This is an interesting question.
Who are these people, these ‘narcissists’ as you call them? Is there a mental health diagnosis for them that you have been privy to, either as a caregiver, friend, or family member? Or is this label something you have decided on giving them?
Is there something specific that has happened that makes you believe you are being ‘stalked’[1]? Is there proof of this stalking? Do you feel that you are being threatened? Have you made any police reports or taken any official action against these people? Are you documenting incidents of threats or harassment? Or is this just a story that you like to tell because it makes you feel as if you are at the center of a fascinating web of intrigue and excitement? What are you getting out of this situation, that is causing you to make ongoing claims of being stalked for 20 years?
I like many of these answers very much:
Why would someone lie about being stalked and harassed by a person that they labeled a “narcissist”?
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