CBs and boundaries

06-25-2015 at 05:33 PM (52 Views)

Interesting day today. A guy I know broke up with his (abusive manipulative) girlfriend. He and I had not spoken in a long time due to his psycho CB deciding I was "part of the problem" when I dared to disagree with her thoughts on rape, feminism, etc. (the usual Crazy Bitch pushbutton issues) Anyway....he made a public announcement on his facebook that he and CB were broken up, they parted on good terms and are trying to stay positive, and he asked that no one comment in a way that suggested any sides were being taken or that people were glad for him or her, he just wanted the information out there and if anyone had questions they should ask directly, in private. 

First comment on his post? Another abusive, manipulative CB of the same stripe as his ex, saying "I hope you know I've been inviting your ex to do stuff with me, not because I'm taking her side but because I think she needs these invitations more than you do,"


I was like.."bitch, what did he JUST post and ask people NOT to do? Why you gotta test the boundary right away with that disrespectful bullshit?" 

Of course, I didn't say anything out loud ...but it was just a prime example of how CBs seem to either think the rules don't apply to them, or have to push against every boundary in their world, no matter how gently or respectfully stated.

Very glad I'd distanced myself from that situation and those people for a while now. Maybe it will be OK for us to invite him out now that he's no longer entangled in looney passive aggressive hermit bitch world.