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1456 : icq w/ Sineater
Jun. 2nd, 2003 11:53 am
SkyeDS: Norf!
evile: hello..Sineater?
SkyeDS: :)
SkyeDS: si
evile: Skye_DS doesn't ususally use words like "Norf", you see...
SkyeDS: how you?
evile: improving daily. and yourself?
SkyeDS: up n' down, doing ok overall
evile: yeah. I'll be happier when Sweetie's home tomorrow :)
evile: No fun to hang out at home working yourself into paranoid
mania. (phones ring at odd hours, hang up...you assume it's evil X
and her insane mate...things like that.)
SkyeDS: don't blame you. i'm sorry, i didn't realize that this shit
was still going on... and not only that but escalating*DISGUSTED*
SkyeDS: **hug***
evile: X wrote a *12 page* letter about me to my mother. Mostly
crap, and misrepresentations, and outright lies. All in a fine
mishmash.
evile: I didn't realize it was still going on either...apparently
[Xs husband] is still pissed off enough at me that he cornered [brother A] at home
depot and bitched about me for long and hard enough that [brother A] wanted
to mash his head
SkyeDS: good thing is i'm confident kathy would a) spot it as
bullshit and b) even for parts that may be true, say, "so? and what
do you want *me* to do about it?"
evile: that was like 2-3 weeks ago.
evile: Well, mom just sent it to me with a note "I don't know if you
want to see this, but here it is".
SkyeDS: holy shit.
SkyeDS: yep yep. she knows histrionics when she sees it.
SkyeDS: them.
SkyeDS: whatever.
SkyeDS: is [brother A] working at home despot now? haven't talked to him in
too long :(((((
evile: yup. I haven't done anything wrong, but I am still just dying
to go in and correct all of the misinformation she is loading onto my
mom, about me, about the guy she had a thing for, etc. But that
would just make me look like I had something to hide or be ashamed
of, and I DONT.
evile: Nah, [brother A] is working for a party supply place on 183. He
delivers and takes down moonwalks, sells pinyatas & stuff. He really
seems to like it.
SkyeDS: very true. tell you same thing i said about kim, she is
digging her own grave quite nicely, thank you. you can talk about it
w/ mom later on. besides, she considers the source, too.
SkyeDS: oh! oh! is that the one right across from the target??? have
to drop by!!! sounds like fun too
evile: Yeah, it's the one across fromTarget. [brother A] is usually there
from 10 am to 8 pm or so.
SkyeDS: i would be happy to try and straighten [Xs husband] out... however,
i'm sure that would just tickle him pink... also, with him, i
actually doubt i could out-drama (or intimidate) him...
evile: I don't think [Xs husband] is sane at this point....and never forget:
Shit Splatters.
SkyeDS: hee hee hee
SkyeDS: need a bumper sticker of that :)
evile: I have just been trying to go on with my life. I'm very sad. I
miss the kiddoes...but this was totally their choice.
evile: Yeah....I will have to go do a hunt & see if I can get us a
matching set of bumper stickers.
SkyeDS: wrong of them to take it out on the kids. just fucking wrong.
and on you. but of course they can't take it out on each other, the
causes of their mutual miseries, the loooove each other :-P
evile: sick sick!
evile: I'm sad that Skye_DS's feeling so discouraged; she doesn't feel
like anybody has noticed her efforts to be more patient, etc. I will
have to make a point of saying something
evile: Nobody's perfect,we all have a long way to go....but ti's hard
not to give up when people keep pointing out the bad stuff and not
noticing the good.
SkyeDS: i spent a lot of time making that point to her yesterday...
she didn't really listen to it... until terwin said basically the
same thing. sigh, oh well... i do same sometimes, so...
SkyeDS: i understand completely, go through the same thing
periodically myself
evile: Well, there are people who are *supposed* to say the good
stuff, you can't trust them :P
SkyeDS: though noticed that i sometimes am just not hearing the good,
or dicounting it out of hand
evile: Yeah. It is very easy to focus on, and thereby magnify,
negatives.
SkyeDS: *DISGUSTED*
SkyeDS: hee hee... playing with the wieride buttons
evile: I have a whole stack o' reading material for Skye_DS if she
wants to look at it: CMA 6 pages of BS, [Xs husband]'s crazy letter, and then
X's 12 pgs of nonsense. I'll send them home with her, if you are
interested. Not that I'd blame you for not wanting to soil your eyes
with it.
SkyeDS: may help ... might see some way to deal with them... maybe.
mie seems to have gone more fucking apeshit than i did over jason six
years ago.
SkyeDS: only difference is he is turning it against everybody *but*
X
evile: But [Xs husband] was always really jealous & nasty to anyone who paid
X any kind of attention. Even before she gave him reasons to be
distrustful.
SkyeDS: yep, and she apaprently got off on that. joy oh joy
evile: I think X is suffering too, and I feel bad for her...but
she made the bed, ya know? Time to lie down.
evile: (or is it lay? I forget..)
SkyeDS: i have to agre. and she seems to be participating in this as
well. ...? i think?
SkyeDS: ow
SkyeDS: more than enough laying already i think...
evile: Yeah. all of this 'us against everybody' has got to be
bringing them closer.
SkyeDS: have to make some phone calls... wanted to ask; ok if i come
by after i pick up rent? prob 7:30-8
evile: Sure! You're always welcome!
SkyeDS: oddly enough, it probably is:-X
evile: Hey,man, whatever floats her froot loops. I am just not
interested anymore.
SkyeDS: k! see you then! Skye_DS's planning on coming over after work,
and i can bring her stuff for tomorrow
evile: cool :) I appreciate you letting me borrow her :)
SkyeDS: safer that way. was never comfortable around her froot loops
meself
evile: hee.
SkyeDS: hee, borrow, suuuure... :)
SkyeDS: cyas, take care, sister
evile: you too! Love you!
