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Mar. 2, 2005

 

 

My HS crush and I have been emailing back & forth, but haven't been
able to pin down a time to get together for coffee or whatever. He
wrote something yesterday about how he's taking his wife to Seattle
to meet his family and how he hopes it all works out ok, but with
family "you just do what you can do"...something about the way he
phrased it just made so much SENSE, and seemed like it was just
exactly what I needed to see/hear right then. It really touched me.
In that simple sentence, I heard that it's OK to keep up my
boundaries and preserve my own home and happiness, to do only what I
am comfortable with and able to do without forcing anything on
anyone, including myself. It was just really...good. He may not have
meant anything deep by it, but sometimes people are there for you at
a certain place/time because God/ess wanted you to hear what they had
to say...you know?