Sep. 29th, 2004

evile: (clutter)
Sep. 29, 2004
Omega at the Crossings was pretty nice. The workshop was good, fairly
simple, did not exceed any boundaries (ie: the facilitator did not
ask us to hug, dance, sing, or do anything embarassing)

The first exercise in loving attention was to sit with a partner
(Victoria) and close your eyes, center yourself, and then open your
eyes and focus on the person, on the meeting of yourself and the
person, and if something distracts from that focus, close your eyes &
center again. It was interesting. It was interesting to watch
Victoria go from inner focus to focus on me, to watch her eyes and
mouth smile to see me. To see her face animate with a bit of impish
glee. (then I almost got the giggles & had to close my eyes & focus
again) She told me she saw an aura around me of many shifting colors,
and that she experienced a feeling of 'opening' and compassion. She
didn't want to open her eyes at the beginning, and I tried to keep my
eyes open the whole time. Easier for her to be watched than to watch,
easier for me to watch than to be watched.

The second exercise was to share a story of unconditional love with
your partner. The partner's job is to focus on your storytelling,
rather than the words. That was interesting too. Eye contact was
hard. I cried. Victoria almost did when she told her story and when
she listened to mine, both. It was very powerful. Then she offered
me a hankie and I refused. Later, I realized that I usually, almost
always, refuse offers of any kind from people. In the same way that
it was easier for me to watch than to be watched, it is easier for me
to give than to receive. My story of unconditional love made me cry
because...well, I dunno, but I guess on some level I just don't
believe I deserve that kind of love, even though I try to give that
kind of love to people. One of the discussion points after the
exercise was that 1) we have to love ourselves in order to love
others and 2) the well of divine love is inside each of us, that
we 'fall in love' not with another person, but actually into the well
of love inside us, that is always present and always there for us and
for the others in our lives.

And, as I keep hearing & re-hearing, it is more important and healing
for us to love those who seem unlovable, to love those who are
suffering, than it is to love those who are easy to love.

You are, therefore you are loved. It's true true true, so true it
hurts and makes me cry to think about it.

So, the actual place:

The grounds are very pretty--xeriscaped landscape, lots of shade &
big rocks to sit on along what appears to be several miles of walking
trails. The buildings are set up far enough apart to give an
appearance of privacy for each bungalow, the spa, the cafe', etc. The
library is gorgeous. The architecture is very nice: wood and
limestone, lots of open spaces, windows, high ceilings with exposed
wood beams (bad feng shui, but very pretty) The staff at the front
office & facilitating the meeting were pretty Stepford (tall tan
blondes), but the spa front desk girls were interesting & attractive
in a more 'normal' kind of way. One was a chubby, but attractive
hispanic girl, who very kindly directed us to the water area. I dont
remember the other girl at all, actually but she was not a stepford
clone, anyway.

The water area was visually stunning, the pool has a great view and
one of those 'zero horizon' 'negative edge' or whatever it is called
where the pool just STOPS and the view of the hill country begins.
However, there was an odd 'pong' in the air vaguely reminiscent of
the pool area on the cruise ship--sort of a salty, fishy, stagnant
odor. I hope that's not a permanent feature of the pool.
evile: (clutter)
Sep. 29, 2004


SkyeDS: just spent the last 24 hours with no electricity due to an
error on the part of the electric company. sineater is going to shoot
them with a bazooka and I'm not going to stop him this time
evile: ugh. Sorry to hear about that!
SkyeDS: the taylor daily press isn't available online unfortunately
evile: oh, too bad. be sure and save clippings for your portfolio.
SkyeDS: yep :)
evile: Omega at the Crossings was nice, btw. They give free tours at
1:30 every Saturday. You have to call ahead to reserve a spot on the
tour, but it's free. Victoria said that when she took the tour, there
were only 4 other people, and after the tour the person said they
could stay and use the facilities as long as they wanted.
SkyeDS: awesome :)
evile: Looks like your Saturdays are pretty much spoken for at least
thru end of Nov, but something to keep in mind.
SkyeDS: nice Xmas present would be
evile: hm.
SkyeDS: I'm bad about buying myself presents when I can afford
evile: well, the Saturday orentations are free. *shrug* It's just a
matter of finding a date when you do't have other plans. and $20 is
less than I usually spend on a meal or a pair of shoes, so I'd
consider a day pass money well spent.
SkyeDS: yepyepyep
evile: the salon services weren't unreasonable, either. Some really
good package deals.
SkyeDS: would be happy with hot tub and massage.
evile: Day pass is included with any salon service, I think I read.
evile: Swedish massage is $45 for 25 min, specialty massage
(balinese, hot stone, watsu, etc) is $50 for 25 min.
evile: Even adding the gratuity, $50 for a massage & all day at the
Crossings, not bad.
SkyeDS: :)
evile: Just gotta find/make the time. *sigh*
SkyeDS: nodnod
evile: the people in the welcome center & 'facilitating' the workshop
were a little bit stepford, but the ladies at the spa front desk were
normal and nice.
SkyeDS: no newagey nut/fruit cakes cool :)
SkyeDS: will brb, trip to FedEx.
evile: some of the audience members were, but they werent' in charge.
evile: OK
SkyeDS: bk
evile: wb
evile: I'm so bored today at work...more than usual. I wish I got to
run errands or do mor e than one thing all day long...
SkyeDS: yep
evile: Erinlefey & Tangentsferret are moving into their new apt. this weekend. I
guess I should check w/Sweetie and see if I can use the Trooper to help.
SkyeDS: that's a nice thing to do :)
evile: Actually, I am reeally hoping he says he has other plans.
SkyeDS: we're going to houston sun
SkyeDS: sat if we get an offer to spend night
evile: *nod* cool
evile: I need to go to Fiesta sometime between now and the 13th. I am
going to work up a nasty lil' somethin-somethin
SkyeDS: I need to start eating right again
evile: *nod* me too.
evile: I got really close to my September goal, which was at least 15
min. of exercise a day. I missed 4 days.
SkyeDS: :)
evile: October I'm going to see if I can work up to 15 one day, 30
the next, 15 day after, and so on.
evile: I've heard good things about something called "power 90" but
it involves supplements. ick.
SkyeDS: I'm contemplating getting thyroid checked
evile: Might be a good idea.
evile: I'm giving my system until December to straighten out and if
I'm still having wierd stuff, I'm seeing an endocrinologist.
evile: I haven't had anything as bad as the meltdown I had in July.
SkyeDS: that's good, at least
evile: Yeah. I think now i't's pretty much in the ballpark of 'normal
female fluctuations'
evile: My main concern now is this tendency I've been having since
going of depo and being sterilized, to gain around the waist. I've
never had that before.
evile: I've been weighing and measuring 1ce a month all year, and
there has been a tendency to add inches to the waist and nowhere
else. I don't like that much. I'd rather not be gaining at all, but
usually it distributes itself better than that...
SkyeDS: pills (on/off) do that
evile: then again, it could just be the mid-30 metabolism slowdown,
slide into menopause & natural non-fertile body shape of an older
woman
evile: *sigh*
evile: Oh well. this whole fertility rollrcoaster hasn't been much
fun anyway, I think I'm looking forward to my Official Crone years
SkyeDS: nods
SkyeDS: I don't think I'm looking forward to menopause
SkyeDS: after the severity of the menopausal symptoms I had when they
put me on POP
evile: *nod*
evile: At least there's the hope of having sympathetic & competent
medical help once you're actually deemed 'old enough' to be having
the symptoms.
evile: the plus side of less girly hormones is that you could
concievably muscle up in your old age... :P
evile: bleh. what a downer to end the day's talk on!!
evile: Um....nice full moon last night & this a.m. That's a nice
thing to think about :)
evile: & 1 day closer to the weekend.
evile: Anyhoo, gotta toss papers & get my arthritic ass on home. I am
thinking workout, nyquil & pass out sounds like a good plan for the
evening.
evile: *hugs* see ya tomorrow.

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