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What do fellow scapegoats do with “family” photos of their elderly narcissistic mother and siblings? It’s “family” history but they’re uncomfortable to possess. I hesitate to give them to my daughter who my mother has also scapegoated.

Are there other family members who might want the photos? See if you can give them away to another family member if you don't want to keep them.

If you have an account with ancestry.com or some other genealogy site, maybe upload the photos and relevant dates and information there for future researchers and then trash the originals.

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