Jul. 16th, 2002

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704 the weekend, stuff

 
  • Jul. 16, 2002
     
    Taurus
    Horoscope (by astrocenter.com)
    You can be quite productive today, dear Taurus, as long as you
    maintain a slow, steady and conservative pace. Realize that you do
    not need to make any flashy displays or huge outward movements to
    demonstrate the fact that you have accomplished. Do things on your
    own terms and under your own rules. Do what feels right. The key
    today is feeling your strength from within and capitalizing on this
    energy.


    Gemini
    Horoscope (by astrocenter.com)
    There is a rather slow and reserved energy present today that may be
    hindering your efforts to get your chores done, dear Gemini. Light
    and superfluous actions will most likely be met with resistance. Try
    to be on the receiving end of things rather than on the delivering
    end of things. You will find that this is a good time to slow down
    and recharge your battery. Think before you make your next move.
    =========
    Supposedly, we are behind at work (not significantly so, from what I
    can see, but whatever), so have to cut down on the 'net usage today.

    So...the weekend. Friday I cleaned house & saw Lynn's porch kittens,
    then worked out. Saturday, went to SA bright & early, went to high
    tea with Rhonnie, her sisters Beckie & Frances, Dee's Mom Janine, Sis
    Elena, Daughter Josephine, Dee, Rio, and Dee's friend from Italy,
    Brandi. Brandi & Dee's husbands were both stationed in Italy at the
    same time & they met there. Now Brandi lives in Ft. Worth. She is
    cool. High Tea was wonderful, then we stopped by a neat little
    ceramics store on the way back to Dee's mom's house. It was a house
    that had been turned into a shop, with a warehouse out back with the
    greenware. I told Dee about my idea w/ Jen, and talked about us all
    going in together, Dee with her Ceramics, Me with soap & stained
    glass, Jen with her knitting, Rio with her cross stitch & beadwork,
    and Brandi said she'd learn candlemaking and make that her specialty.
    So we all have our crafts & will have workshops & teach each other
    how to do one another's crafts.

    We visited w/ Dee's mom on the porch a while, she talked about her
    husband and all the blessings she'd had in the course of his illness
    & death...she is very spiritually strong. She talked about their trip
    to Germany last summer, and how he had become more lucid on Father's
    day and spent a long time on the phone with Dee, Lyle & Josephine. In
    hindsight, it was really one last gift, ya know? For them to have one
    last good visit before he went on. *sigh* I cried a little bit. But
    it was good for her to talk about him.

    Then we went on to Rio's, left Lyle with Mike & Jaden, and Me, Rio,
    Dee, and Brandi went to the mall, played with makeup and perfume in
    Sephora, just wandered around. Did dinner in teh food court, talked
    trash about UB, etc.

    Then back to Rio's, where Tim and Liz had come over & they were
    playing Trivial Pursuit. Liz had been in the hospital, had part of
    her cervix removed due to a precancerous condition!! And didn't call
    or write anybody to say what was going on. I'm so glad that she got
    through it OK, and apparently they caught it on time...but wow. It
    made me think that 10 years ago, right around this time, I was
    getting my ovary taken out. :( I joked that in 10 yrs it'll be
    someone else's turn to have something icky done in the hospital. I
    hugged Liz and told her not to go thru stuff like that alone, to call
    or write and tell me what's UP!

    So 'round 10:30-or so, I took Brandi and Dee back to Dee's mom's and
    we made plans for Sunday. Since Brandi was on her way back home and
    would go thru Austin on Sunday a.m., I asked her to bring Dee and
    we'd meet someplace eazy to get to from I-35.

    SUnday, we met at the mcDs in Capital Plaza--just Dee, no Lyle or
    Josephine. Lyle was still doing the grout at D's mom's and Josephine
    was going to go to Fiesta TX with her aunt Elena. So taht was cool.
    We went to Tien Hong for Dim Sum w/ Tom, and then dropped Tom back at
    home & went to San Gabriel Park to see E. We were there for a
    couple hours. SIL was on her best behavior, actually asked Dee acouple
    questions about her self before launching off on 'I, Me, My, bla bla"
    speeches. Kind of funny, she said "I've heard lots of Rio stories,
    but not very many D stories, tell me Dee stories" ....which is such a
    lie, since I never get in much of a word edgewise, let alone enough
    to actually tell a cool story about my HS days with my cool HS buds.
    So...ANYWAY, Dee was properly horrified. Around 5:30, Tom called and
    said Alex was up and called. so we went home, and Alex came by for a
    quick visit before work. Then Tom, Dee and I went to Kerbey Ln for
    dinner. Stayed up late watching Stargate & Outer Limits, talked about
    this n that, then went to bed 'round 1.

    Up at 9 on Sunday, went to Natural magic, Book People, Relax the Back
    store, lunch at Mother's Cafe, then took D back to San Antonio. :) It
    was a great visit. I was glad to spend time with just us, but would
    have been cool tohave Lyle & Josephine visit,too.

705Re: Ugliness with X

 
  • Jul. 16, 2002
     
    Date: Sun, 14 Jul 2002 17:23:34 -0500
    From: X
    To: E
    Subject: ?

    I have emailed you twice and left one message for you since June
    27th. J was asking me about six flags and I didn't know what to
    tell her so I said that as far as I know everything was still on. I
    have promised M not to talk to J about being upset with you,
    but there is only 5 weeks left until school starts and I will need to
    tell the kids something if we are not going.

    X

    =======================================
    My reply:

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    ----- Original Message -----
    From: E
    Sent: Sunday, July 14, 2002 10:05 PM
    To: X 
    Subject: Re: ?

    Haven't gotten any emails or phone messages from you...

    I bought the tickets, so as far as I know we're still on.

    Sorry you're still upset with me.

    -E


    ==============================================================
    Date: Mon, 15 Jul 2002 07:43:08 -0500
    From: X
    To: E
    Subject: Re: ?

    I am not still upset with you, and I have emailed and left 1 message
    on your machine. But I figures that by not hearing back from you that
    you were still upset with me, and being the VERY mature adult that I
    am I figured if your still mad at me then I will still be mad at
    you. :)

    Are you still mad at me? 

706Re: Ugliness with X

 
  • Jul. 16, 2002
     
    Sent the latest to Jen, with these comments:

    It is raining like a big dog today--got soaked while
    walking to the bus stop & waiting for the bus this
    a.m. and of course it's a damn meat locker at work.
    So...we'll see if I get P-monia. Feh.

    While I was having such a lovely weekend and feeling
    what it's like to spend time with *real* girlfriends,
    I got this in my email from X. I wonder what f'ing
    audience she thinks she's performing for...this is
    such hyper-drama bullshit. After the 6 Flags outing, I
    think I really am going to have to sit her down and
    have a talk about how uneven our relationship has
    become and how I really feel used, and see what she
    says. I dread it...I fear that she'll just be like
    "Yeah, I'm a princess and you owe me
    tribute"--probably not in those words, but I fear that
    she has a big sense of entitlement and won't see a
    problem with how she's been treating me. But it's only
    fair to give her a chance, and if that's her reaction,
    go on from there.
    ==============================================

    Here's what she had to say:

    Oh jeebus. What is her deal? I couldn't BUH-lieve the thing about
    telling J that she is mad at you or whatever.
    *hug*

707Re: Ugliness with X

  •  
    Jen said:
    >
    > Oh jeebus. What is her deal? I couldn't BUH-lieve the thing about
    > telling J that she is mad at you or whatever.
    > *hug*

    I wrote back:
     

    Yeah, that was suck. And also the assumption that I
    would break a promise to her children like that. Nope.
    I have only ever broken one promise to J--I was too
    hung over to take her out like I promised once, and I
    still feel bad about it, years and years later.

    And I love how she goes from "I promised M I
    wouldn't tell J how upset I am with you" to "Oh, I
    was over it, but I didn't know if you were".
    What-the-fuck-ever.

    =======================================================

    sigh* Totally. I mean, just because there is this issue with her,
    doesn't mean you would take it out on Jess by ditching her, or
    whatever.

    Am doing resumes like a big dog. I had forgotten how much I hate
    doing that on a large scale. Am meeting with someone from a
    placement agency on Thursday. Not looking fwd, really, but I gotta
    do all I can.

    *hug*

    --Jen

709Re: Ugliness with X

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  • eekatfreaksdotnet
    Jul. 16, 2002
     
    > Date: Mon, 15 Jul 2002 07:43:08 -0500
    > From: X
    > To: E
    > Subject: Re: ?
    >
    > I am not still upset with you, and I have emailed and left 1
    message
    > on your machine. But I figures that by not hearing back from you
    that
    > you were still upset with me, and being the VERY mature adult that
    I
    > am I figured if your still mad at me then I will still be mad at
    > you. :)
    >
    > Are you still mad at me?

    You hurt my feelings, I told you that you had, you apologized, I
    forgave you. As far as I'm concerned, it's over.

    I love you and you are one of my dearest friends in the world. I hope
    we are OK now.

    I really haven't gotten any of your messages lately...

    -E

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