Feb. 10th, 2004

1937dream

Feb. 10th, 2004 02:48 pm
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    I was in Muddy with Sweetie & Brother A. We had to drive on snow. I was
    stopping for a red light & the car wasn't stopping, but then it
    turned green & the car in front of me went, so I didn't hit it.

    Then I was somewhere (a restaurant that looked sort of like Bears)
    with Mom & Stepdad was calling to ask me what the part # was for Muddy's
    engine because they were buying a defroster system for the car & had
    to know which defroster system was compatible with my engine. I
    didn't know. But I guessed, based on the way part #'s looked at IEC.

    That's all I remember.

1939links

Feb. 10th, 2004 02:49 pm
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    evilE

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EJ ICQ w A

Feb. 10th, 2004 02:53 pm
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Icq with A today

 

    Feb. 10, 2004

     

     

    lost a bunch of it thru launchast crashing & me shutting it down
    which shut down all my internet windows. foo.

    We dished about Rubber_pig a bit. Skye_ds thinks Rubber_pig will not like her.
    Oh well.

    Talked about v.day. (no plans yet, Kaleon doesn't want to drive to
    rockdale)

    Talked about her getting more land & setting up to teach kids basic
    horse stuff.

    and that's it so far.
     

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      evile: crap. My launchcast crashed all my internet stuff.
      evile: sorry 'bout that.
      SkyeDS: np
      evile: when it works, it's great.
      evile: "the program is not responding. do you want to close"?
      yes, but ONLY launchast, not ICQ and everything that IS working!!
      Dammit.
      SkyeDS: <hands you choice of whip, frying pan, bazooka>
      evile: hee. a magnet & a screwdriver ought to do nicely.
      SkyeDS: <hands said objects over with alacrity>
      evile: heh. So very tempting...
      evile: I guess dinner with Rubber_pig could've been worse. Earlier in the
      day it was said that her kids would be joining us...
      SkyeDS: how old are they? have you met them?
      evile: I am trying _very_ hard to paint this in the brightest
      possible shades of optimism. Oldest is 10 (proud mom carries pads in
      her 'mom purse' just in case she starts her period--like I needed to
      know this, but there it is), middle daughter is 5 and named Bliss,
      and NOT TREYS. (conceived between the first and 2nd time she married
      & divorced him), and the youngest is 'twenty months'.
      SkyeDS: you couldn't write a more complicated soap opera if you tried
      SkyeDS: truth is stranger than fiction and all
      evile: Why do breeder women say '18 months' and '20 months' and so
      forth? Why can't they just say "year and a half' 'almost 2'
      SkyeDS: something I've wondered before more than once myself
      evile: She told Aunt L about the middle baby not being Trey's, just
      right there at dinner. So very...TMI.
      SkyeDS: maybe it's some developmental thing I don't udnerstand
      because I am the dirty unwashed uninitiate
      evile: to motherhood? Me too, but I know you don't discuss certain
      things 1) the first time you meet someone and 2) at dinner.
      SkyeDS: even I know that
      evile: I still dont' get your 'uninitiate' remark...but okay.
      SkyeDS: uninitiate into motherhood
      evile: oh, gotcha.
      evile: I think you should use 'months' until the kid is a year old,
      then just say 'year' 'year and a half' 'almost two'...that's plenty
      evile: Nobody needs to set their watches back to the second it
      crawled out of yer twat, lady.
      evile: (I didn't say that out loud, BTW. I -am- getting better.)
      SkyeDS: ROFL
      evile: oh, and she *snorted* when she laughed. Cousin B was so irritated
      by that.
      SkyeDS: B gives the impression of being refined well past his years
      in an eccentric way (I know that makes no sense)
      SkyeDS: worldly past his years, perhaps is better
      evile: I probably just need to not worry about it. Brother A has been
      unemployed for over a year. he lives in a dirty house full of slacker
      boys. There really isn't a 'life' for her & her offspring to 'ruin'
      as such.
      evile: B is very worldly. Worries me a lot sometimes.
      SkyeDS: makes me wonder what the hell she and Trey are thinking
      SkyeDS: to introduce her beloved offspring into that
      evile: Yeah, if I was Trey,I'd be introducing her to a wealthy friend
      in San Antonio. Brother A is sweet, loyal, loving, and he does take his
      responsibilities seriously. But he is not in a stable situation in
      life.
      SkyeDS: I guess he thinks he wants a readymade family
      evile: I have resolved not to say ANYTHING to him, UNLESS he asks.
      And then I will not say anything negative about Rubber_pig, but suggest
      that it's not the best possible situation to bring another baby into.
      evile: She does not seem like a bad person, just young & immature & a
      little too talky. I just don't know what the big rush is as far as
      marrying and having a baby.
      evile: Cousin B, Aunt L & I agreed that Thanksgiving this year will be one
      of the more interesting ones :P
      evile: I told her I wanted something stronger than "Golden Muskrat"
      to get me through.
      SkyeDS: that approach has always worked well for me
      SkyeDS: with my beloved "little sister" particularly
      SkyeDS: all of her choices in men were hideous, until she found a
      good one and married him
      SkyeDS: and I couldn't be happier
      SkyeDS: but she would reel in a loser
      evile: Sometimes you have to kiss a few frogs before you get the
      prince, eh? :P
      SkyeDS: and I would be asked for my opinion, so I would say, exactly
      once, what I thought, as tactfully as I could manage without
      sacrificing honesty
      SkyeDS: and let it go
      SkyeDS: you say something more than twice and you defeat your own
      purposes and I'm not going to lose her over some fucking loser guy
      evile: All of Sister H's lovers I've met so far have been lovely &
      attractive, but with a few of the [her dad]-behaviors I find so
      unattractive.
      evile: Luckily neither yours nor mine were entranced enough with the
      frogs to make anything permanent :)
      SkyeDS: thank god/dess
      evile: yup. They're smart enough to figure it out for themselves,
      given enough time & proximity. Just grit your teeth & wait it out.
      SkyeDS: Shannon knew what I was doing when I did it
      SkyeDS: she wasn't stupid
      SkyeDS: and she let it pass
      SkyeDS: and we didn't ever discuss it again
      SkyeDS: and time bore me out
      evile: yup.
      SkyeDS: and we never discussed that either
      evile: 'told ya so' is never very productive.
      SkyeDS: what I do tell her ad nauseam is how wonderful James is and
      how happy I am for them both
      SkyeDS: very pleasant I told you so
      evile: It's nice to be able to say that :)
      SkyeDS: life is more pleasant when I make an effort to make a habit
      of saying nice things, I notice
      evile: yup. this is true.
      SkyeDS: one of the qualities I notice in those I admire and aspire to
      emulate most
      SkyeDS: is that they make everyone feel good about themselves
      consistently
      SkyeDS: gift, that, I think
      evile: If you look hard enough, you can usually find at least one
      nice thing to say to/about someone.
      SkyeDS: if you look hard, you find whatever it is you look for
      SkyeDS: good or bad
      SkyeDS: so be careful what you look for
      SkyeDS: and what you wish for
      SkyeDS: because I emphatically believe that there is self fulfilling
      prophecy, and a certain malleability in personal reality
      SkyeDS: "you're about as happy as you decide to be", I always that
      that was Gramma, but now I know she got it from Abe Lincoln, lol, but
      I believe that is an excellent self fulfilling prophecy type Truism.
      evile: yup.
      SkyeDS: I am no longer defective, woohoo, I managed to put nine
      charms on a bracelet (an accomplishment for me). Now I'm going to do
      something easy (the taxes) :)
      evile: heh.
      SkyeDS: I can resist anything but temptation ;)
      evile: I think I've heard that one before, too :) too true!
      SkyeDS: like I dono't have craft supplies galore that I never did
      anything with, I bought tassels yesterday (half price, had to, I tell
      you), nine charms, a bracelet to put them on, some crystals and some
      string to put them on, and several pieces to make necklaces out of
      SkyeDS: and I've struggled with the charms all morning (being
      defective)
      evile: The more you do it, the easier it will get. If JInx has a
      craft night this week, bring your stuff over & we can play.
      SkyeDS: I'm going to start trying to make craft nights once I get my
      schedule with Hugh worked out
      evile: good deal.
      SkyeDS: I'm thinking about offering 30 hours a week tomorrow, 10
      hours on 3 days
      SkyeDS: but Wed would be one of them, possibly
      evile: yeah.
      SkyeDS: which means I wouldn't leave there till like 8 pm and not
      make Michelle's till 8:45
      SkyeDS: how long do those nights last? would there still be stuff
      going on?
      evile: people are usually still there at that time.
      SkyeDS: that would work then
      evile: People usually stay until at least 10.
      SkyeDS: that's right on my way home too
      evile: cool ;)
      SkyeDS: and since the hours I'm going to offer are 9 am to 8 pm,
      staying up late wouldn't be terribly problematic
      SkyeDS: and he might not even want me 30 hours a week yet, but I hope
      he does
      evile: *fingers crossed*
      SkyeDS: and if I can get him accustomed to that concept, maybe if he
      decided he needed me full time, I could get him to agree to a 4/10
      SkyeDS: and that would be very cool
      evile: very.
      SkyeDS: lol I probably could have gotten something at Claire's for
      same money and no effort. But I'm pleased, I know I'm easily amused.
      SkyeDS: actually a friend of mine bought me a $3 bracelet she saw me
      admire at Claire's, cheap but precious in its way, and I loved that
      little bracelet, and then someone stole it, and I was
      disproportionately heartbroken, no monetary value but a great deal of
      emotional attachment
      evile: Some things are more fun when you do them yourself. Definitely
      more meaningful.
      evile: I can see that. I get attached to stuff more when it was a
      gift than if Id bought it myself.
      SkyeDS: don't know why people are like that
      evile: stealing stuff with only sentimental value? Yeah...that is a
      rotten thing to do.
      SkyeDS: steal little cheap things as if they were diamond tennis
      bracelets, things that don't have monetary value and no sentimental
      value to anyone but one person
      SkyeDS: nods
      SkyeDS: not only is it hurtful from an emotional standpoint, from a
      logical standpoint, it's stupid, nothing to gain
      evile: yup.
      evile: Jason just posted the dinner schedule for the month. Looks
      like I'm skipping this weeks . Which is a bummer because I missed
      first Wednesday, too.
      SkyeDS: saw Johnathan request Hao Hao. I used to eat at the one in
      Dobie a lot when I was at UT. Great place.
      evile: I like Jonathan. His wife is a little standoffish, but I think
      that's shy, not snobby.
      SkyeDS: someone would have to connect his name with his face for me
      (as usual)
      SkyeDS: haven't been able to do poly stuff since that one time
      SkyeDS: and I dont' think sineater has either but I'm not sure
      evile: I think you're right--he hasn't been since that 1st Wed. ya'll
      came to CM
      SkyeDS: if I work a 3/10 that includes Wed, that would make CM
      problematic
      evile: true.
      SkyeDS: which is too bad because I like taking Arthur there weather
      permitting
      evile: That is why they alternate Wed & Thursday nights, to give
      everyone a chance to get to at least one dinner.
      evile: Terri A. has a point re: same location, time, etc. being
      easier to remember, but her "Let's be the Seattle Poly Group" mantra
      gets OLD quick.
      SkyeDS: if Hugh isn't hidebound, I can trade Wednesday hours for
      Fridays or Sundays on occasion too
      evile: yup. Contractors tend to have more freedom as far as that
      goes, because if Hugh chooses your hours, you can say you're his
      employee and fuck him up.
      SkyeDS: to this point he has been a darling man, so I don't foresee
      that happening, continue to knock on wood
      evile: that's cool.
      SkyeDS: I need some time there with him so we can tackle piles
      together
      SkyeDS: and then once those piles are wrangled to a certain point
      there is a lot I can do without him there
      evile: Yeah.
      SkyeDS: actually more easily since I would need access to his puter
      (he needs to get me one eventually)
      evile: definitely.
      SkyeDS: many of the paralegals and secretaries I admire say they get
      their best work done early in the morning or late in the evening when
      the attorney isn't there at all
      SkyeDS: this is just going to be the best of all worlds
      SkyeDS: schedule flexibility
      SkyeDS: I like spending time with Hugh on a personal basis
      SkyeDS: we work well together when he's there
      SkyeDS: and I work just as happily when he isn't
      SkyeDS: and I will make my own paid holidays/vacation/sick time and
      such through my own industry, pretty much as I always have (what
      happens when you're a contractor, although I hope sineater gets something
      that would include health insurance, at least catastrophic, soon)
      evile: that would be a big load off your minds, I know.
      SkyeDS: I've been paying Hugh's bills, and I see what he pays for his
      own health insurance, and how much major stuff costs him even though
      he has insurance
      evile: That is something that worries Sweetie, too.
      SkyeDS: he's a health admin lawyer you know
      SkyeDS: I told him about your idea for associations/collectives and
      he agrees
      SkyeDS: incidentally Congress is trying to move in that direction...
      ineptly so far (what else is new)
      evile: heh. of course.
      SkyeDS: we have the mechanism in place for large self insureds
      already, sheesh. You don't have to even event a brand new wheel.
      evile: Just have to be real careful on what demographic 'they' decide
      to put you in. I bet women our age have HUGE healthcare costs due to
      childbirth & whathaveyou.
      SkyeDS: cool website: http://www.ladyofthelakes.biz/
      evile: fertility treatments account for a _huge_ chunk of healthcare
      costs
      evile: And a lot of employers cover that while refusing to cover
      birth control. crazy.
      SkyeDS: seems to me that fertility = elective
      SkyeDS: but I know that's just going to be construed as hatefulness
      on my nonmotherhood part
      evile: I think so too. And I find it a trifle hypocritical that
      people who won't allow 'god's will' to be thwarted by condoms will
      allow 'god's will' to be thwarted through fertility treatments
      SkyeDS: Kelly told me that mandatory sex ed in Manor starts in 5th
      grade
      SkyeDS: and it is segregated
      SkyeDS: and then in 6th grade it is unsegregated
      evile: I think ours was too. Karnes City TX.
      SkyeDS: I can't believe there aren't rabid Xian parents who don't
      throw a big fit over that
      SkyeDS: I've always thought that sex ed should be inherently part of
      anatomy, in Biology, which I think was 9th grade? 10th grade?
      SkyeDS: but I know you have to catch the kids early
      evile: I think there was an option for the Xtian kids to go to the
      library or the auditorium or something, like you had to get a
      permission slip and if your parents didn't sign it, you didn't go to
      sex ed.
      SkyeDS: they're having sex at age 8 now, a lot of them
      evile: that is so alien to me..
      SkyeDS: outside of the behavioral and sociological factors and
      implications
      SkyeDS: girls are starting their periods at 9
      SkyeDS: that's purely biological
      SkyeDS: and significant I think
      evile: scary thought.
      SkyeDS: no matter how you raise your daughter, an d what you do and
      don't allow her to come into contact with, she's going to start her
      period at a tender age.
      SkyeDS: and you have the bleeding/breeding thing to deal with
      (because she'll ovulate at 10)
      SkyeDS: I have seen Kelly's job
      evile: So maybe Rubber_pig isn't so nutty having pads in her purse in case
      her 10 year old starts....Okay. points for the fiancee.
      SkyeDS: she does a superlative job at it
      SkyeDS: (and I don't fucking want it)
      SkyeDS: when I was teaching (a decade ago) a 9 year old girl came to
      me in tears because she started a day early and didn't have protection
      evile: I think a lot of teenagers and young women could benefit from
      spending time with real children & infants. Figure out it's not about
      having a cute little dolly baby that will love you forever.
      SkyeDS: I told her all I had were my supersize tampons (baby's arm
      size)
      SkyeDS: and she said that's the size she uses anyway and thank you
      miss :)
      evile: yow!
      SkyeDS: you could have knocked me over with a molt feather
      evile: i bet.
      SkyeDS: only reason I used tampons right after I first started was
      because I couldn't march wearing pads the size I needed.
      evile: yeah...pretty bulky things back in the day.
      SkyeDS: the world would be a better place if there were more mothers
      like Kelly.
      evile: She is sweet with her kids, but she doesn't take any crap
      either. It's a hard road to walk, keeping that balance.
      SkyeDS: she is an amazing mother, from all perspectives
      SkyeDS: she is an amazing mother despite her motherhood being
      a "mistake" both times
      SkyeDS: getting pregnant as a teenager
      SkyeDS: marrying and divorcing Michael's dad and not making that
      mistake with Brittany's dad even though Brittany was a "mistake" too.
      SkyeDS: she is not on welfare of any kind
      SkyeDS: the child support checks don't come dependably
      SkyeDS: and she hasn't latched onto some other man codependently
      SkyeDS: and her children want for nothing, financially or
      emotionally, and they are academically and socially exceptional.
      evile: Bet you just want to hold her up and say "look, breeder
      welfare cows, it can be done!"
      SkyeDS: it can be done by a single mother thank you very much
      SkyeDS: so two parent families should do at least that well if not
      better
      evile: exactly. But it requires *work* and consistent diligent
      efforts, which a lot of biologically-capable breeders dont' want to
      do.
      SkyeDS: if I were a regulatory type person I would say require all
      women to go through a course in how to be a mother like Kelly before
      issuing them licenses to breed in a controlled fashion.
      evile: ahh, utopia.
      SkyeDS: and...her tubes are tied...there will be no more breeding for
      her, through her own volition.
      evile: smart move, if you're that prone to fertility :)
      SkyeDS: I admire Kelly to no end.
      SkyeDS: and why should I have children of my own, whom I would no
      doubt mess up with, when I can enjoy hers, without doing any damage.
      evile: hee.
      SkyeDS: (in that she would kill me before she let that happen)
      evile: being an auntE was fun. When the kids were unspoiled &
      uncoached in 'gimme gimme'
      SkyeDS: if you ever decide you want to die slowly and painfully, you
      fuck with Kelly's children.
      evile: I bet.
      SkyeDS: you think I have a temper? I am Mary fucking Poppins next to
      Kelly.
      SkyeDS: when someone is stupid enough to set her off, I offer to kill
      them, and then I sit in the corner quietly and behaving myself, so
      that I am not in her way and don't draw her fire in my direction
      evile: it's always rather terrifying to watch someone go
      into 'lioness' mode. Mom, Dee, even sweet little Rio.
      SkyeDS: oh good lord
      SkyeDS: I sure as hell wouldn't want to be in Dee's line of fire
      evile: nope.
      SkyeDS: I have never seen a bull lose its temper
      SkyeDS: but I don't doubt that I don't want a critter God gave 14
      foot rack to giving me my first performance
      SkyeDS: Skye is crazy, but she is not, contrary to popular belief,
      that fucking insane.
      evile: Thus far, I've only heard about it, in her dealings with the
      school over Phine's dyslexia.
      SkyeDS: one of the things I know sonar0m's parents did right was go to the
      matt legally with Leander over his severe dyslexia.
      evile: I know you have a hard time with them, but I do think they act
      out of love & caring for him. Probably overprotective &
      unreasonable...but not hateful.
      evile: And they're working on it. If the shrink does nothing else,
      hopefully they will find a healthful way to separate themselves and
      their accomplishments & choices in life from their son's, realize
      that he's an individual who will make his own choices & live his own
      life.
      SkyeDS: that was cute
      SkyeDS: taxcut cd crashed my puter
      SkyeDS: have the resident expert working on that now
      evile: oh well. s**T happens.
      SkyeDS: there's that website
      evile: We're going to see the accountant on Monday.I need to finish
      sorting out all my paper before then.
      SkyeDS: ladiesonlysports.com
      SkyeDS: good bra/exercise site
      evile: cool.
      SkyeDS: you'd think I'd have learned by now
      evile: ?
      SkyeDS: I ought to bring the mail in myself
      SkyeDS: because if I want all the tax documents in a nice safe pile
      where I can find it when I want it....
      SkyeDS: every year it's the same way
      SkyeDS: and insanity is....
      evile: Sweetie used to have an 'in box'. That was helpful.
      SkyeDS: sineater's inbox is the entire floor of his office
      SkyeDS: I thought it would suffice to ask him to please put tax
      documents in one place on or about my desk, and remember where that
      place is
      SkyeDS: I should have known better, we've been through ti before
      evile: Sweetie's filing system is the dining table. That's not where I
      throw Sweetie's stuff when it comes in, but that's where it ends up.
      SkyeDS: there are things that if we want done right, we do them
      ourselves, because we know they don't care, we can't make them care,
      we can't foist it off on them because it will get messed up, it's
      important it not get messed up, adn they don't care and we do
      evile: true enough.
      SkyeDS: you know...things like...the taxes....vehicle registration
      and inspection....etc
      evile: yup.
      SkyeDS: even Dr. Laura agrees that women have the power, and we mess
      up when we don't use it correctly.
      evile: Sweetie's lost our deed & all the floor & outside plans &
      measurements that were with it.
      SkyeDS: omg, did you ever find them?
      evile: nope. I wanted to copy the lot blueprint and do a garden plan
      with correct square footage, but in the process discovered that it's
      all MIA.
      SkyeDS: there should be a copy of the deed with the bank, the title
      company, etc
      evile: i suppose I could blame Sweetie for losing them, but it was me who
      let him insist on keeping them & believed him when he said he'd
      file it in his filing cabinet.
      evile: I don't need a copy of the deed right this second. But I
      really wanted a lot plan to play with.
      evile: When/if the time comes, since he's the one who lost the deed,
      it will be his responsibility to get another copy.
      SkyeDS: yep
      SkyeDS: we ought to know better
      SkyeDS: shame on me
      evile: I positively despise passive-agressive behavior, but Sweetie has
      used it so much on me that I have learned some of the finer points &
      am now quite good at using it right back at him.
      SkyeDS: Ayn Rand had a point about victims being victims by choice
      evile: yup.
      SkyeDS: I can and have dealt with these problems quite effectively
      before, I know how
      SkyeDS: I get criticized like a motherfucker for my methods
      SkyeDS: but they work when I use them
      evile: same here. I just hope that I don't become something I can't
      like or live with as a result of using those methods.
      SkyeDS: amen sister
      evile: Would be so much easier to ask politely once and have things
      get done
      SkyeDS: maybe you will get the chance to be Aunt E again soon
      (through Brother A)
      evile: um...I doubt it.
      SkyeDS: what is that from Pulp Fiction
      SkyeDS: "don't make me get medieval on yo ass"
      SkyeDS: or something close
      evile: I think Rubber_Pigs concept of motherhood includes spending most of
      her time with them. If they aren't with their dad, they are with her
      kind of thing.
      evile: That, or at lessons. Apparently one of her older 2 is musical
      & she's cultivating that.
      evile: She was talking about Austin Schools & Aunt L told her flat out
      Eanes and Westlake(whatever district that is) are the only ones
      comparable to where she is now in San Antonio (alamo heights)
      SkyeDS: Round Rock too
      evile: I don't know much about Austin's school systems at all. Brother A
      may end up moving to SA so that the girls can stay in Alamo Heights.
      SkyeDS: does he have job prospects in AH?
      evile: Brother A doesn't have prospects anywhere, far as I know.
      evile: He failed his drug test for the beer warehouse, BTW. it wasn't
      his fault because he didn't realize marijuana stays in your system
      too long. *bangs head against wall*
      evile: How is it 'not your fault' to smoke pot of your own free will
      and then get caught? Boy has his head up his ass. I love him to
      pieces but...he makes me crazy. that cause-effect thing again.
      evile: that was a decent blue collar gig, too. $12 an hour &
      benefits. *sigh*
      evile: You couldn't do anything fancy, but you could raise a family
      on that.
      SkyeDS: nods
      evile: oh well. His friend Ron is in SA and working security, if he
      moved there and could stay away from the wacky weed, he could get a
      job there, maybe. Trey works high-tech, so probably would not be able
      to get Brother A in at his place.
      SkyeDS: don't know what to tell him
      evile: Trey's in a very specialized unit in the navy reserves. Wonder
      how it'll shake out if he actually is coming out of the closet. (that
      is just my own twisted little theory, at this point, mind you. I'm
      just idly speculating)
      SkyeDS: nods
      evile: personally, I don't think you can spend months in a confined
      space with someone and *not* know their sexual preference. that
      whole 'dont ask don't tell' is such garbage.
      SkyeDS: theoretically it shouldn't matter
      evile: not at all.
      SkyeDS: you shouldn't be worried about sexual preference when people
      are trying to kill you
      SkyeDS: but it does
      SkyeDS: and for people who are phobic, you can't reason with them
      SkyeDS: phobias are not reasonable by definition
      evile: right.
      evile: Another possibility re: Trey passing Rubber_pig along to Brother A: he
      is going active duty again soon & wants to be sure she's safe before
      he goes.
      SkyeDS: or any combination thereof
      evile: yup.
      evile: They've been married on and off for over 10 years, so there's
      gotta be something there, even if it's not enough to make the
      marriage work, or whatever.
      evile: Aunt L said she got the impression that Rubber_pig was the one who
      wanted the divorce & Trey didn't.
      evile: But, like I said, I think we only see the tip of the iceberg
      here & have no idea what's really going on with this.
      SkyeDS: so she marries Brother A and then plays pingpong back and forth,
      divorcing one and marrying the other.
      evile: Wonder what happened to the daddy of #2?
      evile: Think she & Trey picked him too & then changed their minds &
      got back together?
      evile: I'm so tacky...I should just steel myself to be kind & polite
      & actually spend time with them if I want to know, instead of
      speculating like the mean nasty childfree hag that I am.
      evile: She's obviously quite willing to talk about herself & her
      relationships, so I am sure I don't need to guess, I could just ask.
      evile: Brother A, being Brother A, will change his story to fit his audience. I
      don't get the feeling that Rubber_pig is like that.
      SkyeDS: I would be wondering
      evile: Then again, it's really none of my business. And I probably
      don't want to know.
      SkyeDS: there may be a time down the road when you must cross that
      bridge
      SkyeDS: but no reason to cross it before you come to it
      evile: yup. Brother A is a grown man now, he can make his own decisions in
      life.
      evile: I wish he wasn't so selfish & immature. I wish he'd think
      things through before making such a big committment...but things may
      turn out OK anyway.
      evile: Oh well. I should make my rounds & let you focus on your
      taxes.
      evile: Probably won't be at Poly dinner this Thurs, but hopefully see
      ya 'round sometime soon!
      *hugs!*

evile: (clutter)

  • Feb. 10, 2004

     

    6:30: SJW 300 mg
    6:45 - vitamin B complex
    7:00 - coffee with half & half & splenda 40
    7:45 - krispy kreme 200
    10:30 SJW 300 mg
    11:30 microwave dinner 320
    multivitamin
    2:30 prunes 60
    calcium 600 mg
    6:30 - pluckers
    wings spicy bbq 500
    bbq sauce 30
    shiner 140
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