evile: (headphones)
Oh, tomorrow night is going to be wonderful. I hope we can get to the show at Ruta Maya after the Art!

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Hello All,

We wanted to invite you to our show in Austin tomorrow, Thursday,
December 4th, at Ruta Maya at 9:30pm. Our good friend Vanessa Lively will be
opening up the night at 8:30pm and we may do a tune or two together.
Ruta Maya is located at 3601 South Congress St.

We are also playing in Bryan, TX on Saturday, December 6th at 10pm at
the Revolution Cafe and Bar.

Other December dates include:

12/11 Logon Cafe, Beaumont, TX at 8:30pm
12/12 Yin Yang Fandango, Corpus Christi at 7:30pm
12/13 & 12/14 Enchanted Forest Renaissance Festival, Ingleside, TX
12/20 Nine Lives Books, San Antonio, TX 7:00pm

For more information, please visit
http://wineandalchemy.com/Calendar.html
evile: (evilE)
I'd be interested in being there to hear the owner talk about what's going on with the Enchanted Forest....but probably won't shell out another 15 bux this week. Here's the info, though, for anyone who's interested:Read more... )
evile: (headphones)
We saw Wine and Alchemy for the first time. It was a great show, despite a really disappointing audience turn out. I guess it was a Monday evening, and they were opening for another act, so maybe that's why. BUT...everyone who wasn't there--YOU MISSED AN AWESOME SHOW!!

If you like Loreena McKennitt, and/or Bellydancing and/or Renaissance Festivals, then Wine and Alchemy is a MUST-see.

Roxanne Bruscha, the lead singer, alternated between singing in a very Loreena type vocal style in SEVERAL languages (fantastic pipes) and bellydancing (with swords, scarves, and fans, even!) and also played Zils in some numbers. She was all done up in Tribal-style bellydance garb, which is my favorite, and just put on a GREAT show. You know she has to be in FANTASTIC shape to sing and dance like that. I don't think I heard her out of breath once.

Mark Varelas, formely of EMuzeki, plays several instruments VERY well. And he's really nice to look at, too.

The other three musicans were also very talented, but I'm afraid, NOT quite as charismatic as Mark and Roxanne. (I did find myself wondering what happened to Jenny, Mark's partner from EMuzeki. She was an adorable little mouse sparrow girl)

They did a lot of traditional-sounding music from Romany culture, folk music of Europe, etc, and then closed with a version of "Bolero" that was very yummy indeed. I got the CD and I can't wait to listen to that again in a more intimate setting.

If you ever get a chance to see this band, GO. Clap, dance, sing along if you know the words, and don't forget to yell "Opa!"
evile: (clutter)

    E

    Oct. 18, 2005

     

     

    Work is about the same, but I've been emailing and livejournaling about
    future plans in October with friends: bellydance & fire show with
    dinner buffet on Thursday, maybe a vampire play Friday w/[Cousin B], lunch
    saturday afternoon with Stephanie who's in town Friday for a dr. appt &
    going back home Sat. afternoon/evening, Extravagasm Saturday nite, spa
    day with Elena Sunday, new-age psychic dipshit class with Elena next
    Tues, halloween party with Elena next Friday, campout at Knighthorse &
    Kulilinei's the 29-30th, and of course, Halloween [ideally: dinner at
    Drakul, then the play at Vortex with a buncha folks, then 6th St. w/Sweetie
    and Peglegasus)

    *whew* It makes me happy to have so many plans, but also a little dizzy
    and scattered thinking about all of it!

    Today can't go by quick enough. After Krav Maga class this evening, I'm
    going to crash & burn

evile: (clutter)

    E

    Oct. 17, 2005

     

     

    Friday night, I caught the first half of a bellydance show in South
    Austin. It was good, but I was tired, so I went home at intermission.

    Saturday, [Cousin B] and I went to Krav Maga conditioning class at noon. It
    was level 1 and it kicked both our butts. [Cousin B] worked much harder than
    I did, but STILL.

    Then Sweetie and I went couch shopping. No luck. Around 5:30 he noticed
    the car was making a noise and needed to be fixed (it has been making
    this noise for MONTHS and he's noticed it before.) So we went home
    and he worked on cars.

    I went to see our friend Jaime playing music at a bar in Hutto, TX.
    Small town,lots of rednecks, no smoking ban. I stayed thru his set
    and most of the next one, and called it a night.

    We shopped for couches again Sunday. Finally found something we liked
    and was in our price range at Foley's on Sunday (it was actually a
    SET--couch, loveseat, chair, and ottoman) and then Sweetie got all "oh,
    what if the cats scratch it? Let's not buy it!" ugh. I just wanted to
    throw a fit! But I didn't.
    The plan now is to find something cheap and hopefully not quite as
    crappy as the one we just tossed, and do cat-proofing on it to see if
    it works. If so, we'll move on to a nicer couch at some point in the
    future. *sigh*

    I've had a productive morning, getting work done at work, called and
    reserved some beer-tasting spots for me, Sweetie, and Peglegasus at faire when
    we go in November, and getting weekend plans with Elena hammered out.

     

evile: (clutter)

    Oct. 7, 2005

     

     

    I opened my package--HILARIOUS! I can't wait to do our pumpkin!!!
    Thank you! :) That's so cute! [she sent me a mr potato head pumpkin
    decorating kit!]

    I'm working through lunchtime and leaving early today. I have a ton
    of stuff to do before leaving for faire tomorrow morning. I admit,
    camping in the Vanagon has spoiled me a bit. I'm all like "crap, I
    have to dig up the tent, the stove, flashlight, sleeping bags, bla
    bla" and all we have to do for the vanagon is load in groceries and
    pillows and go. Oh well. It's gonna be fun.

    I don't hurt as much today as I did yesterday. That's a good sign,
    too, I think. I could use a soak in a hot tub, though. Hopefully I'll
    find/make time for that today, too.

    Krav Maga last night was pretty cool. Not quite as intense as the
    intro class I took at the studio in far south Austin last summer, but
    still good. [Cousin B] hits HARD! He started out being partnered with me and
    another girl, but the instructor moved him to sparring with the guys
    pretty quickly.

    He started class stoned but sobered up by the end. I told him how
    really boring and stupid I found stoners to be. Whats sad/scary is, I
    like him drunk and I like him on extasy but...I have to probably be
    unilateral in saying "drugs and alcohol aren't for everyday, and
    nothing is legal to you right now, so can you quit with the
    substances?" *sigh* I plan on being sober at faire tomorrow,
    hopefully that will show him that people can have fun without being
    fucked up. It's so wierd, because one of the things he told me about
    a month ago (before making friends at school) was that all his old
    friends in Boerne were substance abusers and he liked being with me
    and Sweetie and our friends because we are fun and have a great time
    without substances...ahh, the joys of peer pressure.

    Tonight is a bellydance show at Casa de Luz, which should be fun. One
    of my favorite dancers, Leila, is going to be there, and Elena is
    meeting me and [Cousin B] there, so it ought to be a fun evening. And then
    he's spending the night and we'll get up bright and early tomorrow &
    go to faire!

3343icq w/A

Jul. 5th, 2005 05:16 pm
evile: (clutter)

    Jul. 5, 2005

     

     

    evile: Hi there! How was jousting?
    SkyeDS: very educational experience, professionals as opposed to sca
    evile: cool.
    SkyeDS: we're going to join the fourwinds family, a good time was had
    by all, we all got too much sun, some of us in places God never meant
    to get too much sun, etc
    evile: oopsie. Oh well. As long as you had fun.
    SkyeDS: how was your weekend?
    evile: excellent.
    evile: wrote about it in LJ
    SkyeDS: just got here, so still tackling half a dozen tasks at once
    evile: I'm really stoked for next month's Desert Passion. There will
    be live music by a guy named Oliver Rajamani, who is apparently one
    of the world's premier Romany musicians.
    SkyeDS: when is Desert Passion?
    evile: first Friday of the month
    evile: On the 'yuck' side, looks like some of the Typsy Gypsy troupe
    will be guest perfomers, but they are not being billed as such, so
    perhaps as individuals htey'll actually behave and not talk and
    laugh through everyone else's performances.
    SkyeDS: they can be avoided
    SkyeDS: and I won't be there in garb, freezing, with my headscarf
    wrapped around my face looking like a burqqa
    evile: I dont' really know how you can 'avoid' watching them dance,
    without being very rude to your fellow audience members, but you can
    certainly avoid socializing
    SkyeDS: that's what I meant
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: would be easy enough to avoid seeing them dance too, could
    just shut my eyes
    SkyeDS: nobody would notice unless they were watching me instead of
    the dancer
    evile: *nod*
    evile: It should be fun. I'm excited about it. [Cousin B] is a newly
    converted fan.
    SkyeDS: :)
    evile: Leila was one of the guest dancers--the blonde goddess PhD
    candidate who used to dance with Z Helene at Cafe Mundi.
    SkyeDS: yum
    SkyeDS: does Z not do shows in Austin anymore?
    evile: Apparently she dances at Pyramids on Saturdays,a nd during hte
    school year, she dances with Mirage (I believe at the Carousel
    Lounge). So I will need to go check that out.
    evile: Z helene does maybe 2-4 shows a year now, and htey're indoors
    at Austin Yoga (?) on S. Lamar. Dreadful acoustics. Not a good space,
    IMHO.
    SkyeDS: cafe mundi was such a nice venue, wonder what happened
    evile: the children wouldn't stop tearing up the plants.
    evile: so Cafe Mundi stopped allowing them to have dances there.
    SkyeDS: her children, patrons' children or both?
    evile: Mostly her daughter & the two little bellydance students, but
    when other kids would come, they'd follow the lead of the other kids
    and the parents didn't do a damn thing to stop them, just let them
    run unsupervised
    evile: Yay for irresponsible breeders ruining yet another nice thing.
    SkyeDS: too bad she doesn't have better business sense, which would
    have spurred her parental responsibility
    evile: *shrug* A lot of artists seem to have lacks in other areas of
    their lives.
    evile: great musicians are bad with money, great writers are
    immoderate in their alcohol consumption, etc. etc. It's practically
    textbook.
    evile: It looks to me like Z. Helene is focusing more on teaching
    these days. And apparently her website says she's going to some kind
    of workshop or competition in August. So, I guess she's just changed
    gears a bit
    SkyeDS: common sense would say, you hire someone/get a volunteer who
    has the skills you don't
    evile: *shrug* a lot of artistic personalities dont' have common
    sense, either.
    SkyeDS: the problem with cafe mundi being symptomatic and not causal
    SkyeDS: ie gear shift or not, she'll keep creating the same problem
    for herself over and over again
    SkyeDS: don't learn from history you're doomed to repeat it, etc
    evile: New performance space is Indoors, nothing but floor and
    chairs, there's not much damage a kid can do. Plus parents seem to be
    better about supervising kids indoors.
    evile: she makes a point of saying her shows are kid friendly...being
    that I'm not, I have found more suitable venues for my interest in
    watching adults bellydancing.
    SkyeDS: I don't perceive you as being unkidfriendly
    SkyeDS: I perceive you as being unruly-kid-unfriendly
    SkyeDS: you enjoy the well behaved children of your friends
    evile: *nod*
    evile: I even tolerated being drooled and puked by the baby on
    Saturday.
    SkyeDS: I don't remember having ever been drooled or puked on, so I'm
    impressed. Can't say that I know how I would react to that.
    evile: The baby is so durned cute, I just really didn't mind. amazing.
    SkyeDS: drooling and puking, while aesthetically less than pleasing,
    are natural, and not the byproducts of bad parenting either
    evile: yup
    evile: Looks like I may have to make TableRock a priority.
    SkyeDS: why?
    evile: Met up with some folks I hadn't seen in forever at the
    bellydance show, they were talking about it, and then found out
    Saturday that rengeek is bartending there. So..yeah, gotta go.
    SkyeDS: ah.
    evile: It's such a dinky little faire...there's nothing to it as far
    as shows or booths, but if I know I will meet up with a bunch of
    friends, that makes it worth my while to go.
    SkyeDS: I have a couple of things I want to implement for 4winds faire
    SkyeDS: that I might try out at Raven's Loft and Tablerock first,
    maybe
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: all of these faires have jousters
    SkyeDS: but none of them have mounted archery (a specialty of the
    Arabian battlemare)
    SkyeDS: nor ballet du cheval - a precursor of dressage
    SkyeDS: which the Egyptians had a form of, called "dancing horses"
    evile: *nod*
    evile: time for me to make the rounds & get gone. *hugs*

evile: (clutter)

    Jun. 27, 2005

     

     

    evile: hi :) How was your weekend?
    SkyeDS: good, urs?
    evile: very nice :) Biggest tubing gang yet--11 ppl
    SkyeDS: saw where Ample is going tubing too
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: might be nice to do that one Sunday rather than HFS
    evile: no pets allowed on the san marcos shuttle...but other that,
    yeah.
    SkyeDS: ....I hadn't planned on taking Arthur or the horses tubing,
    although I do intend to teach the horses to swim.
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: I see no way for tubing to be safe for Arthur or it being
    enjoyable to him, as much as he likes water
    evile: probably not.
    SkyeDS: he likes gently falling water, anything that resembles rain.
    Not swimming in bodies of water, which he doesn't like.
    evile: *nod*
    evile: the bellydance/fire show at NM was pretty good, as much as I
    really dont' care for the headline act. Drakon was wonderful, as
    always, the fire was awesome, and Jaime did well on drums, even with
    a hangover.
    SkyeDS: I thought Jaime was dancing. Why did I think that.
    evile: I probably said 'performing' and you assumed dancing, not
    knowing he's a musician.
    SkyeDS: that makes more sense to me than him dancing
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: I really couldn't get my mind around him dancing
    evile: I'd never seen him on drums before so that was cool
    SkyeDS: I bet. I remember when I discovered at pagan events that I'd
    rather drum than be in the dance circle.
    SkyeDS: I'd never played a drum before, just tamborine, marracas, etc
    SkyeDS: but piano is also a percussion instrument so I guess it
    should have occurred to me that I'd enjoy drums
    evile: *nod* any sense of rhythm is helpful :)
    evile: Ample wants to go tubing earlier than we usually do...if she
    goes to San Marcos, I may have to plan on joining her later, or go
    with Ample & just have Sweetie/peglegasus/etc. join me later.
    SkyeDS: yep, definite need to give thought to how long it will take
    us to make SM from home
    evile: *nod*
    evile: I googled Ravensloft, it's almost 5 hours from my house! yuk!
    evile: agh. onyxlynxx's being bitchy. Maybe I should go home and steam
    some artichokes, the way I've been wanting to for DAYS now.
    SkyeDS: my grilling show grilled baby artis and caesar salad this
    last episode
    SkyeDS: num num num
    evile: I've never grilled an artichoke.
    SkyeDS: the grilled salad was more surprising to me evne than
    artichokes
    SkyeDS: I mean, I'd never heard of grilling chokes specifically but I
    am familiar with grilling veges and fruits generally
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: what I think would be neat is to grill the Italian stuffed
    chokes (stuffed w cheese and other goodies)
    SkyeDS: if you can grill peppers stuffed with cheese, why not chokes
    evile: true. I guess you'd have to go with baby ones, though,
    otherwise half would get cooked and the other half would not.
    SkyeDS: they were using babies
    SkyeDS: and said since the babies were so tender you didn't have to
    remove the chokes
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: I watch the cooking shows on PBS because I don't have Food
    Network (or any other channel worth watching) anymore
    evile: *nod*
    evile: Could be worse: we only get FOX.
    SkyeDS: true. we get two versions of all the networks, and 3 pbs,
    and one spanish
    SkyeDS: the reception on all of them sucks tho
    evile: yeah.
    evile: Other than simpsons, we really don't watch that much TV, so I
    don't really care. Especially now that everything's hooked up and I
    can watch movies on the big projector screen :)
    SkyeDS: they played a good simpsons rerun not too long ago about a
    struggle between the child-free and families
    evile: I love that episode :)
    SkyeDS: I wondered if you might not ;)
    evile: "All my purse has in it is DISPOSABLE INCOME!!"
    SkyeDS: LOL
    SkyeDS: ironically enough...I have dozens of children who consider me
    an Aunt to some degree or another
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: but I've never met the three nieces/nephew that are actually
    mine
    SkyeDS: by adoption anyway
    SkyeDS: so I will be meeting them at the upcoming family reunion
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: about which all I can muster right now is a less than half
    hearted academic, tha'ts nice.
    evile: yeah...
    SkyeDS: I've been reading Sandra Day O'Connor's decisions,
    particularly Kelo and 10 Commandments, and I'm liking her a lot.
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: have carved an interesting niche for my character in RP
    evile: oh?
    SkyeDS: anytime someone needs some hole filled in and they can't come
    up with a plot device to do so, they use Bella's Sight
    evile: oh, that's kinda cool!
    SkyeDS: people give me what details they want filled in, what details
    they want left obscured, and I come up with fairly genuine tarot,
    astrology etc to make it sound good
    evile: I haven't read any of the boards in forever; where is all this
    going on?
    SkyeDS: www.hfscr.org > forums > In Character
    SkyeDS: I've just gotten new fodder from last night's minicourt and
    Dani/Sharjinka RP this am
    SkyeDS: too bad I can't post RP with pictures of the cards, that
    would be cool
    evile: yeah....
    evile: that's one major advantage hfsinchaos has, they have photos
    SkyeDS: I was talking to Shadowmist's Kim (as opposed to Drandmir's
    Kim)
    SkyeDS: who is the feastocrat for CRW
    SkyeDS: and she asked me if I was bringing the horses
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: I was like, um...no?
    SkyeDS: it's a state park, it isn't one of the 12 where they're
    allowed
    SkyeDS: besides SIL (that's you) found a faire for us to go to that
    weekend instead so it's ok
    evile: heh.
    SkyeDS: and you don't notice us whining moaning bitching kvetching or
    anything similar about date or site
    SkyeDS: we'll go to whatever CRWs we can go to and the ones we can't,
    that's life
    SkyeDS: I didn't tell her that I agree that Ronnie has pretty much
    messed up irreparably this year
    SkyeDS: because I do agree with her that regardless, he shoudln't be
    subject to personal attack
    SkyeDS: the children of HFS still need to learn to cordially,
    respectfully agree to disagree
    evile: yup.
    SkyeDS: our court system is adversarial, but courteous
    evile: yup...the inherent truth is that by agreeing to debate in
    court, you are automatically honoring your opponent by deeming him
    worthy of combat kind of thing...
    SkyeDS: I personally don't understand why it seems to be so hard for
    so many to grasp "agree to disagree" over a cold beer or whatever
    evile: you would think...
    evile: oh well. geek social fallacies abound in that group, I think.
    SkyeDS: I liked those, I memoried those, and the next 10
    commandments, same day
    evile: yup
    SkyeDS: I also thanked argoneric for posting the excellent legal opinion
    sites
    SkyeDS: I would like sometime to sit down with him and talk shop
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: passionate kisses for onyxlynxx = good too
    evile: yup.
    evile: I got the first hint of his Leo nature at full moon last
    week...I can't say it did much for me, but Libras are better at
    dealing with such.
    SkyeDS: Leo & Libra are the Fire/Air thing, good thing
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: you'd feel the same connection more with a Cancer/Leo
    cuspbaby (predominantly cancer)
    evile: I generally want to kick Cancers in teh ass, actually.
    evile: and knock Leos upside the head.
    SkyeDS: the cusp of leo would be imperative there
    SkyeDS: because of your cusp
    SkyeDS: you wouldn't be dealing then with a pure critter but a hybrid
    complementary to the kind of hybrid you are yourself
    evile: I dont' care for the whiney drama of the Cancer, or the
    egomania of the Leo...I can't imagine liking someone with traits of
    both.
    SkyeDS: it would be a mitigating thing, the best of both, without the
    worst of either
    SkyeDS: theoretically anyway
    SkyeDS: it isn't like I can go to the mall and custom order one anyway
    evile: I don't think there's a 'best' of Leo. Cancers are OK in
    moderation
    SkyeDS: I don't seem to have a good track record with Cancer
    SkyeDS: I have had enough Cancer friends to notice a pattern
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: I give them several years of "we trust each other with our
    lives" and they eventually turn on me for no discernible sensible
    reason
    evile: my theory is lack of communication when they start feeling
    stepped-on, which leads to a blowup
    SkyeDS: and then have the unmitigated gall to be surprised when the
    gemini reaction to the cancer claws to the belly is to draw the sword
    and give them back nubs
    SkyeDS: that sounds about right, yepyep, what you said
    evile: it's unfortunate...neither person is a bad person, or else
    they never would have been friends/trusted each other in the first
    place.
    SkyeDS: I completely agree. Of course, that's not the way Cancer
    sees it.
    SkyeDS: On top of that, you want to talk about holding grudges.
    SkyeDS: I have a long memory, Cancers hold grudges longer than herds
    of elephants.
    SkyeDS: the sad thing bout it is, these have all been relationships I
    treasured deeply (some more deeply than others, admittedly)
    evile: *nod*
    evile: ooh...I just realized this Friday is Drakon's show!!! Now I
    almost hope my boss does actually gather the tits/spine to tell
    me "no" on my leave request, so I can stay in town instead of heading
    out w/Sweetie
    SkyeDS: may you find what you seek, either way
    evile: *grinz*
    SkyeDS: I'm s o bad
    evile: are you accumulating double bitch points?
    SkyeDS: I ordered 3 five yard saris, and 2 custom made salwar kameez
    evile: that's cool.
    SkyeDS: I seldom accumulate bitch points at all because apparently,
    when I'm bitchy, I'm so bitchy that the other card carrying bitches
    around me tell me I'm too bitchy
    evile: heh.
    SkyeDS: I learned in high school that I wasn't interested in
    individual battles, just nuclear options that end the war
    SkyeDS: so I tolerate a whole lot and then fire off just one volley
    intended to end the entire thing, and that one volley is apparently
    too low
    SkyeDS: <shrugs>
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: no, I was bad by way of shopping spree
    SkyeDS: but three 5 yard saris and two custom tailored silk and
    beaded salwar kameez, in my size, for under $100 all told, I couldn't
    resist
    evile: it's only bad if you deprived your children of food, loved
    ones of roof over head by spending the $, and/or the stuff turns out
    not to be worth what you spent on it or you don't end up liking it.
    SkyeDS: of course....I can resist anything but temptation
    SkyeDS: I also found a seamstress on ebay who sells exquisite garb
    for not much more than it would take to make it yourself
    evile: I am trying to reserve moral judgement for things that
    actually effect others. Food, money...neither is good or evil, they
    just are.
    SkyeDS: Snookies
    SkyeDS: but for the time being I will need to learn how to wrap a sari
    evile: If I can't spend the money or eat the thing without feeling
    like shit, I will just skip it :P
    SkyeDS: I've seen pictures of how to do it, but I've not done it yet
    evile: as I discovered with wrapping my Dark Goddess Ball turban, it
    looks easier than it is :P
    SkyeDS: that's what concerns me
    evile: another job for de boys, I guess :P
    SkyeDS: turbans, saris or both
    evile: it's often easier to do something on someone else than it is
    on yourself (painting finger/toenails comes to mind as an immediate
    example :P)
    SkyeDS: I remember Cameron (GWNN) saying it takes two women to wrap
    him in his 9 yard tartan properly
    evile: heh. probably.
    SkyeDS: yard = feet...?
    SkyeDS: maybe he meant 3 yards, 9 feet
    evile: no. He meant yards.
    evile:  Sweetie's is 6 yd, technically cheating, but easier to manage.
    SkyeDS: I'm wondering if 5 yards isn't going to be too long for me
    SkyeDS: but then there's my belly *sigh*
    SkyeDS: the pictures I"ve seen start off with pleats (on the saris at
    the waist)
    SkyeDS: but I've never seen one on someone that was pleated
    evile: sari fabric is lighter weight than tartan, so should be more
    manageable.
    SkyeDS: the saris are georgette, which is supposed to be more
    flattering to full figures than heavier saris
    SkyeDS: as much as I love silk - and have a choli made from sari
    silk, with a black tribal skirt that has a band of the same sari silk
    at bottom
    SkyeDS: (I was wearing it at Ingleside)
    evile: silk can be georgette.
    SkyeDS: the gorgeous choli that goes with the skirt doesn't fit
    SkyeDS: but Jubilee said she thinks we can afro-engineer it
    evile: georgette is a weight/type of fabric. silk is a material that
    fabric is made out of.
    SkyeDS: I wanted to take the sleeves off and make them (whatever you
    call detached sleeves)
    evile: A chevy is made of steel. Steel is not a Chevy.
    SkyeDS: ok, well, georgette as opposed to something heavier
    SkyeDS: I got the feeling it had to do with weight of cloth
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: certainly not the Arabian silk that was so heavy it repelled
    arrows
    evile: georgette is a semi-sheer weave, with a non-shiny type finish.
    SkyeDS: but so we're going to detach the sleeves and put grommets in
    at the shoulders and under the arms and do laces rather than add
    panels
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: nonshiny is good, usually silks/satins that are shiny are
    also very heavy and hot
    evile: yup.
    evile: My silk sarong is shiny, but very light. Charmeuse, I think?
    SkyeDS: I'm hoping to be able to ride in the salwar kameez, the
    saris....ehhhh........
    SkyeDS: but they should make for great court garb
    evile: probably not so much.
    evile: yeah. definitely :)
    SkyeDS: and even if I can't use them as garb at all, I like them, and
    I'm going to wear them anyway, any place I wanna
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: that beaded headpiece that came with the riders garb that
    came with Mirage's bedouin set, that I thought was silly, sells
    online for $28
    evile: wow!
    SkyeDS: I'm still more partial to a tikka
    SkyeDS: on top of the lovely headscarf that goes under the silly
    headpiece
    SkyeDS: black triangular scarf beaded on two sides
    evile: I like those.
    SkyeDS: I'm still pondering whether I could wear mine under a turban
    SkyeDS: the whole thing with a turban is to use something on bottom
    like gauze or cotton
    SkyeDS: the scarf has to be held in place with black silk cord as it
    is
    SkyeDS: and, of course, the scarf means I can't ponytail and then
    tuck into the turban
    evile: *nod* I imagine with practice, you could incorporate a lot of
    separate pieces into your turban-wrapping.
    SkyeDS: of course I won't know how it would look until I try it, but
    I think the black triangle scarf below, tied with cord, turban on
    top, attach the tikka to the turban along with tassels and other such
    SkyeDS: I have a lot of pretty trims to cannibalize from my shoddy
    attempt at horse barding
    evile: yeah, all the trims & stuff add visual interest
    evile: all of my rock the casbah stuff is black...so I'm not wearing
    it to ravensloft, that's for dang sure :P
    SkyeDS: speak of the devil, my 3 saris just arrived
    evile: that was quick :)
    SkyeDS: drooling, yummies, now I really have to learn how to wear
    them!
    evile: I once had a green silk sari that I wore as "Gaia" one
    halloween, and then used as a window treatment. :p
    SkyeDS: they all say 100% polyester, so I guess it's faux georgette
    SkyeDS: oh well, should be easy to take care of anyway
    SkyeDS: the colors and sparklies and patterns are gorgeous all the
    same
    evile: no...georgette doesn't have to be silk. Georgette is the style
    of fabric, not the material the fabric is made out of.
    SkyeDS: did you make pleats in yours at the waist?
    SkyeDS: because it looks simple enough if I don't have to make pleats
    evile: I wore mine like a toga...It was totally half-assed.
    evile: it was fine for a costume party look but would not have stood
    up to a full day of activity
    evile: (firm believer in hidden safety pins/velcro/etc.)
    SkyeDS: this choir sings amen to that
    evile: We are so caught up, I had figured that asking off Friday
    would be an automatic 'yes'. But I guess not. My boss is so
    frustrating...
    evile: and I can deal with "no" far more gracefully than I deal
    with "no response whatsoever"
    SkyeDS: nods.
    SkyeDS: am afraid I may be about to have that problem, I hope not,
    not to the tune of $50
    evile: oh dear.
    SkyeDS: 53 and some change actually
    evile: ouchies.
    evile: I just can't imagine Hugh giving you a hard time like that...
    SkyeDS: not Hugh. Ebay seller.
    evile: Oh, OK.
    SkyeDS: Hugh and I do pretty good together. Been here over a year
    and a half now. That's a long time for a merc.
    evile: *nod*
    evile: Time for me to scoot. I'll yap at ya later.
    SkyeDS: wind to your wings! :)

evile: (clutter)

    Oct. 19, 2004

     

     

    evile: I think they're gone. Now my machine is insufferably slow.
    UGH@!!!!
    SkyeDS: <hugs>
    evile: I just want to do my job and go home. That's all.
    evile: ANYWAY, how is YOUR day going?
    SkyeDS: nods
    SkyeDS: it goes, will be happy when it's over
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: Randy looked at the first helmet that came in and said that
    regardless of what it was represented as, it isn't heavy field legal
    SkyeDS: which isn't a problem for sineater but is for sonar0m
    evile: Oh, no!
    SkyeDS: Eq helmets do not have the same requirements as Heavy, so
    I've sent off pics to Laura and Linda, and if they don't Approve then
    I'll try to get my money back, or resell them on ebay, and get
    fencing masks
    SkyeDS: but the boys will have to borrow masks for Bryn Gwylad
    because of time
    evile: *nod* Well, that's too bad about the cool-looking helmets :(
    SkyeDS: if they're good for boffer we might as well keep them
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: wonder if sineater might like to go to TRF Saturday
    SkyeDS: Hugh is going
    evile: 23rd?
    SkyeDS: nod
    SkyeDS: anywhere/way to get discount tickets that you know of? I
    think like Taco Bell has discount tickets...
    evile: Maybe a grocery store--albertson's or HEB. I don't think
    online would get to you quick enough, plus the $2 handling fee makes
    it not much of a discount
    evile: onyxlynxx is going to TRF this weekend, but roninjedi isn't anymore.
    evile: http://www.texrenfest.com/tickets.asp
    evile: the 23rd is the last bellydance & fire show at Natural Magic
    for this year. More decisions. ugh.
    SkyeDS: well now he doesn't think he wants to go. sigh.
    evile: oh feh.
    evile: I need to make up my mind about what to do this weekend SOON.
    Too many options.
    SkyeDS: he asked some time ago about TRF
    SkyeDS: I asked him if he wanted to drop an event to go which would
    be fine with me
    SkyeDS: he said no
    SkyeDS: so this weekend opens up, and I ask him if he watns to go,
    and he says, no, I'd rather stay home, build fence and clean house
    evile: Oh well.
    SkyeDS: (which we could do sunday but anyway)
    SkyeDS: already decided to give up Drandmir on Sunday because I might
    have two lessons and $60 is worth staying home for
    evile: that's cool.
    SkyeDS: and while most of one day is enough for either fencing OR
    cleaning, it isn't for both
    evile: *nod* I get that way too, sometimes it's nice to just stay
    home & putter, get things done, get caught up.
    SkyeDS: last night I got a little annoyed
    SkyeDS: Marshall spent 50 minutes of his hour lesson asking to ride
    Jezebel rather than Mirage
    evile: oh?
    SkyeDS: so the last 10 minutes, I relent, and put him on Jesse.
    SkyeDS: and he spent the entire time whining he wanted to be on Mirage
    evile: Oh, for gods sake.
    SkyeDS: and the worst part is then when his mom and dad come to pick
    him up, he whines to his mom that I MADE him ride Jesse, he didn't
    want to.
    evile: whatever!
    SkyeDS: well, I don't need parents believing that I would force a
    child to ride a horse s/he wasn't ready for.
    SkyeDS: and she's just nuts, so I never know what she's going to
    believe.
    evile: *nod* I remember her. ick.
    SkyeDS: she wants to switch to every two weeks and not every week
    SkyeDS: I can't say that I'm disappointed. even with the loss of the
    weekly income.
    evile: *nod*
    evile: onyxlynxx's ride to TRF keeps waffling, so I told her I'd be her
    backup. If you wanted to make it a girls' day out, we could always do
    that. leave sineater home to do his thing.
    evile: Just a thought, we don't have to decide anything right this
    second. There's still a few days before the weekend, so, whatever.
    evile: At this point my default is home & NM bellydance show. If Sweetie
    acts like he really wants me at the VW campout, that would be #1. But
    so far he hasnt
    SkyeDS: HK was my first/only fire show. Fire show = pretty damn cool
    evile: *nodnodnod*
    SkyeDS: belly dance I can take or leave depending on how good the
    dancers are
    evile: You should let me light you on fire sometime.
    evile: The Typsy Gypsys aren't that great, to be honest. I dislike
    their leader a bit. (obnoxious yankee bitch)
    SkyeDS: I don't know that I want to be lit on fire, but I wouldn't
    mind playing with fire toys like poi, fans, and staves
    evile: But the fire is way cool.
    SkyeDS: those were the other dancers I take it
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: one of them got drunk and jumped my case
    SkyeDS: I was very cold
    SkyeDS: so I had my khafiya wrapped all the way around my face, and
    was huddled down in my abaya and two cloaks on top of
    SkyeDS: apparently she thought it was a burqqa and she flipped
    evile: Oh for gods sake. How intolerant of her, even if it WAS a
    burqua.
    SkyeDS: well yeah
    SkyeDS: I was so cold and so muffled initially I didn't hear all of
    what was going on
    SkyeDS: and the boys managed to get her calmed down before I realized
    enough to respond
    evile: *nod*
    SkyeDS: "you don't understand, I'm a bellydancer and I have negative
    associations with the burqa (and some other very strong language I
    didn't hear all of)"
    SkyeDS: ok, so, don't look.
    evile: how rude.
    SkyeDS: she was very, very drunk
    SkyeDS: all three of them appeared to be when they were dancing
    SkyeDS: Dracone put them in the shade.
    evile: good for him :)
    evile: He and 2 of the 3 Typsy Gypsies were performers at Extravagasm.
    evile: not together, but each had their own dance
    SkyeDS: <wrinkles nose at Gypsies>
    evile: The leader, Memserate, or however she spells it, used to be
    inthe VW gang. Nobody liked her, all were relieved when she sold her
    orange bug & quit showing up.
    SkyeDS: she apparently isn't popular with the leadership of the CMA
    either (as she was complaining to Seneca of the ESA)
    evile: poor dear.
    evile: I have no sympathy for her. she's rude and unpleasant to be
    around, so why should people be polite and pleasant to her?
    evile: Just to be fair, her dancing has gotten better since she
    started at Cafe Mundi
    evile: she doesn't do as much of the ungraceful, ugly 'belly/slam-
    dance" thing anymore
    evile: oops, it's 4. Gotta go. More trash talk tomorrow ;)
    evile: *hugs*

evile: (declutter)

    Oct. 4, 2004

     

     

    My weekend was OK. Went to a cool bellydance show Friday evening,
    then tried to go to Ladydreamtime's party after that, but I got lost & didn't
    have any phone #'s to call, just the directions. duh.

    Saturday, I went to the AIA homes show with e.. It was not as much
    walking as I'd expected, and you had to take off your shoes before
    going into each of the 10 houses. I didn't know this, obviously,
    because I wore my Docs which are comfy for walking long distances and
    a PITA to get in and out of. Ugh. Oh well. Some nice houses, but most
    of them didn't feel like people really lived there.

    Saturday afternoon/evening, I went running the roads w/Sweetie, and then
    we went to dinner, and then I went to a housewarming party at
    thewordnerd's. I arrived 2 hours & some minutes after the official start
    time of the party, and I was only the 2nd person there. I felt kinda
    bad for him. Eventually 3 or 4 more people showed up. Everyone at the
    party was socially retarded computer geeks and they did that thing I
    hate where everyone talks at once and nobody listens. Since I felt so
    bad for thewordnerd, I stayed until a bit after 3 a.m.

    Sunday, I went to Costco and HEB and picked up a couple hundred
    bucks' worth of staples for the pantry & freezer. I also mall-ratted,
    browsed thru JC Penney (Sweetie's mom & mamaw gave us a JCP gift
    certificate for Xmas...we haven't used it yet, and now I know why)
    and got a box of the 6 new truffles at the Godiva store. I tried
    the "caramel solstice" one last night. It was good, even though I am
    not usually a fan of hazelnuts.

    And that was my weekend. I really could have used one more day--I
    didn't do laundry or dishes, which I meant to do Sunday

evile: (clutter)
 

 

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    evilE

    May 22, 2004

     

     

    From: Sunshine
    Date: Thu, 20 May 2004 15:37:55 EDT
    Subject: Touching Base
    To: evilE




    Hey,
    Girl I've missed you so much, and Happy Birthday!! ^___^
    I've given up HFS for a bit, but I would still like to meet and hang
    out with you. However, if we go somewhere this time I'm payin and its
    my treat. I got some money headin towards me so I dont think it'll be
    a prob. ^____^ Let me know something, ok?


    Love ya,
    Sunshine
    ==========
    me:
    Hey, darlin'! Thanks for the b-day wishes. I had such
    a great time in Montana, it's hard to be back at work
    today!

    Tonight I'm going out with family for dinner, then
    Friday is a housewarming party Sweetie & I are invited to.
    Saturday evening I was thinking of going to the
    bellydance show at Natural Magic.

    So: I'm free Saturday in the daytime. And of course
    you are more than welcome to join me for the
    bellydance show. We could meet up before that, get a
    bite, sit and visit, whatever.

    And I'm free all day Sunday.

    Sounds like you've got a lot going through your head
    right now...I hope we can talk face to face soon.

    XO!

    =E
    ========
    S/T/C:

    Hey sweety,

    That would be awesome! Saturday, saturday. *ponders* I
    am free as well, so if you would like to meet up before that would be
    awesome. I've never seen a bellydancer before. ^__^ Where would you
    like to meet up?
    =======
    me:
    Is there someplace in Georgetown where we could get an
    early bite of dinner, maybe? I could meet you there &
    we can go to the show after that?
    =========
    him:
    I know this little place at the Square that would be
    perfect. I'll find out the name and get back to you. ^__^
    =====
    me:
    Sounds awesome :) Keep me posted!
    ======
    him:
    Hey,
    The name of the restaraunt thing is Cafe on the Square.
    Its famous for its ice cream. ^__^ What time would you like to meet?
    Anytime is good for me. Theres a lot I would like to talk to you
    about. For instance.. I'm thinking about changing my name. Sunshine
    is good and all... But I'm growing up, and Sunshine is a child's
    name. I think I want to be called T--- from now on. ^____^
    ===
    me:

    Cafe on the Square sounds awesome :)

    What do you think of meeting there around 5?

    T---, eh? That's going to be odd, but I think I can
    get used to it. My Sweetie's name is T--, so at least
    it won't be hard to remember :P

    See ya Tomorrow, then!

    XO!

    =E


    ------
    So, dinking around w/Sweetie & feeding L&B cats & whatnot, I didn't leave
    the house until a bit after 5, got to the cafe around 5:45. I had
    been thinking/hoping/dreading that maybe he went to the HFS event
    instead with Sharjinka. Better to be stood up than late? There's a sad
    little thought that speaks volumes about my self-esteem.

    So dinner was OK (yes, he paid, I don't know if he tipped) He gave me
    a book for my bday about a woman in IRan who teaches other women.
    should be Interesting.

    Then we went to NM. I bought T---- a beer, which I don't think he
    liked. hehe. I met up with Stephanie & her friend Crystal there.
    Sharon (steve's wife) was doing sound & also did fire=twirling near
    the beginning of the show. Also saw Lenora from Things Celtic, and
    ThomasRhymer and Susan, formerly of 'Lee & Susan' who went to faire
    on the ill-starred TRF bus trip.

    so...it was an OK evening. I think Sunshine stole some stuff
    from the NM store--tarot cards & a wand. That rather sucks, esp. if
    they find out or hear about it and it was 'evilE's friend the theif'--
    I hate to think that way, but I have done business with them in the
    past with the booth at their spring show and I really hate to think
    of them thinking of me badly. Should I tell them what I think & offer
    to pay (or just pay, no offer), or send them $ anonymously, or ask
    Sunshine if he stole? or what? That kinda sucks.

    Ihop afterwards. Cute gay waiter kid, Sunshine had the hots for him.

    We talked trash about HFSers & UB on the way home. Someone told
    Sunshine she wanted him. eugh. Luckily he's not as sad & such as some
    other 18 year old victim boys I could name.

    Um...and then I took Sunshine home.



    and now it's late so I'm sleeping.

1885today

Jan. 24th, 2004 05:31 pm
evile: (clutter)

    Jan. 24, 2004

     

     

    up 10 ish, phone rang, it was a call for Sweetie. Drank coffee. Sweetie made
    wings. I had 2 of those & oatmeal.

    Went to HEB & got more SJW, also vitamin b complex drops.

    library, got 6 books.

    Book PPL & WF. Got some sandalwood incense at BKPPL.

    Lottery ticket

    checked PO box, new ish of Renmag.

    Home by 2

    started fire in fireplace. Made Mac & cheese with tuna & spicy sauces
    & more cheese. Napped in front of the fire.

    skye_DS didn't call or email. No big surprise. What is surprising is
    that I find myself feeling sad that she didn't. When am I going to
    learn with that gal? I will offer and offer and she will never
    respond. That is the way it is.

    Went to Z Helene show. It was nice to see STephanie. The small
    ceramic doumbek(?) was hurting my ears badly so I left at
    intermission. Carissa saw us at the door and also at intermission.
    She was signing at me and I said I didn't speak sign, and then
    Carissa was apparently saying something to Stephanie in sign
    about 'do you socialize with this person? I don't remember seeing her
    before' and making...uncomplimentary....gestures. Unless I'm just
    being paranoid. she's a fairly nasty yankee thing, pretty loud & rude
    and her dancing & other body language are fairly [unappealing=not
    sure what word to put here. ugly, jerky, graceless, in-your-face kind
    of stuff], so maybe she was just asking what STephanie said she was.
    She is a rude yankee bitch. I've seen her at the bellydance shows at
    Cafe Mundi a bunch of times. I've seen her at Air Coolers at least
    once I can think of, maybe 2 or 3 times, so that 'I don't recognize
    you' 'I've never see you before' thing is pretty fucking insulting.

    Then again, why be hurt because some loud nasty rude yankee bitch
    doesn't know who I am?

    Do I want this woman knowing me? Calling me on the phone? Wanting to
    be my friend? no...I don't. So consider the source and don't let that
    stupid shit hurt.

    Back at home. More firewood in the fireplace, warm clean greenie,
    quilt & pillowcase. Reading & being warm at home.

    Pace is having a party tonight. My ears hurt, my head hurts. I think
    I'll skip it.

evile: (clutter)

    Aug. 15, 2003

     

    I am still seething over the events last night at the bellydance show
    I attended. Chinless (apparently also spineless & possibly brainless)
    Moo, very pretty but apparently dumb-as-a-stick (and maybe non-
    English-speaking) Duh, and their two precious adorable offspring
    ruined 3/4 of the show for everyone else. Selfish fucking breeders.
    Oh, the daughters were cute enough, about 3 and 6, wearing matching
    little patriotic sundresses, hair in ringlets, cyoot button noses,
    the works. (I am reminded of the adage that even the Devil can take a
    pleasing form if it suits his purposes....)
    So, a few minutes into the 2nd dancer's performance, these assholes
    show up, and immediately start scraping chairs across the ground,
    arranging things to suit their breederness, while the oldest whines
    and screeches various questions and comments: "What's he
    holding? /What's she wearing? /*heehehee*--look at her tummy!" ad
    nauseam.

    Then the younger one starts screeching wordlessly, so Moo gets baby
    on her lap and starts holding the baby's hands, waving them in time
    to the music, punching me in the arm on every beat. After about 3
    blows, I got out of my chair, moved it away, and re-seated myself.
    Moo had the grace to mutter 'sorry' at me at that point. Stupid
    bitch. Then the oldest gets started again: "Which one is teacher?
    Where's teacher?" bla bla.

    Then the youngest is "huuuunnngreeeeee!" So they give her something
    which she proceeds to eat with her hands, then of course starts
    dancing near Moo's legs, and wiping her slimy little paws on my
    pants. More than once. Finally, I made vague 'shoo-ing' motions at
    her, which seemed effective.

    Oldest finally fucked off, to go play with the 3 young bellydance
    students in the audience. Apparently, the girls were friendly enough
    to give her a coin belt to wear, and they were having a fine old
    time.

    The second half begins, the oldest pipes up with "I ALREADY saw HER
    dance!" Half the audience laughs, the other half 'shushes' her. The
    youngest keeps running onto the rug where the dancers are performing.
    I was waiting for one of the dancers to kick her in the head, but it
    didn't happen. Moo kept rescuing her in the nick of time. Never heard
    her say NO to this kid, she just smiled and grabbed her off the rug.
    They were both acting like it was some kind of cute 'chase' game.
    WTF!? Would they act like this if this were an indoor performance,
    and pwecious babygirl was running onto the damn STAGE?

    Then the section of the show I don't really care for begins: the
    young (like age 6-10) dancers get up to do short solo dances.
    Apparently they've offered to let the older kid with her borrowed
    coin belt dance. The first dance student goes out to dance, and the
    older brat goes into Nuclear Meltdown mode. I don't know what the
    deal was, whether she wanted to go first, or whether she didn't want
    to dance after all, or what, but CLUELESS damn parents grab her and
    take her to the area behind the audience, still well within hearing
    range, while she literally ROARS, screams, and hits and kicks her
    parents for a good 5 minutes. Then they take her out to the parking
    lot, where, due to my exceptional hearing, I can *still* hear her
    screaming. Finally FINALLY, they fucking left (not bothering to
    return the borrowed coin belt, of course. There goes somebody's $50
    dance accessory),

    I have an inspiration from all of this: "Discipline On Call". If
    parents are too 'nice' (read: 'useless') to beat their own children,
    they can fuckin call me. And then maybe we'll finally get some good
    use out of those ridiculous assholes we occasionally meet in public
    who tell their kids shit like "If you don't behave, that mean lady is
    going to spank you"...make that shit TRUE. And then Moo and Duh can
    still be the kiddies Bestest Fwiends, at least until kiddie is old
    enough to understand who the real bad guy is in this situation.

    There were a couple of nice things yesterday evening: at the
    intermission, Z Helene said hello & was nice to me, even though I was
    giving out major "Get the Fuck Away From Me/ I'm Invisible" vibes due
    to the hideous brats. That speaks majorly of her graciousness. (she
    *did* ask if she knew me, and I was all hurt & offended as usual when
    someone wonderful doesn't remember boring old dumpy invisible me, but
    what can I expect? I was putting out 'invisible' vibes!) And at the
    end, when I was totally frazzled & saying my goodbyes to S. (Never
    thought I'd envy someone their deafness!), Valeda invited me to come
    up and dance at the 'end of show jam' they do. Very sweet of her.
    She is a beautiful person, inside & out.

evile: (clutter)
 
 
 

906Life,the universe, bla bla

 
  • Sep. 27, 2002
     
    first:
    http://imagehost.auctionwatch.com/bin/imageserver.x/00000000/wethree/3
    89BB_goldblack.jpg

    save on computer at home, I am sure I can make one of these!

    ----------

    Next:
    Mongolian BBQ with Polys last nite. Gave the banner to bryce &
    angela. was seated down with the suck people--fat loudmouth know-it-
    all bitch and her fat beardy husband who thought it was funny to talk
    in that fake-asian "Oh so solly" voice at an asian restaurant, and
    their fairly well-behaved sprog. Ironic moment of the evening: daddy
    hands baby a piece of flatbread and advises her to take small bites &
    remember to chew, as he and his wife snarfed their food without doing
    much of either.

    At my right were Andre and Kili. Andre is OK. Kili is self-involved &
    boring. nattered about stuff nobody else at the table really
    understood except Andre, bla bla.

    I went over to say 'bye' to bryce & apple at the other end of the
    table & give 'em the banner, and of course Kili had to come over and
    start monopolizing. So I say bye, and this bitch who had only said
    enough to me to introduce herself, said "Bye,sweetheart," or some
    other sort of endearment in this tone that implied a closeness that
    was NOT there. Stupid bitch.

    Ah well,I guess there are some jerks among the polys. So much for my
    theory that there were only smart cool people.

    J arrived just as I was leaving (this is curly haired poly dude,
    not SIL's dildo) and I hugged him hi & bye. He is a good hugger.

    Then off to see the bellydancing. It was wayyy cool. Great fun. Lots
    of energy. Z Helene was in fine form & the other dancers were
    wonderful, too. Last night's performance was 'Iron Chef'- type
    dancing: each dancer would get a theme shouted from the audience &
    have to incorporate the theme into her dancing. We
    had 'Dawn', 'Midnight', 'Balance', an extremely erotic 'Fire', and
    the very silly, but very well done, 'Vampire Martini' where two words
    shouted from two audience members simultaneously caused hilarity
    among the drummers & Z. Andriana danced 'Vampire Martini' quite ably,
    and managed to incorporate both grace & slapstick humor into her
    performance. I think that is a mark of greatness: to be so good at
    what you do, so confident in your abilities that you can make fun of
    yourself and be willing to look foolish in front of people, who will
    be laughing with you the whole time. There is a lesson there for
    Perfectionist Me to take to heart, I think.

    It was a really good night. I sat in the front row for the 2nd half,
    and at the finale, Z tapped on me with her zils. That was kind of
    cool. I also got to play with the fringe of beads on her hips at one
    point earlier in the show, when she was dancing as "Mata Harley" (the
    audience suggestions did get silly there towards the end).

    She was shaking her butt near me,so I acted like I was going to
    spank. She said "It's OK to hit me" so I patted her butt a couple
    times, getting the bugle beads all sliding thru my fingers. It was
    way cool.

    I just love bellydance costumes. . .

907 Labyrinth quiz for diaryland

 
  • Sep. 27, 2002
     
    You are most like Sarah. You are loyal to your friends. Your
    imagination and fantasies are what makes you different. Your will to
    win sometimes can be so strong, that you come across as cruel.
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    20Labyrinth%20Charater%20are%20you%20most%20like%3F/"><img
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    you most like?</font></a><BR> <font size="-3">brought to you by <a
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    I am thinking I really need to take a self defense class. I think
    part of why I am resistant to losing weight is because of stuff that
    happened to me when I was thinner. Also smaller & younger, but on
    some level I really think that part of me thinks that fat/big is
    better for defending oneself, or for just presenting a daunting
    enough appearance that most male attention will be diverted to
    easier/thinner/whatever marks.

    The things I remember most are of course when I was 9 and overslept
    so I could skip church one Sunday, and while I was out running around
    the neighborhood while my family was at church, a jogger exposed
    himself to me and held my arm and made me touch his penis until he
    ejaculated.

    Another thing I remember is Donnie, one of the neighborhood kids, who
    held me down on my couch & squeezed my breasts really hard, when I
    was 14 or so. Which was dumb, because at that time I was all into
    kissing boys and probably would have let him feel me up without any
    kind of force.

    And,to a lesser degree,there are all the dumb things I did at Tulane.
    Not necessarily against my will, but under the influence & certainly
    being coerced to go further than I was perhaps willing to go. Of
    course, I was fat then (thinner than I am now, but still not in the
    least bit conventionally attractive)

    So maybe the Tulane stuff goes against my theory. BUT, I think there
    might be something to my theory, on some level, somewhere. Maybe I
    will try a self defense class and see how it goes.

    Perhaps the realization that on some level I draw a connection
    between being thin and being vulnerable will also be helpful in my
    attempts at developing a better relationship with my body, my health,
    food, and sexuality. Hm.
     

ej 9/13/02

Sep. 13th, 2002 07:00 pm
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 874Horoscopes, Cafe Mundi last nite, etc.

 

  • Sep. 13, 2002
     
    Taurus
    Horoscope (by astrocenter.com)
    It is hard to concern yourself with other people's troubles, dear
    Taurus, when you feel you have enough of your own. Today you may find
    it hard to focus on work, as your mind is filled with the minutia of
    daily living. You may need to go see a doctor or have your car
    inspected. It is nothing urgent, nevertheless these tasks must be
    done today. You have no time for others; you don't even have time for
    yourself!


    Gemini
    Horoscope (by astrocenter.com)
    You may find yourself in an introspective mood today, dear Gemini, as
    you contemplate just how people fit into your life. The celestial
    energy has you feeling nostalgic, reflecting on past relationships
    and good times gone by. You have a lot of good people in your life,
    both then and now. At work you are likely compelled to express
    gratitude to your terrific coworkers. You might want to show them how
    much you care.
    ====================================================
    GEmini=crap! 'terrific coworkers'. hahahah.
    ================================================

    Email to Jen, Ken, Rio,Dee: (dee replied with 'grody to the max'. I
    agree)
    Thu, 12 Sep 2002 23:14:01 -0500 (CDT)
    From: E
    Subject: euuuuuuuuuwwwwwwwh!
    So, I invited my stepbrother E out to see Z Helene and her
    bellydancers at Cafe Mundi tonight, but no, he felt like he had to
    stay home & pack up for stupid High Fantasy Society campout this
    weekend, so only Sis in Law came out. :( My not-favorite
    person. Then, oh joy, her lover J joined us. He left at the
    halfway break, saying he was tired, and besides which, he couldn't
    see the dancers from his chair, anyway. wah. What a whiney bitch he
    was being!

    So, I said "You know, your chair wasn't nailed down, you could have
    come over here where the trees weren't blocking your view. I don't
    bite."

    And he sort of mumbled something about wanting to sit between us and
    bite us both (OK, that was pretty fucking ewwy, but not THE Ewwy)

    Here's THE THE Ewwy part: SIL said something about how I
    could bite him if I wanted to, and I said "no thanks, I don't poach
    on other womens' property" and she said something about how he wasn't
    property, he was totally free to do whatever he wanted. Yada yada,
    bla.--with a coy little giggle at the end.

    ....I think she was offering me her boyfriend as a sex toy.

    .......................................................can I just say
    EEWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!

    1. he is *not* attractive.

    2. I am so disgusted that I don't remember what two is. Ohyeah, I
    *don't* poach on other women's territory.

    and

    3. I DO NOT, would not ever, under any fucking circumstances, TAKE
    SLOPPY SECONDS OFF MY NASTY FILTHY SKANK HO SISTER IN LAW!

    Just had to get that off my chest before I went to bed, so I don't
    have nightmares tonight (I hope & pray, please goddess!)



    [this part was just to Ken:]You'll probably just laugh at me and
    this latest bizarro predicament in my attempts to try and get along
    peacefully with the sis in law to keep my relationship with E 
    going. But that's OK too. Once I'm done being utterly fucking
    offended and disgusted, I'll probably laugh, too.

    -E
    -----------------------------------------------
    she was stinkin' last night--very nasty pits. But I think she was
    wearing her underwear that sorta-kinda puts her boobs where they're
    supposed to be.

    I think I had dreams about her last night, though. about Bull Creek &
    the horses . I dont' really remember them.

    Anyhoo...bleh.
 

875 Horseback riding lessons

 

876 DemiEpicurious Auschron review

 
  • Sep. 13, 2002
     
    The Point About DemiEpicurious
    BY WES MARSHALL

    September 13, 2002:
    DemiEpicurious

    311 W. Sixth, 478-2200

    Lunch: Monday-Friday, 11am-2pm; Bar: Monday-Saturday, 4pm; Dinner:
    Monday-Saturday, 5:30-11pm

    www.demiepicurious.com

    *Go to the kitchen to shake the Chef's hand. If he is thin, have
    second thoughts about eating there; if he is thin and sad, flee.* --
    Fernand Point

    I found this quote on the DemiEpicurious Web site. Fernand Point
    (1879-1955) was one of the great French chefs and teacher to such
    star cooks as Paul Bocuse, Alain Chapel, and Jean and Pierre
    Troigros. I'm sure that the main reason the Demi folks chose Point
    was because, like its proprietors, Executive Chef Robert Barker and
    Operations Director Don Rhode, Point was a sizable man accustomed to
    the pleasures of the table. Interestingly, and I assume unbeknownst
    to the powers at Demi, several of Point's other culinary philosophies
    are a perfect fit for the restaurant.

    *Success is the sum of a lot of small things done correctly.*

    Demi's location was once the home of Caruso's, Sasha's, Sfuzzi, and
    most recently Sardine Rouge. When you first walk through the door,
    the familiar bar area has a few new pieces of art, but, thankfully,
    it hasn't changed all that much. We ordered ice-cold Manhattans
    ($5.50). The friendly bartenders knew exactly what they were doing
    and made generous drinks.

    All vestiges of the old décor melt away when you walk into the dining
    room. The whole area is now open, with beautiful artwork created from
    jumbles of micromesh steel. Two steel pyramids in the center of t*he
    room do double duty as art and a place to stage the servings. There
    are two big, inventive chandeliers, hanging from the ceiling and
    draped with glass beads. One big change: Sardine Rouge's custom art
    glass wall is gone, which allows the bustle of the city to show
    through. Tables have room between them, which makes getting in and
    out easier and assures that your neighbors are far enough away that
    you won't have to whisper intimacies. Those neighboring tables might
    have multiply pierced 25-year-olds in jeans or 75-year-old women in
    their Sunday best. Everyone is welcome.

    The general feel is happy, warm, and fun. Customers that are enjoying
    themselves make a certain kind of buzz. That's what you hear in the
    Demi dining room. Never too loud, the conversation is more like good
    background music. The seamless service is professional in an
    invisible way. And it's not just the customers that seem happy.
    Waitstaff, food folks, bartenders, everyone. The team works together
    like a finely tuned symphony orchestra whose musicians had played
    together for years. You can tell that they had been through rigorous
    training and had a leader that was picky about getting everything
    right. But just like good musicians, they were so well practiced that
    they could have fun. Of course, without good food and wine, none of
    this would matter.

    *It is the sauce that distinguishes a good chef. The saucier is a
    soloist in the orchestra of a great kitchen.*

    The concept behind Demi is simple. If you have two or more diners at
    a table, the dishes come set up for sharing. An appetizer, salad, and
    main dish split between two people would be enough for a meal.
    Fortunately, the prices and the staff's willingness to package up
    your leftovers allow you to go ahead and try more than you need.
    Which is what we did.

    On our first visit, it took 25 minutes to get our first course. There
    were three large parties in the restaurant, and the workers in the
    open kitchen were like an ant mound in the rain trying to get all
    their plates out at the same time. Even with the bustle, the sous
    chef was standing at the outer edge of the open kitchen, examining
    every plate to make sure it was perfect. The obvious attention to
    small details, along with the ability to watch the show in the
    kitchen kept us occupied and made the wait worthwhile.

    We started off with Hazelnut Dusted Calamari ($9.50) in a little bed
    of ancho-chile-tomato sauce surrounded by cilantro-infused oil and
    topped with shaved Pecorino Romano cheese. Pornographically rich and
    delicious, the squid was tender, and the hazelnut batter was just as
    lush as it sounds. Next up, the Steamed Mussel Pot ($12) was a
    generous portion of very tiny mussels swimming in broth with an
    overpowering herbal aroma and chunks of chorizo floating through.

    Manager Sally Stride was wandering the floor offering wine
    suggestions, so I asked her advice. She made two brilliant
    recommendations: The Kairanga Chardonnay from New Zealand ($8.50) for
    the calamari and a glass of Veuve Clicquot Champagne ($11.50) for the
    mussels.

    For the next course, we chose to split three dishes. Since the big
    tables were winding down, these came out more quickly. Our waiter
    brought all three at the same time, explained what each was, and left
    us to our own devices. The dishes looked lovely and carried the
    delicious aromas of intense reduction sauces.

    The Study of Texas Rabbit ($16) was made with three different cooking
    techniques. They wrapped the tenderloin in Serrano ham and baked it.
    The leg was slowly braised and served with its sauce. Finally, the
    front-leg meat is slowly cooked in a confit. All came atop a savory
    bread pudding flavored with the rabbit's liver and with a delicious
    sauce made from the intense pan juices.

    Poussin Grilled Under a Brick ($14.50) was fall-apart tender, served
    in a tower with garlic mashed potatoes as the base, topped with the
    most unbelievably delicious braised mustard greens (they wouldn't
    tell, but I think they put a tetch of maple syrup in them) and
    crowned by the chicken. A few crispy fried parsnips added a nice
    sweet crunch.

    The beef short ribs were the best dish of that evening. The ribs were
    cut three-quarters-inch thick across the grain, leaving plenty of
    meat around small bones. The beef was fork-tender and the sauce was
    sheer nirvana. I even asked for bread so I could sop up the
    leftovers. One element that sets restaurant food apart from home
    cooking is the complex sauces that can be made from an assortment of
    rich stocks and reductions. Every Demi sauce was uncommonly tasty; in
    fact, they might be making some of the best sauces in town.

    The wine recommendations were spot-on. Ms. Stride recommended that my
    wife try something new, the Chandon Pinot Meunier ($10.50), a
    relation to the Pinot Noir grape usually used in Champagne blends.
    Its elegant flavors matched especially well with the rabbit. I ended
    up with the J. L. Chave "Offerus" ($9), a wine noted for its barnyard
    character, something most people don't like. I love it, and it made
    magic with the ribs.

    We ended the night with a plate of six artisanal cheeses ($12). They
    also offer a smaller three-cheese tasting for $7. The cheeses were
    well-chosen, with a wide range of tastes: intense and salty Colston
    Bassett Stilton from Nottinghamshire, England; an opulent triple-
    cream Camembert from Old Chatham of New York; a light and nutty
    goat's milk Garrotxa from the Catalonian area of Spain; rich and
    creamy Brillat-Savarin from Normandy, France; and a pungent goat's
    milk Crotin de Chavingnol along with a sublimely aromatic Epoisses de
    Bourgogne, both from Burgundy. A few delicious green apple slivers
    and pecans were there for support. The recommended glass of
    Cockburn's 20 Year Old Port ($7.25) was a perfect accompaniment.

    *If the divine creator has taken pains to give us delicious and
    exquisite things to eat, the least we can do is prepare them well and
    serve them with ceremony.*

    We went back a few nights later with two friends. There was a little
    bit of confusion about the reservations, but when we got there at
    7:45, we were led straight to our table. The place was hopping. We
    started with Lobster Shooters ($4), which was a little chunk of
    lobster in a butter-laden corn broth that you toss back and enjoy.
    Yummy stuff, but a little overpriced for what you get. This time my
    wife tried the Red Endive and Spinach Salad ($9.50) tossed with tart
    Sherry Vinaigrette and liberally topped with Maytag Blue Cheese,
    lardons, and candied pecans. It was rich, tart, and delicious. I had
    the foie gras ($16) on a cinnamon brioche with brandy-soaked
    cherries. Luscious tastes, especially for the brioche, which was
    thick and jammed with flavors. The dish came with another winning
    sauce, decadent in its fat content. The small, silver-dollar-sized
    portion of foie gras wasn't quite enough, but the dish was delicious.

    For the next stage, we again chose three dishes. The pork loin
    ($11.25) had spinach spatzle and a spicy creamed corn (as in heavy
    cream) and a little red pepper jelly. By this time, we were expecting
    impeccable preparation, and that's what we got. In addition, we
    ordered New Zealand Rack of Lamb ($20). This dish was directly from
    the world of comfort food. Mushrooms, asparagus, and another
    delicious sauce topped four little ribs and a chunk of Yorkshire
    Pudding. A glass of the Chave "Offerus" was a great accompaniment.

    We also had pan-seared sea scallops ($17.75). Huge scallops, tender
    and browned on the outside, were served over the top of a parsnip
    purée with a stunning sauce made from cardamom, persimmons, and lots
    of butter. The recommended wine, Archery Summit Vireton ($12.75), an
    Oregon blend of Pinot Gris, Chardonnay, and Pinot Blanc, provided a
    nice contrast to the cardomom and persimmons.

    We let our waiter pick the dessert, a Creole Banana Tart ($6) with a
    buttery crust made from gingersnaps, filled with rich banana custard
    and drizzled with dulce de leche. It was scrumptious.

    *I like to start off my day with a glass of champagne. I like to wind
    it up with champagne, too. To be frank, I also like a glass or two in
    between. *

    The whole wine system at DemiEpicurious deserves some serious praise.
    Besides having an intelligent list with loads of wines you won't find
    anywhere else, nearly every wine is available by the glass. You'll
    never again have to try to figure how to split a bottle of wine
    amongst people who order fish, beef, chicken, or vegetarian. Even
    better, they don't penalize you for buying by the glass. A glass
    costs one-fourth the price of a bottle, and they pour you one-fourth
    of the bottle.

    Try to get a recommendation from Ms. Stride, who knows her wines
    inside and out. If you're not sure you want to try what she's
    offering, ask for a little taste. She'll happily comply. Good news
    for serious wine lovers: She'll also put together wine flights, a
    perfect match for the food concept. Demi joins a small list of
    restaurants where I look forward to the wine as much as the food.

    My final impression of Demi was that there is a clear vision at the
    top and everyone knows their mission within that structure. There
    will doubtless be a few people who will find DemiEpicurious a little
    too slick. But don't confuse seamless with soulless. The experience
    is better for seeing a well-conceived plan implemented by talented
    people. I think the Demi team may be more in line with the teachings
    of the legendary Fernand Point than even they know. Based on my
    experiences at Demi, the whole crew appears to subscribe to the
    following: *I'm not hard to please, I'm content with the very best. *

    877 Dragoncon article from AusChron

     
    • Sep. 13, 2002
       
      HOME: VOL.22 NO.2: SCREENS: LET YOUR FREAK FLAG FLY
      at Dragon*Con, it's come as you are -- or as you've always dreamed of
      being
      Let Your Freak Flag Fly
      BY SARAH HEPOLA
      September 13, 2002:

      The Klingon punch was the beginning of the end. No beer, no wine,
      just plastic cups full of wicked cherry something. Mmm,
      yummy. "What's in this thing?" I ask, but the Klingons only smile and
      pour more test tubes of liquor. I bum a smoke from Xena, drain my
      cup. Then blam: Suddenly I'm at the Travelodge, watching group sex.

      This is Dragon*Con 2002, the country's biggest sci-fi convention,
      Atlanta's annual four-day feast in August of costumes, gaming, panel
      discussions, and the occasional naked, drunken gropefest. This is
      convention life, not conventional life, and there's no confusing the
      two. This is Trekkies and Star Wars fans and Xena look-alikes and
      goth kids wearing dog collars. This is Spider-Man and Superwoman and
      little blue-eyed girls with glitter fairy wings. This is 300-pound
      mamas in bustiers and thongs, flesh spilling out on all sides. They
      know what's up -- they're big, no shit -- but here, they might be
      someone's fantasy. They walk through the crowded lobby fat and proud,
      knowing that for every guy who screws up his face in disgust, there's
      some dude who wants to bury his face in those jiggly suckers. This is
      a free weekend pass, a choose-your-own-adventureland. This is group
      sex at the Travelodge. Wanna watch? You can.

      Dragon*Con began in 1987, the brainchild of Ed Kramer, envisioned as
      a social event for role-players and gamers, a notoriously unsocial
      bunch. But as the genre expanded, so did the convention. Games like
      Vampire: The Masquerade brought in the goths and the girls. The many-
      tentacled fan community brought in the costumes. Blockbusters like
      Star Wars and The Lord of the Rings, with their multimedia tie-ins,
      brought in kids and families. And meanwhile, the game industry keeps
      expanding, grossing $9.4 billion dollars in 2001. That's over a
      billion dollars more than the film industry. And yet, with 20,000
      people in attendance, Dragon*Con still feels like a meeting of the
      marginalized. What happens if the majority of us really
      aren't "normal" after all? It's like a science fiction story.

      Like the best works in its genre, Dragon*Con is about questioning our
      world. Our beliefs about body image, race relations, sexual
      relations, and gender politics. ("I like women," says a man wearing a
      metal leash around his neck. "But I also like men. I'm married, but
      it's an open marriage.") It's also about a lot of fans getting a big
      dose of their favorite medicine. In the Tolkien Room, fans watching a
      sneak preview of the Lord of the Rings game wear "Frodo Lives"
      buttons and quote the Ring Trilogy like scripture. In the Gaming
      Room, Dave Arneson, co-founder of Dungeons & Dragons, gives a history
      of the role-playing game that started it all, as a roomful of people
      scribble into notepads. And in the NSDM Room -- that's National
      Security Decision-Making Room -- a former naval officer lectures on
      global politics as part of a push for three new games that turn
      Department of Defense training software into a consumer game for the
      amateur military strategist. Like Risk only, well, riskier. The
      military games are this year's most conspicuous gaming trend. (About
      a new game set in Mozambique, the schedule declares, "Dragon*Con 2002
      is proud to offer a modern miniatures war game that will give you a
      chance to blow some very bad guys into some very small pieces!") The
      sad injection of reality in your SF.

      But if you ask your average dominatrix or stormtrooper at the
      conference, they will probably tell you that Dragon*Con is all about
      acceptance. Are you a skinny, role-playing misfit? Not here you
      aren't. A lightsaber-toting, Boba Fett-quoting Star Wars geek? Look
      around, son, there are thousands like you. Spank fetishist? These are
      your people. As they say at Dragon*Con: Let your freak flag fly. But
      stay away from the Klingon punch. Or hell, I dunno: Have two.

      878Re: Library 9/13

       
      • Sep. 13, 2002
         
        Returned these, checked 7 out:

        Child of the Northern Spring,
        Queen of the Summer Stars,
        Guinevere: the Legend In Autumn, by Persia Woolley

        The Seven Sins of Memory, Daniel L Schacter

        Rustic Retreats, David & Jeanie Stiles

        The Death of Common Sense, Philip K Howard

        The Mistress of Spices, Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni

        The lady asked me about _American Gods_. I believe I turned it in the
        same day I did the Kundalini class. I remember it pretty well--I
        parked in the fire zone because there was no parking, ran in and
        turned in the book, then went to the class. Lots of kids running
        around in the parking lot, in karate uniforms. Young Hispanic lady
        behind the counter, shoulder length, kind of wavy hair. I may have
        said hello or thanks to her.


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        --- In ErikaJournal@y...<evile@f...> wrote:
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        > checked out:
        >
        > Jobs & other preoccupations, Daniel Coshner
        >
        > Horses don't lie, by Chris Irwin with Bob Weber
        >
        > The Anubus Slayings, P C Doherty
        >
        > The Tin Princess, Philip Pullman (didn't have the subtle knife)
        >
        > Where Does Kissing End?, by Kate Pullinger
        >
        > The Glass Dragon, Irene Radford 
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  • Sep. 11, 2002
     
    Taurus
    Horoscope (by astrocenter.com)
    As a pleasure-seeking individual you will probably enjoy yourself a
    great deal today, because there is the tendency that you will be
    spoiled and pampered by someone. Since you are such an indulgent
    person, it is easy for someone to win your heart with this kind of
    treatment. However, getting seduced easily is one of your greatest
    weaknesses! Learn when it is appropriate to give in, and when to say
    "Stop!"

    Gemini
    Horoscope (by astrocenter.com)
    If you've been considering a trip by air, dear Gemini, it may be very
    much on your mind today. Perhaps you are planning a vacation with
    your family or with a romantic partner. Chances are good that you'll
    feel energetic, enthusiastic and excited about your plans. If you
    have travel plans, consider checking everything to ensure that
    everything is arranged to your specifications. You may want to make
    the most of your lunch hour by finishing up some last minute
    shopping.

    ====================
    And I think I dreamt about Tulane again last night. Wonder what's up
    with that.

    At work, EM (AKA Krabby) is speaking to me again. I don't know if
    it's because we're almost caught up again, or what, but...very wierd.
    It's hard to not like her when she's being charming. But you never
    know when she's gonna turn. I do have that theory about when the
    moon's in Leo...Maybe I"ll keep an eye on that and see how much that
    actually has any bearing on things.

    No plans for the evening--work out and bed, I guess.

    Tomorrow is Z Helene at Cafe Mundi. They're doing a Sept 11 memorial
    thingy. I am tempted not to go. But the dancing & drumming are so
    great. So hopefully there won't be anything too stupid and irritating
    to distract from that.

    Friday is happy hour w/ Alex. Maybe. If he remembers to call. I
    didn't call him last Fri, even though he says he called me (didn't
    leave a msg), just went and did my gym thing. So I guess I should
    make an effort and go out w/him. Also it's PNO at Opal's, maybe I'll
    drop in there for a minute.

    Saturday: Friends of the Library book sale at the Crockett Center.

    Sunday: Nude Yoga, the Arabian horse show in San Gabriel Park & maybe
    visiting w some Drandmire folx.

    Thinking of inviting J to PNO, books, and/or arabian show. Maybe
    even nude yoga. See how cool SIL is with me getting nekkid with
    'her' man. Stupid ass bitch. She is so full of SHIT when it comes to
    all that poly crap. I'm also tempted to fix the boy's
    haircolor...that blonde with dark roots growing out is so NOT him.

    Anyhoo...too bad I don't have any friends to do stuff with. Sad that
    I'm thinking of inviting Jason to run around w/ me, just so's to have
    someone to do stuff with instead of being alone. Ah well. At least I
    have stuff to do and a few bux to spend; it's not so bad being alone
    if you've got plans, places to go, things to do. Andrea said he might
    be at bellydancing. If he is, I'll mention the book sale on Sat. and
    see if he's interested. That's harmless enough.

    e is out of town--she called on my cell phone yesteray a.m. and
    was all like 'OH, are you at work?" ummm...9am on a Tuesday. Where
    else would I be? She's out of town working, getting tired of so much
    travel. She basically called to tell me how busy & unavailable she
    is and "maybe we can get together next weekend". Whatever, whatever.

    Jen got a temp job working on medical claims; kind of a blend of her
    Aetna temp stuff and her legal assistant work. Her dad worked there
    for a while, and one of her friends from law school, so she kind of
    knows what she's getting into. Hopefully it'll be cool. Hopefully
    they'll be cool with her taking off next month for the cruise :)
     

EJ 8/23

Aug. 23rd, 2002 10:23 am
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  •  
    Aug. 23, 2002
     
    Taurus
    Horoscope (by astrocenter.com)
    Political undercurrents in a group with which you're affiliated could
    be creating a strain between you and some of your friends, dear
    Taurus. You generally like to avoid this sort of thing, but this is
    definitely the time to distance yourself from any machinations or
    power plays. Your friendships mean too much to you to lose them
    because of the ambitions of others. You might have to drop out of
    group activities for a while. Hang in there!

    Gemini
    Horoscope (by astrocenter.com)
    If you've been thinking about entering into a new business
    partnership, dear Gemini, don't do anything about it today -
    particularly if a friend is involved. In fact, don't even think about
    it! Devote your day to other concerns, and set partnership issues
    aside for at least four days. You won't want to ruin a friendship, or
    sabotage the arrangement before it even gets started, because it does
    have potential and show promise for success. Enjoy your day.
    =================================================================
    Taurus h'scope is about HFS? I dunno. I don't care about any of those
    people and don't care if they like me or not. I like the website for
    storing photos, and I like the opportunity to spend a little time w/
    E in a group, non-family setting (A is distracted by other
    people so I can visit with him a little)

    I'm tired, but not as tired as I should be for staying up past my
    bedtime most nights this week. Maybe it's the vitamins.

    I'm taking:

    Coenzyme Q10 60 mg twice a day, with meals, usually breakfast & lunch.
    (I started on Aug 12, will continue for a couple months & see how/if
    it effects me)

    Garlic w/Echinacea & goldenseal- 2 caps with breakfast, lunch &
    dinner. Garlic burps, despite label to the contrary.

    Calcium - 600 mg 2 x per day, usually around break time (9:15 am &
    2:30 pm)

    HEB version of Centrum Silver at bedtime (I have read this is a good
    time to take vitamins, so they absorb during the night)

    So...go me.

    In a couple weeks I plan to do a week of liquid diet with chlorella
    tablets to clean my sysem out. supposedly, anyway.

    Z Helene was awesome last night. What a great way to celebrate the
    new moon--bellydancing, poetry, drumming...great energy. Great
    impressions of female power, curviness, sexiness, strength, feelings.
    Good stuff. I really enjoyed it alot. I think I'll try & do something
    new, see something new, every Full Moon.

    Got to hug & kiss E hi & bye, but no real conversation. Bird was
    screaming & neither of them told him to hush. Rude critter. Spoiled
    rotten. E left around 9 and A stayed until the end. I gave
    her a ride home, so didn't go to the grocery store for picnic stuff.
    I'll do that afte the gym today.

    Got email from Greg yesterday. He sent me photos of WGRE's new look--
    Holly hadn't told him about A's wierd freak-out that Sunday, so
    I gave him the rough outline. No details about the slap & the "You
    will say 'yes maam' and 'no maam' or I will hit you" quote. Too
    painful & distressing, nothing we can do to help, so not worth
    distressing Greg over. *sigh* I will try & call him on my cell on
    Saturday so E & Greg can talk.

    I slept a bit past my 5:50 alarm. Stupid Eris played 'alarm clock
    kitty' around 4:30 so the last hour of sleep was not very restful.
    damned cat.
 

821A's crazy HFS stuff

 
  • Aug. 23, 2002
     
    The Lovara horses are world renown. Even the worst culls of the Lovara
    herds are far superlative to the best of any others, and the culls
    are sold at a price that makes a king's ransom seem a mere pittance
    in comparison. The elite of the Lovara horses are the war-horses;
    they result from lines chosen for both their exceptionally high
    degree of intelligence and their robustness; thus, they are both very
    beautiful, and enormously dangerous - even lethal - to adversaries.
    Trained in a unique form of equine martial art known commonly as
    dressage, a simple pressure of the rider's knees, and an attacker
    will be found dead. But these horses will never be found for
    sale, since they are jealously guarded and kept preciously by the
    Lovara. They are only allowed to leave the Lovara for precise
    occasions, with the Kal'enedral (SwordSworn), for example. Even then,
    only the battle mares are authorized to leave; the highly prized
    stallions, being very rare, are preserved for reproduction.

    The horses found among the nomadic Lovara Rom possess certain common
    physical traits regardless of their particular family strain. Those
    who survive to maturity all have the unmistakable look of an enduring
    athlete and warrior. The Tale'Sedra strain of horses are considered
    historically as being more masculine than other Lovara strains, but
    of a slightly longer frame with a very strong back and more prominent
    withers coming well out of the back. They are slightly taller having
    strong bone of quality and substance with large joints. The head of
    the Tale'Sedra is clean and wedge shaped without a lot of detail or
    prominence of tear bone and is slightly longer than the other Lovara
    strains. The hind quarter is somewhat egg-shaped creating the picture
    of power and speed. The Tale'Sedra are considered the best in
    endurance and stamina yet with very quiet dispositions. They are most
    often midnight black or moon-grey, and they are a favorite strain of
    the Lovara.

    The history of dressage dates back to a period of more than two
    thousand years. The object of dressage is the harmonious development
    of physical ability of the horse, resulting in a calm, supple,
    flexible animal, both longitudinally and laterally. The horse should
    be confident and in perfect understanding of his rider. All work in
    dressage should be free, light, aesthetically beautiful to the
    observer, and the horse should remain on the bit.

    The ancient Greeks were the first to practice dressage in preparation
    for war. It was this culture that believed nothing could be obtained
    correctly or harmoniously without the strict adherence to the laws of
    the universe. The horse should submit herself happily and proudly to
    the will of the rider, without any disturbance in his natural way of
    going. To understand this, compare that of art and music in the
    classical sense. Art, in the classical sense, is conveyed in realism
    with beauty, always reflected with respect to balance, light,
    symmetry, and logic. The same can be said of classical music, also
    governed by rules of tonality, resolution, and symmetry.

    When dealing with the horse, we are still bound by the laws of nature
    and physics in a more primal sense. The Greek Commander Xenophon,
    born about 430 BC, wrote the earliest obtainable work on training
    horses, titled Hippike, translated to The Art of Horsemanship. The
    Greeks did not use a saddle or stirrups, but Roar is convinced that
    they used a jointed snaffle.

    Remarkably, most of what Xenophon wrote in his book still holds true
    today.

    Lovara mares of the Tale'Sedra strain are ridden into battle because
    they are thought to be braver, showing more aptitude for pirouetting,
    leaping, turning, and moving sideways.

    Like the Greeks, the Romans rode with a very classical seat creating
    engagement with the horse well back on his hocks. The Romans conquered
    Greece in 146 BC and inherited much of their aesthetic love of beauty
    and symmetry shown in the pottery, mosaics, equestrian statues,
    bridges, and aqueducts. It is interesting to note that the great
    riding masters of the Lovara still refer to the Romanic school as a
    term to indicate a highly collected, agile form of riding based on
    lightness in hand.

    Most knights of the Combined Realms typically ride about on heavier,
    thick, cold-blooded stallions with heavy armor vying for power and
    supremacy. Every kind of bit for control imaginable is used.
    Naturally, the maneuverability of the horse is lost, and there is no
    time to adequately dress a horse. Ironically, they are easily
    defeated by the swift, hot-blooded chargers of the Lovara.

    The piaffe lends itself as a spring for sudden advance; the levade, a
    highly collected half-halt for reaching down with a slash of the
    sword or an evasion tactic. The pirouette can be used to wheel away
    from or towards the enemy. The courbette, which towers a horse high
    into the air, easily disperses foot soldiers. The capriole, a giant
    leap into the air, is an effective means of escape over the heads of
    the infantry. Flying changes are an absolute necessity to keep the
    horse handy and mobile in the battlefield.

    Eventually, the problematic heaviness of the heavy, thick, cold-
    blooded warhorse stallion contributes to schooling problems and
    inherently leads to the use of more force and powerful training
    equipment. When this inevitably fails, the Lovara are consulted, and
    warhorses become lighter, sleeker, and more tractable mounts.
    Dressage travels full circle and comes home again.

    Bear in mind that the Lovara horse is the only available hot-blooded
    horse in the Combined Realms. The wars with the Turks prevent the
    import of of the hoard's fleet Arabians. The need for a superior
    cavalry horse inspires the Combined Realms to use more hot blood in
    their breeding programs. The breeders of the Combined Realms have
    decided that the requirements of the cavalry horse are as follows:
    speed, for attacks at the gallop; obedience, for collection and
    agility in face-to-face single combat; and safety over cross-country
    terrain. The culmination of this process has resulted in
    modern day warmbloods, descendants of Lovara hotblood cull mares and
    coldblood stallions.

    =
    Part 2
    Lovara Horse Lore:

    "If you desire to handle a good war-horse so as to make his action
    the more magnificent and striking, you must refrain from pulling at
    his mouth with the bit as well as from spurring and whipping him.
    [...] but if you teach your horse to go with a light hand on the bit,
    and yet to hold his head well up and to arch his neck, you will be
    making him do just what the animal himself glories and delights
    in ... For what the horse does under compulsion, as Simon also
    observes, is done without understanding; and there is no beauty in it
    either, any more than if one should whip and spur a dancer...If,
    however, you reward him with kindness after he has done as you wish,
    and punish him when he disobeys, he will be most likely to learn
    to obey as he ought...It is the best of lessons if the horse gets a
    season of repose whenever he has behaved to his rider's
    satisfaction...Anything forced or misunderstood, can never be
    beautiful..." -- Xenophon - The Art of Horsemanship

    "There is a saying that the horse should enjoy himself in his work,
    otherwise neither the horse not the rider would be able to give an
    elegant performance. We must take care not to spoil the young horse
    or cause it to abandon its affable nature.... For it's like the
    fragrance of a blossom, which never returns once it has vanished.." --
    Pluvinel

    "A good hand is the one that can resist and yield when necessary and
    receive with precision the action created with the legs." -- Solomon
    de la Broue

    "Nothing can be achieved without tempo and rhythm" -- Cesare Fiaschi

    "The aim of this noble and useful art is solely to make horses supple,
    relaxed, compliant and obedient and to lower the quarters without all
    of which a horse -- whether he be meant for military service, hunting
    or dressage -- will be neither comfortable in his movements nor
    pleasurable to ride. Elegance on horseback consists of a straight and
    free position as a result of a well balanced body: as a result the
    rider maintains, during all the movements the horse makes, without
    losing his seat, as much as he is able to, in an appropriate balance,
    an air of comfort and freedom, which makes him an elegant rider.
    Pignatelli, convinced by his own experience that the function of the
    bit is rather top let the horse know what the rider wants than to
    constrain the horse, said that if the bits had of their
    own the miraculous quality to make the mouth of the horse and to make
    the horse obedient, both rider and horse would be set up after a
    visit to the tack shop. The knowledge of the nature of the horse is
    one of the first foundations of the art of riding it, and every
    horseman must make it his principal study. Horsemanship is the one
    art for which it seems one needs only practice. However, practice
    without true principles is nothing other than routine, the fruit of
    which is a strained and unsure execution, a false diamond which
    dazzles semi-connoisseurs often more impressed by the
    accomplishments of the horse than the merit of the horseman. Grace is
    so great an adornment for a rider, and at the same time so important
    a means to the knowledge of all that which is necessary for persons
    aspiring to become riders, that such persons should willingly sped
    the time required to obtain that quality at the outside of their
    endeavours. The knowledge of the nature of a horse is one of the
    first foundations of the art if riding it, and every horseman must
    make it his principal study. In order to have a good hand, it must be
    light, gentle, and firm. A light hand is one which never feels the
    contact of the bit with the bars. A gentle hand is one which feels
    the effect of the bit slightly without giving too much contact.
    A firm hand is one which holds the horse in full contact. Above all, a
    horse should never be chastised out of foul mood or anger, but always
    with complete dispassion. Neither should, for the same reason, the
    lessons be for too long a period; they fatigue and bore a horse, and
    it should be returned to the stable with the same good spirits it had
    upon leaving it. Others make a point of trying to attain the
    precision and poise they see in those who have the ability to choose
    from a great number of horses those with [...] qualities found in
    only a very small number of horses. This leads to a circumstance in
    which these imitators of such studied poise mortify the spirit of a
    noble horse, and remove from it all of the goodness of temperament
    Nature has given it." -- Francois Robichon de la Gueriniere

    "Unqualified disobedience is a frequent misconception, when the rider
    is not only demanding but also not listening to the horse. If the
    horse is a strong personality the result is a notoriously resistant
    animal: if the horse is a submissive weak personality, it can be
    brainwashed into a mechanical automat, a zombie. Both are contrary to
    the correct dressage." -- Tibor Podanyi

    "One should avoid resistances, instead of trying to conquer them." --
    Aubert

    "Those who devote themselves to practice without science are like
    sailors who put to sea without a rudder or compass and who can never
    be certain where they are going. Practice must always be founded on
    sound theory." -- Leonardo da Vinci

    "The arms are not just there for their beauty, they are there so that
    you can use them." -- Nick Hartog

    "Allow your horse to be brilliant. he can not be made to. It must
    come from within, because of his confidence and pride in himself and
    his respect (not fear) for his rider." -- Bert Hartog

    "Ride your horse calm, forward and then make him straight." -- Walter
    Zettl


    "Sometimes less is more!" -- Edgar Lichtvark

    "The wind of heaven is that which blows between a horse's ears." --
    Arabic Proverb

    "Four things greater than all things are Women and horses and power
    and War." -- Rudyard Kipling

    "My horses are my friends, not my slaves." -- Dr. Reiner Klimke

    "If your horse says no, you either asked the wrong question, or asked
    the question wrong." -- Pat Parelli

    "Horsemanship is not merely a matter of bodily skills, but is based on
    scholarship and, therefore, is a matter of the mind and intellect.
    Good horsemanship is based on proper character development and,
    therefore, is also a matter of mentality and spirit. Without the
    correct attitudes and insights, there cannot be the right sport.
    Courage, wisdom born of insight and humility, empathy born of
    compassion and love, all can be bequeathed by a horse to his rider. A
    horse 'held in shape' by his rider is only posturing in a seemingly
    correct form, usually for the benefit of inexperienced observers.
    Speed is the enemy of impulsion." -- Charles de Kunffy

    "When God created the horse he said to the magnificent creature: I
    have made thee as no other. All the treasures of the earth lie
    between thy eyes. Thou shalt carry my friends upon thy back. Thy
    saddle shall be the seat of prayers to me. And thou fly without
    wings, and conquer without any sword. Oh, horse." -- The Holy Qu'ran
    (Koran)

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