3048icq w/A (pots & kettles)

[evile]

 

 

 

Mar. 23, 2005

 

 

evile: boss lady is gone for the day & we're having a Goodie day, so
I'm going to risk it & be on icq. Hi.
SkyeDS: hugs - how was the time off? :)
evile: that's this upcoming friday & monday.
SkyeDS: oh. my bad.
evile: how was Gulf War?
SkyeDS: wonderful
SkyeDS: even though the drive was gawdawful and it snowed
evile: I had heard it was cold, I had not heard that it snowed. Wow.
SkyeDS: snowed at Troll but not at Barn
SkyeDS: which just goes to show Equestrians are full of hot air :P
evile: wow.
evile: If you get a chance, tell sineater not to feel too bad about [brother A].
He called Lynn last night and cussed her out.
SkyeDS: just so you know now
evile: And left an ugly message on my machine; thankfully I was not
home to take the verbal beating in person.
SkyeDS: I got tired of it and I stepped in
SkyeDS: this game will be played on my terms from now on, where my
family is concerned, and so I told them
evile: 'Games' are supposed to be fun. I don't consider this
a 'game'. But I think we all did what we thought best under the
circumstances,and if it hadn't been over the dog, it would have been
over something else. [brother A] was going to break with his family one way
or the other.
SkyeDS: he was really hurting sineater
SkyeDS: I stood by until I deemed that I didn't want to watch anymore
evile: I figure I get to be a big bag of shit no matter waht I do or
say, so why say or do anything.
SkyeDS: they were trying to beat Connie's number out of sineater
SkyeDS: I won't have that
SkyeDS: she is my friend and business associate
SkyeDS: I do not need another enemy neighbor
SkyeDS: and then rubber_pig is wailing aobut HER dog
SkyeDS: and already threatening to leave with the kids
evile: that's some fucked up shit, yo.
SkyeDS: I w ill not have either of them abusing my life mate of 14
years. I won't.
SkyeDS: and then they did exactly what I figured they would do, which
is call every last member of teh family trying to start a war
evile: I just know they called you and me, and then Aunt L last night
SkyeDS: no sooner than rubber_pig hung up on me than they called K/mom who
called stepdad/G
evile: Well, they pretty much burned bridges with Mom while she was
down helping with the baby, so I don't know what they expected to
accomplish there, other than chaos & upset, which they did.
SkyeDS: if they step foot on my ranch I'll have them arrested for
trespassing
SkyeDS: and/or shoot them
evile: *nod*
evile: From the message he left at my house, doesn't sound like that
will be a problem. He doesn't want anything to do with any of us
anymore.
SkyeDS: they were t hreatening to come look for Paulie and harass
Connie.
evile: nuts.
SkyeDS: what takes the cake for me is "her" dog
evile: I'm sorry y'all had to go through all that.
SkyeDS: as I am for the rest of the family (HUGS)
SkyeDS: guess the trip to the sisters' with t he kids didn't last
long as they were in the same room phonetagteaming us
evile: was bound to happen sooner or later. Divide and conquer.
Predators always cull their intended victim from the herd to go in
for the kill.
SkyeDS: I was afraid they'd say exactly what they did - "you know
this was just temporary"
SkyeDS: excuse me but no, I KNOW he told you otherwise, because I
HEARD him tell you, more than once
evile: bottom line: the dog is disappeared/dead, and the situation
would not be different if he was there 'for permanent' or 'for
temporary'
SkyeDS: I wonder if they're going to think about suing us
evile: rubber_pig's always talking about suing someone; far as I know it
hasn't happened yet.
evile: it's all just a game to keep [brother A] unbalanced, upset, and not
thinking.
SkyeDS: she's doing a damn good job of that
evile: yup
evile: and if anyone was able to talk sense into him (what has
changed here? the apartment management presumably STILL will not
allow dogs) then she'd open up a whole new attack on something
completely unrelated to get him upset all over again
SkyeDS: even if everyone else had believed the pair of us, I don't
know if that would have made any difference anyway
SkyeDS: I don't think anyone had power of prevention here
evile: They were going to take Paulie to the pound. he'd be long-dead
now, in that case.
SkyeDS: I hope everyone has the grace to apologize to you for the way
they treated you over this whole fiasco
evile: I could give a shit.
SkyeDS: a simple acknowledgement that you were right would be a nice
beginning at least
evile: I've been the punching bag for a bunch of other garbage all
through the years, might as well take this hit, too.
evile: I want my brother back. And/or her FUCKING DEAD! And since an
apology isn't likely to accomplish either, I don't need or want one.
evile: [brother A]'s message said he doesn't want to hear from me or see me
ever again. I don't know how I can let him know I'm still here and I
still love him while respecting those stated boundaries.
SkyeDS: no clue.
evile: Me neither.
evile: Did anybody get any good pictures of y'all at Gulf War?
SkyeDS: think so, don't think they're downloaded off camera yet tho
evile: Did anybody win any eq. prizes?
SkyeDS: [Keject] took first place in ShrekQuest
SkyeDS: (Keject - Drandmir)
evile: oh, tha'ts very cool.
SkyeDS: I spent $200 in 20 minutes
SkyeDS: sineater helped but not much
evile: wow.
SkyeDS: was in teh company of queens, duchesses and baronesses all
week, loaned Mirage out to them, she acquitted herself admirably -
she is a lady's/child's horse
SkyeDS: 3500 people there
evile: big crowd!
evile: I had phone duty so I get to leave at 3:30
SkyeDS: that's a blessing :)
evile: yeah.
evile: I could not get to sleep last night, so I am pretty tired
today. I had been thinking of going to Sharjinka's craft night, but I
may go to bed early instead.
SkyeDS: there will be other craft nights
evile: yup
evile: I think I'm going to have to think about making my LJ friends
only...far too many wierdos friending me these days & tossing random
comments into my LJ.
SkyeDS: :|
evile: including your little friend. ugh. "always here for you" I'm
so f-ing sure.
evile: I am going to hurt my brain trying to figure out "why
now" ....what's changed? the baby drama dying down so we had to start
something new? what?
SkyeDS: which little friend
evile: You know, your favorite little friend. He who will not go away.
SkyeDS: I truly am confused
evile: I'm sure you'll figure it out. ;P
SkyeDS: not kaleon surely
SkyeDS: I have nto been to LJ today, so I'm not sure what's going
on ...
evile: Well, it'll definitely teach me not to throw pity parties for
myself; all kindsa wierdos show up uninvited.
SkyeDS: am I going to have to go look at LJ to figure out who he who
will not go away is?
evile: As far as I know, you only have 2 'don't go away mad, just go
away''s in your life.
evile: And Mr. New Zealand freak doesn't have a LJ as far as I know.
SkyeDS: did you delete whatever he said already?
evile: nope, not going to give him the satisfaction.
evile: Let it stand as a monument to hypocrisy and a reminder to self
not to put things out in public
SkyeDS: <looking>
SkyeDS: go ahead and come running. sineater will kill you and I won't
stop him t his time.
evile: *shrug*
evile: *takes knife out of back*...yeah, I'm going to call you when I
have problems in life...FUH-reak.
evile: I guess he probably assumed that you and I were at odds once
again and figured he could get the dirt by pretending to be
concerned. fool me once & allathat.
SkyeDS: we're at odds?
SkyeDS: which explains why we are mutually friended in LJ?
evile: no, but what else could I possibly be posting in LJ about? If
my life is miserable, obviously it's because of you. (that's true in
his world, he assumes it's true in all worlds)
SkyeDS: ROFL
SkyeDS: if it were me you would have removed me from your friends list
SkyeDS: something anyone with the iq of a house fly could deduce for
themselves
evile: *shrug* no tellin'.
SkyeDS: isn't that nice to know he still reads your LJ
SkyeDS: <smirk>
evile: I dunno...there's another one that hurts my brain trying to
figure out...
SkyeDS: my banishing must have worked on some level at least that it
took me that long to figure out who you were talking about
evile: yeah...if he won't move on, at least you aren't going to let
it upset you anymore.
SkyeDS: oh well, you know I'm here and my feelings and all that, so I
won't add my due lire to your LJ
evile: *nod* I really hadn't intended on throwing a pitty party...but
it was gratifying to realize that people do give a shit about me. Too
bad it's not my birth family, but chosen family is a fine thing, as
Onyxlynxx said.
SkyeDS: who else has been invading your LJ?
evile: a bunch of TIMsters I don't recognize, apparently, and some
guy from Nolans' friends list.
SkyeDS: :|
SkyeDS: guess I"ll update my journal
evile: 15 minutes to go!
SkyeDS: :)
SkyeDS: spent $155 on kuchis
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: got a belt, a big heavy piece that could be either necklace
or belt, have to figure out what to do with it
SkyeDS: and a reversible tassle belt
evile: this is at SCA war thing?
evile: I heard the vendors there are faboo.
SkyeDS: we spent $200 in 20 minutes
SkyeDS: sineater helped but it was mostly mee
SkyeDS: and would have been more if I hadn't grounded myself
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: I can't think of anything I might have wanted that wasn't
there aplenty
evile: My favorite scent vendor was SCA. Her website doesn't exist
anymore...I wonder if she's ever at any big SCA things.
evile: course I haven't done any sniffy stuff in awhile. I gave my
soapmaking stuff to Andre
evile: well, time for me to get gone. Have a good afternoon/evening.