2006me & J-Law

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Mar. 9, 2004

 

 

me to J-Law:

UB is trying to rope me into another workout-buddy catastrophe. She
works a few blocks from me these days. Ugh.

J-Law wrote:

DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

me:

no sh*t, right? damn that woman is a mess. Always dragging me into
these ridiculous no win situations. What ever.
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J-Law:

What is it about UB. One would hope that in all of this newfound
clarity she purports to be experiencing, that she would realize
that, "gee whiz, every time I emotionally swindle evilE into being my
alleged workout buddy, it all goes south and I kick up a big drama
that drains both of us."

But I guess that would be too much to hope for.
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me:

I keep thinking it's Wednesday.

"Insanity is doing the same thing over & over and expecting
different results."--which is pretty much classic UB.

The only person who can break the cycle is me, because she either
doesn't see it or can't break it herself (because she's nuts, because
she has more invested in crazy than she does in sane, because she
really does think something magic will happen THIS time)
So...I gently put some obstacles up and said maybe we should just see
each other on weekends whenever we're both at the same HFS
event/gathering.

[I lied to J-Law--WHY? Because I did something stupid and I'm ashamed
of myself for suggesting meeting ub for lunch fri]