Quora: Has anyone tried distinguishing between an Aquarius & a narcissist?

Has anyone tried distinguishing between an Aquarius & a narcissist? Aquarian’s have personalities eerily similar to narcissists, but not all Aquarian’s are narcissistic. Before I cut this man off completely, I want to be sure of the narcissism.

 

It sounds like you are really hooked into this person and looking to rationalize a decision to stay even though you are not being treated well.

Please don’t do this to yourself. It does not matter if someone is mistreating you because they are mentally ill, because they are a jerk, because their shoes are too tight, or because their rising sign is in Uranus….the fact of the matter is that you are being mistreated, and you do not deserve to be treated badly by anyone, ever.

I strongly advise you to receive counseling—speak with a caring professional of your own choosing, be that a clergy person, a psychologist, licensed professional counselor, or psychic astrologer, to work on YOU. If you can work through whatever issues that cause you to tolerate mistreatment, train yourself in assertiveness skills, work on your own self-esteem, and establish your own set of values and goals in life, you will go a long way towards not allowing yourself to be treated badly by Aquarians or anyone else.

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