evile: (mask)
 Originally Answered: Is Rashida Tlaib an unsavory narcissist and attention addict?

Probably no more than any other politician or public figure. As an introvert, I generally tend to think anyone who wants to be around crowds of people or speak in front of crowds is probably a little bit damaged in some way.

I could say the same about performers, musicians or actors, as well. They want or need the attention and approval of groups of people in order to feel good about themselves. Nothing terrible about that as long as you are honest about it and don’t abuse or mistreat people.

I think that in order to answer this question, we would need to determine if she feels she needs the crowds and attention, or does she just accept crowds and attention as part of the job she wants to do?

As far as I can tell. Tlaib’s ideas of the function of government are in alignment with my own and she generally seems to want to make life better for her constituents so that’s better than a lot of narcissistic public figures who are only in it for their own gains and sucking up to  their wealthy donors.

Is there such a thing as a 'savory narcissist'? I think maybe she’s that. LOL.


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 the US supreme court overturned Roe v Wade  today.

I am angry and sad, sad and angry. The men dont' get it. Not that they are all evil bad or stupid. I married one, after all.  They just don't see that it has anything to do with them. They're not losing anything.  *shrug*  Even the 'good ones' don't seem to get how fucking dangerous and terrible this country has become. My sister is feeling betrayed because her husband --a good man, a good father, a kind person, a hard working guy , etc. etc. --just doesn't get it. And I have had the same feelings about my husband. He doesn't have the thing in his head screaming "DANGER GTFO NOW NOW NOW NOW NOW" 24/7/365 since that orange fucker got elected. i have had to squish myself up into the tiniest of tiny balls inside my head and make my life as small small small as it can be and I've eaten too much drunk too much and slept too much and played too much stupid video game to try and not hear the 'GTFO GTFO!!' screaming inside my head constantly for the last goddamn 6 years.

I've wanted to run away to Belize for a while now.  Sadly, Belize isn't any better on women's reproductive freedoms. But better in a lot of other ways--progressing instead of regressing, as I like to say. Still....today I'm tempted to rage quit the world. only thing stopping me is I just dont' want to leave such a mess for other people to have to deal with. I really need to get off my ass and sort, clean, declutter and do what needs to be done so that whatever happens next will be easier for everyone. I don't want to die. It's just that fighting has been so utterly ineffectual and I'm tired and  angry and sad and just mostly done. :/ 
evile: (mask)
Can political ideologies be defined by personality disorder symptoms? I see a lot of similarities between the way the right behaves and the way people with NPD behave and react. Is this a field of study?


 It’s an interesting question, and an interesting thought.

I agree with your observation; the Right definitely seems to mirror a lot of the same sorts of dysfunction seen in abusive families of origin—an authoritarian and/or abusive parental figure (usually male) and the children who then grow up to either be abusers or find a new abuser in their adult relationships. This authoritarian system seems correct and comfortable to them, so they vote for politicians who reflect these sorts of values and behavior.

Some of the dynamic I observe in Congress seems to be the same sort of appeasement from the cowering Codependent (left) to the abusive Narcissist (right), that sort of magical thinking “If I do everything right and use the exact correct words, maybe this time the abuser won’t hit me, maybe this time I’ll get what I want and need from the relationship” and of course the abuser will find fault, nitpick, and blame the victim for their continued abuse.

And, on a macro to micro level, I see a lot of personality disorder traits and dynamics as a reflection of Patriarchy, Colonialism, and Imperialism. “I’m allowed to abuse you because I’m the male head of the household, it is your job to submit to and appease me. I’m allowed to abuse and exploit you because I am the head of the family, head of the church, head of state, conqueror, ‘discoverer’, my skin color is better/whiter than yours,” bla bla bla.

It does seem that personality disordered people create societies that reflect, reinforce, magnify and justify their disordered behavior towards others and create entire disordered systems.

But. anecdotes aren’t data. I’d love to see a more widespread awareness and some scientific study on this, too. Keep me posted if you get any better answers!


evile: (july4)
Attention, Citizens.

While we were having a meta moment of political theatre at the theatre, the following items may have escaped your notice:

Russia has a missile that can reach US soil in 12 minutes, that is practically impossible to detect or intercept.
(What are you going to do with the last 12 minutes of your life?)

President Elect(oral college) Trump introduced his daughter Ivanka to Japanese leaders. sending a pretty darn clear message about his intentions to use his place in the White House to enrich his business interests. Too subtle for you? OK, then, he just straigt-up telephoned the President of Argentina to get him to put in a good word on some Trump properties pending down thataway. Oh, that's outrageous! Why didn't the American press report on it? Because they have been bought. Trump better hope his check doesn't bounce....or the press may turn on him like a badly-housetrained Chihuahua. (Ok, so it won't hurt him much, but it will be shrill and obnoxious.)


Trump settled the Trump University fraud lawsuit for $25 million. The one he said he wouldn't ever settle. Seriously, this guy flip flops worse than a hooked fish in a bass boat. He makes waffles look like stable edifices.

Protestors protecting sacred burial grounds, and, more importantly, safe clean water for everyone, were sprayed with water cannons in sub-freezing temperatures.

White supremacists held a rally in DC to support Trump, featuring the Nazi salute, and, hey Tila fuckin Tequila, cuz that's fun.

Steve Bannon, Trump's right hand fella, expressed admiration for Darth Vader, Dick Cheney, and Satan.
I don't know what's worse, the fact that he so strongly identifies with repressive authoritarians who have been widely recognized as 'the enemy' and 'evil' or that two of them are fictional characters.

Texas has introduced a bill that would force educators to out their LGBTQ students to their parents. I fail to see how that has anything to do with education; it seems the only point of the bill is to waste taxpayer time and money, waste teachers' time, and open up closeted children to possible abuse and eviction by clueless bigoted parents.

Meanwhile, the gaslighting continues as the Trumpence war machine continues to insist that their guys didn't say the things they are on record as saying--either video taped, or their own social media comments, and the Trumpence hate machine continues to refuse to take a stance against the violence and hate crimes being committed in the name of the president-elect, refusing to speak against the 'alt right' (read: White Supremacists, read: Trump Supporters, Trump Voters, Trump Followers) perpetrating these crimes.

The alleged 'nice people' who voted for Trump also remain steadfastly silent in the wake of their fellow Trump Voters behaving hatefully and destructively. If you won't speak against them or stand against them, then you are just as guilty, folks.

In the meantime, out here in the nonpolitical (haha) world, we still need jobs that pay enough to live on. We need health care. We need safe places to live, safe food to eat, and safe water to drink. We need education that we can afford. We need our leaders to listen to the scientific community which tells us that climate change is real and our planet is in crisis. We need our business leaders and political leaders to step up. We need law enforcement to enforce the laws--ie: ARREST a certain CROOKED BUSINESSMAN-TURNED-POLITICAN and HOLD HIM ACCOUNTABLE for the crimes he has committed (is continuing to commit)!
evile: (Liberty)
As far as TX politics goes, we're a blue island in an ocean of angry, ignorant red. And there's nothing I personally can do to keep the electoral vote of this state from going to Mittens the Mormon Cowboy and Ryan the Rape apologist in the presidential election. But, I donated to Christie Vilsack, the woman running against Ryan and while I'm at it, Claire McCaskill, the one running against Todd Akin, too.

Go get 'em, LADIES!
evile: (Poly)
http://news.yahoo.com/exclusive-gingrich-lacks-moral-character-president-ex-wife-135852543--abc-news.html

BTW, Newty-newt, the time to ask your partner for an open relationship is BEFORE you start sleeping with other people. EVEN I KNOW THAT AND I SUCKED AT POLY!

Honestly, I think it would be great to have more politicians who are in non traditional relationships that involve OPENNESS & HONESTY with their partner(s). Too bad politics is all about who can be the biggest, richest, most lyin-ist fuckbag out there.
evile: (Liberty)
It's political, it's nasty, and it's rude as hell, it's AWESOME and it's the motherfuckin' troof. Don't click it if you can't handle it. Who says nihilists can't have fun.

http://www.youtube.com/user/fknnewz#p/u/3/jyTRF25J2h4
evile: (Liberty)
From Tom DeLay asking homeless Katrina Victims "Is this kind of fun?" to Shrub's "I know it's hard to put food on your family" (how would he know? He was born wealthy, he's never been hungry a day in his life, never had to choose between buying groceries and putting gas in his car or paying bus fare so he could get to work) Mit Romney's recent "Corporations are people" statement...how many more offensive, clueless, completely lacking-in-humanity-or-empathy statements are we going to take from these clueless rich white men before it finally dawns on us that THEY ARE NOT LIKE US. Our reptilian political overlords must be deposed.
evile: (QThinking)
Daily FixRead more... )

AND!

http://www.wheresthemoon.com/openingpage.htm

Read more... )
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also, along the lines of Rick Perry's political aspirations, this! Bwahahahah!
evile: (Liberty)


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evile: (Bitchplz)
700 billion? Try 3.5 TRILLION.

Surely I can't be the only person thinking of this ren & stimpy cartoon.

Big Fat Corporate Trash to Struggling Home Town America:


"Save my Walrus!"

As ALWAYS

Nov. 4th, 2008 11:22 pm
evile: (Liberty)
Bill Hicks says it best!

THE REPUBLICAN BEAST IS DEAD!!!!!

Meez 3D avatar avatars games

"Rosa sat so Martin could walk, Martin walked so Barack could run, Barack is running so our children can fly."
evile: (fist)
Can I get a "FUCK YES!!!"?

Goddamn. TOTALLY. THIS.

Especially:

"Civility alone does not change people's minds. Civility works to further a conversation. That is a worthy goal, but furthering conversation with complete tools is not always what I want to do. It's generally pointless to spend my energy on trying to get through to brainless, bigoted assholes."

"We should all be polite and nice to one another. Sure. We aren't, though. Most people are fuckups, assholes, shitheads, jerkoffs, or just plain stupid. However, we are not children or animals to be punished by withdrawal of privileges when we do not do what we should. Our gender (or race, or whatever) is not the measure of whether we need to be controlled.

You know what I really think we should all do?

I think we should speak the truth."


YES YES YES.

FUCK YES.
evile: (Bitchplz)
Palin Denies Spending $150,000 on clothes.

NO, no, there were also shoes, purses, cosmetics, and hair products.

150 grand on CLOTHES.

Pshaw. Of course not. If she'd spent 150K on JUST clothes, she'd have had to spend another 100K on the accessories.

She's FRUGAL. I mean, come on, who else could spend almost 5 times my annual salary and come up looking that plain and dumpy? only a Republican.

She was better off rocking the hot mom look.
evile: (Liberty)
I plan to vote early.

Here is a link to early voting places in Austin/Travis County:

http://www.co.travis.tx.us/county_clerk/election/20081104/early_polls.pdf
evile: (Hocus Pocus)
"The choice isn't Republican or Democrat. The choice is you got a guy that's worth $150 million with 12 houses against a guy who's worth a million dollars with one house. The guy with one house really cares about losing a house, because he is homeless. The other guy can lose five houses and still got a bunch of houses."

SRSLY, U guise, let's make sure we have houses and jobs and money and food on the table, FIRST, and THEN we can all get back to poking our noses in our neighbors' bedrooms & making sure we approve of their lifestyle choices.

Deadline!

Oct. 6th, 2008 08:46 am
evile: (Liberty)
Please register to vote if you are not already registered! (for all the non-Austinites on my friends list--you can google search "yourtown" + "register to vote" and find your own local info!)

BTW, if you missed Burlesque the Vote at Antone's Friday night, you missed a GREAT show. I had to go home early and turn into a pumpkin, but i did see about the first 2/3 of the show and it was WONDERFUL. (I gotta get a kazoo!)

PS: This is awesome!
evile: (Liberty)
Actually, Palin did not do as badly against Biden as I'd expected. He did not spank her and send her home crying (I guess I'll have to wait for the movie version). I'm a little disappointed, but I guess not surprised. She was coached to keep hammering away at the same 2 or 3 'talking points', talk 'folksy', and do the 'wide eyed smiling at the camera' thing that is so gosh-darn cute. It was terribly effective. And, because words *do* mean things, I mean terribly in the sense of 'distressing, full of terror,' type terrible.

Did you notice the Reagan-isms? "there you go again!" OMFG. Terrifying.

But, for the love of GOD and all things holy...It's NOT "Nu-kew-lur"...It's Not. I don't care what Homer Simpson and Chimpy in Chief say. If you're planning on blowing up the world with something in order to bring Jesus Christ back to earth, for gods sake, at least have the decency to pronounce it properly. (and, incidentally, why do these arrogant political and religious leaders think they're going to be on God's good side when they force the hand of the Almighty like that?!? Trust His plan...or don't. But don't try and think you know better than the Deity you claim to believe in and serve, dumbasses.)

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