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Why are you engaging with this person? Leave them alone.
If they threaten you, come on your property, vandalize, abuse your animals, or commit some other crime, document and report.
Do not pick fights with a person you think may be a narcissist. They do not fight fair and they do not think of conflict in terms of winning and losing so much as making sure to make the other person loses; it makes them more violent, more destructive, and far less concerned with their own safety and well being once they decide that someone must be destroyed. The phrase “cut off your nose to spite your face” is a good description of a narcissists mindset. “Dog in a manger” also characterizes their way of thinking. Or the fable of "The Scorpion & the Frog," if you like.
Leave them alone unless you have been directly harmed or directly threatened by them and you have ironclad proof. Then take your proof to the authorities and look into retaining a lawyer if needed.
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If they threaten you, come on your property, vandalize, abuse your animals, or commit some other crime, document and report.
Do not pick fights with a person you think may be a narcissist. They do not fight fair and they do not think of conflict in terms of winning and losing so much as making sure to make the other person loses; it makes them more violent, more destructive, and far less concerned with their own safety and well being once they decide that someone must be destroyed. The phrase “cut off your nose to spite your face” is a good description of a narcissists mindset. “Dog in a manger” also characterizes their way of thinking. Or the fable of "The Scorpion & the Frog," if you like.
Leave them alone unless you have been directly harmed or directly threatened by them and you have ironclad proof. Then take your proof to the authorities and look into retaining a lawyer if needed.
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They were monetized but I am giving them away for free here.
If you feel inclined to support my writing, here's my paypal
And if you prefer to pay it forward, I recommend Safe Place as an excellent place to support.
