220"Abusive Expectations"

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• Jan. 2, 2002

   

  Or is it so much what it says in
  http://www.recovery-man.com/abusive/bpd_abuse.htm
  and I quote
  
  "ABUSIVE EXPECTATIONS: People with BPD generally lack self-soothing
  skills - they are unable to calm themselves and typically look for
  this soothing from their partners. The person with BP may place
  unreasonable demands on their partner and want the partner to put
  everything else aside to tend to their needs. People with BPD expect
  that relationships will ease the chronic emptiness they feel, and can
  become resentful and enraged when the relationship fails to meet
  their every need. Abusive relationship expectations may include
  demands for constant attention, frequent sex, a requirement that you
  spend all your free time with the person, or give up everything else
  in your life. Because these expectations are based in the chemical /
  emotional imbalance no matter how much you give, it's never enough.
  You may be subjected to constant criticism, and are berated because
  you can't fulfill all this person's needs."