My last girls nite for awhile
May. 22nd, 2006 01:59 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Maybe forever.
One of our number has managed to elevate herself to world-class cunt status. Some of it may be recent, but some of it seems to be an ongoing pattern and one I am not going to tolerate.
Last week, she was unexcusably rude to our waitstaff at the restaurant. At the time I felt it was very uncharacteristic behavior, and I decided to let it go.
But then another friend mentioned some other incidents I'd forgotten...
I took her to one party awhile back, she seemed to have a good time, and then wrote in her LJ about how out of place she felt and how awful it was. It really managed to hurt the party host's feelings.
She's done that with other parties/events, too, not just ones I took her to.
A couple of weeks ago, we did something or another together that I was very enthusiastic about, and her LJ post about it afterwards was basically "I thought it was going to suck, but I went because I wanted to be a good friend to bramblekite, and then it was OK because it didnt' suck as bad as I thought it was going to"...which, as you may imagine, really warmed my heart to hear/read.
Then she came to the toobin' trip this past weekend, again seemed to have a nice time, and then wrote in her LJ today about how awful it was, that one of the toobers managed to say soemthing offensive in front of "duh chilllllllldrun!" god fucking forbid. And of course she didn't mention it to the person, or ask me to talk to the person, WHILE IT WAS HAPPENING, she waited and snarked about it in a locked LJ post.
A relative is married to a person who pulled this shit constantly--would come to a party or gathering or outing with me and my friends, would seem to have a wonderful time, stay until the very very end, and then somehow manage to convince herself after the fact that someone or someones at the party had been nasty to her, 'attacked' her and bla de bla (and it was somehow ALLLL my fault, of course)
I put up with that shit for a LONG time from the in-law, because I felt I needed to keep peace in the family, but I finally got smart and cut her loose.
I am not going to have a similar level of patience for this one.
I will be out of town for girls nite on the 29th, so it's not an issue.
I am going tonight because I already said I would.
And after that, I'm taking a break from girls' night for a while.
If cuntilla decides to wear her tiara tonight, I am going to have to show her some real Bitch-Fu.
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One of our number has managed to elevate herself to world-class cunt status. Some of it may be recent, but some of it seems to be an ongoing pattern and one I am not going to tolerate.
Last week, she was unexcusably rude to our waitstaff at the restaurant. At the time I felt it was very uncharacteristic behavior, and I decided to let it go.
But then another friend mentioned some other incidents I'd forgotten...
I took her to one party awhile back, she seemed to have a good time, and then wrote in her LJ about how out of place she felt and how awful it was. It really managed to hurt the party host's feelings.
She's done that with other parties/events, too, not just ones I took her to.
A couple of weeks ago, we did something or another together that I was very enthusiastic about, and her LJ post about it afterwards was basically "I thought it was going to suck, but I went because I wanted to be a good friend to bramblekite, and then it was OK because it didnt' suck as bad as I thought it was going to"...which, as you may imagine, really warmed my heart to hear/read.
Then she came to the toobin' trip this past weekend, again seemed to have a nice time, and then wrote in her LJ today about how awful it was, that one of the toobers managed to say soemthing offensive in front of "duh chilllllllldrun!" god fucking forbid. And of course she didn't mention it to the person, or ask me to talk to the person, WHILE IT WAS HAPPENING, she waited and snarked about it in a locked LJ post.
A relative is married to a person who pulled this shit constantly--would come to a party or gathering or outing with me and my friends, would seem to have a wonderful time, stay until the very very end, and then somehow manage to convince herself after the fact that someone or someones at the party had been nasty to her, 'attacked' her and bla de bla (and it was somehow ALLLL my fault, of course)
I put up with that shit for a LONG time from the in-law, because I felt I needed to keep peace in the family, but I finally got smart and cut her loose.
I am not going to have a similar level of patience for this one.
I will be out of town for girls nite on the 29th, so it's not an issue.
I am going tonight because I already said I would.
And after that, I'm taking a break from girls' night for a while.
If cuntilla decides to wear her tiara tonight, I am going to have to show her some real Bitch-Fu.
all comments are being screened.