3514lunch w/nikiyoy

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Sep. 9, 2005

 

 

I had lunch w/nikiyoy yesterday at La Palapa. She was talking about
fishfood and fang and how they want to have a closed poly fi
relationshp and they want her to move in w/them. She doesn't want
either right now.

She is pissed because Belin_ann (Galen's wife) keeps flirting w/fishfood.
WTF, man. Belin_ann has even approached her to make sure it's OK, and
nikiyoy told her 'look but don't touch'

Fishfood apparently has told her that the only reason he's still with
his wife is because she's got cancer and it would be shitty of him to
leave her while she's sick.

Fang doesn't want to work, she wants to go back to school, and
apparently fishfood has problems with that because even though he makes
a ton of $, he doesn't want to support her.

Fang is a 'princess' and has 'entitlement issues' and apparently nikiyoy
thinks she's going to lay down the law and change the way fishfood and
fang interact with one another, and she also is demanding to be an
equal in the relationship. She will be interviewing their roommate
along with them, since she's not moving in w/them.

Seems like a lot of drama for not much happiness.

We also talked about how it seems that everyone's giving up poly, and
how if this one doesn't work out, she's giving up on poly, too. I don't
think poly is the problem...but if she'd rather have a conventional
relationship and cheat from time to time, or do the serial-monogamy
thing, that's her business.

I'm still mad at her for lying to me re: her involvement w/Crash (Sweetie
says that only oral happened the night of the hot tub, but that there
were other times when nikiyoy and Crash did the whole 9 yards)...but I'm
not really in any position to be confrontational re: lying and
cheating. It really is her business (and Crash's) and if they don't
want people to know, they don't have to tell anyone. *sigh* I have no
problem with them having sex, but lying sucks.

:(

Anyway...I am not much liking nikiyoy's latest mindset on things. I hope
the thing with fishfood dies soon.