If you are thinking of your relationship and asking yourself,
"Is this person treating me badly because of an abusive past relationship?
Is this person treating me badly because she had a bad childhood with abusive parents,
Is she treating me badly because she has trouble with drugs/alcohol/addiction?
Was she never shown how to love?
Has she never had a healthy relationship to model behavior on? Is this person a user, an abuser, sociopath, narcissist, jerk, a-hole, or just a loser?"
....just STOP.
Stop and ask yourself ONE question.
"If I wouldn't do this to someone else, why am I letting someone do this to me?"
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