2266 & 2267 icq w/A
Jun. 11th, 2004 04:17 pm2266icq w/A
Jun. 11, 2004
SkyeDS: ciao, bella
evile: hey. 				Feeling any better today?
SkyeDS: considerably
evile: *soft 				hugs* I'm glad. What a godawful thing to go through!
SkyeDS: 				although no one could specify how long I should forbear, I am 				
going to forego sex and horseback for two weeks
SkyeDS: 				but no more bleeding anyway
evile: that's good. 
SkyeDS: 				went to see Hidalgo at the dollar yesterday
SkyeDS: I'm sure 				your ablation etc was worse.
evile: At least I was knocked out 				for my stuff :P Didn't you love 
Hidalgo? Don't you want to 				live in big tents with lotsa pillows & 
rugs now?
SkyeDS: 				I told the boys that's what we needed for SCA events.
evile: 				That would be way cool. 
SkyeDS: and before I saw it I had 				been thinking for a long while that 
I needed to buy a genuine 				pattern and make native garb barding 
correctly
SkyeDS: and 				of course came away from movie with that even more firmly 
in 				mind
evile: *nods* the horses in that were quite lovely 				:)
SkyeDS: if you know places where I could get pretty dangly 				shineys in 
metal, leather and or stone, and belts and such 				would love a guided 
shopping trip
SkyeDS: have not given 				consideration to what a week out of work is 
going to do to my 				financial situation. Miss Scarlett will think 
about that 				tomorrow.
evile: Nothing local is coming to mind...I'm sure 				there are SCA 
equestrians who have good resources at 				hand.
SkyeDS: will meet the head of Austin's Eqs 				tomorrow
SkyeDS: with her Lippi mare.
evile: Yeah, I was 				wondering about the work thing. Not like there's 
any help for 				it...when you're a contractor & sick...that's just tough 				
luck :(
SkyeDS: I've never seen one of the mares before, 				but chances are they 
probably aren't quite as pretty as the 				stallions.
SkyeDS: mares usually aren't.
evile: Nice. My 				mom is after me to buy a colt and raise it from 
scratch. 				yeah...like I've got that kind of time/resources/etc. She's 
such 				a nut.
SkyeDS: you have the resources at hand yes
SkyeDS: 				but the resource of time is in question
evile: yup.
SkyeDS: 				as to how much time you can put into it versus how much you'd 
be 				willing to hand off to your other resources.
evile: 				exactly.
SkyeDS: I need to breed mine shortly
SkyeDS: 				Mirage has always wanted a baby badly
evile: I am just too 				selfish to give myself to a baby 
*anything*...too much time, 				trouble...
SkyeDS: she adopted baby goats for christ 				sake
evile: heh.
SkyeDS: maybe one day you and Sweetie will 				compromise-agree on a 
housebroken mini in substitution for a 				puppy :)
evile: maybe. doubt it.
SkyeDS: I ought to tell 				sineater I want to housebreak a mini just for the 				
reaction.
evile: heh.
evile: Got any plans for the 				19th-20th?
SkyeDS: of June or July
evile: June. 				sorry.
SkyeDS: Saturday the 19th will be in Houston for the 				day, and have to 
be home sometime that Sunday afternoon to 				teach a lesson.
SkyeDS: were you going to do something 				Saturday or 
SkyeDS: Sunday
evile: oh, OK then. Was vaguely 				considering having some kind of 
midsummer picnic, but hadn't 				decided yet on date or place.
SkyeDS: I told sineater I 				thought we shoudl see his mother while we were 
in Houston for 				the day
SkyeDS: she's been begging.
SkyeDS: although I told 				him, we aren't going to go out of our way to 
meet her, she'll 				have to come out to where we are, because the 
primary purpose 				is jousting practice. She has to learn to compromise.
SkyeDS: 				he of course would rather not even tell her we're going to be 
in 				the vicinity
evile: poor thing. I know she would really like 				to see sineater, but she 
doesn't realize how much she 				stresses him out...it's like if she'd 
just chill a bit it 				would be easier on him and she'd see him more 
often..
SkyeDS: 				as he deliberately did not tell her when we were at Stargate 
the 				whole weekend.
evile: *nods*
SkyeDS: there is that.
SkyeDS: 				and if it were made more pleasant when we are there
evile: 				exactly.
SkyeDS: last time they just wanted to fight over the 				horses the way 
they used to fight over Arthur.
SkyeDS: the 				whole reason we're going to Houston now is for equestrian 				
practice.
evile: *nods*
SkyeDS: and yes, we're going to 				stay at the Kingdom Marshal's at her 
invitation
SkyeDS: it 				would not be practical nor desirable to leave the horses 
with 				the Marshal and stay with Joanie.
SkyeDS: she's more than 				welcome to come out and visit and watch if 
she likes.
SkyeDS: 				Kelly has joined her kids in their karate lessons, and you 
are 				about to take up Krav Maga.
evile: I think that's a good ide: 				just tell Joan where & when you're 
going to be and let 				her do the work (or not) if it's important for 
her to see 				sineater.
SkyeDS: if she gets on his nerves he can get on his 				low horse (she's 
too short to be a high horse) and ride away 				:)
evile: yup.
SkyeDS: hadn't thought about what her 				reaction to sonar0m will be
SkyeDS: although I'm not quite 				sure that I care
SkyeDS: I did banish sonar0m while my gramma 				was here tho
evile: No reason to rub her face in anything...if 				she's there and 
y'all are there just introduce everyone and 				no reason to detail the 
bedroom situation.
SkyeDS: that's 				what I've always thought
evile: None of anyone's business, 				anyway.
SkyeDS: but he is no better at hiding his feelings 				than kaleon was, 
matter fact probably less
SkyeDS: and so 				people around usually at least partially twig to 
soemthing 				"strange" afoot
evile: *shrug* 
SkyeDS: although 				so help me, I get tired of being asked if he's my son
SkyeDS: 				I do NOT look that old dammit
evile: I got asked if Sunshine 				was my son. ACK!
SkyeDS: omg
SkyeDS: <hugs>
evile: 				Yeah, if' I'd been a 15 year old slut, he could be my 				kid...
SkyeDS: I would have had to have had M at 13
SkyeDS: 				although most people think he's 17
SkyeDS: which means I would 				have had to have him at 17
evile: people are so crazy.
SkyeDS: 				unless they think I"m older than my 34
SkyeDS: but the 				funny thing is, upon asking them,
SkyeDS: most people think 				he's 17
SkyeDS: and think I'm 28
SkyeDS: and ask me if he's 				my child
SkyeDS: ...hello...?
evile: heh. Not math 				majors.
SkyeDS: omg Eule is so funny
SkyeDS: he's 				equestrian, falconer and rapier too
SkyeDS: I posted, "no 				sex and no horseback for two weeks so I just 
get to 				watch"
SkyeDS: I didn't realize what that came across as 				until he replied 
with "no official comment"
evile: 				lots of ways that could be taken.
SkyeDS: catching up on 				boards, yawn
evile: yeah. it's gotta be done :P
SkyeDS: 				entered the Kumpania Peregrina into the Troupe Tourney at CRW 				
iffn you decide you want to join us
SkyeDS: specially if 				you want to like do something entertaining to 
distract people 				while someone plays thief
SkyeDS: or if you happen to be a 				good thief
evile: I saw that, now I've lost the thread where 				people were RSVPing.
SkyeDS: Jose is so cute
SkyeDS: he 				said they were going to watch the children to make sure 
they 				stay in character
evile: heh. That was funny.
evile: I'm 				still waiting to see Akon pics of him in the Captain Jack 				
Sparrow getup I helped create :P
SkyeDS: that sounds most 				cool]
evile: He looked adorable the last time he did the Capt. 				Jack look.
SkyeDS: if you''ve peroused the chaos galleries he 				has awesome garb 
collection and looks quite dashing in 				it
evile: Haven't looked there in for ever.
SkyeDS: I 				wonder how closely he catches the personality though, given 
his 				good little baptist boy roots
evile: no tellin'. He's pretty 				funny & does various accents & stuff 
(the very few 				times I've hung out with him)
SkyeDS: I've only seen him go 				into baptist mode once, and Katy called 
him off it. Otherwise 				he is quite entertaining :)
evile: heh. 
SkyeDS: wouldn't 				mind taking the boys to acon but it's always on my 				
birthday
SkyeDS: and I don't want to do acon on my 				birthday
evile: no...
SkyeDS: just got to polys.
evile: 				the austin list has been pretty quiet lately.
SkyeDS: except 				for your post :)
evile: That was just...odd. My life has been 				a little bit like that 
lately. All these people asking *me* 				for advice, like I know anything 
about this stuff?!?
SkyeDS: 				lol
SkyeDS: <ducks, laughing> you could always ask 				kaleon.
evile: kaleon would probably say something like "pout, 				throw fits, and 
give ultimatums until he gives up his wife 				and goes exclusive with 
you!"
SkyeDS: lol
evile: I 				think my advice was a tiny bit better than that...maybe not 
by 				much.
SkyeDS: I did have a very short lived partner who wanted 				me to give 
up sineater, kaleon and my children to go belong 				to him in New Zealand.
evile: New Zealand's a nice place. I'd 				be tempted some days...
SkyeDS: so that lasted, once I met him 				face to face, less than two 
weeks.
evile: I bet.
SkyeDS: 				I suppose I should have felt guilty, in that it cost him 
quite 				a bit to come from NZ to see me for two weeks
evile: that was 				his choice...
SkyeDS: talked to Julie at Steppes for a few 				minutes while back
SkyeDS: she doesn't do HFS at all any 				more
SkyeDS: her comment was "I don't have time for 				children"
evile: I wouldn't blame her.
evile: seems 				like that's the step most people take when they're fed 
up 				with the childish nonsense of HFS but still like some of the 				
aspects of it enough to take it a step up.
SkyeDS: 				nods...step up to Amtgard or SCA
SkyeDS: although SCA cares 				hugely for its children
SkyeDS: those who truly are acting 				their ages I mean :)
evile: yup
SkyeDS: I can't believe 				chaos has been so quiet lately.
evile: give it a week or 				so...
SkyeDS: and it seems to me that BD should be having 				coronation soon
evile: I don't keep track, really.
SkyeDS: 				when I get around to it we'll probably rejoin Drandmir.
evile: 				makes sense
evile: bizarre. hfs calendar thing would not let 				me rsvp for CRW7 as 
a drandmirian. So I picked Barad duin and 				it let me. WIERD.
Jun. 11, 2004
SkyeDS: qapologies
evile: no biggie.
evile: I know you're 	on dialup out there :P
SkyeDS: this is sineater. talking to a 	headhunter, have a phone interview 
set up for mon.
SkyeDS: 	dialup sucks.
SkyeDS: :(P
SkyeDS: bleah bleah bleah
evile: 	*fingers crossed*
SkyeDS: shrug. it is above my level of 	experience
SkyeDS: so, who knows... if they get desperate enough, 	well...
SkyeDS: but it would be work, and work is good
SkyeDS: 	and it would not be dell
evile: every job posting is the 	employer's wish list. I don't think 
they expect to find 1 person 	who can do everything on the job desc
SkyeDS: nod, i would be the 	third person hired for this position 
(assuming)
SkyeDS: 1 and 	2 did not cut the cheese.
SkyeDS: er
evile: It's always good 	to get practice interviewing, anyway.
SkyeDS: well you 	know
SkyeDS: nod
evile: I have trouble with that whole 	'selling oneself' concept. ...I 
am not a reptile. I do not 	sell.
SkyeDS: and it gives me the weekend to bone back up... get 	brain back 
in gear
evile: *nods*
SkyeDS: shrug. that is 	why i prefer engineering
SkyeDS: here is what i can do. like it? 	cool. don't? good luck.
evile: I prefer to just do my damn job 	and hope that the management 
doesn't have their heads so far up 	their butts that they can see I do 
good work. 
SkyeDS: nod. 	so fAr, been lucky with that at d___
SkyeDS: since the return 	that is
SkyeDS: 773D
evile: I don't feel it's my 	responsibility, on top of kicking butt at 
my own job to go 	around documenting my gretness and tooting my own 
horn..that 	just seems...stupid to me.
SkyeDS: nod, which was part of the 	annual review for "real" 773D 
employees
SkyeDS: 	naturally i blew at that
SkyeDS: contracting is much more 	straightforward
evile: the D. place is just too big. And their 	hiring processes have 
become much too complicated & 	byzantine for regular folks to handle. 
Thus the reptiles 	continue to propagate themselves and the decent 
workers get 	edged out.
SkyeDS: ennyways got food on stove
SkyeDS: no shit. 	is sad
SkyeDS: :(
evile: okeydoke. have fun.
SkyeDS: 	hugs
evile: *hugs*
SkyeDS: *smooch!* be good
evile: don't 	get caught.
evile: well, it's about time for me to distribute 	paper & get ready 
to go home. finally!
evile: *hugs* Take 	care :)