evile

07-29-2015 at 01:54 PM (63 Views)

Here's a lightning bolt for your day:

If you are thinking of your relationship and asking yourself,

"Is this person treating me badly because of an abusive past relationship?

Is this person treating me badly because she had a bad childhood with abusive parents,

Is she treating me badly because she has trouble with drugs/alcohol/addiction?

Was she never shown how to love?

Has she never had a healthy relationship to model behavior on?

Is this person a user, an abuser, sociopath, narcissist, jerk, a-hole, or just a loser?"

....just STOP.

Stop and ask yourself ONE question.

"If I wouldn't do this to someone else, why am I letting someone do this to me?"