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Is there a limit on the amount of hoovering and how many times a covert female narc discards her close friends.I have been hoovered once by this friend. Now I am receiving a second silenttreatment/discard. I would like to know if this is final?

I guess I’m dealing in dog metaphors today.

Have you ever played fetch with a toy-obsessed dog before? That dog will run after that toy every single time you throw it away and bring it back. The game will continue for hours and hours, if you let it. The dog loves the toy and will keep on playing for as long as you keep throwing.

The narcissist mind is about on that same level of obsession and compulsion. They will keep throwing you away as many times as you keep coming back. They will never stop throwing you away and ‘barking’ for you to come back so they can throw you away again. This is a fun game for them. You are just a toy. They won’t get tired of it, they won’t ever treat you any better, and they won’t stop until you put a stop to it.

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