Online predator, part 2

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The Online Predator

3) Predator Warning Signals:

While any of these phrases or actions may be acceptable in a
given context, pay close attention when seeing or hearing them.
Phrases:
1. Do not tell _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ .
2. ( _ _ _ _ _ ) is crazy ! ( or psycho, sick, a liar, or out to
get me )
3. It would be best if you no longer spoke to _ _ _ _ _ _ _.
4. I do not need to defend myself against lies.
5. They are just jealous ( of me, of us, of what we have, that you
have me).

Actions:

1. May seldom be in the chat rooms. Operates from other areas or
private rooms.
2. Has personal information which is incomplete or not verifiable.
3. Becomes defensive or angry when questioned.
4. Questions your sincerity when questioned.
5. Will usually discourage or forbid the practice of reference checks.
6. Will usually discourage or forbid the use of Safe Calls.

4) Personal Warning Signals:

These are items that a person should pay attention to if s/he is
saying them to her/himself or hearing them from others.

1. I feel he/she is just too good to be true.
2. You are hearing consistent warnings from more that one person.
3. Your instincts are whispering something is not right about this
person.

5) Summary:

The final best defense any person has against an Online Predator
is his/her own common sense and judgment. The potential victim should
always remember that desires, needs, and the heat of the moment can
combine to drown that judgment. Always take a moment to step back,
take a deep breath and look at a potential partner with common sense
and not with passion.