Aug. 23rd, 2004

evile: (clutter)

    Aug. 23, 2004

     

     

    evile: there you are! Happy Monday!
    SkyeDS: .
    SkyeDS: blah
    evile: that good, eh?
    SkyeDS: was there bad weather in Austin this weekend? rained a lot on
    the ranch
    evile: yup!
    SkyeDS: :(
    evile: didn't get everything done you planned, I guess?
    SkyeDS: all but the roof
    SkyeDS: and no caliche of course
    evile: that's not so bad.
    evile: Our picnic got rained out after we'd been there about 45 min,
    but we retreated indoors to Dolce Vita for gelato, so it wasn't a
    total loss.
    SkyeDS: oh yum
    evile: *nodnod* very much so!
    evile: I heard a crazy rumor at Sharjinka's party...apparently the
    word is Sweetie & I broke up. Bizarre.
    SkyeDS: and where on earth would that have comde from
    SkyeDS: I heard an even better rumor at CRW
    SkyeDS: sineater and I are selling the ranch because neither of us have
    jobs.
    evile: Nobody will say where they heard it. Thax & Jinx both
    asked me about it.
    evile: Oh...that's a good one.
    SkyeDS: people have nothing better to do than concoct stories, I
    suppose
    SkyeDS: I don't know, but how would Jinx or Thax hear anything
    about Sweetie other than you?
    evile: I guess. why would it make any diff? I have no interest in any
    of the HFS children, other than they're pretty to look at.
    SkyeDS: he doesn't run in any of their circles does he?
    evile: they heard it from someone else, not me.
    SkyeDS: but who would even know
    evile: I know. it's wierd!
    SkyeDS: I haven't talked to THax in months
    SkyeDS: and today is the first time I've said anything to Jinx 
    and gottten a response, to ask a question about what Rita's upset
    about
    SkyeDS: I dont' think sineater talks to Thax. I know he talks to Jinx.
    SkyeDS: but I can't imagine what would give anyone that idea.
    evile: *shrug* who the hell knows? Silly HFS people.
    evile: Lord only knows what the rumor mill will spin about Jinx's
    last party :)
    SkyeDS: I suppose the stuff about the ranch might have come out of my
    trying to rent my old place
    SkyeDS: but that's quite a stretch
    evile: *nod* it's like that game "telephone" we played in elementary
    school
    evile: Oh well, other than the rumor thing, I had a *great* weekend :)
    SkyeDS: for a weekend where I did nothing but work, it was ok
    evile: Well, sometimes ya gotta do that.
    SkyeDS: yep, even when it's your parents showing up completely
    unannounced to say, we don't care what you wanted to do this weekend,
    we're going to work
    SkyeDS: and that was all good and well, until Mom came into my
    bedroom where I am plugged into heating pad and having naproxen for
    breakfast, to tell me to cancel my plans next weekend. At which
    point I said, nothing doing, and got a lecture on my priorities.
    evile: ugh.
    SkyeDS: my perspective is, I did not ask for, nor did I need, a shed.
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: therefore, I am not restructuring my priorities.
    evile: nope.
    evile: Next weekend is Labor DAy weekend. Might appeal to their sense
    of safety, too many drunks on the road to be out driving. Save the
    rest of the work for a better time, something like that?
    SkyeDS: next weekend isn't LD weekend is it?
    SkyeDS: I thought that was the first monday in Sept.
    SkyeDS: next Monday is Aug. 30.
    evile: And the monday after that is Labor day.
    SkyeDS: no.
    SkyeDS: they aren't coming back, I don't think
    evile: yes...
    SkyeDS: they want us to put the roof up this weekend, so that it gets
    done as quickly as possible.
    SkyeDS: they meant to have the roof up before they left and weather
    didn't permit.
    evile: oh, duh. I'm a week ahead of myself. nevermind.
    SkyeDS: we're not supposed to cancel plans to see them, we're
    supposed to cancel plans to put the roof up.
    evile: aha.
    SkyeDS: told them, when something's already paid for and no refund,
    not cancelling it.
    evile: yeah.
    SkyeDS: which was a slight fib
    SkyeDS: but I don't like having my weekends rearranged for me
    evile: no.
    SkyeDS: it was a slight fib because it wasn't prepaid.
    SkyeDS: AAA was.
    evile: Yup, that's a big event. I would imagine you'd have to get in
    a reservation or soemthing in advance.
    SkyeDS: I felt ambushed this morning.
    evile: ?
    SkyeDS: to have her descend on me when I"m in bed in pain, which is
    why I said it was already paid for and therefor couldn't be cancelled.
    SkyeDS: when fact is, I could cancel, but I"m not gonna, and I don't
    want to have to defend myself.
    evile: Are you still at home, then?
    SkyeDS: no, I'm at work
    SkyeDS: but I was very late today
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: if she hadn't read me the riot act about priorities, I
    wouldn't have told the lie about prepaid nonrefundable.
    evile: yeah.
    SkyeDS: I just don't deal well, when I've been woken up to find
    myself in a lot of pain and then be read the riot act while I'm still
    in bed, attached to heating pad, first thing in am.
    evile: I'm not a morning person, anyway, pain or no. That sucks!
    You'd think she'd have better people skills after all her work
    experience & such.
    SkyeDS: I know they were in a hurry to get home.
    SkyeDS: But geez.
    evile: yeah.
    evile: Why not just call from their hotel? ugh.
    SkyeDS: hugs good bye and all that stuff
    SkyeDS: but they left their trailer, and the frame from their 10 x 20
    foot canopy.
    SkyeDS: why take the tarp and not the frame?
    evile: wierd.

    evile: I decided Saturday night that HFS boys should be seen & not
    heard. If Jinx could just convince them all to sit around looking
    pretty and being furniture & throw pillows, that would be a perfect
    party.
    SkyeDS: ROFL
    SkyeDS: (except for Steve/prophet/malikai)
    evile: Especially Brandon...that boy has a mouth! I think he'd
    benefit from some time spent at the end of a leash.
    evile: No, I think Steve is pretty enough to be furniture, too.
    SkyeDS: yes but he's also fairly thoughtful and well spoken
    evile: And Jose, he's funny. But I still like him better when he just
    stands there looking pretty.
    evile: Steve did a fine job on his flaming Dr. Pepper, as I recall.
    evile: Darling Jose had 2. And so did brave/foolish Thax.
    evile: I enjoyed being the 151 fairy Saturday night :P
    SkyeDS: lol
    SkyeDS: adult beverage soudns real good right now
    SkyeDS: any adult beverage (other than beer)
    evile: heh. true nuff.
    evile: tonight is PNO 'classic' at Dog & Duck.
    SkyeDS: is also fighter practice, if I don't go home and replant the
    heating pad.
    evile: *nod* I hear ya.
    evile: It's only Monday, but I can't wait for the weekend. Actually
    I have Friday off, so it's not too far off.
    SkyeDS: <jealous
    evile: It's LBJ's birthday, a 'skeleton' holiday. I got it because I
    was the first one to ask, apparently :)
    SkyeDS: early bird and the worm :P
    evile: Yup. we're pretty caught up right now, so I'm sure more people
    can take it off, if they ask.
    evile: Did you ever find out what the issue was with Rita?
    SkyeDS: I know what she told sineater
    SkyeDS: Sharjinka didn't know that much
    SkyeDS: I think jinx's upset with me
    SkyeDS: /me shrugs
    evile: why would jinx being upset with you upset Rita?
    SkyeDS: I don't know what Sharjinka's upset about
    evile: But why would Rita care either way that Jinx was upset?
    SkyeDS: two things completely unrelated.
    evile: Oh...backing up. What did Rita tell sineater, then?
    SkyeDS: somebody's talking shit about her again, something having to
    do with the internal Calinorn succession
    SkyeDS: which is Calinorn's business and nobody elses, I thought
    SkyeDS: anyway, it's all got to be hearsay because it isn't in the
    forums anywhere and Jinx hasn't even heard a word
    evile: That's too bad.
    SkyeDS: the only people who talk shit about Rita are the Fucked Up
    Four
    SkyeDS: and Calinorn's officers are none of their business.
    evile: Sounds like Rita may just need to take a break from HFS stuff
    for a while. CRW stressed her out a bunch.
    SkyeDS: maybe more unification s hit
    evile: *nod*
    evile: "breathe more, care less"
    SkyeDS: trying to convince Rita not to invest herself in all this is
    about as easy as telling that to Jinx.
    evile: *nod*
    evile: Well, Sharjinka has a pleasant distraction at the 'mo, so it
    may be easier for her not to stress about HFS for awhile, anyway
    evile: I wish you were in LJ...I had a long rambling post I'd love to
    have your thoughts on.
    SkyeDS: I can sign up for it without actually writing myself couldn't
    I?
    evile: yup.
    evile: Jeff from poly group just started one, for the express purpose
    of reading his sos' thoughts.
    SkyeDS: soon as he goes off to raquetball I'll see about starting one
    evile: heh. cool.
    SkyeDS: although I tell you what
    SkyeDS: people seem to get into more trouble with those
    SkyeDS: almost like getting notes intercepted in class in gradeschool
    evile: yeah. I really really do try to keep mine light & 'what I'm
    doing, where I'm going'....mostly. It's tough.
    evile: You could always start yours out 'friends only' instead of
    waiting for the flamewar and THEN setting it as 'friends only'. plus
    there are ways to set up filtered posts so only certain people read.
    for example, no family members reading my KINK posts :P
    SkyeDS: that would be handy just as a public calendar
    evile: *nod*
    evile: I know it's paranoid of me, but my advice is to set
    that 'friends only' so unsavory characters won't know when you're
    away from home.
    SkyeDS: I'm sure Mom was not happy to come into my room this morning
    to find me in bed naked, with sonar0m in the room
    SkyeDS: even though he was fully dressed
    SkyeDS: I was under a blanket
    SkyeDS: and he was rubbing lower bakc thru blanket
    evile: none of her business...
    SkyeDS: well she could knock next time
    evile: yah.
    SkyeDS: I knew they were outside, but I didn't hear them come in, in
    time to shut my bedroom door, and so in she walked
    evile: ugh!
    SkyeDS: normally we are not "in your face"
    evile: no.
    evile: in your own home, in your own bedroom however, it's other
    people's tough luck if they walk in uninvited and see what they don't
    want to see.
    evile: You and your parents have a bad set of boundaries...sorry to
    say that...but ...ugh.
    SkyeDS: sighs
    evile: Even when my parents stay in my home, they don't come barging
    in to a closed bedroom.
    SkyeDS: it wasn't closed, that's the problem
    SkyeDS: my bedroom door was open because I didnt' realize they were
    in the house
    evile: Oh...well, that's slightly different but still not too cool.
    SkyeDS: ok, mine is skye_ds
    evile: sweet!
    evile: I'm bramblekite.
    SkyeDS: :)
    evile: I've already added you to my friends list & my kink filter, so
    you can read everything I posted as 'friends only' and everything I
    post in 'kink'. sineater is on 'friends' but not in 'kink'...figured it
    would probably just squick him.
    SkyeDS: rofl
    evile: and if not him, then me. :P
    SkyeDS: still setting up me preferences
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: good lord, lots of them too, specially ona free account
    evile: yeah. it's mostly pretty user friendly, just takes time to
    wade through all the options.
    evile: the 'email when someone comments in my LJ' doesnt seem to be
    working at all, however.
    evile: addictive ain't it?
    SkyeDS: trying to figure ou texactly what I don't mind everyone
    knowing
    evile: *nod* If I had it to do over, I'd err on the side of putting
    out less info at first, rather than more.
    evile: You can browse my friends list & more than likely find people
    you know who you might want to add to your friends, so finding who
    you want rather than allowing possibly undesirables to find you seems
    preferable.
    SkyeDS: seems like
    evile: was a tad distressed when a jerk online found IP addresses to
    link my LJ and my diaryland (which has no filters you can set up,
    it's all or nothing)
    SkyeDS: :(
    evile: no negative fallout that I know of, other than Jerky wrote a
    little rant on his webpage about how evil I am bla bla. whatever.
    evile: Since getting smart about friends filters & what I post, I
    haven't had any stalker issues that I know of.
    evile: And be sure to take most of the BS in peoples posts with a
    large block of salt. :P
    evile: (and say lots of nice things in my comments section) :P
    SkyeDS: wow, long friends list
    evile: I will be happy to tell you who anyone is in RL, if you have
    any q's.
    SkyeDS: wish you could convince Jinx of her own attractiveness
    SkyeDS: but you'd have to be a man, and one she wanted, to do that.
    evile: I think even JG is finding a bit of a challenge in that area.
    SkyeDS: jg=new boyfriend? I hope I hope I hope
    evile: yes. sorta kinda
    SkyeDS: awesome
    evile: I swear, she must read crappy romances on the sly, because
    there are so many ninny-headed misunderstandings in her love life.
    Makes me want to SMACK her.
    SkyeDS: she ought to be a Domme
    SkyeDS: I have discussed that with her at length.
    evile: She was going on about how she didn't think he liked her, and
    apparently they had to have a big TALK, and I'm all like "HELLO? He
    was hanging all over you at the party...how could you mis-read
    that???"
    SkyeDS: which one is JG?
    evile: Personally, I think she is a frustrated Sub. She doesn't want
    to give up any of her strength, but wants to find someone stronger
    than she is. It's a tall order....
    evile: JG is how she refers to him in LJ. I think his name is John or
    James? I've met him twice & can't remember.
    SkyeDS: so many people in drandmir I don't know now
    evile: He seems to have a very good heart, is nice without being a
    pushover, seems very aware of his own strength and comfortable with
    hers.
    evile: He is not a HFS person, far as I know.
    SkyeDS: ah.
    SkyeDS: well as long as he is HFS-friendly (you have to be ren-
    friendly to be with a rennie of course)
    evile: yeah. he's a fencer. RL pointy things rather than padded ones.
    evile: Nice fencer bod.
    evile: wish I could have conned her & him both into skinnydipping
    with me.
    SkyeDS: yum. good for her :)
    SkyeDS: so if she's not unhappy in her love life, must be something
    else bothering her.
    evile: No tellin.
    evile: she seemed happy enough at the party.
    SkyeDS: maybe she's still put out at me over CRW, who knows.
    evile: ? maybe.
    SkyeDS: I don't have time to chase down who's upset with me now for
    what reason, I really d on't care anymore.
    SkyeDS: a lesson both Jinx and Rita could learn, imo
    evile: yup.
    evile: well, and then, for gods sake, if you are upset with someone,
    do them the honor of telling them that you are, and WHY you are.
    SkyeDS: if you want them to fix it, anyway
    evile: exactly. And if you don't think it's fixable, STFU and get
    over it already.
    evile: If a person is worth your time/energy, they are worth talking
    to when they offend you. If they aren't, then put them out of your
    mind and go on with your happy little life.
    SkyeDS: water signs do n't seem very capable of that. <shrug>
    evile: yeah.
    SkyeDS: and I have many of them in my life, and I love them.
    SkyeDS: but I can't play that game.
    evile: if it's their issue, you shouldn't have to.
    SkyeDS: it's 4 pm. no wonder I'm hungry.
    evile: haven't had lunch yet! not good. You go do that, I need to
    putter a bit, even though I got here late & have a few more minute s
    to kill.
    evile: comment in my LJ!! it's Fun! :)
    evile: *hugs*

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