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[evile]

Sep. 22, 2004

evile: hey :)
SkyeDS: hey :) looking for a list of ALL the interests on LJ, all I
can find are "most popular" and "edit based on another user's list"
evile: Hm. I don't think there is such a beast, but I'm not too LJ
savvy, so probably not the final authority to consult.
evile: I think each person can only list 150, and that's about all I
know.
SkyeDS: oh well, I'll go back to it later.
SkyeDS: I added pictures, that will suffice for the time being.
evile: the thing is, I'm sure the interests list changes constantly.
You just put in whatever you're interested in, and if your wording
matches others, it then becomes searchable. I have 1 or 2 that are
unique to me alone.
evile: I didn't see your pictures :(
SkyeDS: I uploaded them after I posted toay
evile: on your main user page, or as your userpic icon-thingys, or ?
SkyeDS: userpic icon
evile: hm. don't see it.
SkyeDS: didn't realize there was anywhere else put pics
evile: there's some way to add a picture to the info page (name,
username, website, email, IM info, bla bla), and then there's the
little photos you can choose to add to each post/comment
evile: default for each post/comment is no pic until you choose a
default pic.
SkyeDS: will go back and poke around alittle after I'm thru feeding
face :)
evile: *nod* No big.
evile: I'm working on a kink post re: music for the mood. NIN and
type o- for sure, but I can't think of anything else right now. help?
evile: aha. http://www.livejournal.com/allpics.bml?user=skye_ds
SkyeDS: depends what kind of "mood"
SkyeDS: also like Peter Gunn and Sade, but that's a different kind of
mood
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: if you hadn't asked, I could have reeled off more than you
ever wanted :-/
evile: *nod* That is exactly where I'm at with it, too.

I guess I'm trying to think of songs that automatically put you in
your best/cutest/sexiest mood.
SkyeDS: van halen's pretty woman?
SkyeDS: hot for teacher?
evile: heh. good ones.
SkyeDS: cheesy - "Does your Mama know?" Abba
evile: Ladydreamtime has said good things about "Lamb"...but none of
his/her/their songs do it for me.
SkyeDS: see, there are cute songs about sex
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: and t hen there are "hard" songs not necessarily about sex,
but teh drums and bass put you there
evile: *nod*
evile: exactly.
SkyeDS: have been in an AC/DC back in black mood lately
SkyeDS: and Rush (Tom Sawyer)
evile: heh.
evile: Type O Negative for me today.
SkyeDS: Marilyn Manson is in that same genre (NIN, TO)
evile: he was so cool in concert at Ozfest.
SkyeDS: Def Leppard, Pour Some Sugar on Me (cheesy)
evile: better:Love bites :)
SkyeDS: nods
SkyeDS: hear people use Marvin Gaye's Sexual Healing although that
doesn't do it for me
SkyeDS: whatever that song is, boom boom boom let's go back to my
room.... (also not for me)
evile: I have to be in a certain mood/frame of mind for people like
Marvin Gaye or Quincy Jones to work on me. That's more for
bedroom/sweetie than 'scene'
SkyeDS: and "I want to sex you up" (don't know the artist)
SkyeDS: George Michael's "I wanna have sex"
SkyeDS: if it's scene specific
SkyeDS: Enigma definitely
SkyeDS: particularly the one about De Sade
evile: *nodnod*
SkyeDS: /me has lots of Enigma
SkyeDS: if you're taking someone into subspace, that whole genre
would suit, even perhaps Enya or Clannad, or maybe Art of Noise or
Tangerine Dream
evile: Sweetie's finally working on my new machine. I'm gonna have a CD
burner. I may have to make a "scene mix."
evile: and there's lots of stuff that puts me in the mood that I
wouldn't use actually in-scene. (most of it, actually)
SkyeDS: skater Kurt Browning's favorite band is "Tragically Hip" they
do that sort of thing, I think
SkyeDS: my favorite ice pairs couple did a routine to the Enigma
piece about De Sade that was just, sex on ice
evile: wow. I bet that was awesome.
SkyeDS: it was. She's a gorgeous redhead. yum.
evile: *grinz*
SkyeDS: I'm afraid to put some of my interests
SkyeDS: since I know Mom c hecks my journal for calendar stuff
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: I tried to comment to lil lamb about elfsea but she's set to
friends only
SkyeDS: so I commented in your comment section and posted another one
in my lj
evile: wow. I didn't realize that. I think she recently had some LJ
hoo-ha, so that's when she set it that way.
SkyeDS: http://www.masterslaverelationship.com/scene.html
SkyeDS: http://www.domsubfriends.com/cgi-local/wwwdir/db.cgi?
db=muscat&uid=default&category=*&view_records=View+Records&dc=3
SkyeDS: got my corset like yours today
SkyeDS: having everything delivered to work
SkyeDS: showed it to Hugh lol
evile: cool :) Just in time for the weekend.
SkyeDS: here's a page that I could agree with just about everything
listed:
SkyeDS: http://cuffs.com/submission/music.html
SkyeDS: cuffs.com is a great resource
SkyeDS: as is leathercellar.com and tiemeup.com
evile: possibly NSFW, so I'll save the links for later. :) thanks !
SkyeDS: oops, not tiemeup, what is it, one of my favorite sites for
collars and stuff
SkyeDS: and I can't remember AAAAH
evile: not to worry. I'm sure youll find it again.
evile: so what is this about you & sonar0m having a handfasting?
evile: ('nunya' is an OK answer, won't hurt my feelings. :)
SkyeDS: he said he would like to have one, in the near future, as
soon as he's had chance to do his research
evile: *nod* cool :)
SkyeDS: which basically means, I suspect, that I will give him stuff
to read and he'll read it
SkyeDS: as oposed to going out and finding it on his own
evile: Erinlefey & Pace had a private ceremony & then a public party
afterwards.
SkyeDS: good way to do it
evile: I think so.
SkyeDS: I don't really care to have a party although I guess if he
wanted one (but he didn't say one way or the other)
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: I notice that he who must not be named, apparently has not
moved on yet, because he was ragging on me again, this time about my
faith
SkyeDS: I NEVER said I was an HPS
SkyeDS: I'm not even an Initiate, I'm Affini
SkyeDS: had I called myself HPS Raven would kill me
SkyeDS: (along with Amberlynn if she didn't beat him to it)
evile: silly kid.
SkyeDS: he's about the only reason I can think of not to go to HK,
but I doubt he'll be there. a) it costs money and b) I don't think
he'd make it there on his new bike
SkyeDS: sineater is already prepared to deal with him if he is. sineater
apparently is having a hard time not posting comments.
evile: lol, there's a mental picture.
SkyeDS: I told him I didn't care if he did or not, or whether they
were anonymous or not
SkyeDS: but I do figure that attention and a fight is what he wants
SkyeDS: which is why I myself am not giving it to him
evile: *nod* smart move. I know it's probably really hard for sineater,
he's very protective of people he cares about.
SkyeDS: he knows what he posts is bullshit, and that's why he posts
it, because he WANTS and EXPECTS me to defend myself
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: the little dramatis he goes through are amusing
SkyeDS: he is apparently on a religion kick right now
evile: I hope he finds some peace.
SkyeDS: wonder how long it will take him to go back to wanting to be
in a monastery (what he wanted out of high school and freshman year
of college)
SkyeDS: I don't think he's searching for peace, so I doubt he'll find
it.
evile: it's really too bad. I mean, he was a jerk to me and worse
than that to you...but I still can't help but feel bad for him.
SkyeDS: he did apologize to you. kinda. and misspelled your name
while he was at it.
SkyeDS: although I don't know what he was apologizing for
SkyeDS: whether that was an admission that he did what he did
evile: *shrug*
SkyeDS: or an apology for not taking your advice with regard to the
Evil Skye
SkyeDS: I would bet, the latter
SkyeDS: I don't ever see him doing the former
SkyeDS: I'm wondering, now, academically, if he has always been this
truth impaired, because I don't see how we were together as long as
we were, if he's always been like this. You know how I am about that.
evile: I still have a rather imperfect understanding of what exactly
happened. I've mended all the fences I intend to and I'm not going
digging.
evile: I can be as metacognitive as the next, but there are some
things that will never be logically explain-able, so why open old
wounds when it won't accomplish understanding?
SkyeDS: yep, why I file that under academic curiosity - along with
angels/demons on heads of pins
evile: *nod*
evile: And forgiving someone does not mean you trust them again or
let them abuse you in future. It means you let go, and stop letting
it hurt.
SkyeDS: so, he apologizes to you for not taking your advice, but, I
think he knows, that we have mended fences
SkyeDS: so he's a little behind times
SkyeDS: will make for an interesting HK if we all end up there at the
same time
evile: *shrug* I'm prepared to behave civilly if we meet in a social
situation, but I won't be sharing my thoughts with him again.
SkyeDS: pearls before swine anyway
SkyeDS: I still don't think he'll be there, as it will require $ and
transportation
SkyeDS: and if he is, he can stew in his own juices
SkyeDS: I never have felt any reason to apologize or explain for
mending fences with you
SkyeDS: you're family
evile: I just wish he'd move the hell on...get over it, make new
friends, be happy.
SkyeDS: he should have expected a mending of fences, it is necessary
SkyeDS: I told him when we got back together I don't remember which
time now, there have been too many, that I didn't want to hear
anymore about it, and that I had mended familial fences, and that is
the end of that. He did actually manage to keep his mouth shut after
I glared at him enough times.
evile: heh.
SkyeDS: I intend to go, and be with my Family, and do what I love
doing. I've missed pagan gatherings.
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: I assume there will be enough room physically for him to go
hide behind a tree and be goth-angsty if he so chooses
evile: Bryce says it's going to be more like a big party than a bunch
of ritual, but I don't necessarily think that's a bad thing...
SkyeDS: and if he's stupid enough to try and paint me as the Wicked
Witch while I'm sharing my magical white mare with the children, go
for it.
SkyeDS: is Bryce going?
evile: ugh. HOpefully he won't be that tacky.
evile: No. Bryce was a CMA elected official when the last round of
crap went down, there is MAJOR bad blood between him and LokiCoyote,
who is one of hte main ESA founders
SkyeDS: :(
evile: Bryce is my friend, so I trust his judgement on stuff. But
I'm still willing to give ESA a chance, just like I gave CMA.
SkyeDS: last time I saw Liz, we were talking about SCA / HFS
evile: Thax's Liz?
SkyeDS: nod
SkyeDS: she has misgivings, partly due to SCA snobbery (amen)
SkyeDS: and partly due to feeling like having to make a choice
between the two
SkyeDS: and I told her, I haven't chosen one over the other and I'm
not going to.
SkyeDS: I have needs that neither meets by itself.
SkyeDS: wants, I guess, not needs.
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: since CMA is still in business I guess they got that all
straightened out
SkyeDS: I wonder who won.
evile: obviously Loki didn't, or ESA would not exist.
SkyeDS: he headed up the mutiny side right?
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: Bryce is still an Outlying Rep according to webpage
evile: huh. I didn't realize that.
SkyeDS: so, we will be leaving Castle Garriot sometime Sunday
(Halloween), that's the Lakeshores, Emma Long Park part of town
SkyeDS: I need to get with Kelly and find out what the kids want to
do and where
SkyeDS: and I'm toying with stopping by the Witches ball if there is
one
SkyeDS: parking the horses on the patio till they kick us out LOL
evile: PACT disbanded last year, I doubt there will be a witches ball
this year.
SkyeDS: last time we went, Maggie Drennon was there (VERY yum) and
they wanted to know where Arthur was (at home in bed, because I
didn't think they'd let him in)
SkyeDS: somebody else had it last year, I thought?
evile: hm. dunno.
SkyeDS: http://magickal-arts.org/portal/modules.php?
name=News&file=article&sid=19
SkyeDS: about the ball last year
SkyeDS: they had maggie again (le sigh)
evile: i can't remember where I was or what I was doing, but I missed
it, too.
SkyeDS: it was like ON halloween (bad idea)
evile: hm.
SkyeDS: like having an Xmas party ON Xmas.
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: I can't remember, did PACT disband before or after Halloween
last year?
SkyeDS: I thought it was before
evile: August, I think.
evile: *sigh* I can't _wait_ to get out of here & start fixing dinner.
SkyeDS: nodnods
SkyeDS: I'm here till 6:45 tonight. Hugh probably till 8.
evile: oof.
SkyeDS: When God created the horse he said to the magnificent
creature: I have made thee as no other. All the treasures of the
earth lie between thy eyes. Thou shalt carry my friends upon thy
back. Thy saddle shall be the seat of prayers to me. And thou fly
without wings, and conquer without any sword. Oh, horse.

evile: pretty.
SkyeDS: the Koran.
evile: *nod* sounded like.
SkyeDS: there's another verse about how Allah told the wind to
condense itself and create an animal
evile: cool!
evile: If it wouldn't get me put on A List, I'd like to buy a copy of
the Koran & read it. What I have read seems very lovely.
SkyeDS: I haven't read it, nor all of the Torah & Talmud, and I need
to
SkyeDS: I am sadly underread for what I am
evile: I've read the Torah & Talmud. Even ventured a few small
steps into the Mishna & Gemara (sp?)
SkyeDS: you heard about Cat Stevens right
evile: *nod*
evile: You know, as long as they're rounding up people who
contributed to terrorism, they might as well get all these right wing
fundy repubs who used to fund Al Quaeda when Afghanistan was occupied
by the USSR
SkyeDS: nods
SkyeDS: chipotle shrimp sounds very good
evile: it's not as shrimpy as I wanted it, but it should be good
anyway. I was trying to replicate the soup I had at Florida Seafood
Grill on Sunday.
SkyeDS: I love seafood but sineater doesn't.
evile: J-law's new guy doesn't like seafood, either.
SkyeDS: :(
evile: I guess we'll go to Main Street Station on Friday night
without him at Xmastime.
SkyeDS: hehe works for me
SkyeDS: except sonar0m isn't much into seafood either
SkyeDS: so I'll go somewhere by myself
evile: lots of options. You don't have to give up what you like just
because your partner isn't into it...
evile: damn. I just looked at natural magic's webpage & their Mabon
ritual and bellydance/fire show is tomorrow. When I'd already planned
on going to Drandmir's thingy. Hm. Time to whip out the magic
hourglass...
SkyeDS: hehe
evile: I guess I could go to Lockhart during the day and then back to
Austin for the bellydancing & fire in the evening...
SkyeDS: I used to do daytrips only to Lockhart, before we moved
SkyeDS: wasn't too bad
evile: no. Sweetie and I have driven out there for dinner a couple times.
It's about 45 min from our house or so.
evile: and this way I can put off learning how to drive the vanagon
for a while longer, since I won't be camping at the park :)
SkyeDS: nods
evile: I know how to drive standard, but it's been forever ago. And
there's some funky diesel thing you have to do when you start it...
SkyeDS: HUGS, wind to your wings, and happy equinox :)
evile: you too, doll. *hugs*
SkyeDS: :D