Quora: Is it common for a possible narc to threaten calling the police and your place of employment

Is it common for a possible narc to threaten calling the police and your place of employment when you call them out on a lie?

Yes, indeed. I had a Crazy B*** make up a fake email account and then use my company’s web portal to lodge a complaint against me. Even though the name was fake and there was no proof, my workplace had to go through an investigation. It wasted my employer’s time and resources and annoyed my bosses but it was a good paid vacation for me, when my workplace could ill-afford to do without my work. Epic backfire of a plan!

Meanwhile, the Crazy was telling their followers/flying monkeys that *I* was the one who had tried to cause *them* to be out of work by badmouthing them to their clients/employers.

Crazy also told their friends/followers/flying monkeys that they and their spouse had filed “restraining orders” and “orders of protection” against me. They also used the term “tortious interference” for the business they thought they’d lost because of my ‘badmouthing’ (couldn’t possibly have anything to do with their own rude and irresponsible behavior, poor track record with other clients, many bad reviews online, generally filthy habits, and dangerous/abusive public outbursts, nope, it was all my fault that people did not want to do business with them! LOL!)

Since I was never served with any of that paperwork, I know they were lying. I do not really understand *why* they bother with such a far fetched and elaborate lie.

It’s very possible that they tried to file such things but the court/police/lawyer probably laughed them out the door.

Every nutjob I’ve ever met has always a) fancied themselves to be a legal expert and b) told multiple stories of having ‘sued’ this person, that person, this ex-boss, that ex-best-friend, bla bla bla.

Since they are all a) liars and b) usually one paycheck away from homelessness at any given time & in debt up to their eyeballs, the best thing to do when a Narcissist starts up with the legalistic BS language and threats of legal action, is to laugh in their face and go on about your happy life. They are unhappy crazy people—just leave them to wallow in their mess.

==============

Editing to add:  Posts tagged 'quora' were originally my answers to peoples' questions on quora.com.  They were monetized but I am giving them away for free here. 

If you feel inclined to support my writing, here's my paypal 

And if you prefer to pay it forward, I recommend Safe Place as an excellent place to support.