1815Re: NYE plans/lack thereof

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Jan. 2, 2004

 

 

Date: Fri, 2 Jan 2004 09:02:46 -0800 (PST)
From: J-Law
Subject: Off to a Great Start
To: Me

Hey, girl!

How was your NYE? What did you all end up doing?

New Years Eve/Day was the greatest 18 hours of my life. Please
indulge me in a little detailed description. :)

I got dressed and went to Dawn's place (met her neighbor Leo, who is
really nice, and is way into me. We might be friends, hang out, but
I don't see anything romantic/sexual happening - not exactly my
type). Anyway, we had a drinky at her place, and went on to dinner,
which was disappointing culinarily, but fine because we needed the
calories.

Off to Fluid, which was weird and dull. We surely did get in without
having to wait, and were seated at the one reserved table in the
place. Unfortunately, we were seated with JB (one night stand of a
couple of months ago) and Farouk, this oily character who has a major
thing for Dawn. Because I was so drunk when I first met JB, I didn't
realize how smarmy he really is. Both of these guys were like, all
over us and we were doing our best to fend them off.

After less than an hour, Dawn and I were ready to go, but we did want
to have a nice bottle of champagne, especially where we didn't have
to pay. So, we ordered a $500 bottle of Dom Perignon, had a few
glasses each. "Suddenly," Dawn looked at her watch and
exclaimed, "Oh my God, we're due at another party!" We both
said "Byeeeee" gave the slimeballs perfunctory air kisses, and got
the hell out of dodge.

They looked so confused. It was great.

We went to the Hyatt at Embarcadero Center, where we were supposed to
meet some friends - only they didn't know the protocol, i.e., that
they were supposed to meet us outside with our wristbands. We
couldn't get them on the phone, etc. etc. And then the Lord above
sent us a nice man with an extra wristband, which he gave to Dawn,
and then he and I walked into the hotel together. No one batted an
eye. He was a news camera man, so he had to get back to work - I
gave him a huge snog for his efforts, and Dawn and I went off to
party and find our friends.

In that journey, we ran into Gui (short for Guillaume) an adorable
French guy who took a shine to Dawn, who we took to our party. Gui
then brought his friends, which included this guy Barry. Barry and I
hit it off almost immediately. It was like, one minute, we're making
idle chitchat, and the next minute we are.... Whew. I will leave
that to your imagination.

The parties wound down, Barry took me to his place, Dawn took Gui to
hers. And Barry and I had the most phenomenal sex ever. EVER. I
lost count of how many times we did it... and I don't think either
one of us slept for more than an hour. Also, it turns out that his
most favorite thing ever is... uh, going down, and I have to say, he
does it spectacularly well. And I lost count of that too. :)

There was a huge storm that night - one of the worst in history, but
I tell ya, it was very cool to be having the greatest sex in history
while it was all going on.

We were in bed until 11:30 ish yesterday morning, and he drove me
home, took my digits, and now I am hoping he calls. I would just
love to have a hot affair with someone. Especially someone who is
genuinely nice, fabulous in the sack.... and we "fit" together
perfectly - no awkwardness of any kind, no uncomfortable shifting,
poking, whatever to get comfortable. I'd never had that before.
It's very very cool.

He even snores cutely. :)

Welcome to the Year of J-Law. I started it off with multiple orgasms,
I am turning 30 in three months, and the rest is going to be fabulous
as well. It's totally my year.

XOXOXOXOXO!!!!!

J-Law


P.S. I am a sex goddess and John is an idiot. After our less than
spectacular sex and all of the fuckwittage, I had a pretty
significant blow to the ego. But now I realize that, no, I am
fabulous in bed. John and I just didn't "fit" and I suspect he
just.... isn't that good in bed. How could somone that emotionally
compartmentalized ever be a passionate lover?


Throw your dreams into space like a kite, and you do not know what it
will bring back, a new life, a new friend, a new love, a new country.

-- Anais Nin


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Date: Fri, 2 Jan 2004 09:35:14 -0800 (PST)
From: Me
Subject: Re: Off to a Great Start
To: J-Law

I got your phone message, but it was too late at night
for me to call (not for you, I know, but for me--I was
absolutely BEAT.)

Sounds like you rang it in right :) That's awesome!!!
And that whole thing of you & Dawn ditching the creeps
& the lame party for cute guys & fun party was...just
so metaphorical for where you are in both your lives &
hopefully prophetic for the entire new year!

NYE for me was: San Antonio with Mom, Stepdad, Brother A,
sineater,and Cousin B all in 1 car. Stayed at the party about
an hour. Drove back to Austin, had blackeyed peas &
moscato d'oro at midnight at Aunt L & Uncle B's, then drove
Brother A & Cousin B off to the boonies. (Sweetie had gone straight
to the boonie-party and camped on Jaime & Kathleen's
property overnight) We got there a bit after 2 and it
was 'too late' to set off any more fireworks. What a
crock. One of the trashy skanks alternated between
flirting with and yelling at Cousin B. The flirting mostly
consisted of forcing jello shots & other alcohol on
him and not believing he was only 16. It was really
uncomfortable. She was ungodly drunk. The last time we
saw her was at faire when she was also ungodly drunk.
Her mom died of cancer last summer & then like a day
later her brother or her dad or someone died in a
freak accident. ANYWAY, I feel bad for her, but she's
been wrecked and obnoxious every time I've seen her
lately and how long does she get to use her grief as
an excuse for being horrible to people?

I wanted to leave right away, but I was so tired
(having been up about 22+ hours straight at that
point) that I knew I was not good to drive, even
though I was sober. I took a nap in Sweetie's vanagon &
then we headed back to Austin around 4:30 a.m. I was
home in my own bed by 6. whew.

On the + side, UB did not join us, she was at home
'fighting off a migraine'--which apparently involves
lots of banging the youngest boyfriend--he called my
cell just after midnight looking for sineater and the
caller ID said the call was coming from sineater's. I
don't think that girl has ever actually called me with
her own two hands. She always puts her man/men up to
it. Oh well.

I'm so glad you're starting off 2004 in such an upbeat
frame of mind--did I tell you that rebound sex was the
good stuff, or what? :) Barry sounds like an awesome
guy, so I really hope things develop for the two of
you :)


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Date: Fri, 2 Jan 2004 10:09:21 -0800 (PST)
From: J-Law
Subject: Re: Off to a Great Start
To: Me

No worries - sure sounds like you needed some serious rest! I napped
from 3-6, then was up until 10. I slept like a baby, too. :)

I am still in major afterglow. Walking around with a big smile and
looking glow-y.

Drunky girl sounds like a real piece of work. Obviously very self-
destructive. UB is such a freak. I am glad she didn't show at the
party... still, v. disgusting that she stayed home having sex with a
child to "cure" her alleged migraine.

I am definitely upbeat and happy. Dawn is certain that Barry will
call, and I hope he does. I think he will, too, but it's just so
hard when you try to gauge and predict these things. I am much
better in the mode of "if he does, excellent, but if he doesn't..."
that was some phenomenal sex. You were totally right. The best part
is, I was totally uninhibited, just let everything go, I was totally
myself and in the moment, and it worked. It was great. Such a
fabulous contrast to John which was all awkwardness and me ending up
feeling shy because I didn't want to freak him out, and then he
freaked out anyway.

Ditching Farouk and JB was just.... hilarious. I didn't think of the
metaphor before, but you're totally right. The funniest thing about
guys like that is that they always think they are going to get laid.
They always think that whatever girl they try to pick up (even
gorgeous creatures such as Dawn and me) are just gagging for it. And
then to have a couple of glasses of nice champagne, Dawn goes "Oh my
god, we have to go!" then guzzle two more glasses and then swan out
of there.... it was one of those moments.

I am so glad Dawn and I are on the same page that way. We never have
to "decide" anything, we never have drama, we just go with it.

And look at all the good that comes from doing things that way. :)

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