evile: howdy :)
SkyeDS: mornin :)
evile: How's your day going?
SkyeDS: "when a witch is tired, a witch goes back to bed" ~ Z.
Budapest. Wish I could have. However, I'm sitting here, vegetating
because I'm lethargic and cramping, doing nothing, which is no big
deal, because Hugh isn't here today.
evile: *nod*
evile: I was sad that sineater had to leave so soon last night :(
SkyeDS: he said he would be home by 10 anyway, and the funny thing
is, even leaving when he did, he didn't make it home until a quarter
of 10
evile: wow.
SkyeDS: so if he'd left when he originally planned to, I doubt he'd
have been home until between 11 and midnight.
evile: I guess not.
SkyeDS: and I'm sorry, but when every dish and fork I own I find
dirty, and there are dozens of bugs crawling in the sink, and I go to
microwave dinner because I certainly can't cook anything, and even
the microwave is filthy, and all of this is because he left it that
way, that's his problem, and he needs to handle it. I don't deserve
that.
evile: I dont' really get that, but OK.
SkyeDS: you can cook in a kitchen where every single inch of counter
space is covered and filthy, every dish you own is dirty, there are
bugs in the sink and even the microwave is nasty?
evile: I know how to do dishes, clean microwave, etc....
SkyeDS: so do I
SkyeDS: but I'm not going to clean up his mess that he left there for
days and weeks on end
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: and he's going to stop leaving them or his kitchen privileges
will be revoked, and I don't really care how he feeds and waters
himself.
SkyeDS: the deal behind giving him a room of the house to do with
what he will, means he does NOT get to leave common rooms that are
necessary for all of our use the way he leaves his room.
evile: I certainly sympathize.
SkyeDS: he *swore* there would be no bugs in my new house. gave his
sacred oath.
evile: apparently the bugs had other plans.
SkyeDS: yes well, the bugs are a direct result of the boys habits.
both of them. And it will stop or they will both live outside of my
home, and sure as hell not use my kitchen anymore.
evile: I think Festive and David have the right idea: they have been
together 5 years but each has their own home.
SkyeDS: we have 11 acres now. t hat is a possibility. Among the
trash we pulled off is an old dog house. I was going to give it to
Connie.
SkyeDS: my point to him is simply this. There are lots of things I
would like to do. My responsibility to the house and the land comes
first.
SkyeDS: He doesn't want to go do anything fun this weekend because he
wants to work all weekend. Fine.
SkyeDS: then why did the kitchen look like it did, while he's off
playing.
SkyeDS: I'm tired of him saying one thing ("No more bugs, I swear"
and "need to work before play") and then doing the exact opposite.
SkyeDS: kind of like i"m tired of hearing I'm sorry for things he
does repeatedly
evile: that's human nature...we all do that.
SkyeDS: not to the extent that he does.
evile: There's not much I can say here. I like you but I wont' join
you in excorciating sineater.
SkyeDS: that's fine
SkyeDS: although I will point out, that I don't defend Sweetie to you
when you vent.
evile: You're not Sweetie's sister.
evile: And you weren't Sweetie's friend before he met me.
SkyeDS: and you criticize him for far less than what bothers me.
evile: You're free to have your opinions about sineater, and the dynamics
of your household are none of my business...and I will listen to
whatever you have to say...but that's as far as I go.
evile: I didn't say anything about sineater being blameless, or 'defend'
him so much as just say...hey, everyone fucks up. We're all human.
But if you see that as me taking a side, I won't say that anymore to
you.
SkyeDS: all I ever want, when I point out a mistake, is that it be
corrected
SkyeDS: and in the case of multiple mistakes, saying I'm sorry and
then doing it again, is pointless
SkyeDS: and I am at the point with the house in general, the kitchen
particularly, and the bugs, where he will honor his word, or else.
It isn't one mistake, it's the same mistake repeatedly.
SkyeDS: and there's no reason to make the same mistake twice. None.
evile: Wow. I am not even that hard on MYSELF.
SkyeDS: I am no harder on anyone than I am on myself. And I put to
you that if outsiders saw the conditions he leaves our home in, that
most would say I tolerate too much for too long.
evile: I know its not fair and it sucks and it will eventually break
the relationship if it hasnt' already, but when I get to the point
where I can't stand the filth and clutter, I clean (as much as I can
anyway with all Sweetie's crap in the way)
SkyeDS: the boys are going to clean up after themselves or they will
live outside.
evile: I dont' have that kind of say so over where Sweetie lives, so I
have had to find other ways to deal.
evile: We had a belated "Boss' Day" Lunch at work today, the boss
sent an email to the unit to say 'thanks'. I was so tempted to
reply "now where's my damn raise?"
SkyeDS: lol
evile: :slaps own fingers away from the keyboard--the modern
equivalent to tongue-biting.
SkyeDS: Hugh took his legal specialization board test
SkyeDS: he's going to jack his prices up
SkyeDS: think I'll wait till January and ask for a raise
evile: excellent :)
evile: did you see this yet?
http://www.prospect.org/web/page.ww?
section=root&name=ViewWeb&articleId=8790
SkyeDS: I was asked a long while ago if Bushs' public comments about
witchcraft bothered me.
SkyeDS: my response was, it's his opinion, he's welcome to it, it's
like his asshole, everyone has one and they all stink
SkyeDS: as long as SCOTUS makes him respect the wall of separation,
I'm good. Problem is, they don't always, not like they ought to.
(Padilla, Hamdi, et al).
evile: yup. and if he gests another 4 years in office, that's just
gonna get worse
SkyeDS: I do not like the massing of 10,000 lawyers on each side
ready to file lawsuits the minute the election is over. that really
bothers me.
evile: yup.
SkyeDS: if the gods had wanted me to vote they would have given me
candidates.
evile: heh. I know that feeling.
SkyeDS: I saw that on a bumper sticker and thought it was funny
evile: *nod*
evile: I recently found some guided meditation on launchcast & added
it to my mix. It's nice to just suddenly be told to sit and
relax...helps my day immensely.
SkyeDS: wish I had speakers/sound card
evile: If I iddn't havemusic here I would hav quit a long time ago.
(or be homicidally insane, one)
evile: I did the handwriting analysis thing, but it was wayyy too
accurate for public consumption.
SkyeDS: wow
evile: Nobody really wants/needs to knwo what a pathetic loser I
really am.
SkyeDS: did it say that in so many words?
evile: well it was nice about it, but basically, yeah.
SkyeDS: a lot of friends' said interesting stuff about them sexually
SkyeDS: mine didn't mention sex at all
SkyeDS: <boring
evile: mabye that means you dont' have any sexual issues...?
SkyeDS: means I'm boring :)
evile: means you're getting laid in a way you prefer, as often as you
prefer.
SkyeDS: rofl how do you figure
evile: If not, it would show up as an 'issue' in your handwriting,
right?
SkyeDS: I don't know whether it would or not.
evile: that was the general trend I saw in other people's handwriting
stuff--handwiting was revealing lacks.
SkyeDS: it must have decided since I have plain old normal hand
writing I'm plain old normal person ROFL
evile: normal is not necessarily a bad word...
SkyeDS: never said it was. however it isn't exactly applicable.
evile: perhaps you're kinky, but not pathological about it which then
makes your sexuality comfortable for you, which translates
into 'normal' handwriting
SkyeDS: convoluted but makes sense eventually :P
evile: thats me.
evile: We are completely caught up at work. I just went and got stuff
right off the fax machine because our area is empty
SkyeDS: :)
evile: I wonder what I'll do tomorrow for work...
evile: I bet a lot of people will call in sick.
evile: e.'s trying to get me to take beginner yoga with her. blah!
SkyeDS: I could do yoga on mondays if it weren't for fighter practice.
evile: This is some kind of a deal where you buy a 1 month unlimited
class and get an 8 class pass for __, and I guess she wants to go in
on it together & I buy the 8 class pass.
SkyeDS: I got used to the UT class, I liked it.
evile: The last yoga yoga pass I had was a 5 class pass, it was good
for 6 months, and it expired before I used all my classes.
evile: the 'yoga club'? yeah, tha was nice until it got so damn
crowded.
evile: I don't know if they still do it or not. I haven't checked
lately. the dillos got all screwed up so now I dont' knwo how to get
to campus from here, other than walking.
SkyeDS: yep
SkyeDS: used to be admin parking was open at 4:30 now it isn't open
til 5:45, damned inconvenient.
evile: yeah, that is.
evile: I like Yoga Yoga OK, but I dont' think I could commit to it
frequently enough to use an 8 class pass before it expired. I guess
that's lazy of me, but it's one of those things, I either need to be
going because I know someone there is expecting me, or because its
like the UT extension clases, every X and Y day for Z weeks, and
that's all.
evile: even with Krav Maga, I missed a lot of classes at the end
because Mom & [sister H] were visiting.
SkyeDS: ndos
SkyeDS: err nods
evile: Next time I go thataway for fabric, I need to pop in to the KM
studio at Lamar & Airport, get a list of classes & prices.
evile: oh shit. e. asks "What has you so busy?"...I don't really
want to tell her.
SkyeDS: couldn't it be summarized as just stuff in general?
evile: I'm going with "standing dinner plans with some of my groups"
evile: Hopefully that'll be good enough. It' snot that I woud mind
taking her to poly dinner, or whatever, but she seemed freaked when I
introduced her to Ladydreamtime and Rainking1 and his GF at Extravagasm & told
her "yeah, Ladydreamtime has a couple of boyfriends, too" when she asked.
evile: Depending on the venue, I don't attend every poly dinner, but
I like to leave those nights open, anyway, just in case.
evile: I'm VERY glad I skipped last night--Pace said it was indeed
kids' night & there was a guy doing balloons.
SkyeDS: lol
evile: Pace seemed to enjoy it, but to me, that's what Hell will be
like when I get there..
SkyeDS: you would think a big group of pagan kids would be completely
out of control, but only one out of many was out of control
evile: that's good.
SkyeDS: and not in a physically active way, just.... mean to the
other kids and truth impaired
SkyeDS: I said something to him about both but of course it did no
good
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: he belongs, of course, to Seneca, the control freak
evile: heh.
evile: doesn't she have 2?
SkyeDS: may have, only one I know is hers, is the boy Cameron
evile: oh. I may be thinking of someone else, then.
evile: Oh, hey, they finally made a website with Witches Ball info!
http://www.austinwitchesball.com/
SkyeDS: bout time!
SkyeDS: thx!
evile: no prob. :)
evile: Oh, poop, time for me to start headin that way.
SkyeDS: may stop by there on the way to wherever we end up, ride up
on the porch, and hang till we get asked to leave ;)
evile: *nod* That would be cool :)
SkyeDS: ciao :)
evile: Have a good evening! *hugs* to sineater for me, please.
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