2074 ICQ w Sineater

[evile]

Apr. 1, 2004

 

 

Sineater: [offline] Goddammit!!!!!!

Sineater: [offline] Goddamn I4Q!!! Buttfucker made me dl a meg and a
freakin' half update before it would let me connect-- and goddamn
telemarketers kept calling in the fucking middle of it!!!
but now i am updated to latest version -- 4Q2!!!

Sineater: [offline] Goddammit!!!!!!

Sineater: [offline] Goddamn I4Q!!! Buttfucker made me dl a meg and a
freakin' half update before it would let me connect-- and goddamn
telemarketers kept calling in the fucking middle of it!!!
but now i am updated to latest version -- 4Q2!!!

evile: aww! bummer. Talk to ya later :)

evile: I use ICQ to go so I never have to download anything...

Sineater: hey yas

evile: howdy

Sineater: /me no like i4q. waaah! :P

evile: sorry.

Sineater: how are you?

Sineater: sorry about car. :(

evile: Sorry? Nothing to be sorry about.

Sineater: o. ok

Sineater: talked to lynn last night

evile: The lease expired, they picked it up. No fuss, no hassle.

Sineater: well glad no hassle then

evile: I'm glad.I have [brother A]'s San Antonio # on the machine at home, I'll send it to
you so you can just talk to him directly. I think we've had the whole
discussion about 'he said/she said' being bad a few times before...

Sineater: *sigh*

evile: yup.

Sineater: hard lock. most annoying

evile: s*it happens.

Sineater: ... so ...

evile: so. I hear y'all are spending next Sunday with [brother A] & his
fiancee & her kiddos & Lynn & Bob. Suckas!

Sineater: would like to meet this {Rubber Pig} creature.

evile: She is very pretty, very intelligent, and talks talks talks
talks talks.

Sineater: lynn prefers to withhold her opinion at this time, she said

evile: First time we met her, I thought "oh, well, maybe she's just
nervous about meeting everyone" and let it pass.

evile: It's probably best for you to meet her yourself & go from
there. I shouldn't have talked smack about her to Skye_ds :(

Sineater: and i understand she merried trey, divorced trey, shacked
up/married another guy, then went back and married trey again... and
now is divorcing trey again... to marry [brother A].

evile: That's the story. I think there may be more to it. But for
whatever reasons this is the public story.

Sineater: the reason why i want to know as much as possible is that
yeah, there's a lot more to it than that. :(

Sineater: uh, this is the same trey that used to get [brother A] into
trouble and steal his gi joes and transformers, right?

evile: Well, as in the case of your own rather complicated marriage,
there are things that are nobody's business but yours and Skye_ds's...

evile: So coming from that perspective, I'd think you'd be able to
empathize & respect the 'public story' until such time as [brother A]
volunteers extra info.

evile: And [brother A] usually manages to tell people what he thinks they
want to hear, rather than whatever the reality may be, anyway. He's
happy, he's not being hurt, so I am trying to leave it at that.

Sineater: afraid there is a "yet." to this story

evile: there may be. :(

Sineater: like in a year or so when she dumps him to go back to trey,
for instance...

evile: possible.

Sineater: foo

evile: They may be giving poly a try, but not wanting to be 'out' to
the families.

evile: foo?

Sineater: then why divorce? and remarry?

evile: Trey may have decided to be gay once and for all, and wanted
his wife taken care of before he went off to his new life.

evile: I have no idea.

evile: I am thinking that if [brother A] decides it's any of my business,
he'll tell me.

Sineater: that's really the part that strikes me as odd. have no
problem with [brother A] entering into a committed relationship with a
couple. but the married! divocred! married! bit worries me.
especially w/ 3 kids involved.

evile: Maybe she just wants to have a big party to celebrate finding
her new man and doesn't know any other way to do it.

Sineater: ...but... but... didn't she just find a new man a little
while ago??? ... blink blibk

evile: Her middle one is 5, so the last marry/divorce/shackup cycle
was about that long ago.

Sineater: k...

Sineater: question of why divorce in the first place also... was it
trey's idea? her idea? involve financial problem? emotional problem?
abuse? drinking? alien abduction? republicanism? what?

evile: You may really enjoy meeting her. Lynn says she's better when
the kids are around. And Lynn says the kids are very sweet, if a
little desperate for attention.

evile: The only criticism I've heard of Trey is that he's too stern
to the children and he doesn't spend enough time with them.

Sineater: she did say [brother A] was good with the kids, and seems to be
happy

evile: That's the important part--[brother A] is happy.

Sineater: as for trey... well... i realize it's been around 20 years
since he used to swindle [brother A] out of his toys and get him in trouble
doing stupid sh1t...

Sineater: yeah. it is.

evile: All of [brother A]'s friends were like that. "Hey, [brother A], let's light
your Millenium Falcon on fire in the driveway!"

Sineater: i know

evile: Do you remember, or were you around, when [brother A] & Trey got
caught playing 'grownup' games with one another? That was a fun
time...

Sineater: no, think i missed that

Sineater: that would actually be better in my mind. a man on the way
out is likely to be bitter. not good

evile: Well, that's the only thing I have to go on to frame my 'trey
is gay' theory, but...it left an impression. Plus he was kind of
gothed-up (makeup/jewelry) at the NYE party we went to

Sineater: would explain a lot

evile: but I knew plenty of hetero goth boys & crossdressers in my
time...biblically. So it may not mean anything.

Sineater: frilly undies and a big c*ck!

evile: indeed.

Sineater: yeah been listening to a lot of adam ant lately

evile: I am a big sister, I'm going to worry about my little
brother....regardless. The worst idea I've come up with so far is
that this is a game Trey and {Rubber Pig} are playing together to turn each
other on and [brother A] is just their fool...but, again, I have ZERO to
base that on. Just worry.

Sineater: if that is the case i will find out.

evile: Well, for now we have to take things at face value, be happy
for [brother A]'s happiness, and just kind of hope for the best. Or at least
that's where I'm at with it.

Sineater: nod

evile: Keep the lines of communication open, be here if/when things
go bad...that sort of thing.

Sineater: yeah. big sis kind of thing :)

evile: Hopefully I've learned from my mistakes...

Sineater: i would think so

evile: we'll see.

evile: Whether or not I like {Rubber Pig}, that is just going to take a back
seat to the fact that I *Love* [brother A] with all my heart, I want the
best for him, and I want to be there for him, whenever, whatever.

Sineater: that sounds like the best approach to take

evile: yeah.

evile: trying to reconcile that with the fact that the thought of
being around her and her nonstop mouth makes me exhausted just
thinking about it. Toss 3 sprogs into the mix, and that's a journey I
just don't wanna take...*sigh*

Sineater: hee :) that's where the horses come in. sprog control

evile: I don't have horses.

Sineater: no, we do. talking about everybody meeting up in old
settler's park, or maybe out here

evile: I am having surgery the 8th, I am not committing myself to
anything during my recovery time. I may be up to it, I may be tired &
owie.

Sineater: not fun... but at least it will finally all be taken care
of, nu?

evile: Last time I saw {Rubber Pig}, they had called me at home on a Sunday
and I was sick as a dog (allergies)...{Rubber Pig} insisted on coming over
and making soup for me. Very sweet. BUT ...then she talked at me for
over 2 hours when I was just tired and icky-feeling and wanting to
sleep.

Sineater: <shakes head sadly>

evile: Maybe she's just codependent.

Sineater: a distinct possibility

evile: Oh well. I really hope y'all like her & the kids & everyone
has a great time.

evile: It would be great for Skye_ds to have more female friends, and
a friendly female in-law and such. And would help [brother A] keep in touch
if his new family liked y'all & wanted to come see the critters &
such.

Sineater: hope i do too. don't know what i will do if i don't. wail
and tear my hair out maybe

Sineater: good point

evile: Well, I'm just about done with work for the day so I need to
make my rounds & get paper off my desk.

Sineater: k

Sineater: have fun, goodnight

evile: *hugs* Love ya!

Sineater: don't forget to file your tps reports

evile: heh :P

Sineater: you too :)