3460 Re: the latest [brother A]/pig/mom drama

Aug. 25, 2005

 

 

Yesterday, I read the psychologist's report. It was all bullshit.
Drugs and orgies and Mom letting homosexual men in to the house to
sleep with [brother A]. What a load of crap.

Apparently, [brother A] is being told by the family and his lawyer NOT to
voluntarily register as a sex offender, but there's some test that
CPS/law enforcement gives when ONLY to registered sex offendors to
pinpoint exactly what turns each individual sex offendor on...and if
you don't respond to kiddie porn images, they put something on your
record to that effect, BUT you're STILL on record as a sex offendor.
What a catch 22!

ANYWAY, [rubber pig] gave the psych. report to Mom and Mom made a copy.
[rubber pig] had also been calling [Uncle B], her mom, and possibly the Sawyers,
to read exerpts of it aloud over the phone. But for whatever reasons,
last night it turned into "mom took the confedential report without
permission" and "Mom violated [brother A]'s confidentiality" (like [rubber pig]
didn't, by reading it over the phone to anyone and everyone? CRAZY)
and [brother A] and [rubber pig] both called Mom to harangue her. At one point
[rubber pig] told Mom to come get the car back, they didnt' want it anymore,
to which Mom replied "It's [brother A]'S car, he can do whatever he wants
with it" and then [brother A] played the 'you can never see the children
again' card on her. Mom hung up. Then they called [dad] and [rubber pig]
started screaming at him. Dad hung up. [brother A] called Dad back and
called him a 'son of a bitch' and told him he couldn't hang up on his
wife. Dad hung up on him.

I am hoping these ungrateful assholes will realize, at some point,
that it's extremely poor manners and a really BAD idea to abuse the
people who care about you & are able to give you stuff and money when
you need it.

Mom was so hurt. She really loves those kids.

I am sure Dad was hurt, too, but he doesn't show it.

3461icq w/A

Aug. 25, 2005

 

 

she annoyed me today for some reason.
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evile: hey :) The mammogram yesterday wasn't so bad.
SkyeDS: that's good. I thought I had been told you had to have them
yearly or so after the age of 35, and that I certainly would need
them given my size, but Planned Parenthood said otherwise.
evile: Mom says every 5 years unless your Dr. says your'e at risk

SkyeDS: I would think I would be <shrug> but I'm not going till they
say I have to
SkyeDS: of course I did not like the last NP at ALL
evile: *nod*
evile: I think most Drs say get your first at 40, unless you have
family history or othe rhealth problems. Endometriosis apparently is
a risk factor, so my Dr. said 35.
evile: It really wasn't too bad, not too much squishing.The bottom
plate was cold metal, but the top one was clear plastic. The tech was
a nice lady, possibly a lesbian, but did not behave inappropriately
or make me uncomfortable in any way.
evile: My left boob is a little tender today, but I'm also having my
period, so...
SkyeDS: they know I have endo
SkyeDS: although they keep saying, well, it could be fibroids and we
don't know if we don't go in
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: like I care, birthcontrol pills make it manageable, I'll take
it
SkyeDS: not very happy that red wine and chocolate weekend starts
tomorrow and I'm already suffering
evile: maybe the difference is I had surgery & removal of organs as a
result of endometriosis? Higher risk for further problems? or maybe
just a different Dr. and his/her opinion based on what they know or
believe they know. *shrug*
SkyeDS: you h ave good doctors, PP is a crap shoot
SkyeDS: of course all I want from t hem is my pills, that's all, it
isn't hard
evile: *nod* I liked the PP folks in Greencastle, believe it or not.
SkyeDS: I've had people at PP I loved, and people I hated
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: now that they seem to be straight about my BP
SkyeDS: turns out, it wasn't even white coat hypertension
SkyeDS: they were using the wrong size cuff
SkyeDS: it took a $70 trip to Dr. Center to get that straightened out
evile: *nod* that sucks.
SkyeDS: after the $70 trip to the St David's doc (I liked her) and
the week of lowest dosage possible zestril (bp med) to fake out Dr.
Thompson
SkyeDS: and the lowest dosage possible of zestril completely
destroyed my metabolism, which had just been starting to respond
quite nicely to diet and exercise
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: nice to know I took a week of a controlled substance because
of a wrong sized cuff
SkyeDS: I want to buy a black arab stallion for 5K (sigh)
evile: nice.
SkyeDS: <arches eyebrow to hairline>
SkyeDS: Silver Spire isn't coming at all?
SkyeDS: they who like to field 90 and brag?
evile: CRW thing? Maybe that will make it nicer for everyone else.
SkyeDS: nah.
SkyeDS: Sharjinka and Patrick are going to get into it I suspect
SkyeDS: or come close enough to make for unpleasantness
evile: Sharjinka is just going for the day Saturday.
SkyeDS: how long do you think she needs to piss someone off
SkyeDS: or say something that gets overheard and passed along.
evile: don't know, dont' care.
SkyeDS: me neither. just a niggling feeling, very vague.
SkyeDS: hope it doesn't, but it won't surprise me if it does.
evile: some shit always goes down at CRW.
SkyeDS: besides, unless CRW gets better organized we might not ever
make CRW again
SkyeDS: I'm not skipping Faires for CRW, and we're signed on to five
out of the eight faires in the state right now
evile: *nod* Sharjinka says this is probably her last. She's not
taking any more squires, and may be phasing HFS out of her life
altogether at some point.
SkyeDS: event season is starting and I probably won't see much of HFS
generally until after Thanksgiving
SkyeDS: I'll take Chris and Jubi with me to SCA events, and go to
Morconor (Waco Shire) with them on Saturdays
SkyeDS: if there are any free Saturdays
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: "No Time" ~ Monkees
evile: staying busy means you stay out of trouble :P
SkyeDS: does it? <looks innocent>
evile: well, maybe not 'you' specifically, but in general ;)
SkyeDS: (-:O <halo>
evile: heh. I have one of those. It has "Better to reign in Hell than
serve in Heaven" engraved on the inside.
SkyeDS: I should get "I didn't do it" engraved on the inside of mine
evile: heh. that would be good :)
SkyeDS: I didn't do it ~fine print~no really, this time, I didn't
evile: thereyago :)
SkyeDS: rather it wasn't me, this time
evile: *yawn* we had birthday fatass day at work today, and I didn't
touch the desserts, but I'm still feeling bloated & carb-coma ish.
SkyeDS: drink more water
SkyeDS: straight cranberry juice (no s ugar or other juices) if you
can get it/if you can stand it
SkyeDS: I have to lace mine pretty heavily with stevia
evile: *nod* cranberry is pretty harsh.
evile: My friend Fade is looking for a new GF.
http://geeks.particularpersonals.com/view.html?id=44264
evile: Bless his heart. There's just something so...wrong...with over-
30 goths.
SkyeDS: I got called a Goth for the first time before I turned 30
SkyeDS: because I happened to be in black at the time
SkyeDS: I wear a lot of black, it's a conservative business color and
slimming
evile: he's lovely, and great in the sack, but the graveyard lurking
is so 1988.
SkyeDS: I was like, wtf? I had never heard the term before in
its "modern" usage
evile: you can take the gal out of texarkana, but cant' take
texarkana out of the girl? :P
SkyeDS: well, the modern subculture has no idea what "Goth" in the
time of Gothic truly was
SkyeDS: or who the original Germanic tribes were
SkyeDS: but besides that.
SkyeDS: I don't see myself as Goth even though I now know what is
meant by it.
evile: *nods* I don't think you like any 'gothic' music at all.
SkyeDS: yes, I am a witch, yes I wear black - for business purposes,
not witchy purposes
SkyeDS: I haven't heard much of it, I wouldn't know
SkyeDS: I'm familiar with Type O, I like them fine
SkyeDS: but I believe that's it, I'd have to see a list to know
evile: I wouldn't consider them, or Marilyn Manson 'goth'
necessarily. But some do.
SkyeDS: apparently that's what they bill themselves as, or so I've
been told, I don't know, I don't care.
evile: *nod* I like them both, but to me 'goth' is Sisters of Mercy,
Bauhaus, Fields of the Nephilim, maybe Cocteau Twins, the softer,
more atmospheric, poetic, dark, slow type of music.
SkyeDS: don't know I've ever heard any of those
SkyeDS: there's very little I don't like by way of music
SkyeDS: other than the hiphop that focuses on rape, abuse, and killing
evile: *nod*
SkyeDS: atmospheric, poetic, dark and slow sounds good to me
SkyeDS: I wonder how long it would take sineater to kill me if I bought a
circus tent
evile: you might like some of it, but you might not. No harm, no foul.
evile: not sure aobut the circus tent.
SkyeDS: only $13,691.92
evile: jeez.
SkyeDS: that's for 60 by 120 feet, pole
SkyeDS: excuse me
SkyeDS: 16795.60 (I was incorrect the first time)
evile: I'd probably hold off on such an investment for a bit, were it
me.
SkyeDS: um yeah. was just pipedreaming anyway.
evile: If i had 16 grand to throw around, I'd get a Vanner :)
evile: assuming I already had new furniture, new roof, guest bath
remodeled, etc.
SkyeDS: breed Mirage, 1200 and change, breed Jesse, 750
SkyeDS: new truck, between 30 - 50K
SkyeDS: new trailer, who knows
SkyeDS: before I can afford 16 K for a Friesian or a Gypsy
SkyeDS: I also want an Andalusian, and either a Shire or a Perch
evile: *nod*
evile: I'm happy--nobody has flamed me for the inappropriate touch
posts, OR the rebel poly dinner location for tonight.
SkyeDS: nice to be dealing with adults innit?
SkyeDS: nobody flamed me on the joust list either
evile: good :)
evile: darn this RL stuff anyhoo...I'd rather be doing something fun.
*sigh*
SkyeDS: amen, sister
SkyeDS: having black forest ham, swiss cheese and apples for lunch,
and it's not bad
evile: sounds yum.
SkyeDS: sineater wants to know if you have [K/mom]'s cell phone number,
would it be okay for him to call her
evile: she is on hte bus at the 'mo, may not have reception, and I
know she's screening calls so as to avoid contact w/[brother A] and [rubber pig].
BUT her # is xxx xxx xxxx, if he wants to try to call her.
SkyeDS: I just noticed this
evile: ?
SkyeDS: the character dances in the Nutcracker are known by two names
SkyeDS: for example, spanish, arab, chinese
SkyeDS: chocolate, coffee, tea
SkyeDS: very appropriate to represent the travels of gypsies.
evile: that's cool.
SkyeDS: having one's own personal hairdresser and masseuse walk into
one's office at 3 pm when the boss is already gone is nice
evile: I wouldn't know. I would probably freak if TIna or someone
from Body and soul or The Crossings came into my cube :P
evile: time for me to skedaddle, enjoy your haircut & massage. :)