quora: How does one motivate a narcissist who’s gone silent to come get his belongings he left behin

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How does one motivate a narcissist who’s gone silent to come get his belongings he left behind?

 

This is a game to keep you hooked in and to make them feel as though they are still the one in control. The narc is leaving those items there to 'mark territory'. He wants you to remember him and think about him and miss him. He may be saving those items for some future date, where he can 'hoover' you back in to his drama by asking you about his stuff.

If you feel kind, send a certified mail stating that the items need to be picked up by X date or they will be donated to charity.

Then, on X date, if the narcissist has not picked up their items, donate the items to charity as stated.

The end.

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