Quora: Is part of womanhood just accepting the humiliation of being penetrated?

Not at all. Your body belongs to you and you do not have to allow anyone to touch you in a way that doesn't feel right to you.

Though many people enjoy penetrative sexual acts, I'm sure many people also feel as you do. And that’s totally okay! It's your choice!

You never have to accept behavior that makes you feel bad about yourself. Communicate with your partner about your feelings and preferences. See a counselor, therapist, or clergy person if you need help with building your self esteem.

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