Jan. 14th, 2005

evile: (clutter)

    Jan. 14, 2005

     

     

    The surgery yesterday went well, Sineater recovered well and his hand
    wasn't giving him too much pain. I expected him to be sleepy once
    we'd filled his prescriptions, gotten him home, fed, and dosed up,
    but he stayed up & we talked & watched The Big Lebowski. I really
    didn't like it the first time I saw it, but the 2nd time was much
    funnier.

    He called UB and let her know how it went, and that was all we heard
    from her. I'm relieved. I think it was mostly that she was too busy
    at work to pester, rather than any concern for his rest & health, but
    I'm grateful for it, whatever the motivations.

    I also ended up going to poly dinner, which was really nice. Several
    people asked about Sineater's health & that was good to hear. My friends
    Savanni & Terriblelynne brought some really fantastic chocolate which they
    shared around, and that was lovely. They're really a nice bunch of
    folks.

    I have Yoga tomorrow a.m. with e., then possibly a womens' BDSM
    group social and then the GWNN play party is Saturday night. No plans
    for Sunday (probably dishes & laundry) and then Monday, Aunt L and I
    are going to breakfast & then shopping :) I love 3 day weekends!

evile: (clutter)
 

 

2828me & J-Law

 

    Jan. 14, 2005

     

     

    evilE  wrote:
    The forecast is sunny but cold all weekend. We'll see
    what actually happens.

    yowch...that's a ton of $. But it sounds like you've
    got a handle on it. The fact that the dentist is so
    competent makes it easier to think about spending that
    kind of $.

    I'm glad work is calming down. I have such apathy
    today...it's kind of sad. the good news is that her
    boyfriend is here today so loser-woman is happy today
    & not biting peoples heads off.

    Very sad/sick chat with UB today. Seems that her idea
    of tending the sick is 'getting them back' for being
    'mean' to her when she was sick (making her take
    medicine and stay off the horses, etc.)
    ==================================================


    From: J-Law
    Subject: Re: TGIF!
    To: E

    Yuck. Yuck yuck yuck. She is absolutely frightening sometimes. I
    did enjoy that bit about how she didn't clean herself for three
    weeks, though. Vile, and so very "her."

    I am very proud of you. It would have taken all of my energy,
    effort, etc. not to say, "you might have had better luck wiping
    yourself, even with an injury, if you weren't so fat."

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2829Re: me & J-Law

     

    Jan. 14, 2005

     

     

    evilE  wrote:

    *laff* I am sure she had Sineater and/or sonar0m cleaning
    her nether parts while she couldn't reach 'em. But
    yeah, it does read as if she just wallowed in her own
    filth for almost a month. Now there's a pretty
    mental picture....and I think she told the story of not
    being able to wipe herself over dinner at some family
    gathering or another. ew.

    Anyhoo...I do much better chatting with her online
    than in RL. I had a hard time seeing her even for a
    couple minutes at the clinic yesterday a.m. and then
    again when she came & picked him up after work. When
    someone is words on a screen, its easier to deal
    with them. *sigh*

    Supposedly his temp agency is sending him to new
    hampshire for 4 weeks in February...that should be
    interesting.
    ===============
    --- J-Law wrote:

    Sounds like a two-man job to me, so you can leave
    out the "or." ;)

    "You hold the cheeks, I'll get the toilet brush."

    That was revolting, but I couldn't resist. I can
    totally see her regaling her dinner companions with
    such a story. Vile.

    I can see how she would be much more tolerable on
    screen than in rl....

    =========
    evilE  wrote:
    OMG! That is hilarious...but completely foul. You and
    Sweetie should get together sometime :P

    *shudder*

    38 minutes until the 3 day weekend! EEEEE!
    ---------------------------

    Date: Fri, 14 Jan 2005 13:52:27 -0800 (PST)
    From: "J_law
    Subject: Re: TGIF!
    To: "evilE 


    Yep, that's why I like your Sweetie so much. :)

    Have a fabulous weekend!

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evile: (clutter)
 

 

    Jan. 14, 2005

     

     

    evile: TGIF!
    SkyeDS: ya
    SkyeDS: pretty day.
    evile: yup
    evile: the weekend forecast looks good, too.
    evile: Maybe I'll finally make it out to Drandmir on Sunday
    SkyeDS: if we go to Waco Saturday I don't know about Drandmir on
    Sunday
    SkyeDS: probably one or the other, but not both
    evile: *nod*
    evile: Is Sineater still feeling up to a trip?
    SkyeDS: so he says.
    evile: cool. I was really surprised how quickly everything went.
    SkyeDS: he's too set on doing things that require two hands. Without
    asking one of us to do for him.
    evile: *nod* I hope he will eventually adapt and/or learn when to
    ask for help.
    SkyeDS: it isn't looking like it so far
    evile: he's always been proud & stubborn though
    SkyeDS: so I'm going to have to keep kicking sonar0m all day. Because
    if Sineater tells M that he's okay, M will just leave him alone until he
    says something
    SkyeDS: which won't happen
    evile: heh.
    SkyeDS: maybe it won't be too deplorable. sonar0m already stopped him
    from trying to open a pepto bottle by himself.
    evile: good
    SkyeDS: everyone is already aware of what he should and shouldn't be
    doing, so he will have a plethora of guardian angels tomorrow keeping
    a watchful eye.
    evile: *nod* that's good.
    SkyeDS: Jan of 03, when I had that lower back/hip injury that may
    well have been a break, who knows, I couldn't even wipe myself for
    three weeks. humiliating.
    SkyeDS: so when I did manage to clean myself for the first time in 3
    weeks, I decided I could ride again. bareback in the yard for just a
    few minutes.
    SkyeDS: sonar0m refused to help me, said he wasn't going to even
    watch, and went in the house. And proceeded to the window, to watch.
    evile: *shrug* hard to watch people you care about doing things that
    are likely to hurt them.
    SkyeDS: Mirage took her usual great care with me on account of my
    being a damn fool idiot. And t hen I spent a great deal of time
    trying to figure out how to get down.
    SkyeDS: Sineater comes home, wants to know what I'm doing, and I said,
    I'm trying to get down.
    evile: oops.
    SkyeDS: well, you aren't moving.
    SkyeDS: that notwithstanding, I'm still trying to get down.
    SkyeDS: so he goes in the house, and asks sonar0m why he didn't stop
    me.
    SkyeDS: and sonar0m said, could you have stopped her?
    SkyeDS: well, no.
    SkyeDS: so I'm supposed to stop her how?
    SkyeDS: I remember the first time Mom got so sick I had to take care
    of her, rather than the other way around, and I took great pleasure
    in dosing her with hideous green cough syrup
    evile: it's difficult to watch someone you care about doing harmful
    things...but there ya go....if the person is a sane adult, how can
    you stop them.
    evile: My mom always just wanted to be left alone to sleep when she
    was sick, thankfully. My bedside manner is pretty lousy.
    SkyeDS: it's the shoe on the other foot thing
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: I'm usually the one being ridden herd on because of an injury
    SkyeDS: now I get to ride herd.
    evile: *nod*
    evile: I love my launchcast--just heard a wonderful cover of "No time
    to cry" that I never would have found on my own.
    SkyeDS: no launchcast for me today, Hugh has the laptop (only machine
    w soundcard i n)
    evile: oh well.
    evile: savanni & Terriblelynne brought the best chocolate to dinner last
    night. I am now trying to find out where T got hers. It was dark
    chocolate infused with cinnamon and hot peppers
    SkyeDS: yum (like mole)
    evile: very yum.
    SkyeDS: I think I like mole and tso for the same reason.
    ginger/pepper and chocolate/pepper
    evile: savanni's was 70% bittersweet, a brand I've seen at CM and Whole
    Foods, but can't think of it right at the moment...small bars, white
    wrapper with black script.
    evile: Dagoba chocolate has some interesting candy bars (pricey but
    totally worth it), and their chile chocolate is not bad. But no
    cinnamon. The cinnamon really made it perfect.
    SkyeDS: cinnamon has healing properties too
    evile: *nod*
    evile: I keep trying to remember to add 1/2 tsp to my breakfast
    cereal...
    evile: I'm sort of cobbling together my own plan, from this &
    that...so far I've got my breakfast routine down & am doing OK at
    getting at least 15 minutes worth of exercise daily.
    SkyeDS: my intention soon to start on at least the supplemental part
    of fat flush - the lemon juice, cranberry juice, evening primrose
    oil, etc
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: and cortisol lowering stuff, which I know from research here
    is effective.
    evile: yup. I found some really nice Ocean Spray juice--it's
    cranberry &mixed berry. Not as sour as plain cranberry, and the
    berries are antioxidants (blueberry, blackberry, esp.)
    evile: Debbie and Joe are going to be at the GWNN party tomorow :)
    That's going to be so awesome!
    SkyeDS: they are delightful peoples
    evile: *nodnod*
    SkyeDS: I spent some time with her at the pub in Killeen
    evile: *nod*
    evile: Aunt L is searching ebay for buses again.
    SkyeDS: worked for a lawyer once spent 670K buying one of those
    private luxury buses.
    evile: she always asks me what I think....I dont' know shit about
    cars, I don't think she ought to buy a used one, and she's always
    finding ones that are off in Michigan or some other crazy BFE place,
    so I never really know what to say
    SkyeDS: if she were a mechanic she'd stand a better chance
    SkyeDS: I bought used twice from the Dodge place because they give a
    free lemonbusters.
    evile: I definitely think things like that should not be bought sight
    unseen...
    SkyeDS: there is no way I'd buy a used vehicle unless I'd done my
    research in the Consumers Reports and other places on that year and
    model, etc, first, and without being armed with my 10 tests, and a
    lemonbusters report
    evile: yup
    evile: I don't think Aunt L is going to buy one...she's just
    compulsively checking for them on ebay. (I have similar silliness,
    but not on that particular item)
    SkyeDS: daddy always told me no used cars, but it can be done with
    the right research
    SkyeDS: but ebay, no I don't think so either
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: now, if she's just checking for market value
    SkyeDS: no better place than ebay for the truest idea of what that is
    SkyeDS: in any instance
    evile: yeah.
    evile: There are closer places to get used vans/short bus type
    vehicles, than frickin Wisconsin.
    SkyeDS: that's true
    SkyeDS: and Wisconsin market isn't same as Texas market
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: and lemon law differences from state to state = legal
    nightmare
    evile: My great uncle Bill was a great wheeler-dealer used car guy,
    never ever bought cars from places where it snowed & they used salt
    on the roads.
    evile: I ordered the dress...
    SkyeDS: :D that was sa cool site
    evile: *nodnod*
    evile: Nice thing about GWNN parties--fun to play dress up, and you
    can wear or not wear whatever you want :)
    evile: I think onyxlynxx finally got enough courage to wear her corset
    to a GWNN party :)
    SkyeDS: I tried riding in mine
    SkyeDS: not workable except in parades at slow walks
    evile: *nod*
    evile: I can wear mine standing up for ever, run around, play
    tennis,do yoga, but sitting in it is not comfortable at all.
    evile: The times I've gone to faire with other gals, it's always been
    funny to watch everyone pile out of hte car and start putting on the
    bodices & corsets.
    evile: (Oh, onyxlynxx asked about you last night, BTW. Said she was
    worried because you hadn't updated your LJ. I said y'all had been
    very busy with RL & you'd share details when/if you felt like it.)
    SkyeDS: nods
    SkyeDS: I ought to, I've been t hinking about it
    SkyeDS: the longer I wait the more stuff I have to remember, = bad
    evile: *nod*
    evile: if I don't write while I'm thinkin abou t it, I just forget
    SkyeDS: I am very impressed with roninjedi's LJ response to what Kirby
    said.
    evile: *nod*
    evile: do you work on Monday?
    SkyeDS: yes
    evile: Sweetie, too.
    SkyeDS: guess I wouldn't have to
    SkyeDS: but then I wouldn't get paid
    evile: *nod* No mail on Monday, so it'll probably be a nice quiet day
    at the office :)
    SkyeDS: was hoping other people wouldn't be here so I could bring
    Arthur with us
    SkyeDS: but no dice
    SkyeDS: still pondering whether or not Sineater would be better off here
    or home by himself
    SkyeDS: and I don't know if M has class Monday or not but I bet he
    does
    evile: As long as you left the lids off his meds & such, I'm sure
    he'd be fine on his own.
    SkyeDS: well look at that
    SkyeDS: M doesn't have class Monday
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: thing is left on his own he won't stick to taking his meds
    SkyeDS: he'll be headed for the trailer to do work and without sonar0m
    doing stuff he shouldn't do doublehanded
    SkyeDS: but, M has no class monday
    evile: I'm sure y'all will work it out.
    SkyeDS: ya, with sonar0m around, should be able to handle whatever
    Sineater wants to do, and keep up with Arthur too
    evile: *nod*
    evile: Hopefully after a few days, he'll have his routine more down-
    pat & know what he needs to have prepared ahead of time, etc.
    SkyeDS: I g uess if he hurts himself badly enough he'll learn to not
    work his hand
    evile: there is that.
    evile: Well, time for me to make the rounds & get gone. Travel safe
    this weekend :)
    SkyeDS: Ciao

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