220"Abusive Expectations"
Jan. 2nd, 2002 06:50 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
evile- Jan. 2, 2002Or is it so much what it says in
http://www.recovery-man.com/abusive/bpd_abuse.htm
and I quote
"ABUSIVE EXPECTATIONS: People with BPD generally lack self-soothing
skills - they are unable to calm themselves and typically look for
this soothing from their partners. The person with BP may place
unreasonable demands on their partner and want the partner to put
everything else aside to tend to their needs. People with BPD expect
that relationships will ease the chronic emptiness they feel, and can
become resentful and enraged when the relationship fails to meet
their every need. Abusive relationship expectations may include
demands for constant attention, frequent sex, a requirement that you
spend all your free time with the person, or give up everything else
in your life. Because these expectations are based in the chemical /
emotional imbalance no matter how much you give, it's never enough.
You may be subjected to constant criticism, and are berated because
you can't fulfill all this person's needs."
Jan. 2, 2002
Or is it so much what it says in
http://www.recovery-man.com/abusive/bpd_abuse.htm
and I quote
"ABUSIVE EXPECTATIONS: People with BPD generally lack self-soothing
skills - they are unable to calm themselves and typically look for
this soothing from their partners. The person with BP may place
unreasonable demands on their partner and want the partner to put
everything else aside to tend to their needs. People with BPD expect
that relationships will ease the chronic emptiness they feel, and can
become resentful and enraged when the relationship fails to meet
their every need. Abusive relationship expectations may include
demands for constant attention, frequent sex, a requirement that you
spend all your free time with the person, or give up everything else
in your life. Because these expectations are based in the chemical /
emotional imbalance no matter how much you give, it's never enough.
You may be subjected to constant criticism, and are berated because
you can't fulfill all this person's needs."
http://www.recovery-man.com/abusive/bpd_abuse.htm
and I quote
"ABUSIVE EXPECTATIONS: People with BPD generally lack self-soothing
skills - they are unable to calm themselves and typically look for
this soothing from their partners. The person with BP may place
unreasonable demands on their partner and want the partner to put
everything else aside to tend to their needs. People with BPD expect
that relationships will ease the chronic emptiness they feel, and can
become resentful and enraged when the relationship fails to meet
their every need. Abusive relationship expectations may include
demands for constant attention, frequent sex, a requirement that you
spend all your free time with the person, or give up everything else
in your life. Because these expectations are based in the chemical /
emotional imbalance no matter how much you give, it's never enough.
You may be subjected to constant criticism, and are berated because
you can't fulfill all this person's needs."
