2771ICQ: me & Jinx

[evile]

 

Dec. 31, 2004

 

 

evile: *hugs* I was sorry to hear about your friend's death.
Sharjinka: Thanks, it was a bit of a shock. He was too young.
evile: *nod*
Sharjinka: I'm getting much better as the days go by.
evile: yeah.
Sharjinka: I've been kind of mopey and moving slow.
Sharjinka: So....I took my iron pill.... So....I'll be constipated,
mopey, and moving slow.... ;-)
evile: I understand. *hugs*
Sharjinka: Thanks....
evile: a friend's husband was killed in CA in a similar freak thing,
just a couple days ago.
evile: You always take for granted that you'll see people again...and
sometimes it doesn't happen...
Sharjinka: I'm sorry. Poor thing..... losing a husband.... I can't
imagine.
Sharjinka: I know. I feel terrible.... We didn't really settle a
problem between us.... and now we never will.
evile: *hugs*
Sharjinka: *sigh* Thanks.
evile: He's in a place now where he understands everything...so just
let him know how you feel and give him your blessing to go on.
Sharjinka: Yeah....thanks.... You know just what to say (no sarcasm
or anything). That was the perfect thing to say. Thank you. :-)
evile: You're welcome. It's hard to say goodbye, but when you love
someone & care about them, you have to let them go when it's time.
Sharjinka: Yeah. I just thought it was a bit too soon.
Sharjinka: He was at least a decade younger than me.
evile: *nod* it sucks so much when stuff like that happens.
Sharjinka: Yeah.... I'm glad Robert (CB) is okay.
evile: *nod*
Sharjinka: I've heard he doesn't have nightmares and realizes how
much he's loved and supported. That's really good.
evile: *nod*
Sharjinka: :-)
evile: *sigh* it's hard to go on when so many people are
hurting...but life is too damn short, ya know?
Sharjinka: Yeah.
Sharjinka: I just wish I could say something that would make them
feel better but I keep thinking they've probably heard it all...
evile: but not from you. If it's important to you that they know how
you feel, say what you need to say.
Sharjinka: True....
evile: when you're hurting, the words don't matter, just the fact
that someone is there.
Sharjinka: That's true. I've already talked to Alan. He's doing all
right....
evile: good.
Sharjinka: I thought I'd check on Bill when he got back to Waco.
evile: good idea.
Sharjinka: I might be heading down to the Valley once I get
everyone's input from the collection.
evile: *nod* that's a really wonderful thing for you to do.
Sharjinka: Thanks. It doesn't make me feel too wonderful but if it
helps them out..... I can do it.
evile: *nod* I always hate to feel helpless--that's the worst part of
grief for me, so any action that can be taken is a good feeling.
Sharjinka: Yeah.... Maybe it'll kick in later.
evile: *nod* anything is better than just sitting and crying.
Sharjinka: Yeah, that's true.
evile: *hugs* you're a good person, and I bet you're a real rock for
the other folks feeling this loss.
Sharjinka: I'm not sure, but I'm going to try to be.
evile: *nod*
Sharjinka: *sigh* I better go.... Laters! Thanks for all the
words! :-D