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Yes. Other people’s needs and emotions are ‘drama’ and ‘pointless’ and ‘making stuff up’ and ‘faking it’ and ‘stirring the pot’--because they do not care about other people. They may not even recognize others as human beings with needs and feelings of their own. Everything in the NPDs life is about the NPD.

So, of course, the narcissistic abuser’s needs and feelings and screaming and shrieking and carrying on are all perfectly valid and you’d best do everything in your power to help, soothe, fix, or solve their problems RIGHT NOW.

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