2721teh crazy w/Jonathan

[evile]

Dec. 15, 2004

 

 

KnightDragon: g'morning
evile: hi!
KnightDragon: bordom has set in. I'm going through stacks of
microsoft cds, organizing them. lol
evile: wow...
KnightDragon: I know. scary. but oh well. guess it has to be done
sometime.
evile: yeah. Ihave a lot of organizing to do at home, too. I never
want to do it, I'd rather spend my free time doing something fun!
KnightDragon: lol. uh huh ! amen ! etc etc ! :)
evile: I will just have to wait until I get into a 'mood' to do it.
KnightDragon: ya. that's me too. don't push. must wait for me to
get in the mood. if I tried doing it when I'm not... its
disasterous. laycie doesn't quite understand the "in the mood
thing". she's like, just do it. I'm like... sorry. I'm not wired
that way. lol
evile: My best way to get something done is to put pressure on myself
to do something else. Have to sew for faire? Then I suddenly want to
clean baseboards...
KnightDragon: lol. cools. I'll remember that
KnightDragon: speaking of... what's the org your in... that does fair
things ?
evile: ??? High Fantasy Society?
KnightDragon: yeah. that's the one.
evile: it's more of a LARP, they don't go to faire, for the most
part.
KnightDragon: and your dom or dom'ish, yes ?
evile: *nod*
evile: ?
KnightDragon: cools. need some help thinking of ideas
evile: for?
KnightDragon: I'm having a hard time dealing with G's new bf. He's
very insecure and won't say two words to me, which makes me very
supcious of him (valid or not valid). Anywho, one week I was really
feeling not right with him, so I took advantage of her being colared
and said she could see him when the four of us were together, but no
kissing, no holding hands, etc.
evile: hm.
KnightDragon: So now I don't have her under the colar, but I'm still
not comfortable with him. and G said that he was really getting off
to the fact that she was restricted. and that this might be a way to
connect with him.
evile: why don't you go out with him without her, get a couple beers,
be guys together, and see if you can't get to know him better and
trust him, instead of the game playing?
KnightDragon: So I'm like... okay... but I have no clue what kind
of "restrictions" I could place on her while they were out. Oh..
btw... he's really into the sca and medevil times thing, which is why
I had asked. I was wondering if there was something that fit in with
that time period that would be "restrictive" ?
KnightDragon: I wish I could. but when we're in the same room we
barely say two words to each other.
KnightDragon: so I'm trying to think of ANYTHING to help matters
evile: *shrug* chastity belts are pretty well established as
an 'urban legend' from that time. But you could certainly find a
device in modern times to use as such.
KnightDragon: true. but they not be to the sex stage yet. I'll just
have to keep thinking. I'm trying to "connect" with him, and I just
thought that since he was into that kind of thing that this might be
a good starting point for us. we have so little in common. makes me
wonder what G see's in him. lol
evile: Well, I think the problem, at root, is lack of communication
between yourself and him, and you're going to have to fix that. Or
demand that HE fix that....
evile: Heck, you could set it up like a job interview, if that's what
it takes. He is the applicant who wants a job as your wife's
boyfriend, so it is up to him to prove himself worthy to your peace
of mind.
KnightDragon: ya. I've tried talking to him in person. tried
sending him emails. I guess its just going to be up to him to get
past it
KnightDragon: lol. your soooo evil. I like it. but that would be
way too much. heck, I couldn't even do that. heheh !
KnightDragon: so now you know who I wish was *not* on my lj friends
list. lol
evile: Oh, ok then :P
KnightDragon: so what's up with you. you doing good?
evile: yup
KnightDragon: awesome! that's good to hear
KnightDragon: man it got cold last night. in the 20's for us. had
to put a blanket on blossom (the horse)
evile: yeah, it was very cold. I didn't want to get out of my nice
warm bed!
KnightDragon: I bet. me either
KnightDragon: G and I are probably going to take laycie and tasha
down to see the trail of lights tonight. should be fun
evile: I might be there too, depending on the car situation
KnightDragon: cools !