How do I use a voodoo doll to extract slow and painful revenge on someone who has done me harm?
This is an extremely poor idea.
The best 'revenge' you can get in life is by living a happy, healthy,and prosperous life surrounded by true friends and beloved family members, far away from the person who has harmed you.
Especially if the person who did the harm is a narcissist or abuser, it will make them crazy with envy and jealousy to see you living a good life that has nothing to do with them. They know they are losers when they have no room in your head, your heart, or your daily life. They only win when they can ruin your happiness, watch you cry, or sponge off of you. Don’t give them anything. Just live and be happy without them.
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