Abuse and the Narcissist

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Well, my friend J-Law helped me figure out the latest madness. He pulled me close only to push me away again, reject me, denounce me in public, and thus prove loyalty to someone else.

So...basically, someone manufactured a no-win situation with me in order to buy a few more days(? weeks? months? years?) of peace at home. Hope it was worth the cost. I won't be playing this game with him again, now that I understand the rules.

from: http://www.authorsden.com/SampleWorksPDF/7246.doc

"We have a saying around my house which is that a narcissist will put you through a series of increasingly difficult (and more ludicrous) tests in order to get you to prove loyalty to them. If you manage to pass all of these ridiculous tests, you are rewarded for your considerable effort with the right to worship the narcissist. I don't know about anyone else, but I've got other plans."

Ohyeah? and about this?

"I have never publicly attacked her, lied about her, used her as a bad example, slagged her, put her down, talked about her behind her back, attempted to ruin her reputation, however you wish to describe it, or encouraged other people to do so..."

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Well, looks to me like you just did, Ace. (and I really don't believe this is the first time, either.) Good luck feeding the narcissistic supply in the future.

http://www.narcissisticabuse.com/

http://www.narcissism.operationdoubles.com/perplexingbehaviornarcissism.htm