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15 Nov. 7:43 am

togetherness
created by eekyfreeky
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description: This is a survey written from the point of view of a
heterosexual, monogamous person. To the best of your ability, try and
answer it as if you were hetero & mono, or else give me something
realllly interesting to think about!

Here are eekyfreeky's answers:

1. How old are you? (all)
32
2. Are you in a committed relationship? (all)
Yes
3. If so, how long have you been in the relationship? (all)
almost 8 years
4. Are you heterosexual? (all)
these days, yes.
5. Are you monogamous? (all)
these days, yes.
6. Do you believe heterosexual males and females can be friends
without sexual interest? (all)
I hope so.
7. Your sweetie has friends of the opposite sex. True or False: You
are fine with your sweetie spending time with them when you're not
around. (all)
True.
8. You want to go go a concert and your sweetie doesn't particularly
like the band. You: a) go by yourself or with other friend(s) b) try
and convince your sweetie to come with you c) decide not to go if
sweetie doesn't want to join you. d)other (please explain) (all)
a or c(if I can't find a friend to come with me)
9. You want to try a new restaurant and your sweetie doesn't
particularly like that kind of food. You: a) go by yourself or with
other friend(s) b) try and convince your sweetie to come with you c)
decide not to go if sweetie doesn't want to join you. d)other (please
explain) (all)
a or b, but then A if B doesn't work.
10. Most of your friends know you and sweetie as a unit. You show up
to a social gathering without your sweetie. Are you annoyed,
flattered, or entertained when everyone asks you where the sweetie
is? (all)
annoyed. very very annoyed. I feel like they're saying "piss on you,
we just want to see your MAN" That or saying "If you don't have your
man, you must be after MINE!"
11. Do you think I'm silly because it annoys me when I go someplace
people ask where my sweetie is? What do you think I should do/say in
that situation? (all)
I do think I'm silly...but I don't know what to do. Other than not
hang out with friends who see me as a package deal unless the whole
package is gonna be there.
12. On average, how many nights a week do you spend with your
sweetie? (all)
3-4
13. On average, how many nights a week do you spend with other
friends, or indulging interests your sweetie doesn't share? (all)
3-4
14. How many interests or friendships have you given up because your
sweetie wasn't interested or didn't approve? (all)
To be honest, a few.
15. True/false: My sweetie is my other half, who fulfils all my
emotional and social needs. (all)
F
16. True/False: I have a healthy, loving relationship with my sweetie
(all)
T
17. Comments? Questions? Thanks! (all)
Dangit--I thought of another question: Would people think there was a
problem (ie: breakup) if you showed up to an event/party/function
without your SO?

eekyfreeky's comment on this survey: I'm very curious about this
subject & wanting some feedback to see if I'm the wierdo or if
everyone else is...