ugh. why????

 I was being nosy and happened to see an exchange on sonar0m' facebook
page where skye_ds went to his page and told him "I'm not going to
tolerate your lying, cheating, and abuse anymore. Get out,  we're
through."

Oh, but wait, being the merciful thing she is:  "I may let you keep
your job, room, and board in my home if you sign this Slave Contract,"
  All of her friends piled on with "Oh, poor Skye, we love you, we
thought sonar0m was the good one and sineater was the bad one!"

And then she was telling him to kill himself.

The Slave Contract is a thing skye pulled on sineater. 10 or more years
ago (when I was still with sweetie!) and of course the suicide thing was a
bad flashback to the BrotherA/Rubber Pig saga...so I freaked out. :(

I emailed sonar0m and said he should get out of that situation
immediately. And then his facebook got deleted.  So I asked a few
mutual friends to see if they could get ahold of him and make sure he
was not harming himself.

....and after all that, I had kind of a 'what the hell am I
doing???!?" moment and decided to quit being nosy and quit talking to
people about that crazy sick household, quit listening to friends who
want to ask me about the situation, just quit all of that crap. It
takes away from my happiness and she always spins it that she's the
victim.

The story she has spun out of that is that "sonar0m had his facebook
privacy settings altered without his knowledge, so my post was not
meant to be seen by anyone," and "sonar0m brought this all on himself
by airing our family business" and sonar0m has deleted his facebook
because of mean old evilE and of course SHE is the victim here, who
(according to her) apparently mustered the troops and asked everyone
to call, text, & email her, sineater, and sonar0m, and
someone apparently also called the cops.

Anyway, other than emailing sonar0m and asking 3 mutual friends, I
didn't do any of that. Apparently sonar0m has other concerned friends
who did the rest of that, but it's still all my fault. Of course.  And
my interference gives her an excuse to abuse sineater and sonar0m, force
sonar0m to delete his Facebook and cut of contact with friends & family
on Facebook, AND blame it all on me.  So....I did not help that
situation AT ALL.

Anyway....I am going to try and be done with that mess for good.
Believe it or not, I'm better than I used to be.