile: yup. I'll talk at ya manyana. be careful driving home--icky
weather, I hear!
evile: *hugs*
evile: he just came back..may go afk unexpectedly until they get this
figured out....
SkyeDS: k
evile: break time. Maybe they will break, too.
evile: at least the people who actually work here, as opposed to
these contractor people, ASK before they sit down at your desk.
SkyeDS: nods
evile: Oh well. Monday's more than halfway over, tha'ts the good news.
SkyeDS: well yeah
SkyeDS: except I have to go home, change clothes, trailer back up,
take the girls to the park for a riding lesson
SkyeDS: which means I"ll miss the populace meeting (oh well)
evile: wow, long day for you!
SkyeDS: the screen house arrived today but not the helmets
evile: bummer.
SkyeDS: was hoping htey'd be here so I could take them to Randy and
let him put in chin straps but oh well
evile: *nod*
evile: turns out they were trying to hook our computers up to
printers that haven't been hooked up yet. hm.
SkyeDS: smooth move, exlax
evile: miscommunication. What a giant waste of everyone's time.
evile: I hadn't thought to look up my 'magical' name, I like its
meaning better than my real one :)
SkyeDS: I find that each of mine partially apply
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: I dabble in numerology from time to time
evile: I liked the qualities o fmy RL middle name better than my
first name.
SkyeDS: I didn't do my middle
evile: Lynn
---------
A cascade
----------------------
Name Origin: English
Number of Syllables: 1.00
Gender: Unisex
More interesting facts about the name Lynn:
Lucky Number: 2
Ruling Planet: The Moon
Element: Water
Primary Color: Orange
Traits: Sensitive, domestic. Tends to be emotional and easily
influenced to tears. Has a fertile imagination. Very fond of the
home. Patriotic. Accepts changes in surroundings. Prefers to live
near the water. Often possesses musical talents and would make a very
good psychic.
SkyeDS: that does sound accurate
evile: better than: Inclined to be cold and pessimistic. Not much
sense of humor.
Often slow getting off the mark but usually ends up ahead of the
game. Successful, especially where money is concerned. Frequently
connected with mining, real estate and the law. Also with cemeteries
and pawnshops. Believes that hard work never killed anyone. Often
prepossessed with thoughts of the past.
evile: I'll admit it's accurate, but not flattering.
SkyeDS: nods. same as sineater's was (well, d uh)
evile: :nod
evile: so what is your opinion on this hypothetical situation:
evile: Married couple, unemployed. Living with one spouse's parents.
Female spouse has a baby, and parents deliver an ultimatum when the
infant is less than a month old: Both spouses and infant must go to
religious services while they are living under parents' roof.
SkyeDS: if parents want to preserve relationship, parents will back
down
SkyeDS: regardless of their right to make such a demand
evile: The sticking point seems to be that they want the child to be
free to choose its own religion and are worried that this early
exposure will somehow effect the relationship.
SkyeDS: tenuous argument
evile: I really don't think much of anything done or said around an
infant makes much impact, barring polluttion or poor nutrition,
things like that.
SkyeDS: many children are brought up in one religion and switch
anyway when they feel old enough
evile: In that situation, I probably would just say 'when in rome'
and not worry about it.
evile: Take the kid to church, let it squall it's little guts out and
disrupt the service for everyone, work on finding jobs & another
place to live in the meantime
SkyeDS: exactly
evile: not worth alienating the inlaws over.
evile: Now, if when the child is 6 or something they start demanding
that the kid go to bible school, that's another story. But at this
point, it's not really an issue, IMHO.
SkyeDS: if they're still there when kid is 6
SkyeDS: they've got major problems beyond religious training anyway
evile: Have learned from many bad experiences not to tell people how
to raise their kids and/or deal with their inlaws, however. I just
thought it was silly to get all bent out of shape because your
parents demand you waste an hour a week doing tedious BS.
evile: EXACTLY!
SkyeDS: Laura and Linda do a good job living with their children
SkyeDS: but they don't lay down stupid law like that
SkyeDS: they raised their kids to be independent and allow them to be
even under the same roof
SkyeDS: most times, you can't have two families under one roof
SkyeDS: the women squabble for dominance
evile: Well, these people seem to be drama-junkie twits, IMHO...but
they are frends of friend, so I' not going to say nothin to anybody
SkyeDS: <lived with my first Monsterinlaw Dearest for the first half
of my f irst marriage
evile: wow.
evile: Sweetie and I would not have lasted a year if we'd had to live
with Dot.
SkyeDS: I think parents are within their rights
SkyeDS: but shouldn't make the demands anyway, too combative and
alienating
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: anyway, have been there and done that, so I don't envy them.
And wish them the best of luck.
evile: *nod* It's just a matter of picking your battles, and for now
putting a roof over the baby's head is more important than any
spiritual practice. IMHO, but then again I'm not a parent & have no
right to tell people how to raise thier kids.
SkyeDS: I have no problems attending and even participating in Mass
with Joanie
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: if twere to give it thought
SkyeDS: refusing to go would seem to show the belief that the
religion is powerful
SkyeDS: or a threat to their own beliefs
SkyeDS: not making sense. sigh.
evile: I do see where you're going.
SkyeDS: time for you to go home
evile: yup. I'll talk at ya manyana. be careful driving home--icky
weather, I hear!
evile: *hugs*
skyeDS: wind to your wings :)
