2538icq w/A

Sep. 23, 2004


evile: whew. phone duty is over!!
SkyeDS: :)
SkyeDS: sold both red and purple corsets (black one too used to
sell), shipping one today, one tomorrow
evile: lots of people out there pretty unclear on the concept..
evile: hey, congrats!
SkyeDS: and in my course of reading today, ran across more
interesting rants, in which every single allegation is completely
assbackwards to the truth
SkyeDS: sineater's going to shoot him in the face with a bazooka, when he
reads that, and I'm not going to stop him this time
evile: ugh.
SkyeDS: he shouldn't have brought sineater into it.
evile: perhaps it would be best NOT to give the drama queen any more
attention...
SkyeDS: that boy will apparently never learn to stop swimming with
barracudas and sharks.
SkyeDS: I agree w/ you. However, he's spouting shit about sineater now
that isn't true, and sineater will handle it his way, whether it is your
way, or my way, or not
evile: *sigh*
SkyeDS: I'm not going to keep asking sineater to humor me about this.
SkyeDS: actually, he's been humoring me without me asking him
evile: *shrug* Maybe sineater hasn't read it....and maybe you shouldn't
point it out to him...save us all a big headache. I dont' have the $
to bail him out of jail....
SkyeDS: I don't know if he'll continue because he mutters louder and
louder to the contrary
SkyeDS: oh he reads it
SkyeDS: that's what draws my attention to it
SkyeDS: he reads it, and then tells me
evile: nice.
SkyeDS: I don't think he can read it from work, but he gets home much
earlier than I do, and has lots of time to read and stew.
SkyeDS: And from the muttering, I surmise sooner, more likely than
later, he's going to blow, regardless of whether I respond or not.
evile: I think y'all need to ignore him, just dont' read his crap
anymore. He wants to upset you, and when you get upset, you give him
a win...that is not really a win, but a lose for everyone.
SkyeDS: that's what I've been saying
SkyeDS: but now he's aiming to upset sineater, and sineater is upset.
evile: There is NO win in this situation...just let him go and once
he can't get a rise out of you anymore, he'll go on to his next
dysfunctional relationship....
SkyeDS: yep.
SkyeDS: from a coldly logical point of view, it's ascii across a
screen
SkyeDS: but, sineater doesn't function that way.
evile: sineater won't be able to beat, argue, or otherwise obtain truth
or apology from youknowwho, no point in getting himself upset & in
trouble over it.
SkyeDS: nope
SkyeDS: besides the truth is just not in that boy
SkyeDS: and I bet nobody's reading his ravings anymore, because not
even his angsty little goth friends who thrive on such have responded
to any of his posts since he went off the deep end.
evile: *nod* more to point towards him posting just to piss you off.
SkyeDS: oh well, I"m just going to tell sineater, next time he brings it
up, that I will support whatever he wants to do
SkyeDS: if he wants my opinion, I'll give it when asked
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: but he is not me, and I don't expect him to be.
SkyeDS: I would appreciate his support, even when he doesn't agree
with me, and I'll do the same in return
evile: He's not worth your energy or time.
SkyeDS: I know he wants to go to war, and I think it's a losing war,
but I'll support him anyway.
evile: I'll visit him in jail.
SkyeDS: I also suspect that alot of his frustrations with the [brother A]
situation are going to boil into this, because he can't do anything
there either.
evile: that's not good.
SkyeDS: morning at my house, he's stomping around.
SkyeDS: first dumb question: something wrong dear?
SkyeDS: of course ther'es something wrong, and of course the answer
is going to be a very surly and snappish "NO"
evile: I totally understand & sympathize. But....
SkyeDS: second dumb question: what's bothering you?
SkyeDS: "NOTHING"
SkyeDS: if you keep peeling long enough you start with the "neighbors
are playing music too loud" or some other small venal thing
SkyeDS: and like a dozen layers later get down to what's really
bugging him
SkyeDS: if you're that patient/stubborn.
evile: *nod*
evile: I guess i always just figure once he's ready to talk about it,
he will. Which means he & I haven't had many deep conversations over
the course of history. :)
SkyeDS: he hasn't said anything about wanting to do anything but fire
back more ascii across screen, so hopefully it will stop there.
evile: pointless.
SkyeDS: yep
SkyeDS: why I haven't done it.
SkyeDS: "Skye wasn't wearing a brace in F ebruary"
SkyeDS: I was wearing it from Jan 23rd onward
SkyeDS: "My migraines are worse than skye's imaginary ones"
SkyeDS: I've been hospitalized, diagnosed and prescribed to. He
hasn't.
SkyeDS: "Skye likes to cry in public"
SkyeDS: even my enemies know better than that
evile: what.ever.
SkyeDS: so pathetic, first of all, everyone who knows me, friend and
foe alike, know that shit isn't true
SkyeDS: and secondly, I don't think friend OR foe is reading it anyway
evile: exactly. so who gives a damn what he says? Opinions are like
assholes, everyone has them.. let him have his, because nobody
important to you (maybe nobody, period) is listening.
SkyeDS: I started bleeding today, maybe if I gave sineater black candles
and menstrual blood he'd go off and play happily.
evile: there ya go.
SkyeDS: then again, he might bring results worse than jail time.
He's capable of it.
evile: so far the police don't get you for doing magical harm, so
that's fine by me.
SkyeDS: instant karma, just add hot water (sigh)
evile: heh.
SkyeDS: I react logically, sineater reacts emotionally. I don't think it
serves any practical purpose, but if it makes him feel better, as
long as I'm not bailing him out of jail.
SkyeDS: besides, we have a place to bury bodies now LOL
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: ways I would not want to die
SkyeDS: by Diane's hand after someone has fucked with her horses
SkyeDS: by sineater's hand after somebody's fucked with him for any
reason.
SkyeDS: by Kelly's hand where her kids are concerned
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: easier method of dying: shotgun to t he head.
evile: messy.
SkyeDS: but quicker and less painful.
evile: pretty sure I was a Borgia in a past life, I really like
poisons & drugs....
SkyeDS: according to some I was Lucrezia Borgia in a past life, and a
Medici in another past life :)
SkyeDS: (or worse)
evile: I was at least a low-level alchemist/pimp who gave the Borgias
their goodies :)
SkyeDS: and neither of us has come far, huh. :P
SkyeDS: lil lamb looks familiar
SkyeDS: that's not Julie is it? (Chelle's friend)
evile: She is in SCA, you have probably seen her. Yup, that's Julie.
SkyeDS: what I thought
SkyeDS: I had to think about it awhile. I'm getting dense in my old
age.
evile: context.
SkyeDS: disliking voluminous medical records is a problem for a
health law paralegal (sigh).
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: slow - apologies in advance
evile: no problem. I know you're at work..
evile: *happy dance* I'm outta here in 1 hour!!!
SkyeDS: I'm doing the not very happy dance with the copier right now
(sigh)
evile: I hate the copiers here at work. they suck.
SkyeDS: Hugh's gonna come by after 5 and say, why so slow, and I'm
going to growl and say, copier, and if he says anymore, I'll let him
do his own copying from now on :)
evile: heh. I hear ya.
evile: half the reason I hate doing the federal extended benefits
cases is all the copying I have to do
evile: we dont' have a machine in our area. I either have to go to
the main office & get in their way or use one of the 2 machines in
the clerical area.
evile: if I use Clerical's, they all glare at me and then make
bizarre non-specific snarky-ish comments to one another about 'some
people' and shit. it's fuckin bizarre. and damned annoying.
evile: Like I decided to make 7 copies of this fraud folder because I
thought it woudl be FUN or something. No...I'm just doing my feckin'
job. If everyone else would do the same and quit worrying about me
and mine, this place would be a lot better.
SkyeDS: nods
evile: I swear, if I was ever in charge of a bunch of people, I would
write up every single one of them who came tattling to me.
SkyeDS: I seem to be a tattletale magnet
SkyeDS: Laura didn't say a word to me, but she told sineater that Bridget
had come tattling to her long after I thought the whole issue had
been resolved
evile: ugh.
SkyeDS: which then spawned a round of emails and phone calls (none of
them to me)
evile: bizarre.
SkyeDS: afterwhich, apparently Laura decided Bridget wasn't telling
the truth, rehashed it all, and declared it finis.
evile: *sigh* what a mess.
SkyeDS: oh and of course EVERYONE in Austin Polys and the austin
pagan community tell tales about me (if you believe some)
evile: LOL, I regret to inform you that neither you nor him are that
important to the polys or the pagans to be the topic of much
conversation...
evile: these people have their own lives & dramas and yours just
aren't all that crucial... ya know?
SkyeDS: I am not an active part in either community
SkyeDS: so if any of them take time to think badly of me, they must
truly not have anything better to do, and therefore I suppose are
worth my sympathy (or contempt)
evile: If I went to Poly dinner tonight and said "I talked to kaleon
yesterday" (or whatever) they'd assume I was talking about kaleon
M., or they'd say "kaleon who?"
SkyeDS: he doesn't claim fame, he claims every Poly and every Pagan
he's ever met in his long illustrious history in this town, has
hugged him, a complete stranger, to sympathize with him over the Evil
Skye.
evile: oh, you know, kaleon, that guy who came to poly dinner once,
over a year ago. I'm sure you've been fretting about him ever since.
evile: skye who?
SkyeDS: exactly.
evile: Oh, the one who came to PNO once about 4 years ago? yeah, I'm
sure you've kept a vivid recollection of how terribly Evil she is...
SkyeDS: and I've noticed in communities where I am active, that no
matter what I and some others do to protect our reputations, it isn't
always easy nor even possible
SkyeDS: so I don't give a damn anymore.
SkyeDS: "all the polys in austin agree that Skye gives poly a bad
name"
evile: puh. leez. People have better things to do than remember who
did what nasty thing to who, ages and ages ago.
SkyeDS: what the fuck ever.
evile: exactly.
SkyeDS: it was like that in high school
SkyeDS: and i came here to get away from that
SkyeDS: the mythical me always had more fun over the weekends and at
night than I ever did
evile: boy has an inflated sense of his own importance. I doubt
people would even remember him if she showed back up at poly or gwnn
or PNO, or whatever.
SkyeDS: I bet Laura's getting tired of people running to her
with "Skye did" stories.
evile: probably.
evile: pepole with real jobs, real lives, and real important things
to do, just don't have time for all this tattletale nonsense.
evile: just for a bit of perspective on the poly thing, let me share
that onyxlynxx talked about you and I talked about you, more than once,
before we finally both snapped to the fact that we were both talking
about the same person. So...to most polys who'd only met J. and you
both maybe 1ce or twice, I don't think any thing would 'stick' in
their heads after all this time.
evile: If he gets comfort from thinking that all his drama is
inciting riots & controversy across many numerous groups of
people...that's his own little delusion & he's welcome to it if it
makes him feel better, but it makes me laugh.
SkyeDS: he wants me to believe that I am as infamous as the "Diva"
between groups.
SkyeDS: somehow, I doubt that. I'm too milk-toast for that.
evile: hell, even Diva isn't as important as she thinks she is.
SkyeDS: and I make sure to always tell Laura when I goof up, before
anybody else can beat me to it.
evile: *nod*
evile: damage control is always good.
SkyeDS: I can understand the desire to tell stories, truly I can,
because I am a Story Teller by nature.
SkyeDS: and I understand the curiosity part of gossip
evile: yeah
SkyeDS: however, it is possible to indulge the desire to tell
(embellished) tales, and to share information, without being
malicious and harmful about it
evile: exactly.
evile: well, hot damn! I get to leave!
SkyeDS: wind to your wings