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Jun. 7th, 2005
3275Re: Nikiyoy putting her foot in it
Jun. 7th, 2005 09:43 pmJun. 7, 2005
onyxlynxx
2005-06-07 22:52 (link)
I understand how it seems like being honest is always the best policy
but I have learned to temper that tendency with just being silent
when I know the truth won't help anything.
I don't think any of us dispute that she is crazy maybe even
dangerously so. It just doesn't help anything to tell her that. Maybe
if she weren't so psychotic, she could be reasoned with. She might
even be capable of discussing her behavior rationally.
I just plan to keep my distance and my mouth shut as well as I can.
It is not worth it for me to tell her no matter how amusing it might
be mostly because I know that she will use anything I say as an
excuse to drive another wedge between sineater and evilE.
I think that your instincts are usually good and that you are wise
beyond your years. I still fuck up all the time. There are some
things that people can't tell you. They are truths that you have to
learn for yourself.
I am sure that someone has already told you the elemental lessons. To
know, to well, to dare and to be silent. Silence is considered the
lesson of earth and it has always been one of the hardest for me as
well.
By the way, I think you did a fine job of using words to apologize
for the words you regret. *hugs*