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The Narcissist Feels Threatened
Feb. 25th, 2013 10:37 pmhttp://narc-attack.blogspot.com/2008/03/poor-narcissist-feels-threatened.html
This one hit the spot today; I've had more than one person in my past tell me that I'm "intimidating," one of them mentioned that she felt threatened by the fact that I have "perfect hair"
At the time I didn't understand what was going on...but this hit the nail on the head.
They feel "intimidated" that you have perfect hair, and that justifies the subsequent attempts to destroy your fucking life. Because they felt "threatened" by you. Being happy. Having a good life. Having a loving relationship. Somehow that hurts them and justifies any goddamned horrible thing they want to do to you.
And, sadly, the nicer you try to be, the more supportive and kind and "Well, you have great hair, too," the more threatened and unhappy the malignant narcissist feels. They just cannot be happy if you are happy, if you have one good thing. You are happy, healthy, loving,and loved and they can't fucking stand it. You must be destroyed.
It's so crazy making. I'm so glad those persons are not part of my immediate sphere any more.
This one hit the spot today; I've had more than one person in my past tell me that I'm "intimidating," one of them mentioned that she felt threatened by the fact that I have "perfect hair"
At the time I didn't understand what was going on...but this hit the nail on the head.
They feel "intimidated" that you have perfect hair, and that justifies the subsequent attempts to destroy your fucking life. Because they felt "threatened" by you. Being happy. Having a good life. Having a loving relationship. Somehow that hurts them and justifies any goddamned horrible thing they want to do to you.
And, sadly, the nicer you try to be, the more supportive and kind and "Well, you have great hair, too," the more threatened and unhappy the malignant narcissist feels. They just cannot be happy if you are happy, if you have one good thing. You are happy, healthy, loving,and loved and they can't fucking stand it. You must be destroyed.
It's so crazy making. I'm so glad those persons are not part of my immediate sphere any more.
