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[evile]

Feb. 11, 2005

 

 

evile: oh, there you are. I just put a note in your LJ.
SkyeDS: wtf is with the date I wonder
evile: I don't know where LJ gets its datestamp info. could be the
calendar on the computer you posted from?
SkyeDS: apparently, but I don't know how that happened either lol
evile: One of the laptops at home can't keep the time for crap. It's
just a quirky thing. I know you can change dates on LJ posts, I've
backdated stuff before. But never fast-forwarded before :)
SkyeDS: thank you for calling that to my attention rofl
SkyeDS: that pic of Chelle is really good
evile: You're welcome :)
evile: I thought so too :)
evile: thanks for that mental image, btw *drilling hole in skull,
pouring bleach*
SkyeDS: sorry, had to get my one last little snark out of my system
evile: *nod* understood.
SkyeDS: the blood came last night but I was too tired for ritual
SkyeDS: banishings are hard. I don't have the energy to call circle
when I"m bleeding
SkyeDS: on the other hand I don't see why I need a Circle to cast
spells
SkyeDS: I feel twinges about my snark
SkyeDS: things have been nice and quiet lately and I don't really
want to provoke it to be otherwise
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: otoh, anyone who takes potshots at me because I wear makeup
on special occasions and not everyday, and implies that I never wear
lingerie even for special occasions - is asking for it.
SkyeDS: that somewhat annoys me
SkyeDS: "my mama raised me right, to wear makeup every day"
SkyeDS: my mother raised me to believe that I didn't NEED makeup
every day, a nd that lipstick makes my mouth look trashy
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: wrong conclusion to come to that I have no pride in myself
because I don't wear makeup everyr day
SkyeDS: I say you have to be pretty damn secure in yourself to go out
without it
SkyeDS: and when I DO wear it, it IS because someone is worth the
special effort, unlike "I'd like to say I do it for you, but honestly
I do it for myself"
evile: Me too. I wear sunscreen daily but only wear makeup for
special occasions.
SkyeDS: that last little snark, btw, took exceptional restraint on my
part
SkyeDS: I wanted dearly to recount my senior year in high school
SkyeDS: when they gave the homecoming dance to National Honor
Society, of which I was president
SkyeDS: I didn't want to deal with it, so I made a committee of all
the cheerleaders in NHS and said, your baby
SkyeDS: I had both the ACT and the SAT that Saturday
SkyeDS: get home at 5 completely drained and my mom makes me go check
in on dance preparations
SkyeDS: completely pointless
SkyeDS: but I go, and there are the cheerleaders, no makeup on, and
all in curlers and sweats working
SkyeDS: I didn't even recognize most of them
SkyeDS: they had like, no eyebrows, no eyes, and no lips, without
their makeup on
evile: yup
SkyeDS: at the age of nearly 35, I am frequently mistaken for being
in my 20s.
evile: IMHO, makeup is to enhance what's there, not create a totally
new face
SkyeDS: I have no gray, no wrinkles, skin is nice and taut.
evile: (unless you're talking stage makeup, which is not something
you should plaster on daily)
SkyeDS: exactly.
SkyeDS: most makeup = 18 yos trying to look 40, or 40 yos trying to
look 18.
SkyeDS: there's nothing wrong with my face that should require that
I wear makeup every day, my face is a perfectly good face,
particularly for a 34 yo.
evile: heh. too true about the 18/40 yr olds.
SkyeDS: I may post later, because it occurs to me I should be
thankful for the many blessings I still have physically despite the
weight
SkyeDS: but I won't be snarky about it
evile: good :)
evile: snark=nice place to visit, woudln't want to live there
SkyeDS: I was also tempted to post the 10 most popular lines that he
freely admits he knows are lies when he says them, that he uses as
pick up lines and turn ons to his prospective newbies
evile: *grin* oops
SkyeDS: but I refrained
SkyeDS: he freely admitted he knew they were lies while he was
running back to me in between
SkyeDS: 1. Skye weighs over 300 pounds
SkyeDS: 2. Skye is frigid
SkyeDS: etc.
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: if I thought any of his prospective targets read my journal I
would post them
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: look ladies, I know he says them, he freely admitted to me
that he knows he's lying when he says them, and that these are what
he says just to get in your pants
SkyeDS: omg, that's exactly what he said, how would she know t hat?
evile: heh.
SkyeDS: so tempting
evile: yup!
SkyeDS: ...must....refrain....
evile: it's tough. You could always do a frends-locked, but that
wouldn't help anyone on his friends list that he may be "targeting"...
SkyeDS: I could just make it a general exes rant, like Chelle's
SkyeDS: no names
evile: yeah.
SkyeDS: just a funny valentine's top ten pickup lines list
evile: that could work....
SkyeDS: you're supposed to do it 10 through 1 with them getting
progressively worse right?
SkyeDS: that requires thought
evile: yup.
SkyeDS: the verdict is that the carpet can all be saved except the
living room
evile: wow, that's not bad.
SkyeDS: I wonder if I should just go to Home Depot or if I should
shop around
SkyeDS: time is beginning to be of the essence here, Iw ant to
advertise it Monday
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: have you ever bought carpet before?
SkyeDS: if so where?
evile: no, never have.
evile: The worst pick up line I've ever had used on me was "I like
plain girls"
SkyeDS: omfg
SkyeDS: that's worse than "if I said you have a beautiful body, would
you hold it against me?"
evile: this from a pudgy, balding textbook salesman in the cafe of
the student union building at DePauw.
evile: Needless to say, I was not overcome with passion.
evile: I have heard the one about 'hold it against me' but said in a
joking manner among friends, never actually used to try and pick
someone up
evile: That's right up there with "as long as I have a face, you'll
never lack a place to sit" and "nice shoes, wanna fuck?"
evile: In my experience, lots of guys are good at flattery and
flirting and then dont' have any bedroom skills, so sweet words are
never a surefire indication, but a guy who isn't even good at
flirting is *definitely* not going to be any good between the sheets.
evile: (unfo I have sometimes fallen for a nice bod & crude
manners...but never for more than a night or two :P)
SkyeDS: when I was a freshman one of my new friends looked me right
in the eye and said, "I've never met a true southern belle before
now."
SkyeDS: I fell for that hook line and sinker at the time
SkyeDS: how the hell do I put these in any kind of significatn order
dammit
evile: heh.
SkyeDS: I still don't get where I forced him to do something sexually
he didn't want to do, or exactly how I would have done that had I
wanted to.
evile: *shrug*
evile: I can't picture it, and I don't want to!
SkyeDS: I can only vaguely link that assertion to one something that
happened twice, and he initiated it, not me
evile: something where maybe he liked the idea better than the
reality ? NO clue.
SkyeDS: probably so.
SkyeDS: thing is, he did this shit the last time I left him
SkyeDS: and when I saw proof of it (he left the logs laying around
for me to find on my birthday)
SkyeDS: I said, how could you say this shit as if you seriously think
it's all true?
SkyeDS: because if you do, we have nothing further to say to each
other
SkyeDS: and he freely admitted he made it up on purpose to get into
someone else's patns
evile: bizarre.
SkyeDS: so now he's doing the same damn thing again, that he's done
not once actually but twice before
SkyeDS: and I'm just supposed to forget that I know by his own
admission that it's all bullshit deliberately to hurt me?
evile: *shrug* he's a freak, what can I say.
SkyeDS: whereas he knows *me* well enough to know I don't make shit
up, if I say it, I believe it to be true (and could probably prove it
in a court of law)
evile: *nod* It's always possible that he's convincing himself it's
true as he's saying it...some people are very convincing liars
because they compartmentalize their minds so well.
SkyeDS: there was at least one girl I knew in high school w ho was
pathological (is that the term?)
evile: I think so.
SkyeDS: she'd tell these outrageous lies and believe them the instant
they sprouted from her lips
evile: that's pretty much how it works.
SkyeDS: I've given this some thought
SkyeDS: how h ard is it to keep up a mask for three whole years
SkyeDS: when you only see someone one week out of every month
SkyeDS: and the rest of the relationship is long distance
evile: yup
SkyeDS: what was the name of that Henry Rollins song you were
listening to the other day
evile: Liar.
SkyeDS: tyty
evile: you're welcome : )
evile: I'm sorry, but if I ever went out with a guy and all he wanted
to do was talk about another woman, in ANY terms, complimentary or
non, I would not stick around for a second date. Have only gone out
with a guy like that once, and it was exactly one date and never
again.
SkyeDS: have said it before, will say it again
SkyeDS: if he did it to someone else, he'll do it to me
SkyeDS: if he said it about someone else, he'll say it about me
evile: yup
SkyeDS: anyone who thinks otherwise thinks they're special (and
probably rides the short bus)
evile: heh.
SkyeDS: that was bad
SkyeDS: bad me, bad bad
evile: heh
SkyeDS: I still haven't decided whether I"m working indoors or out
SkyeDS: I have yet to do an outdoor working and I keep meaning to,
but it's still cold at night even when it's nice during the day, and
it's hard to work when the winter wind keeps blowing your candles out.
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: well, better late than never I guess
SkyeDS: I imed jinx and said I borrowed your rant, please don't be
mad at me
SkyeDS: (which I should have asked before, not after, I borrowed)
evile: I am not sure how codified LJ etiquette is. I'm pretty sure
it's bad form to publically post something that someoen else
posted 'friends only', but that's about all I can think of that would
be a for sure bad move.
SkyeDS: well, jinx has had her private postings stolen before, and
I should have thought about she might be sensitive about it
evile: Oh, yeah, I forgot all about that mess.
SkyeDS: slow - apologies in advance
evile: Unfo, I think it's best to assume that anything you put in
writing, anywhere, ever, will eventually get back to the very person
you don't want seeing it....
evile: Ok, me too. I need to finisn up my production for the day. I'm
a little behind because I goofed off too much.
evile: well, it's go-time. I'll see y'all tomorrow evening, most
likely!