3835another good LJ entry

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Nov. 16th, 2005 @ 08:41 am Reminders
Singing in my head: Coldplay - I'll See You Soon

Tags: personal growth

My intuition is not always 100% accurate.

This is a situation outside of my control to avoid, not out of my
control to change, but I don't want to be a person who would do that.
I could *easily* make it harder. I don't want to.

It really is okay to let things happen as they need to happen. I am
not worried about this negatively impacting me, I just would like to
avoid pain if possible. Its not possible, so sit back and learn
something.

Meditate on WHY I'm so strongly triggered by this situation.

I do NOT want to surround myself with people who put my perspective
above their own. This means sometimes my desire to take care of those
I love will conflict with my desire to be in co-operative
relationships, instead of codependant ones. They are grown-ups too,
treat them as such.

Breathe. Open your mouth and say...

Open your mouth
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From: eposia
Date: November 16th, 2005 - 03:19 pm

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love you, thinking of you(Reply)(Thread)

From: anathemacsj69
Date: November 16th, 2005 - 03:23 pm

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Thank you darlin. It helps.(Reply)(Parent)
From: oracle_tx
Date: November 16th, 2005 - 03:36 pm

The Elephant says... (Permanent Link)

Remember, the person that trusts your intuition may not be co-
dependent. If they just trust your intuition, then it is their choice
to follow it, not caused by their neurotic-ness.

On the other hand, if you get a hunch they should give you $100 and
they do, then they're your co-dependent sugar daddy/momma. Try not to
piss them off or they might go buy a gun.(Reply)(Thread)

From: anathemacsj69
Date: November 16th, 2005 - 03:41 pm

Re: The Elephant says... (Permanent Link)

Sugar daddies and mommas are allowed to be co-dependant. Hehe

I see a difference between trusting my intuition and putting my
perspective above their own I guess. Kind of a fine line though. I
don't have any interest in someone making choices based on my gut
feelings and then coming back later and saying 'But you said so!' Its
still their responsiblity to make the best choices for themselves.

I DO hope that anyone who cared for me and/or trusted me would at
least take my instincts (or insecurities as the case may be) into
consideration at least.(Reply)(Parent)
From: Maggiemaepiscesmoves
Date: November 16th, 2005 - 05:03 pm

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*hugs, love* Feel free to email or call if you want.(Reply)(Thread)

From: anathemacsj69
Date: November 16th, 2005 - 05:33 pm

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Awww thankee Be careful what you offer. Hehe(Reply)(Parent) (Thread)
From: Maggiemaepiscesmoves
Date: November 16th, 2005 - 05:38 pm

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call, text or email whatever, whenever you want. I can take it!