2935 thewordnerd

[evile]

Feb. 11, 2005

 

 

evile: hey. *hugs* sorry to hear you had a bad night.
thewordnerd: Thanks. Not so much bad, just too much time to think and no
distractions. Oh, yeah, and too quiet.
evile: *nod* I'm just bored at work, as usual. And wishing I hadn't
just eaten when I read my SIL's batch of crazy for today.
thewordnerd: Ewww. What's she up to now?
evile: she posted pictures of herself (to compete with Sharjinka's
post today) and then wrote about her Vday plans, and then took a
swipe at her ex boyfriend by telling a very personal, possibly
embarassing story about him.

thewordnerd: Wow, what a bitch. Are they still communicating at all? My
impression was that he seemed to just want to move away and leave.
evile: he did move away.
thewordnerd: Wow. She's just a mess.
evile: Hell, I didn't think she owned, or wore panties, so this was
not the best way to learn that she does indeed. *shudder*
thewordnerd: Ewwww!
evile: Yeah...she told me a couple years ago that she owned NO
panties. I was all like "You have a husband and 2 boyfriends, 3 men
and NONE of them buy you lingerie? Throw those back!!"
thewordnerd: Yikes. You'd think she could buy them on her own, too.
evile: well, yeah. That too.
evile: But she is/was always going ona bout these guys making all
these romantic gestures and bla bla, so you would think that at least
once someone would have given her a bag from Fredericks' or whatever.
evile: (assuming they've got panties in her size at
Freddies...doubtful)
thewordnerd: Heh. You'd think/hope, anyway. I mean, I can't see how someone
could live with her for years and years and not notice the distinct
lack of panties.
evile: I think she picks guys who LIKE that lack.
thewordnerd: Ah, perhaps. I thought about that shortly after saying it.
evile: *shudder* Just like they probably enjoy her ....odors...
thewordnerd: Ewww. Now that's a mental image I could do without. Thanks for
sharing the love. :P
evile: No problem.
evile: Lordy. the post is dated April, 2005. I wonder how she managed
that...
thewordnerd: Heh. Probably forgot to tweak the time on her computer.
evile: bizarre.
thewordnerd: I can't understand how people can just let that go. It's
jarring to me when the time on my computer isn't at least *somewhat*
accurate.
evile: one of our laptops can't keep time, but other than that, yeah,
I totally get you. I wonder if she was just trying to be sneaky and
keep Kaleon from reading it, or dating it with a significant date to
the two of them?
thewordnerd: Hmmm. I think LJ records the time of the posts and uses that
to display them in order, so regardless of when she dated it, it'll
appear between other entries today.
thewordnerd: So LJ's clock is accurate, even if hers is not.
evile: Not to mention how sad is it to post pictures that are
anywhere from 4 to 15 years old of oneself?
thewordnerd: Heh.
thewordnerd: Wow, looks like lots of her dates are screwed up. :)
evile: she still somewhat resembles the self in the 'panther pet'
photo *blargh* but in no way resembles the chesty young thing she was
14+ years ago.
thewordnerd: Ugh. Nice story filled with other disturbing mental images. I
don't think I'm going to read her journal to satisfy my curiosities
anymore.
evile: which part is the 'nice story'?
thewordnerd: Normally reading that wouldn't affect me, but knowing what I
know about her and the type of person she is . . . Yuck.
thewordnerd: The story about where the panties went.
evile: that was nice?
thewordnerd: Yes. In the MAJORLY SARCASTIC sense. :P
thewordnerd: I.e. when you say one thing and mean the opposite. Like,
when 'nice' means 'OMGWTF time to wash the brain out with bleach.'
evile: Oh...I thought you were trying to say that the entry would
have been 'nice' if she hadn't included ___.
thewordnerd: Oh, no.
evile: Definitely a "Drill the hole, pour the bleach" moment, for me.
That or a nice refreshing gastric purge
thewordnerd: Indeed.
evile: I may need to change her name to "Countess Vomitrocious" or
something..."UB" is just not evoking enough twisted horror to
encompass the totality that is my SIL these days.
thewordnerd: LOL That's great.
evile: Too many letter S es. It doesn't quite roll off the tongue as
easily as UB. But I'll think about it.
thewordnerd: Me, too.
evile: I get a sense of "and it's all your fault" stuck on to that
last comment from you... :P
thewordnerd: LOL No, not quite. Consider it my own little bit of secret
revenge against her for the face-in-crotch-and-panties-in-hand story.
evile: heh.
evile: You know...this may just be me, but in my experience,
fetishizing a lover's garments is sort of a normal thing to do in the
course of a passionate night, but it's private and something that
should be shared only between the lovers who are enjoying each others
scents, IMHO...

thewordnerd: Agreed. I couldn't be involved with someone who felt like just
sharing that with the world.
evile: It seems like a great violation to me, too.
evile: to take something that he did presumably for his and her
enjoyment and parade it around for people to mock is just
unforgivable.
thewordnerd: Hmmm, I didn't get the sense of mocking off of that, unless I
misinterpreted her comment about the image not being one she'd want
to see now, because if *I* loved and lost someone then recalling that
would hurt me somewhat, though I suppose she could've had the same
reaction that we did to the image.
evile: Yeah, she might not have been trying to encite her admiring
audience to mock or ridicule him, maybe that was my own interpretation

thewordnerd: I don't know her that well, so . . .
evile: well, hopefully it will be interpreted in the least-damning
way by her readers.
thewordnerd: Let's hope so. Seems like she has a definite hostile
readership camp of some size, so I think she's just digging herself
in deeper in some respects.
evile: You're so wise. Thank you for saying that.
thewordnerd: Wow, I've never been called wise before. :) Your welcome. I
mean, I haven't looked at her friendslist lately, but she's got you
on it, and onyxlynxx I think. Surely there are more with the same mindset.
evile: yeah...she is just so clueless, I dont think she has any idea
how she comes across to people.
evile: I wish that "maestro" could see that if she's talking that
kind of trash about her ex now, she will eventually talk trash
about "maestro" someday...
thewordnerd: Yeah, I was thinking that, too.
evile: probably too caught up in the pattern to be objective about it.
thewordnerd: Yeah, and she's probably spun some terrible stories about how
awful he was and such.
evile: yup.
evile: Living proof that you must be careful in how you speak of your
enemies, because what you say about them, you are saying about
yourself.
thewordnerd: Hmmm, that's an interesting perspective.
evile: which casts all sort of interesting questions on why I like to
trash her so much..
thewordnerd: Heh.
evile: but let's not go there, it's ugly territory.
thewordnerd: I don't know that I agree with the perspective, though. Or, if
I do, then perhaps what you're saying about yourself is what you
like, and that the other person isn't reflecting that.
thewordnerd: I mean, hell, I consider my parents my enemies and I trashtalk
them lots. I don't see much of them in me, however.
evile: Where I'm at with it is that she has a lot of characteristics
in common with me, as far as interests, hobbies, etc. But where I am
healhty with my interest, she is unhealthy. Doesn't know the meaning
of the word moderation
thewordnerd: That makes sense.
evile: And where I have redeeming qualities to sort of balance out
the crazy and bad, she doesn't.
evile: and now she's telling me in ICQ about how her ex apparently
uses trash-talk about her to pick up other women..I'm sorry but if
that's the case, that's just sick.
thewordnerd: ow. What the hell?
evile: I fail to see how telling someone "my ex weighs 300 lbs" would
be a turn on
thewordnerd: Exactly. What the hell could he possibly be achieving with
that strategy? Has she thought that far along the process?
evile: No telling.
evile: Personally, the couple of dates I went on where the guy
couldn't stop trashing his ex, I didn't go out with him again.
evile: I do have a couple of guy friends who seemed to get mileage
out of "the woman who done me wrong" stories, but not from me,
obviously. I guess there are some women who want to play Florence
Nightingale and heal his pain or whatever.
thewordnerd: LOL Wow. That's weird and totally foreign to me.
evile: me too.
thewordnerd: Wheee. Almost that time. :)
evile: yup :)
evile: I might see you at the GWNN Munch tomorrow, but if I do come
it'll just be a quickie hi & bye kind of thing.
thewordnerd: Ok, sounds good.